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Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 02:39 PM
Ok. We have this girl here at work. She's maybe 30 with 4 kids all under 8 years old. 2dads. She's really not the sharpest knife in the drawer and that's not based upon the size of her brood. Ok. During the holidays we normally get an ok bonus. $100. She's been here a few years. So, this year word got out that we weren't going to get it. Company cuttng back and all that. Company is doing great but that's another story. So her and a few other people here with kids went sobbing to the VP here. I can understand why her and the other ladies did it. Word got back to upper management and we got our bonus. Shortly after that was decided we get an email about a charity we were doing to help a family. We do that every year so it wasn't anything new. I gave a good donation and boxes were filling up for this family. Looked like this family was going to have a good Christmas. The family in question was said to contain 4 small kids. I couldn't put it together at the time of the email, but it turns out this family was this girls family. Normally it's someone outside of work that's really in need. Really these are just "projects" to make the owner's wife feel good about her cold hearted self, but that's another story. I'm all fine with that. We gotta help out each other. Yada yada

today on her Facebook she posts that she's planning a trip to NYC in June.

:bang :bang :bang

does this chap anyone else's hide?

lebomb
01-19-2010, 02:43 PM
Ok. We have this girl here at work. She's maybe 30 with 4 kids all under 8 years old. 2dads. She's really not the sharpest knife in the drawer and that's not based upon the size of her brood. Ok. During the holidays we normally get an ok bonus. $100. She's been here a few years. So, this year word got out that we weren't going to get it. Company cuttng back and all that. Company is doing great but that's another story. So her and a few other people here with kids went sobbing to the VP here. I can understand why her and the other ladies did it. Word got back to upper management and we got our bonus. Shortly after that was decided we get an email about a charity we were doing to help a family. We do that every year so it wasn't anything new. I gave a good donation and boxes were filling up for this family. Looked like this family was going to have a good Christmas. The family in question was said to contain 4 small kids. I couldn't put it together at the time of the email, but it turns out this family was this girls family. Normally it's someone outside of work that's really in need. Really these are just "projects" to make the owner's wife feel good about her cold hearted self, but that's another story. I'm all fine with that. We gotta help out each other. Yada yada

today on her Facebook she posts that she's planning a trip to NYC in June.

:bang :bang :bang

does this chap anyone else's hide?

Naaaa, Im good with it. She doesnt work with me and I didnt donate anything to her. *shrugs*

z0sa
01-19-2010, 02:45 PM
lol and I bet its without the kids, too

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 02:46 PM
What a bitch dude.


I work with a chick that has 4 kids from 2 dudes and does the same shit. Here is the difference. She is a little younger and gets a shitload of gov assistance. She brags about all the free stuff she gets and the money she gets for her kids. She lies and says that she is breastfeeding so that she gets extra food from WIC and says that she is seperated so that she gets more benefits. Then she was all excited about going back to school and when she got her grant in she went shopping to get new coach shoes and all kinds of ghetto clothes. THEN she had the nerve to complain about not having enough money for her books!

JudynTX
01-19-2010, 02:46 PM
lol and I bet its without the kids, too

2nd honeymoon? :lol

koriwhat
01-19-2010, 02:48 PM
that's crazy... story of most manipulative people though.

Cry Havoc
01-19-2010, 02:52 PM
today on her Facebook she posts that she's planning a trip to NYC in June.

I'd report that to her boss sooooo quickly. That's ridiculous.

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 02:55 PM
What a bitch dude.


I work with a chick that has 4 kids from 2 dudes and does the same shit. Here is the difference. She is a little younger and gets a shitload of gov assistance. She brags about all the free stuff she gets and the money she gets for her kids. She lies and says that she is breastfeeding so that she gets extra food from WIC and says that she is seperated so that she gets more benefits. Then she was all excited about going back to school and when she got her grant in she went shopping to get new coach shoes and all kinds of ghetto clothes. THEN she had the nerve to complain about not having enough money for her books!

oh there's more to this one. She's a horrible mom. Horrible horrible horrible. I know. She went out with a friend of mine and she was alllllways over from when she got out of work til nighttime. All "parenting" was done over the phone. Oh. One more thing. Her mom is the legal guardian of all the kids. I'm sure she's receiving some sort of government cheese.

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 02:57 PM
I'd report that to her boss sooooo quickly. That's ridiculous.

Quite a bit of people from my work are on FB including the VP that she went crying to. She's all drama.

baseline bum
01-19-2010, 03:03 PM
That's pretty chickenshit. NY is expensive as hell, so she obviously didn't really need your money.

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 03:09 PM
Well to be fair someone else could be picking up the tab but I don't think that's the case here. She doesn't have an SO.

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 03:14 PM
Well to be fair someone else could be picking up the tab but I don't think that's the case here. She doesn't have an SO.


Don't give her excuses now dude, we already hate the bitch. The damage is done. I have already organized a posse to go burn that witch!

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 03:17 PM
Don't give her excuses now dude, we already hate the bitch. The damage is done. I have already organized a posse to go burn that witch!

Ha. I just always tend to give people the benefit of the doubt no matter how good or bad it looks.

blizz
01-19-2010, 03:17 PM
i'd stay out of it...if she has it out there for everyone to see, let someone else rat her out. you don't know how she's going on this trip. you don't want her losing her job on your conscious do you?

mrsmaalox
01-19-2010, 03:18 PM
Ha. I just always tend to give people the benefit of the doubt no matter how good or bad it looks.

Sorry, but...............:lmao

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 03:21 PM
i'd stay out of it...if she has it out there for everyone to see, let someone else rat her out. you don't know how she's going on this trip. you don't want her losing her job on your conscious do you?

Oh no. I won't do that. I give people enough rope to hang themselves. I was going to send a screenshot to a friend here at work, but I'm afraid of the consequences that might happen after I send it. I'll just let it run its course. That's why I'm venting here.

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 03:22 PM
Ha. I just always tend to give people the benefit of the doubt no matter how good or bad it looks.

The skank that works with me has already been boned by a few dudes here. When she was pregnant with her last kid she was scared because she wasn't sure who the father was. She was sexing it up with three different dudes at the time.
She goes out all the time because she still feels that she is "too young to just stay at home". How about you got 4 kids that you could be taking care of you dumb bitch. Those kids are going to grow up to take advantage of the system just like her. They will probably be better at it too.

I hate these people that feel like they are entitled to all of this help because they can't keep their damn legs closed. That goes for those a-holes that do it too. Women do it more often though because they are the ones with the kids.

ATRAIN
01-19-2010, 03:23 PM
You helped her go to new york hahahahhaha thats awesome she cheat the system good for her.

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 03:24 PM
Sorry, but...............:lmao

Hush.

marini martini
01-19-2010, 03:35 PM
............and I get a daughter who's entitled to help from the system, but yet refuses it.:bang

I hate this shit!!!

BlackSwordsMan
01-19-2010, 03:43 PM
Rofl

BlackSwordsMan
01-19-2010, 03:44 PM
Would have been better if she went to vegas and lost all the money she got on one hand of blackjack

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 03:48 PM
............and I get a daughter who's entitled to help from the system, but yet refuses it.:bang

I hate this shit!!!

We should introduce them to each other. :lol

CosmicCowboy
01-19-2010, 03:48 PM
............and I get a daughter who's entitled to help from the system, but yet refuses it.:bang

I hate this shit!!!

Put her name in for the box of goodies at Viva's place next year...:lol

marini martini
01-19-2010, 03:53 PM
We should introduce them to each other. :lol


Put her name in for the box of goodies at Viva's place next year...:lol

Good ideas!!!:toast

:lol

mrsmaalox
01-19-2010, 04:07 PM
I know it's bad, but what cracks me up the most here is that Viva finds this person to be so distasteful; yet they are Facebook friends! Fuckin' Facebook :lol

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 04:10 PM
I know it's bad, but what cracks me up the most here is that Viva finds this person to be so distasteful; yet they are Facebook friends! Fuckin' Facebook :lol

She friended me. I didn't want to be rude, so..........

mrsmaalox
01-19-2010, 04:16 PM
She friended me. I didn't want to be rude, so..........

:rollin

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 04:22 PM
:rollin

I'm sure you do the same here.

:rollin

mrsmaalox
01-19-2010, 04:27 PM
I'm sure you do the same here.

:rollin

Never. In fact I'm trying to find a way to get rid of one of my dearest friends (we'll call her Ms. Pillowfight) and if I can't find a nice way in the next couple of days, she'll be going straight to "Ignore" with all the other ones who annoy me :D

JudynTX
01-19-2010, 04:29 PM
I'm curious now.

What did this chick bring to your pot luck the other day? :lol

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 04:30 PM
Never. In fact I'm trying to find a way to get rid of one of my dearest friends (we'll call her Ms. Pillowfight) and if I can't find a nice way in the next couple of days, she'll be going straight to "Ignore" with all the other ones who annoy me :D

maybe I can help :D

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 04:31 PM
I'm curious now.

What did this chick bring to your pot luck the other day? :lol

She's wasn't in the participating departments. Probably would've been some cheese dish.

JudynTX
01-19-2010, 04:32 PM
She's wasn't in the participating departments. Probably would've been some cheese dish.

:lol Potato & egg w/cheese?

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 04:34 PM
:lol Potato & egg w/cheese?

Mmmmmmm.

JudynTX
01-19-2010, 04:36 PM
Mmmmmmm.

It sure is. And I think I make it pretty good.

marini martini
01-19-2010, 04:39 PM
Never. In fact I'm trying to find a way to get rid of one of my dearest friends (we'll call her Ms. Pillowfight) and if I can't find a nice way in the next couple of days, she'll be going straight to "Ignore" with all the other ones who annoy me :D

Ms Pillowfight couldn't be any worse than the "Old Witch of the North"!:toast

:lmao

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 04:41 PM
It sure is. And I think I make it pretty good.

It's kinda hard to screw that up.

JudynTX
01-19-2010, 04:42 PM
It's kinda hard to screw that up.

:lol

Do you know how to make carne guisada?

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 04:45 PM
Do you kow how to make cabrito?

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 04:55 PM
:lol

Do you know how to make carne guisada?

hell yeah.


Do you kow how to make cabrito?

hell no. I ain't eating goat.

JudynTX
01-19-2010, 04:57 PM
Do you kow how to make cabrito?

Yuck


hell yeah.

:tu

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 04:59 PM
:tu

so what. You were just checking my worth?

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 04:59 PM
hell no. I ain't eating goat.

Cabrito is good dude. You need to hit up La Hacienda and try the cabrito en salsa. Just give it a shot.

JudynTX
01-19-2010, 05:00 PM
so what. You were just checking my worth?

Do you make homemade tortillas?

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 05:00 PM
Why is it gross? I beat you eat sushi and crap like that.

I bet you go down there. You know... down. there.

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 05:04 PM
Do you make homemade tortillas?

De maiz

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 05:05 PM
Why is it gross? I beat you eat sushi and crap like that.

I bet you go down there. You know... down. there.

Oh I eat all that :D , except goat.

JudynTX
01-19-2010, 05:06 PM
De maiz

I remember my mom showing us how to make corn tortillas. Good stuff. :)

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 05:08 PM
I remember my mom showing us how to make corn tortillas. Good stuff. :)

I'm still getting my technique down. Mine are ok.

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 05:15 PM
Hey Viva what kind of car do you drive?

TDMVPDPOY
01-19-2010, 05:17 PM
milf material or what?

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 05:21 PM
milf material or what?

Who Viva? If he is a Man you'd like to F.

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 05:58 PM
Hey Viva what kind of car do you drive?

Uh. Why?

Viva Las Espuelas
01-19-2010, 06:02 PM
milf material or what?

Um. Not really. She's ok. I don't find her all that attractive. I wouldn't say she's ugly though. She has realllly big boobs to the point that they're freakish, but they're knee shooters. My buddy said they look good in a bra but once it's off they shoot to the knees. Not appealing to me.

Wild Cobra
01-19-2010, 06:39 PM
:bang :bang :bang

does this chap anyone else's hide?
Absolutely.

I know this one girl who got pregnant early, and had two children with a pretty good guy. They split up years ago because she's a serious twit. last I knew, she had two more children from two more guys. She's getting child support from three men, section 8 housing... a really nice house... and foodstamps.

She lives better than people making good money, and doesn't do a damn thing but pop a baby out every three years to stay on the tax payers dime.

RuffnReadyOzStyle
01-19-2010, 07:07 PM
Yeah, people like those women described in this thread disgust me. Leaches is all they are.

Oh, and the last thing the planet needs is more fucking people. Why the fuck are our governments paying people to have kids? In Australia, you get a $5,185 payment for having a child. WTF???

http://www.babybonus.com.au/baby-bonus-latest-t172.html?

xellos88330
01-19-2010, 08:01 PM
Manipulation at it's best right there. I will say that you really shouldn't let it bother you. You were taken advantage of yes, but you had good intentions. The one who should really feel bad is the lady.

I. Hustle
01-19-2010, 08:03 PM
Uh. Why?

I wanted to see how many directions I could take this thread.

SpursStalker
01-20-2010, 09:35 AM
Why should the actions of someone that has nothing to do with or affect you have you worried?

Wasted energy ...

Drachen
01-20-2010, 09:47 AM
i'd stay out of it...if she has it out there for everyone to see, let someone else rat her out. you don't know how she's going on this trip. you don't want her losing her job on your conscious do you?

It wouldn't be on MY conscience. Screw manipulative people.

To the OP how do you KNOW that the donations were for her. Was it a "i figured it out based on it being a single mother with 4 kids", or was it "I saw her picking up the stuff that I donated" type of thing?

I. Hustle
01-20-2010, 09:52 AM
Why should the actions of someone that has nothing to do with or affect you have you worried?

Wasted energy ...

But it does. My taxes go to these people pumping out kids and being lazy. Messing with my money is like messing with my emotions.

SpursStalker
01-20-2010, 09:53 AM
But it does. My taxes go to these people pumping out kids and being lazy. Messing with my money is like messing with my emotions.

How does her getting donations from other people at work affect YOUR tax money?

Viva Las Espuelas
01-20-2010, 10:02 AM
Why should the actions of someone that has nothing to do with or affect you have you worried?

Wasted energy ...

Oh I'm not worried. I slept pretty damn good last night, but ignorance should never be a virtue as well. :D

Viva Las Espuelas
01-20-2010, 10:04 AM
It wouldn't be on MY conscience. Screw manipulative people.

To the OP how do you KNOW that the donations were for her. Was it a "i figured it out based on it being a single mother with 4 kids", or was it "I saw her picking up the stuff that I donated" type of thing?

Word gets around here. It was her, dude. All the ages and gender specified lined up with her brood.

ATRAIN
01-20-2010, 10:04 AM
Viva

Im not part of a needy family but I really "need" a vacation, can I put a box up at your desk?

I. Hustle
01-20-2010, 10:08 AM
How does her getting donations from other people at work affect YOUR tax money?

I was talking about the chick in my case. Chances are though the donation lady in his office is getting gov help too.

I. Hustle
01-20-2010, 10:09 AM
Viva

Im not part of a needy family but I really "need" a vacation, can I put a box up at your desk?

You can put a box IN your box. I hear that always gets filled up fast.

ATRAIN
01-20-2010, 10:14 AM
You can put a box IN your box. I hear that always gets filled up fast.

weak just like your gag reflex

SpursStalker
01-20-2010, 10:15 AM
Oh I'm not worried. I slept pretty damn good last night, but ignorance should never be a virtue as well. :D

LOL

I'll go along with that. Glad you had a good nights sleep

:sleep

I. Hustle
01-20-2010, 10:32 AM
weak just like your gag reflex

:lol

tlongII
01-20-2010, 11:27 AM
I don't get what you're complaining about? Isn't she the one that got you your $100 bonus? :lol

Kori Ellis
01-20-2010, 11:57 AM
Basically, you shouldn't care and it's not your business. Maybe she not always looking for handout but was going through especially hard times around Christmas and that's why the donations were given to her family. Maybe one of her deadbeat ex's caught up on child support and now she's getting her life on track. Maybe extended family is paying for her trip to NYC and she's not spending a dime on her own. Maybe she's putting away a little money every week til June to make it happen. Who knows?

My point is that you don't know the details (as far as I know), so you shouldn't sweat it. You helped some kids have a better Christmas, and you should just feel good about that and let it go.

Viva Las Espuelas
07-19-2010, 10:09 PM
ok. update on the girl this thread was about:

well i had noticed she hadn't been at work awhile. once the topic of her came up at work i asked what happened to her. they said she took a leave of absence for some reason. may have been family related, i don't know. anyway, it took a while to really notice she wasn't going to work cuz she an FB friend and i see her stupid posts everyday. i should hide her but theyre really entertaining. anyway, i thought nothing of it. turned out during this leave of absence, the company decided to leave her health benefits in place. don't know if that is something that normally happens when you go on a leave of absence, but that's what was said. so, a few days ago i found out she was let go. well apparently one of her FB friends just so happens to be the sister of a higher-up in the company..............that happens to be a manager at the same place. her posts in that time really didn't reflect her going through hard times. she didn't return any calls when they tried to call her and see what was the status of her return. they had enough and canned her.

ALWAYS bet on BLACK
07-19-2010, 10:20 PM
and chances are this very second she is receiving one of these in exchange for cash, since she has no job anymore.
http://bp1.blogger.com/_hM3iz69aqu8/SGj9Keuy2kI/AAAAAAAABEY/DYAYWUTb7pI/s400/Deviant_tomato_by_CoremanBL.jpg

CubanMustGo
07-19-2010, 10:21 PM
Always amazing that people will have their boss or coworkers as FB friends and then do stupid shit like say "my fucking job sucks."

ashbeeigh
07-19-2010, 10:26 PM
Fired Over Twitter: 13 Tweets That Got People Canned (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/07/15/fired-over-twitter-tweets_n_645884.html)

Social media is a bitch.