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    Kooler than Jesus Nathan Explosion's Avatar
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    Been there, done that. It's entirely possible you can take custody of your children. Possession works wonders and that ball currently resides in your court. keep it that way.

    I retained my two children when my ex flaked out and left. She still pays child support on one of them.
    My ex is paying me child support as well. It's a mutual agreement but if she ever takes me to court, I can ask my bank to produce copies of all the checks she gives me, and on them it says "Child Support". So if she tries to change her story, I can nail her to the wall with her own writing.

    Sometimes it's not just about respect though. I loved my ex and my kids more than anyone in the world. I would have done anything for her. Hell, when she comes over, I still cook, clean (well it is my house) and take care of her out of respect for my children. But where I drew the line was when her friends and Facebook took priority over the kids. I woke up one time at 2:30 am and my son was playing on the Wii while she was IM'ing the dude she left me fore and playing on Facebook. They were going to hang out the next day and I actually said it was alright. I ripped her a new one right then and there and the next day when she thought she was leaving I told her fuck no because her friends were becoming more important than our kids.

    I may have been her husband, but I considered myself a father first at that moment because my kids had no one to defend them in the fight. She told me a few days later she didn't want a divorce and realized she messed up, but about a month later I found out she was looking for apartments at night while the kids and I were asleep.

    So if the wife is too immature to understand respect for her husband and what it means to be a parent, it doesn't matter what you do or how good you treat her, she's only thinking of herself at that point. And there's nothing you can do to change her mind because she'll only remember the bad and never the good.

    For my ex her main gripe was that I was "always right" in an argument. Of course, I later explained that I wouldn't argue if I didn't think I was right. If I started to argue, and realized I was wrong, I stopped and just let her win because, well, she was right. Why would I waste energy arguing when I was in the wrong. Seems logical. But nobody remembers the fights that almost happened but didn't.

    And of course, she "forgot" how I would come home tired as fuck and still watch my son at night so she could sleep because she worked mornings. And when she was put on bed rest, I watch my son every second I was at home, cleaned cooked and even gave her baths so she could be comfortable. And the same when our daughter was born. When I was home, I took over being the parent so she could relax. Or when she hated her job so much it affected her at home, I told her to quit and I would worry about paying the bills while she just rested and got herself right again. And when she got tired of being a stay at home mom, I pulled strings to get her the job she has now, even though I or the guy I asked a favor of didn't feel comfortable doing that because of our close friendship and what could happen to him professionally if it went sour.

    When a woman makes up her mind, all logic goes out the window.
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    The Timeless One Leetonidas's Avatar
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    damn, sorry brah. there's a dude on the radio i hear from time to time here in SA that specializes in fighting for men, his wife divorced him and he's been fighting for men in divorces ever since. can't think of his damn name though...if you listen to the radio enough you'll hear him. best of luck

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    The Timeless One Leetonidas's Avatar
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    woman, logic
    two words that shouldn't be used together imo

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    GAME OVER gospursgojas's Avatar
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    Appreciate all the comments guys....Yes I had the avitar of me and my wife on here since I joined back in like 05, or was it the 03 'ship?


    Yall are very insightfull and damn right hillarious.

    But on a serious note, if you got some real attorney info...pm me. Taking all advice from every walk of my life.


    Fuck eharmony. Im 29.
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    Fuck eharmony. Im 29.
    What a coincidence, I'm 30. About the only thing I'd use the internet for is Craiglists "casual encounters". Okay, not really.

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    Appreciate all the comments guys....Yes I had the avitar of me and my wife on here since I joined back in like 05, or was it the 03 'ship?


    Yall are very insightfull and damn right hillarious.

    But on a serious note, if you got some real attorney info...pm me. Taking all advice from every walk of my life.


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    Fuck eharmony. Im 29.
    Dude,I gave you real lawyer info upstream
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    Fuck eharmony. Im 29.
    Yea really. There's an endless supply of needy divorced women with a couple of baggage kids out there (like your ex will be) waiting to pounce on you; so desperate they won't care if you're ugly, fat, poor or stupid---they'll make you feel like a king!

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    Motivation for me... Stringer_Bell's Avatar
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    Leetonidas provided an attorney that has commericials on ESPN 1250 AM. I forgot his name, but his commercials sound legit. Now, once you secure an attorney...

    1) Clean up all your social networks, get screencaps of all of hers. On second thought, do that shit immediately and don't wait.
    2) Don't trust her with any information. The trust is dead, she's not getting it back and it's all about handling YOUR business now. Keep her on the outside. From now on, she doesn't know how much your make, where you work, if you got a second job, who your girlfriend is, etc etc etc...it's none of her business.
    3) Make sure you are the one providing healthcare, stress that you do not need any government assistance and are a totally self-sufficient parent/caregiver.
    4) Remember that YOU have the power to negotiate...you don't have to freak her out by wanting her to pay child support. If not fighting for child support makes it easier to get her to agree to what you want - do it because child support is a headache neither of you want in the long run if you can agree to avoid it.
    5) If all else fails, and she takes the kids and hits you up for child support...make sure your attorney at least has knowledge of child support guidelines. Attorneys that represent cheating moms will FUCK YOU UP over that child support just cuz your attorney doesn't know about STATE GUIDELINES and the judge doesn't give a fuck either. Do your homework, prepare for the worst...and you end up paying about 300 a month, which is a car payment or so. That's if you aren't rolling in cash money, in which case you're screwed if you're making 6K+ a month - but it's also a good indicator of the quality of life you can provide if the kids stay with you, it all comes down to the lawyer you've got.
    6) Don't tell stories to your kids, they'll remember and someday it might come back on you.


    PS: Never, ever, ever...be moved to anger over a punk trying to get at your table scraps after you've already feasted.

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    Screw the bitch. Keep your head held high! Don't ever show her that you are sad and lonely! Be smart! Go out and have fun! Dont immediately return her calls! Don't sound anxious when you talk to her. She probably knows you very well so you are going to have to be as convincing as possible! Take care of yourself and take care of your kids! ....And go find the next hottest girl and get laid!
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    That's why I have stayed away from American chicks since I was 22. I shackled myself with a hot Mexican Spanish girl. Homemade tortillas and mexican food flows through my house. As well as Mexican and European pastries. We go to the movies, go on dates, fuck her all night on weekends.
    Plus you can beat the shit out of them and they'll say you do it because you love them.
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    His wife leaving their kids and putting herself and her affair above her responsibilities as a mother is reason alone for him to fight for custody. What's gonna happen if she gets full custody and decides to leave the kids with her new husband after she gets bored with him and is in another affair? I'm not sure why men have to bend over backwards showing how good of a parent they are in order to get custody while all women have to do is show that they can count to 10 in order to get the kids and child support without having to provide any assurance she isn't spending child support on new jewelery and a tit job.
    /thread

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    If you have licked her fawtbox before, she will try and come back................guaranteed!!!! Been there, done that.
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    Ive gone twice to beat his ass, and both times he wouldnt come out his apt.
    He might've been too busy banging her brains out and depositing his DNA in her birth canal. Maybe try a different time?

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    i agree with the international women bid. youll realize how awesome women can be once you meet some who arent american.

    american women since birth are spoiled, insecure, self righteous tactical sluts - meaning theyre prude when it's unnecessary but then fuck everyone whenever it's most innapropriate. take some time off from work and do an around the world tour. youll see and then thank me later when you meet a non-american who is there for you and not herself.
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    ^bacne with the goods

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    american women since birth are spoiled, insecure, self righteous tactical sluts -
    +10000
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    He might've been too busy banging her brains out and depositing his DNA in her birth canal. Maybe try a different time?

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    He might've been too busy banging her brains out and depositing his DNA in her birth canal. Maybe try a different time?
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    Bitch said she wants her freedom.

    Anyway, need a good attorney thats gonna fight for the dad instead of just conceeding to the fact that moms always win. She left me and the kids, got her own place that can't fit kids, has seen kids maybe 4 times this month...and now says she's gonna fight for custody only bc she wants child support.

    Any lawyer suggestions?

    Cordell & Cordell


    They're not in Texas, but they advertise all the time up here in Pa SPECIFICALLY targeting men/fathers. You might give them a call, and see if they have a recommendation
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    He might've been too busy banging her brains out and depositing his DNA in her birth canal. Maybe try a different time?
    Yeah what this guy said.

    If you're hearing the walls rattle from your ex-wife's screams and/or the headboard banging against the side, you should probably wait until his semen's safely discharged inside of her. Or you could always find a window to watch the two of them

    Good luck bro!

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    He might've been too busy banging her brains out and depositing his DNA in her birth canal. Maybe try a different time?

    .............. look at the bright side, it could be worse. She could have been DP'd with man juice being unloaded in her fawtbox and kitty. Count your blessings. Have a great day.

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    Bernoullin' niggas! BUMP's Avatar
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    Yeah what this guy said.

    If you're hearing the walls rattle from your ex-wife's screams and/or the headboard banging against the side, you should probably wait until his semen's safely discharged inside of her. Or you could always find a window to watch the two of them

    Good luck bro!

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    Oh look, people are nice to OP initially and bene follows suit. Guy makes a fucked up joke, a couple posters laugh, and bene follows again. Shocking.
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    Oh look, Fkla is still stalking me. Shocking.

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