Fuck it all

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

My wife and i are getting a divorce.........

We agreed on it, i love her to bits and we are still friends, but i feel like life is worthless now.....

anyway, im drunk and ranting,.......very unlike me

[BacktoBasics]

I would strongly consider not staying friends. Its will complicate life to a degree of insanity. Good luck.

[JudynTX]

Sorry to hear that, good luck.

[leemajors]

I would strongly consider not staying friends. Its will complicate life to a degree of insanity. Good luck.

Agreed. Maybe in the future, but certainly not right now.

[lefty]

i would strongly consider not staying friends. Its will complicate life to a degree of insanity. Good luck.
+1

[BacktoBasics]

Agreed. Maybe in the future, but certainly not right now.Good point.

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

yeh in the future, definately not right now. I told her i may pop up in the future and say hey, for now it's distance. Luckily we don't have kids or a house, makes it easier

[balli]

but i feel like life is worthless now.....
I'm sorry man. Having never been there myself I can't imagine the pain you're going through. But hey, life will go on eventually and considering the consequences of people staying together when they shouldn't (fuck you mom & dad :lol) it's probably for the best. So grieve awhile, but it'll get better.

[IronMexican]

We got cuss words banned from the titles because of you're bitching, and now you're doing it?

[tp2021]

Luckily we don't have kids or a house, makes it easier

That's true. this is just like a simple breakup (aside from the fact she gets half your shit)

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

sorry iron, i guess that shows how bad it is.........

I just can't deal with it without cussing and drinking, both thing are very unlike me, but i just don't know what else to do

[balli]

sorry iron, i guess that shows how bad it is.........

I just can't deal with it without cussing and drinking, both thing are very unlike me, but i just don't know what else to do
Alcohol's a depressant. Aren't you depressed enough? I'd suggest you stay off the poison and go smoke some weed.

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

That's true. this is just like a simple breakup (aside from the fact she gets half your shit)

:lol lucky we don't have anything. We live in Africa and knew our life would be not based on material things.

I dont know what to say, we love each other like crazy but things just didnt work out. It definately isnt a bitter break up

[IronMexican]

sorry iron, i guess that shows how bad it is.........

I just can't deal with it without cussing and drinking, both thing are very unlike me, but i just don't know what else to do

Well good luck.

[Frenzy]

no back up? you gotta have a back up

[antimvp]

Divorce really sucks nowadays, because families are not as strong as they used to be, not to mention support from organized religion(most people don't even go to church). take Xanax for the short term and celexa for about 6 months and maybe you will get over it. time is what you need.


.exercise also helps.

[balli]

Divorce really sucks nowadays, because families are not as strong as they used to be, not to mention support from organized religion(most people don't even go to church). take Xanax for the short term and celexa for about 6 months and maybe you will get over it. time is what you need.
:wow Dr. Laura?

Stay the fuck away from pharmaceuticals dude.

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

yeh no drugs, i know booze is somewhat of a drug, but i wont let myself get addicted to it. It is just a stress release........

[balli]

Yeah, sorry to jack your thread into a debate about substances. /that discussion

Anyways, hope the coming weeks bring some relief.

[JudynTX]

I'll bite.....why are you divorcing? Is it something you can't fix?

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

cheers :toast Hopefully the Nuggets win the championship :lol, obviously i really dont care about that though at the moment. I couldn't even care if the Jazz win it :wow

[Mixability]

stay her friend..............only if you're doing one of her hot friends.

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

I'll bite.....why are you divorcing? Is it something you can't fix?

just 2 different. Got married 2 quickly. We both love each other but we clash too much. They say opposites attract, but im not so sure

[JudynTX]

just 2 different. Got married 2 quickly. We both love each other but we clash too much. They say opposites attract, but im not so sure

I married an opposite, not all of those marriages fail.

Sometimes couples get along better as friends than lovers. :lol

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

true , true......

i guess we rushed into it

[MiamiHeat]

gotta make sure you know the person before you marry them. take the time to know everything about them.

good luck next time

[DPG21920]

Sorry buddy, from what I know of you, it sounds like you live a good life. Things will work out, just like you tell the people you help. These are the times to turn to your faith, not away from it.

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

thanks mate. I hope i will follow your advice. Right now i feel like God is the last person i want to talk to, my anger against him burns. I guess i know its a cop out in the long run.

I though i lived a good life, but i don't know why the happiest time in my life has spiraled into this, it hurts like nothing ever has

[easjer]

I'm really sorry. I hope you are able to find some peace.

[Trainwreck2100]

thanks mate. I hope i will follow your advice. Right now i feel like God is the last person i want to talk to, my anger against him burns. I guess i know its a cop out in the long run.

I though i lived a good life, but i don't know why the happiest time in my life has spiraled into this, it hurts like nothing ever has

peaks and valleys dawg, yin and yang, what goes up must come down.

[Trainwreck2100]

"Don't Stop Believing" "Faithfully" but "Any Way You Want It" tell her "I'll Be Alright Without You", "Only The Young" "Ask The Lonely" "Who's Crying Now" that we've gone our "Separate Ways".

[BacktoBasics]

thanks mate. I hope i will follow your advice. Right now i feel like God is the last person i want to talk to, my anger against him burns. I guess i know its a cop out in the long run.

I though i lived a good life, but i don't know why the happiest time in my life has spiraled into this, it hurts like nothing ever hasYou have the wonderful ability to play a personal role in how your life goes. Its called free will and no amount of faith or lack thereof can ever take away your current ability to exercise your personal will. The only cop out is to subconsciously take away your ability to do things for yourself by pretending that your life's experiences and happenings are totally out of your hands. Find some comfort in your own shoes friend.

[duncan228]

Sorry for your heartbreak NuGGeTs-FaN. Your SpursTalk family is here for you. Rant and vent all you need to, it's good to get it out.

I wish you peace, though it may take a while to feel it. Stay strong.

[Whisky Dog]

Ok, we need pictures and her phone number...

Just kiddin, take it easy. Sounds like you still love the girl, sure you're not giving it away too soon?I mean if there was no cheating and the worst thing is that your personalities clash at times?

[I. Hustle]

Been there. Done that.
The only advice I have has already been stated. Do not stay friends at least not for a good while. I tried this and ended up in bed (kitchen,dining room, living room, guest bedroom, etc.) with her and it only made things more confusing. It's too fresh and you don't know how to seperate that kind of stuff yet so just stay away.
Time heals all wounds, fish in the sea and all that shit. Just do you. If you drink I would suggest that you drink with friends.

[Bukefal]

damn, bad to hear that. must be really tough. Good luck mate!

[ploto]

I though i lived a good life, but i don't know why the happiest time in my life has spiraled into this, it hurts like nothing ever has

Even though you feel like the world will stop spinning, you will wake up tomorrow to discover that life will have moved forward, and so must you. Know deep inisde that there is something better waiting for you when the time is right.

[tlongII]

Bummer dude.

[BlackSwordsMan]

become a pirate there's been a couple of job openings recently

[timvp]

Damn, NuGGeTs-FaN. It doesn't seem like that long ago that you said you were going with the wife from Australia to Africa to do some charity work. And you broke up while in Africa? That sucks.

[Heath Ledger]

Please tell me that Nuggest-Fan is a troll.

[BacktoBasics]

I wonder how this turned out.

[FaithInOne]

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all braaaah

[BacktoBasics]

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all braaaah
I don't agree with that at all.

[koriwhat]

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all braaaah

not true in my case... well not when it concerns my latest ex. bitch was trouble and i wish i never met that trouble!

[ShoogarBear]

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all braaaah

http://www.elcriticodecine.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/tommy-lee-jones-academy-award-oscar-nominee-best-actor-2008.jpg

"Yeah???? Try it!!"

[Vinnie_Johnson]

:lol lucky we don't have anything. We live in Africa and knew our life would be not based on material things.

I dont know what to say, we love each other like crazy but things just didnt work out. It definately isnt a bitter break up

Don't let her take the goats.

[TDMVPDPOY]

posts pics of soon to be ex wife dude.....

[Heath Ledger]

This guy so has to be a troll. Africa? Come on what is this a craigslist scammer? He fooled a lot of people around here.

[timvp]

This guy so has to be a troll. Africa? Come on what is this a craigslist scammer? He fooled a lot of people around here.He's not a troll. Are you trolling now or are you new enough to ST that you didn't know he wasn't a troll?

[ashbeeigh]

Oh my goodness. Well, I wish you the best through this. We're all here for you Nuggets-Fan, and you know that.

[NuGGeTs-FaN]

it's all good now, I was at rock bottom at this time but we have both decided to give it another go and we both know this is it...........

Man how things can change when you change your mindset and choose to get back to being positive and working on things

[mavs>spurs2]

it's all good now, I was at rock bottom at this time but we have both decided to give it another go and we both know this is it...........

Man how things can change when you change your mindset and choose to get back to being positive and working on things

:clap Glad to hear that, congrats

[Heath Ledger]

I apologize if he's not a troll, from the outside looking in I could swear this has troll written all over it. But if that is not the case I'm sorry. Congrats on your reconciliation however if its true she cheated on you I would hit the road and never look back. That will be in the back of your mind forever and probably come into play with the way you think about her and judger for the rest of your time together. There is better out there for you someone whom you won't have to worry about that and will save years on your life without that kind of stress.

Just call me Dr. Phil

[duncan228]

Congrats on your reconciliation however if its true she cheated on you I would hit the road and never look back.

I'm not sure how cheating got mixed up in this, but it doesn't seem to be the issue.

From NuGGeTs-FaN's other thread.


wth? Who said anything about cheating? It isn't anything to do with either of us being unfaithful, it was about the stress we were under in Africa and not dealing with it and just letting things go downhill in our marriage.

We love each other like crazy, always have and always will.

http://www.spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=127401

[Nobody]

Been there... just finished mine a month ago... and we have 2 kids and a house. Be thankful you don't. It sux, but at least all you have to worry about is your own pain and not the pain of your kids or having to pay 25% of your salary for another 13 years. Focus on the bright side.

[Nobody]

I apologize if he's not a troll, from the outside looking in I could swear this has troll written all over it. But if that is not the case I'm sorry. Congrats on your reconciliation however if its true she cheated on you I would hit the road and never look back. That will be in the back of your mind forever and probably come into play with the way you think about her and judger for the rest of your time together. There is better out there for you someone whom you won't have to worry about that and will save years on your life without that kind of stress.

Just call me Dr. Phil

True dat... mine cheated on me and I never got passed it... you just can't let that kind of thing go. Even if it's years later, it'll pop up again.

[BacktoBasics]

At least wait a while before having kids. Don't trap yourself.