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Rapper
01-13-2009, 04:52 AM
I am so hurt, cause i had given my all best to treat her in past 3 years

She is working at a casino as a dealer, she often complained me that I didn't have enough money and some material things as well as a nice car for her,PLUS, she frequently blamed at me that most of her freinds whose boyfriends have much money , BMW, whatever but the fact is that I'm still an university student so that how could I afford that? she doesn't have a college degree .'cause she thinks that a university degree doesn't wealth 4 years,she has been working at a casino since she gruduated from high school 2 year ago. to be honest, i stiill love her

I alraedy gave her as much as i could.

Guys, if you were me, how would you deal with the situation like this?

Ignignokt
01-13-2009, 05:00 AM
let go.

her reasons are shallow. Let her find happiness.

Meanwhile, focus on something to improve yourself on and don't look for the same type of girl.

Love is for rich or poor.

That girl will not love you simply.

Just think of a fictional perfect girl.

You know what?

You and i can't have her both.

So lets find what we need and not what we want. Sometimes our wants betray what is ultimately good for us in the longrun.

and btw, now is the time to replace her with stuff you used to do before you met her, that way you can fill that void easier step by step.

TDMVPDPOY
01-13-2009, 05:45 AM
I got friends that also work at the casino who either works as a dealer or hospitality......

thats only short term, unless you find something else to do....

a few choose to work there cause it helps pay off the house mortgage....etc


BACK TO UR SITUATION

seems like this girl is materialistic, she should love you for who you are, not for what you got either car, job security, wealth....dont you hate it when they try to compare you with others, flaunting there shit.....

i say you A2M one more time, and move on....:rollin

Rapper
01-13-2009, 07:06 AM
Thanks for your suggestion, really

thanks

But talk is a talk, work is a work

I know both of you are right, but for now,at this moment, i still love her

hopefully i will find a girl who suits me in the future

Das Texan
01-13-2009, 08:56 AM
well now that you have all this free time, maybe learning how to write would be a path you can take.

I Love Me Some Me
01-13-2009, 09:00 AM
Sometimes I look back at the girls I thought I was in love with and laugh at how stupid I was.

If she's such a materialistic, stuck-up woman...tell me what it is you 'love' about her?

tonylongoriafan
01-13-2009, 09:06 AM
Sometimes I look back at the girls I thought I was in love with and laugh at how stupid I was.

If she's such a materialistic, stuck-up woman...tell me what it is you 'love' about her?

i do the same when i'm in the middle of the relationship...it's all about perspective...but then sometimes you can't help yourself

tlongII
01-13-2009, 09:14 AM
well now that you have all this free time, maybe learning how to write would be a path you can take.

I'm guessing this guy is in China...but I could be wrong. He's not doing too bad for a 2nd language.

tlongII
01-13-2009, 09:16 AM
I think Bonnie Raitt said it best with "I can't make you love me if you don't." Sounds to me like this girl doesn't love you. Nothing wrong with that. Move on.

Jekka
01-13-2009, 09:16 AM
well now that you have all this free time, maybe learning how to write would be a path you can take.

:lol


I love these threads. They make me feel a little vindicated for all the times men call women overly emotional and crazy.

"Buy me a car!"
"I want to, baby, but I'm a po' college student, and I can't. I've given you as much as I can!"
"It's not enough!"
" :( "

I don't think you have too many losses to mourn here, unless the sex was good. If that's the case, you're in college, use it to your advantage.

Rapper
01-13-2009, 09:16 AM
i do the same when i'm in the middle of the relationship...it's all about perspective...but then sometimes you can't help yourself

exactly~

Blake
01-13-2009, 09:18 AM
She is working at a casino as a dealer, she often complained me that I didn't have enough money and some material things as well as a nice car for her,PLUS, she frequently blamed at me that most of her freinds whose boyfriends have much money , BMW, whatever but the fact is that I'm still an university student so that how could I afford that? she doesn't have a college degree .'cause she thinks that a university degree doesn't wealth 4 years,she has been working at a casino since she gruduated from high school 2 year ago. to be honest, i stiill love her

I alraedy gave her as much as i could.

Guys, if you were me, how would you deal with the situation like this?

Go see her at work.

If you get 8s, you split 'em. If you get 11, then double down.

I Love Me Some Me
01-13-2009, 09:19 AM
exactly~

Then wallow is self-pity, and never get over it.


I mean, you start a thread looking for help, the consensus (to this point) is 'move-on', but you don't want to.


I ask, again....what is it that you love about her? Her materialistic ways? The fact that she thinks you're not good enough for her? Her arrogance? The fact that she's a spoiled brat?

I ask you this question so you can put it into perspective for yourself. What is it that you love about her?

I. Hustle
01-13-2009, 09:24 AM
If some chick frequently blamed at me I'd slap the skank. You need to give her your egg noodle one more time and move on. I know this is probably a troll but it pisses me off that women think they don't have to do shit and the man should be making tons of money to throw at them. The only revenge on women like that is that some men are smart and don't marry the skeezers then when they hit a certain old age like 25 they drop the bitch and get another 18 year old cockgobbler.

Rapper
01-13-2009, 09:26 AM
Then wallow is self-pity, and never get over it.


I mean, you start a thread looking for help, the consensus (to this point) is 'move-on', but you don't want to.


I ask, again....what is it that you love about her? Her materialistic ways? The fact that she thinks you're not good enough for her? Her arrogance? The fact that she's a spoiled brat?

I ask you this question so you can put it into perspective for yourself. What is it that you love about her?


Well, honestly i don't know

Sometime you know what is wrong and what is right, but when this situation comes across you, you would realize that you could't help yourself in some respects

DarkReign
01-13-2009, 09:39 AM
let go.

her reasons are shallow. Let her find happiness.

Meanwhile, focus on something to improve yourself on and don't look for the same type of girl.

Love is for rich or poor.

That girl will not love you simply.

Just think of a fictional perfect girl.

You know what?

You and i can't have her both.

So lets find what we need and not what we want. Sometimes our wants betray what is ultimately good for us in the longrun.

and btw, now is the time to replace her with stuff you used to do before you met her, that way you can fill that void easier step by step.

Damn, gtown.

:tu

Rapper
01-13-2009, 09:42 AM
I hate myself for loving her

I. Hustle
01-13-2009, 09:44 AM
I hate myself for loving her

/homo thread

I. Hustle
01-13-2009, 09:47 AM
http://www.thecheezburgerfactory.com/completestore/128371513645948735EmoCatNeedsLo.jpg

I Love Me Some Me
01-13-2009, 09:49 AM
I hate myself for loving her
It's actually the other way around...you love her because you hate yourself.

:rolleyes

You don't really love her...you just think you do. The fact that you can't provide even ONE thing about her that you love should confirm that for you.

ORION
01-13-2009, 10:07 AM
run into the casino and jump on the table she is working. Pull your pants down and say "you could of had this but forget it now !" then run out quickly because someone will be on their way to kick your ass

I. Hustle
01-13-2009, 10:21 AM
run into the casino and jump on the table she is working. Pull your pants down and say "you could of had this but forget it now !" then run out quickly because someone will be on their way to kick your ass

You might want to wiggle it in her face too if given the opportunity

Blake
01-13-2009, 11:01 AM
You might want to wiggle it in her face too if given the opportunity

just don't get it caught in the roulette wheel. That would be embarassing.

I. Hustle
01-13-2009, 11:05 AM
just don't get it caught in the roulette wheel. That would be embarassing.

2 on red

mexicanjunior
01-13-2009, 11:05 AM
Guys, if you were me, how would you deal with the situation like this?

Buy her a bike...

2centsworth
01-13-2009, 11:10 AM
I know both of you are right, but for now,at this moment, i still love her



it's the endorphins produced by your brain during ejaculation.

best way to deal with this particular situation is to cut her off 100%, no calls, pictures, contacts, etc... She needs to be dead to you or you're going to set yourself up for a whole lot of hurt.

You don't love her, your brain loves the high. Exercise to replace the high your brain desires.

Richard Cranium
01-13-2009, 11:20 AM
Come on now. You are a university student so just go pick up your mail and fill out one of the dozen or so credit card offers you'll find and you'll be set to buy the love you want.

Summers
01-13-2009, 12:38 PM
Rapper, you're a nice boy. Why have you been dating someone so mean? Don't be sad. Break something, get drunk, whatever, and move on. This girl would not have made you happy if you'd married her.

mrsmaalox
01-13-2009, 01:05 PM
Well you've now seen who she truly is. Be thankful you found out now, pick up your toys and go play elsewhere.

Oh, Gee!!
01-13-2009, 01:12 PM
I blame the economy

Rapper
01-13-2009, 01:19 PM
Thanks again

I'm kinda surprise to see american people comfort me, really.

many of you have told me that how to deal with my situation

I'm extremely touched by your conforts and suggestions

TDMVPDPOY
01-13-2009, 01:35 PM
rapper where are you from??

if you want, hey look rapper, come touch this.

ORION
01-13-2009, 01:43 PM
Thanks again

I'm kinda surprise to see american people comfort me, really.

many of you have told me that how to deal with my situation

I'm extremely touched by your conforts and suggestions

just do what I said and you will be fine

RandomGuy
01-13-2009, 01:47 PM
I am so hurt, cause i had given my all best to treat her in past 3 years

She is working at a casino as a dealer, she often complained me that I didn't have enough money and some material things as well as a nice car for her,PLUS, she frequently blamed at me that most of her freinds whose boyfriends have much money , BMW, whatever but the fact is that I'm still an university student so that how could I afford that? she doesn't have a college degree .'cause she thinks that a university degree doesn't wealth 4 years,she has been working at a casino since she gruduated from high school 2 year ago. to be honest, i stiill love her

I alraedy gave her as much as i could.

Guys, if you were me, how would you deal with the situation like this?

Forget it. She is poison to the spirit.

There is more to life than wealth, and if that is her only concern above all others, then she will eventually get what she wants and find that a very hollow, empty thing indeed.

You would be better off finding a woman who is less concerned with wealth.

My wife has stuck with me through many years of school, and is not concerned with much beyond earning enough to really be modestly comfortable. We are in our 15th year of marriage and very happy.

Heath Ledger
01-13-2009, 02:34 PM
This sounds like a case of first and only piece of an ass syndrome.
Don't worry you will find that other peoples vagina feel just as good as hers.
Once you get out of university you should be able to make some bank so maybe then she will come back to you as well. Or you can just go buy a hooker and get over this situation instantly.

RandomGuy
01-13-2009, 02:45 PM
This sounds like a case of first and only piece of an ass syndrome.
Don't worry you will find that other peoples vagina feel just as good as hers.
Once you get out of university you should be able to make some bank so maybe then she will come back to you as well. Or you can just go buy a hooker and get over this situation instantly.

Not quite the way I would have put it, but I would guess you are more right than most would care to admit.

There *are* 500,000,000+ women in China after all.

It sucks, but you do get over your first crush/love if it doesn't pan out. Life is long, and just be careful that this doesn't make you cynical.

jman3000
01-13-2009, 04:15 PM
you'll be over it in a month tops.

as random guy pointed out.. there are over 500,000,000 million other fish in the sea.

JoeChalupa
01-13-2009, 04:20 PM
And if you've got a big hook you have nothing to worry about. Move on!!

I. Hustle
01-13-2009, 04:46 PM
And if you've got a big hook you have nothing to worry about. Move on!!

Um he's chinese

I Love Me Some Me
01-13-2009, 04:55 PM
Um he's chinese

:rollin

SpursWoman
01-13-2009, 04:59 PM
Um he's chinese


YOMANK! :rollin :lol

tonylongoriafan
01-13-2009, 05:05 PM
Don't worry you will find that other peoples vagina feel just as good as hers.


ahhhhhhhhhhhh, the vagina card :toast

Rapper
01-13-2009, 11:14 PM
rapper where are you from??

if you want, hey look rapper, come touch this.

Macau, China

Rapper
01-13-2009, 11:18 PM
Forget it. She is poison to the spirit.

There is more to life than wealth, and if that is her only concern above all others, then she will eventually get what she wants and find that a very hollow, empty thing indeed.

You would be better off finding a woman who is less concerned with wealth.

My wife has stuck with me through many years of school, and is not concerned with much beyond earning enough to really be modestly comfortable. We are in our 15th year of marriage and very happy.

Yes you're right

Your wife is pretty good,I'm envying you for that, it's so happy to hear a positive thing like this

But not all women in the world are like your life

Rapper
01-13-2009, 11:22 PM
Not quite the way I would have put it, but I would guess you are more right than most would care to admit.

There *are* 500,000,000+ women in China after all.

It sucks, but you do get over your first crush/love if it doesn't pan out. Life is long, and just be careful that this doesn't make you cynical.

Ha, probably there are more than 500,000,000 women in China.

But the question is not this one, a Chinese man who can marry a foreign girl , such as american

The Reckoning
01-13-2009, 11:27 PM
give her the shocker

tonylongoriafan
01-13-2009, 11:36 PM
give her the shocker

go with the spocker :lol

Brutalis
01-13-2009, 11:40 PM
Fuck that stupid money grubbing cunt and grow a got damn brain and some balls.

RuffnReadyOzStyle
01-14-2009, 01:00 AM
I hate myself for loving her

I don't think you really LOVE her, you are obsessed with her, addicted to her. If you can't produce a list of reasons why you 'love' someone then you don't really love them.

I'm guessing you are pretty young, say 20 or 21? Trust me when I say that "love" is a very different thing from what you've had with this woman. Sorry to be harsh, but she sounds like a materially obsessed bitch anyway. You don't need her. She should appreciate you for you, not what you can get for her.

Move on as best you can. It'll take a while, but try to concentrate on everything else in your life, and if you still can't get over her, go and get drunk and fuck someone else - that will make you realise that it's a big wide world out there.

Good luck.

RandomGuy
01-14-2009, 11:23 AM
Um he's chinese

man, that was harsh.

RandomGuy
01-14-2009, 11:25 AM
rapper where are you from??

if you want, hey look rapper, come touch this.

He's from that place where you can click on somebody's public profile and look up where they live.




HA!

Summers
01-14-2009, 11:31 AM
Forget it. She is poison to the spirit.

There is more to life than wealth, and if that is her only concern above all others, then she will eventually get what she wants and find that a very hollow, empty thing indeed.

You would be better off finding a woman who is less concerned with wealth.

My wife has stuck with me through many years of school, and is not concerned with much beyond earning enough to really be modestly comfortable. We are in our 15th year of marriage and very happy.

You were doing so well until you couldn't remember how long we've been married! :lol

<-- But we do make pretty babies. :)

The Franchise
01-14-2009, 04:09 PM
I am so hurt, cause i had given my all best to treat her in past 3 years

She is working at a casino as a dealer, she often complained me that I didn't have enough money and some material things as well as a nice car for her,PLUS, she frequently blamed at me that most of her freinds whose boyfriends have much money , BMW, whatever but the fact is that I'm still an university student so that how could I afford that? she doesn't have a college degree .'cause she thinks that a university degree doesn't wealth 4 years,she has been working at a casino since she gruduated from high school 2 year ago. to be honest, i stiill love her

I alraedy gave her as much as i could.

Guys, if you were me, how would you deal with the situation like this?
Give the bitch her pink slip. It's 3 years overdo.

RandomGuy
01-14-2009, 05:13 PM
You were doing so well until you couldn't remember how long we've been married! :lol

<-- But we do make pretty babies. :)

Crap. I got my exit year from the Army mixed up with the year we got married. Sorry 'bout that. I guess that means I will have to do the dishes tonight... :depressed