There you go koriwhat. Yep. I'm a nerd. See what all those nerdy hobbies have done to my social life!?!?!
Secondly, you are a male secretary who has tattoos of his favorite basketball team on his calves, posting on an internet forum for basketball, in a section called, "The Geek Zone", a forum that you have made numerous posts about pertaining to your love of all things Apple. Yes, you have a -ton of room to be calling other people nerds and telling them they need to accept themselves.
Just how the do you reconcile calling other people nerds, pretending it's such a derogatory term, while you have 7200+ posts to an internet forum?
If calling me a "nerd" assists you in salvaging or recovering some of your ego, by all means go for it. I'm happy to help.
But keep this in mind: I have an awesome new computer, a beautiful fiancee, and a good life. You have a part time job and calf-tats. I win. You ing lose.