Draymond is actually very smart and observant. People overlook that because he's crazy. If he could be trusted to not attack his own teammates, I'd be pretty open to the Spurs trying to acquire him this off-season.
The biggest "problem" as it relates to Wemby is that he's too young. Despite the premise of this thread, his individual development is going really well. He's beyond where even someone of his talent should be. What does a disservice to him is how people keep pretending he's mature and ready to skip a bunch of steps. He's not. The dude is still getting bullied on the court and is still too inexperienced to handle individual matchups against stars. I think a huge part of Wemby's frustration last night came from Gobert shoving Victor around all game with no calls. Multiple times Rudy just shoved him out of the way and dunked on him. Wemby has pride. No matter how many times folks want to use that to push a narrative, it's not concerning that Wemby isn't happy with losing. The splitting point is not whether he's frustrated or not; it's whether he's going to channel that frustration into improving the things he can control or whether he's going to lash out and let it sour his experience.
We don't actually know which way he'll go on this. People who only watch his highlights may not understand it, but Wemby's actual technique on the court is not very good, on either end. One of the reasons why he's so inconsistent scoring is because he doesn't have go-to moves. He turns the ball over way too much because of his dribble combined with him still having a slow time processing the NBA floor. He swings down and reaches too much on defense. He still doesn't know how to use his body to handle contact. He's gotten much better at handling his responsibilities on the court, but there's room to go there too. This is all perfectly normal for a rookie. But does he understand that? Does he understand that if he can improve on those issues that he'll win no matter where he goes? Or is he caught up in the hype telling him he's already there and it's everyone else's fault that he's not already contending? I'm not sure. There's evidence for both sides.
In either event, I doubt Victor would've freaked out had he been told "Hey, we're going to be bad the first year and then look to make major changes starting the second year once we know what's up." The issue is that seeing that map in the abstract and living on through that timeline in real time are different things. If Victor is legit frustrated with his situation, it's probably because time isn't moving faster, not because he doesn't believe in the concept of the team getting a good draft pick to "get him help". That draft pick will be a good thing whether they use it to get him a guy like Risacher or if they trade it for someone like Trae Young. Basically no matter what, it's in his best interests to put his head down and work on his game rather than worrying about the talent on the roster or the coaching staff for the rest of the season.