Been there, done that. Word of advise........the quickest way to get over someone in a divorce or to move forward is to FIND SOMEONE ELSE!!! Works like a charm. For a few years after my divorce I became the biggest playuh from the Himalayas. I had so much fun, enjoyed my freedom to date lots of women and just not having to check in with anyone. Give it a try if you haven't. I promise you will feel in a much better place