If the wife is having an affair it's always on the husband, it is his fault. Usually it's because he just doesn't listen to her. He has yet to figure out the sensitivities of the female, how those little things mean so much to her. Those flowers at work, that little note on the frig. Woman need that.
When I was running the bars looking for Miss Tonight, I knew that she wanted a listener. A guy who paid attention to her and listened.
Next morning.
Yes a few times...."who is that at the door"....her...."ah....my husband".