Humor me with an experiment. Close your eyes if you will. You're a 25 year old chick at a bar. A young man approaches you. He's friendly if a bit awkward. He buys you a drink and you engage in conversation with him. It's unforced and you often find yourself giggling at his jokes. One thing leads to another and you find yourself attracted to him. He asks if you would like to come to his place. Your baby shooter begins to tingle as you think of the possibilities. You say, "YES". You get to his apartment building and are walking up the stairs but you can't see and you trip over a baby that someone left on the stairs. You tumble down three flights and hit your head on the landing. You wake up to feel him inside of you. He's grunting and panting.
Now...open your eyes.
HE'S ARMLESS. AND PROBABLY MUSLIM.
Satisfied?