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Findog
10-20-2010, 01:55 PM
So with that in mind, how much of a diversion will the Mavericks offer me this year? I see 47-52 wins and another first-round exit.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 01:57 PM
I'm sorry to hear that if it's true.
Findog
10-20-2010, 01:58 PM
I'm sorry to hear that if it's true.
Unfortunately it is.
lefty
10-20-2010, 01:58 PM
No shit
Findog
10-20-2010, 01:59 PM
Also, would any of the Dallas-area Spurs Talkers be up for resuming pick up games? Need to get into a routine of some sort.
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 01:59 PM
Were you fucking around on her?
btw Mavs finish w/ 53 wins and a 2nd rd plyoff loss imo
Findog
10-20-2010, 02:00 PM
Were you fucking around on her?
No, nothing like that.
lefty
10-20-2010, 02:01 PM
Do you have calf tats?
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 02:04 PM
No, nothing like that.
It's probably a blessing in disguise, you have the rest of your life to get married...you're only young once though. Sorry to hear nonetheless
Medvedenko
10-20-2010, 02:11 PM
Dude, if true, sorry to hear that as well. God bless.
namlook
10-20-2010, 02:20 PM
These things end up being blessings when you look back on them.
anonoftheinternets
10-20-2010, 02:20 PM
wish you the best, sure it will work out in the near future.
You'll find another vagina to plow.
As for the Mavs, I expect them to own a similar fate as my spurs: 50 or so wins, 2nd round loss.
lefty
10-20-2010, 02:36 PM
Lakaluva works on the corner of Hollywood Boulevard and Vine Street
Sportcamper
10-20-2010, 02:41 PM
Sorry about the fiancé thing…But congratulations on your new freedom…Stay off the hamster wheel as long as possible… :toast
Phillip
10-20-2010, 02:56 PM
My condolences, former Regulation Krew Founding Father.
We need to try to hoop sometime
The Franchise
10-20-2010, 03:01 PM
Sorry to hear it Fin. I have been in that situation before, so I can guess how much it sucks. As far as the Mavericks are concerned, 53-54 wins will be good enough for a 2nd place in the SW behind Houston, along with a 2nd round exit.
Amuseddaysleeper
10-20-2010, 03:08 PM
I wouldn't be surprised to see if the Mavs win the SW division.
Sorry to hear that Findog, but I'm sure you'll be just fine bud :toast
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 03:10 PM
These things end up being blessings when you look back on them.
Nam, with the goods. "What does not kill me only makes me stronger." is a truism of the highest caliber. It's over used, yes, but, it is absolutely confirmed.
Fin, you're a fine fellow. You have a good heart, and there is no better measure of a man.
Double-Up
10-20-2010, 03:28 PM
Nam, with the goods. "What does not kill me only makes me stronger." is a truism of the highest caliber. It's over used, yes, but, it is absolutely confirmed.
Fin, you're a fine fellow. You have a good heart, and there is no better measure of a man.
That boy Cully giving people social advise...now that's kinda fucked up don't you think?
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 03:32 PM
No advice, Dubs. Just citin' Fin.
monosylab1k
10-20-2010, 03:35 PM
brah come to the UTD outdoor courts around 7-ish tomorrow night, I'll be there. There's a decent sized group that meets up, although sometimes it gets overrun by all the indian and asian students that all lick balls. There's like 2 black guys who basically run the court if they're on the same team. tbh it actually licks balls but maybe our nigga DPG has a better idea.
monosylab1k
10-20-2010, 03:37 PM
tbh after that we can go shotgun some 4 lokos and wander in the desert looking for strippers and cocaine.
monosylab1k
10-20-2010, 03:37 PM
like a g6 like a g6 now i'm feelin so fly like a g6 like a g6 like a like a g6
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 03:39 PM
like a g6 like a g6 now i'm feelin so fly like a g6 like a g6 like a like a g6
poppin' bottles in the ice
like a blizzard!
hater
10-20-2010, 03:40 PM
you just dodged a bullet fool
monosylab1k
10-20-2010, 03:48 PM
which of these is the greatest song ever? I can't decide
GvgJEznqtms
or
KVWWre8tn_U
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 03:50 PM
KVWWre8tn_U
:lmao:lmao:lmao:lmao:lmao:lmao:lmao
koriwhat
10-20-2010, 04:04 PM
ha
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 04:25 PM
That's ignorant to lodge such a query, Vulv.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 04:34 PM
Have some restraint for Christ sake, here & elsewhere. You're like Kobe:::every time you're resisted you get angry and act out.
Findog
10-20-2010, 05:30 PM
Didn't really get a reason, to answer your question. She was very vague and evasive about it.
That shit ain't right ... if you were really engaged to her, she owes you a fucking explanation at the very least
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 05:42 PM
She does owe you an explanation, Fin. Give her some time, perhaps until this weekend (Friday night), and then approach her. But, don't base the approach as a plea for reconciliation. Just base it on an approach for clarity. Set the sit on the phone, but, don't get into particulars on the phone. Do all that in person, so, you get what you deserve.
koriwhat
10-20-2010, 05:43 PM
dicky dicky dick
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 05:43 PM
Didn't really get a reason, to answer your question. She was very vague and evasive about it.
Not good, she's been sleeping around...possibly for a while now imo. Did she show any remorse or guilt?...not like it matters now anyways. Good luck brah. It's easy to say man-up and forget about her but that shit is painful.
www.the-lodge.com
The road to recovery starts there . . .
NRHector
10-20-2010, 05:48 PM
It seems like your fiance wasn't very faithful, if you didn't fuck around and were honest to her then you deserve something better everything happen for a reason. Don't let it bother you and move on to better women, I mean better horizons.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 05:51 PM
Seriously, I don't understand the leap to the assumption that she is cheating. Where does that emanate from?
Ashy Larry
10-20-2010, 05:51 PM
damn, sorry to hear that shit man ...... you can't handcuffs these women these days. Just when you slap a pair on them, they spit the damn key out from under their tongue and unlock themselves. Hopefully shit works out for you.
SI got the Mavs finishing second to the Spurs in the division and eliminated by either Portland or the Lakers; depending on the round.
Seriously, I don't understand the leap to the assumption that she is cheating. Where does that emanate from?
Being evasive/not giving an answer ... probably feeling too guilty to be honest tbh
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 05:57 PM
Seriously, I don't understand the leap to the assumption that she is cheating. Where does that emanate from?
If a girl (especially one you're engaged to) breaks off a relationship and is "vague and evasive" in her response to why, then she's more than likely hiding something. Sure, Fin's girl could've just been scared, but you usually don't see that till it's close to wedding time.
btw Fin...i hate to ask but when was the wedding supposed to be? If right around the corner, then it "might" be plausible she's just scared or had a change of heart. If it's in June, then go get checked for STDs tomorrow.
cheguevara
10-20-2010, 05:58 PM
Didn't really get a reason, to answer your question. She was very vague and evasive about it.
= found another man
cheguevara
10-20-2010, 05:58 PM
If a girl (especially one you're engaged to) breaks off a relationship and is "vague and evasive" in her response to why, then she's more than likely hiding something. Sure, Fin's girl could've just been scared, but you usually don't see that till it's close to wedding time.
:tu
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 06:01 PM
- "Women are the rake."
- "Worm" - "Rounders"
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 06:20 PM
Findog & Mono, I am down to play some ball. Mono, is UTD closer than the place we played last time? If not, there is that other court close to there I found that is a little nicer (skillman and mockingbird IIRC).
Cocaine
10-20-2010, 06:35 PM
Finger yourself if that makes you happy.
DazedAndConfused
10-20-2010, 06:50 PM
Sorry to hear that bro. Just went through a breakup myself a few months back, one that I initiated. The hurt is all the same, even when you know they ain't right for you.
If there's one thing you need to remember it's this. If you ever let a woman grab hold of you by the balls you are her bitch for life. It's not a good situation to be in my friend. In due time you will find another woman that actually DOES want to be with you and you'll look back and wonder how stupid you were pining over girls that didn't return your love.
Ashy Larry
10-20-2010, 06:51 PM
I think if trees had pussies, the world would be a better place .......
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 06:52 PM
Tell us the story, Dazed. It'll be therapeutic for Fin and us.
NASpurs
10-20-2010, 06:59 PM
If there's one thing you need to remember it's this. If you ever let a woman grab hold of you by the balls you are her bitch for life. It's not a good situation to be in my friend. In due time you will find another woman that actually DOES want to be with you and you'll look back and wonder how stupid you were pining over girls that didn't return your love.
The man speaks the truth.
The male sex has become such a pussy nowadays that you wonder who really is the female in the relationship. I've thought about this a lot and we've become the "bottom" of the relationship that if you're anything more than that, you're a chauvinist pig.
That's probably why women have become such huge whores as well.
Ashy Larry
10-20-2010, 07:08 PM
You may wear the pants in the family but that bitch surely is gonna pick the color.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 07:09 PM
Because most of you have been raised by females.
This couldn't be more right. I've for the most part snapped out of it, but being raised predominantly by my mom, and having a dad who was raised completely by his mom made it so I was more than a year removed from HS before figuring out how to deal with women.
"we're a generation of men raised by women ... I'm wondering if another woman is the answer we really need."
The Franchise
10-20-2010, 07:14 PM
This couldn't be more right. I've for the most part snapped out of it, but being raised predominantly by my mom, and having a dad who was raised completely by his mom made it so I was more than a year removed from HS before figuring out how to deal with women.
You're still the bitch. :p:
NASpurs
10-20-2010, 07:18 PM
Because most of you have been raised by females. We're a few generations away from men wearing the pants. Our fathers dropped the ball, and we're paying the price.
There's a lot of maybe accidental brainwashing by society that women are the weaker sex, treat them like princesses, never lay a hand on them ( I agree with this), etc etc. We are taught that at a young age that once when we grow up and deal with women, it's too late and some woman has us by the balls, ripped our heart out and leave us a shell of our former self.
Women have become raptors these past 30, 40 years and guys have become mice.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 07:23 PM
You're still the bitch. :p:
Says the dude with the anime avatar.
TheMACHINE
10-20-2010, 07:33 PM
Time to post some naked pictures of that bitch on the internet. You can start here.
MavDynasty
10-20-2010, 07:34 PM
lol anime
MiamiHeat
10-20-2010, 07:35 PM
Damn, that sucks Fin. Sorry to hear that.
Kind of weird that she didn't give you a reason...
She might just be scared or something. Why did she accept to marry you and be with you all this time, and then just leave without an explanation? Could also be that someone got in her ear. Maybe her family doesn't like you? or her friends?
If you want to move on, you might want to find out what happened
Ghazi
10-20-2010, 07:45 PM
54 wins, glorious run to the Finals before falling short to the Heat
We lose in 5, but get standing ovation on our home court as we leave it all on the floor.
Great fucking diversion :cry
ginobili's bald spot
10-20-2010, 07:50 PM
Not good, she's been sleeping around...possibly for a while now imo. Did she show any remorse or guilt?...not like it matters now anyways. Good luck brah. It's easy to say man-up and forget about her but that shit is painful.
+1 Sorry to say it but there is another dude. It sucks fin but its better you found out this bitches true colors now rather than later. Fuck her, you'll find someone better.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 08:10 PM
Because most of you have been raised by females. We're a few generations away from men wearing the pants. Our fathers dropped the ball, and we're paying the price.
Luva, in the vein of sports, or, societal issues, he is a true wonderment upon this earth.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 08:14 PM
great post, and as big as a hardass as i can be with guys, at times i'm guilty of being too soft when it comes to women. and it just recently came back to bite me in the ass. i'm not saying being, a douchebag or an asshole is the answer, i'm saying be polite but assertive and firm and don't take any bullshit.
Go ahead, Vulv, once upon-a-time.....
8FOR!3
10-20-2010, 08:23 PM
Is she taking her services to South Beach?
4>0rings
10-20-2010, 08:23 PM
Go ahead, Vulv, once upon-a-time.....Get your jollies off at a pedo site, not here.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 08:26 PM
I smell skunk.
Cocaine
10-20-2010, 08:31 PM
I smell skunk.
Did you wipe your ass?
IronMexican
10-20-2010, 08:31 PM
Sorry, Fin. You seemed pretty keen of her from your small talks aboot her.
Mavs miss playoffs.
lil_penny
10-20-2010, 08:39 PM
sorry to hear findog.. things will get better though, and yea a nice routine like some ball will help clear your mind imo
Jose Canseco
10-20-2010, 08:44 PM
Congratulations. In about a week and a half, I suggest buying a pretty funny Halloween costume and going to a nearby college campus and finding two drunk college girls to have a threesome with.
Damn dude sorry to hear that. I'm assuming no kids are involved so that's the bright side. Cut ties and be done.
Fpoonsie
10-20-2010, 09:06 PM
Aw, Fin, I'm sorry, man. Whatever the reason, this kinda thing's never easy.
And if she WAS unfaithful, all that happens now is she starts fucking around on THAT dude instead of you. That cheating habit's hard to break, and most never stop, so you're better off.
Still. Sucks.
NRHector
10-20-2010, 09:08 PM
time to post some naked pictures of that bitch on the internet. You can start here.+10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 0
when we grow up and deal with women, it's too late and some woman has us by the balls, ripped our heart out and leave us a shell of our former self.
Never let that happen. Problem with most guys is that they're so scared of losing a girl that they will succumb to being whipped. That's why you gotta make them 'chase' you. You gotta know how to pull the strings but not pull too much. Rarely ever text them first, short funny responses, and give em their space. Basically, act like you don't give a shit and they will be begging for the dick. Always works for me.
Sure, some girls will not play my mind games, and leave me but losing one girl bothers me about as much as gum at the bottom of the shoe. Other guys act like it's the end of the world.
Of course, this is totally different than Findog's situation which is a lot more serious. I wish you the best my friend.
Gutter92
10-20-2010, 09:14 PM
Never let that happen. Problem with most guys is that they're so scared of losing a girl that they will succumb to being whipped. That's why you gotta make them 'chase' you. You gotta know how to pull the strings but not pull too much. Rarely ever text them first, short funny responses, and give em their space. Basically, act like you don't give a shit and they will be begging for the dick. Always works for me.
Sure, some girls will not play my mind games, and leave me but losing one girl bothers me about as much as gum at the bottom of the shoe. Other guys act like it's the end of the world.
Of course, this is totally different than Findog's situation which is a lot more serious. I wish you the best my friend.
What if I just got my first text message from a girl. Should I try what you said, or should I be completely interested because I don't wanna go on a 18 year dry spell again?
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:15 PM
Seriously, BUMP, how can there be any trust or quality using your methods & protocol? Where is the love in your scenarios? How would recognize it if it were even there, BUMP?
NRHector
10-20-2010, 09:16 PM
What if I just got my first text message from a girl. Should I try what you said, or should I be completely interested because I don't wanna go on a 18 year dry spell again?18 yrs? damn :wow now you got issues there my friend
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 09:16 PM
Sucks to hear Finny, break ups are disgusting..also, even though it's cliche, the fact that she would leave you without even giving a reason looks really bad on her, you might be better off..
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:17 PM
the fact that she would leave you without even giving a reason looks really bad on her, you might be better off..
Har is accurate. It's reprehensible.
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 09:23 PM
Seriously, BUMP, how can there be any trust or quality using your methods & protocol? Where is the love in your scenarios? How would recognize it if it were even there, BUMP?
This isn't the 50's...What was once romance and "wooing" is now stalking.
Plus, you just don't wanna look desperate.
Seriously, BUMP, how can there be any trust or quality using your methods & protocol? Where is the love in your scenarios? How would recognize it if it were even there, BUMP?
Cubby, it's just to start off. You're not gonna fall in love with somebody you're first text messages lol. Then again, I'm not an expert in TRUE relationships. I feel like it's kind of a waste of time in college at the moment.
I've had a fling with a sorority girl for almost a whole year but we've never fully gone out, and we've messed around with other people and it doesn't bother us at all.
No heartbreak or drama, the way it's supposed to be.
MiamiHeat
10-20-2010, 09:27 PM
1) All women are crazy
2) Love them, but never take them seriously
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:29 PM
This isn't the 50's...What was once romance and "wooing" is now stalking.
I guess. I threw a snowball at Katie-girl 40 years ago because I wanted to meet her. It worked.
What if I just got my first text message from a girl. Should I try what you said, or should I be completely interested because I don't wanna go on a 18 year dry spell again?
If she texted you first, you're in a great position. She def. likes you. Just go with the flow. Don't text back anything crazy or serious shit. Just keep it light throw in a "haha" with your messages (works every time) then they will feel comfortable.
I see guys all the time act like creeps or freak girls out by telling them all your personal shit after you know them for like a day.
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 09:31 PM
I guess. I threw a snowball at Katie-girl 40 years ago because I wanted to meet her. It worked.
:lol
that would land you a couple days in the slammer with an assault charge now
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 09:32 PM
If she texted you first, you're in a great position. She def. likes you. Just go with the flow. Don't text back anything crazy or serious shit. Just keep it light throw in a "haha" with your messages (works every time) then they will feel comfortable.
I see guys all the time act like creeps or freak girls out by telling them all your personal shit after you know them for like a day.
Bump is wise
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:32 PM
1) All women are crazy
Yes. It's the menstrual thing that drives 'em.
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 09:34 PM
I'd like to hear Darrin's advice on this subject, TBH..
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 09:35 PM
I'd like to hear Darrin's advice on this subject, TBH..
I'd rather hear Aaron's, tbh.
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 09:36 PM
yeah above all else you can't let these girls dictate your life..really you should have had a "routine" and been hooping and doing things you enjoy all along..
I don't really understand guys that change their lives around, TBH..
I've been with my girl for almost 5 years now..we've gotten in a lot of fights due to me ditching her and not calling, or being late and whatever, but neither of us have actually "changed" any part of our "routines" or hobbies or whatever for the other..ya, sometimes you obviously have to do something you aren't interested in doing, but I do see a lot of people in relationships that neglect their boys or stop showing up to shit, just to be with their girl all the time..if you have to do that, your relationship is going to end badly at some point IMO, it's a given IMO..
I know 3-4 guys that stopped showing up to games/street in favor of a girl in the past year..
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:38 PM
What does she look like, Har? Is she proportionate?
Cubby, it's just to start off. You're not gonna fall in love with somebody you're first text messages lol. Then again, I'm not an expert in TRUE relationships. I feel like it's kind of a waste of time in college at the moment.
I've had a fling with a sorority girl for almost a whole year but we've never fully gone out, and we've messed around with other people and it doesn't bother us at all.
No heartbreak or drama, the way it's supposed to be.
Its actually how I met my wife. She's the one who stuck around while I BSed around. Its like a filter.
NRHector
10-20-2010, 09:39 PM
I don't really understand guys that change their lives around, TBH..
I've been with my girl for almost 5 years now..we've gotten in a lot of fights due to me ditching her and not calling, or being late and whatever, but neither of us have actually "changed" any part of our "routines" or hobbies or whatever for the other..if you have to do that, you're relationship is going to end badly at some point IMO, it's a given IMO..you sound like if you are married already, are you?
DAF86
10-20-2010, 09:40 PM
Best way to deal with a breakup is to don't isolate yourself. Get out of your house, go see your friends, do stuff and go out at night.
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 09:41 PM
you sound like if you are married already, are you?
Nope, we don't live together, it would probably break us up..
We're already in agreement that the next breakup is the last one..
benefactor
10-20-2010, 09:41 PM
Sucks to hear that bro. The right one is out there. Hell, if someone will put up with me for 9 years then there has to be someone for everyone.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:42 PM
Best way to deal with a breakup is to don't isolate yourself. Get out of your house, go see your friends, do stuff and go out at night.
DAF, the voice of reason & moderation in troubled times.
NRHector
10-20-2010, 09:42 PM
Nope, we don't live together, it would probably break us up..
We're already in agreement that the next breakup is the last one..great, keep it like that :toast
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 09:42 PM
What does she look like, Har? Is she proportionate?
She's a skunker, TBH..
Its actually how I met my wife. She's the one who stuck around while I BSed around. Its like a filter.
:lmao You sound exactly like a few of my friends who have their GF whipped.
I actually have no evidence of her messing around or vice versa, it's just neither of us ask or care. She's a stereotypical short blonde sorority girl who could get roofied every weekend if she wanted too.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:45 PM
She's a skunker, TBH..
:lol
HeatBurn305
10-20-2010, 09:46 PM
Met my lady over at the Chuckbox;:::::a little chloroform rag action was all it took....
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 09:47 PM
Lotta trolls viewing...
:lmao You sound exactly like a few of my friends who have their GF whipped.
I actually have no evidence of her messing around or vice versa, it's just neither of us ask or care. She's a stereotypical short blonde sorority girl who could get roofied every weekend if she wanted too.
Never take any woman serious. It should be the golden rule.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 09:49 PM
:lmao You sound exactly like a few of my friends who have their GF whipped.
That's what I'm trying to do with this girl I met recently. She's coming to my house on Saturday for a party and texted me to hang out tonight, I lied to her and said I was busy just so she's looking forward to Saturday that much more :lol
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:50 PM
The idea of a woman always trumps the actual woman.
That's what I'm trying to do with this girl I met recently. She's coming to my house on Saturday for a party and texted me to hang out tonight, I lied to her and said I was busy just so she's looking forward to Saturday that much more :lol
the goods :tu
NRHector
10-20-2010, 09:51 PM
That's what I'm trying to do with this girl I met recently. She's coming to my house on Saturday for a party and texted me to hang out tonight, I lied to her and said I was busy just so she's looking forward to Saturday that much more :lolyou got skills kid!!!!
:lol
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:53 PM
that's only if you put the pussy on a pedestal
Sadly, you're correct. But, the joy in the anticipation is still worth the disappointment at reality.
lakaluva's camel
10-20-2010, 09:53 PM
chloroform rag
I hate it when master uses that thing.....:depressed
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 09:54 PM
you got skills kid!!!!
:lol
Not really :lol, when you get rejected enough times because you're the one who sounds desperate texting the other one to hang out randomly, you learn your lesson.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 09:56 PM
The modern dating scene to Cully:
"You're out, and yer stayin' out"
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 09:58 PM
The modern dating scene to Cully:
"You're out, and yer stayin' out"
That's true. I do Internet relationships and once the "romance" is over the girls always want to be friends. I will not do it.
IronMexican
10-20-2010, 09:58 PM
That's what I'm trying to do with this girl I met recently. She's coming to my house on Saturday for a party and texted me to hang out tonight, I lied to her and said I was busy just so she's looking forward to Saturday that much more :lol
I don't get how people can do this. I jump on the first opportunity for pussy. And if a girl is gonna act dumb, I don't waste my time. Hit me up when you're ready to put out.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:01 PM
I don't get how people can do this. I jump on the first opportunity for pussy. And if a girl is gonna act dumb, I don't waste my time. Hit me up when you're ready to put out.
Well in this case, it's a girl I want to explore as a girlfriend possibility, so I'm thinking longterm. She loves watching football and she enjoys my vulgar sense of humor (when around most girls I have to censor myself), it's not a hit it & quit it situation.
Since I'm thinking girlfriend, I'm willing to put aside a short term hookup if it means I'll have her wrapped around my finger in the future.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:02 PM
She likes blatant racism and terrible arguments? What a keeper.
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 10:03 PM
She likes blatant racism and terrible arguments? What a keeper.
:lol:lol:lol
Well in this case, it's a girl I want to explore as a girlfriend possibility, so I'm thinking longterm. She loves watching football and she enjoys my vulgar sense of humor (when around most girls I have to censor myself), it's not a hit it & quit it situation.
Since I'm thinking girlfriend, I'm willing to put aside a short term hookup if it means I'll have her wrapped around my finger in the future.
tbh though, if you're thinking girlfriend possibility, I don't see why you wouldn't just hang out with her tonight if she asks? If you have nothing planned, there's no reason not to. If you make her wait til Saturday and the party somehow turns out bad, then that will be her first impression when hanging out with you and you might lose your chance right there.
IronMexican
10-20-2010, 10:04 PM
Well in this case, it's a girl I want to explore as a girlfriend possibility, so I'm thinking longterm. She loves watching football and she enjoys my vulgar sense of humor (when around most girls I have to censor myself), it's not a hit it & quit it situation.
Long term changes shit, brah.
And girls hate my sarcasm almost all the time. I stopped talking to this friend I had with benefits, cause she posted Lil' Wayne lyrics. It grossed me out and made me delete her from fb.
I don't get how people can do this. I jump on the first opportunity for pussy. And if a girl is gonna act dumb, I don't waste my time. Hit me up when you're ready to put out.
That works with sluts
IronMexican
10-20-2010, 10:04 PM
She likes blatant racism and terrible arguments? What a keeper.
:lol:lol
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:05 PM
She likes blatant racism and terrible arguments? What a keeper.
:lmao thinking how I act on ST is how I act in real life
JJ Hickson
10-20-2010, 10:05 PM
She likes blatant racism and terrible arguments? What a keeper.
tbh I bet those qualities are more attractive to females than pre pubescent girl voices.
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 10:06 PM
:lol Imagine if everybody here actually acted like they do on ST in real life:lol..
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:07 PM
tbh I bet those qualities are more attractive to females than pre pubescent girl voices.
:lmao Thinking the way I talk in real life is the way I talk in real life.
BUMP'S GF
10-20-2010, 10:07 PM
Please, honey, you've texted me 50 times in like the lats hour.
IronMexican
10-20-2010, 10:07 PM
:lol Imagine if everybody here actually acted like they do on ST in real life:lol..
I'm pretty much the same. Probably nicer and more sarcastic, if anything.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:07 PM
tbh though, if you're thinking girlfriend possibility, I don't see why you wouldn't just hang out with her tonight if she asks? If you have nothing planned, there's no reason not to. If you make her wait til Saturday and the party somehow turns out bad, then that will be her first impression when hanging out with you and you might lose your chance right there.
1) My parties never turn out bad :lol, this one is gonna have two kegs and a cooler of jungle juice.
2)You bring up a good point, but I now worry a lot about coming off as desperate so I do shit like this. If I lose out, oh well, but like you said, you can't over-worry about rejection.
BadOdor
10-20-2010, 10:07 PM
She likes blatant racism and terrible arguments? What a keeper.
Bro, don't be insulting my jewish brother.
Don't make me bring out that thread.
Don't make me.
Don't do it bro.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:09 PM
I am even taller in real life.
JJ Hickson
10-20-2010, 10:09 PM
:lmao Thinking the way I talk in real life is the way I talk in real life.
:lol
1) My parties never turn out bad :lol, this one is gonna have two kegs and a cooler of jungle juice.
2)You bring up a good point, but I now worry a lot about coming off as desperate so I do shit like this. If I lose out, oh well, but like you said, you can't over-worry about rejection.
Roll the dice and take the chance
1) My parties never turn out bad :lol, this one is gonna have two kegs and a cooler of jungle juice.
2)You bring up a good point, but I now worry a lot about coming off as desperate so I do shit like this. If I lose out, oh well, but like you said, you can't over-worry about rejection.
tbh, imho, fwiw, either way you'll be fine, especially if she asks you to hang out first. no biggie.
I wish Jacob1983 would stumble into this thread and share his words of wisdom
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:11 PM
Bro, don't be insulting my jewish brother.
Don't make me bring out that thread.
Don't make me.
Don't do it bro.
:lmao
BUMP.
10-20-2010, 10:12 PM
Please, honey, you've texted me 50 times in like the lats hour.
Dammit I told that bitch to leave my phone alone....
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:12 PM
:lmao
Don't give that a laugh. Seriously, bro?
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:13 PM
Don't give that a laugh. Seriously, bro?
I need to show my appreciation for the Jew Krew having my back tbh.
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 10:14 PM
Hebes stick together
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:15 PM
Hebes stick together
After Hitler, unimploded, left 6,000,000 of us dead in the ground, we have nary a choice.
Let us proceed....
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:17 PM
I wish Jacob1983 would stumble into this thread and share his words of wisdom
If your Jacob1983, just think about that thing Thomas Edison said about 2,000 ways not to make a lightbulb.
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 10:17 PM
After Hitler, unimploded, left 6,000,000 of us dead in the ground, we have nary a choice.
Let us proceed....
tee, hee
JJ Hickson
10-20-2010, 10:17 PM
It's a struggle for the Jewish people in these times. Need to stick together imo.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:17 PM
1) My parties never turn out bad :lol, this one is gonna have two kegs and a cooler of jungle juice.
"Are you going to have Hebrew"
- Lefty
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:19 PM
"Are you going to have Hebrew"
- Lefty
:lol You could go that route or something like this
Where do you get jungle juice.....the jungle? :lmao
Albert Haynesworth
10-20-2010, 10:21 PM
Doesn't DPG have more things to worry about?
Like not getting dunked on by Bump?
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:21 PM
lefty's jokes > yours, anyway
lol, yeah, he mad. You try so hard to say I'm not funny. It must kill you to see people laughing.
lol I will not be trolled by you.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:21 PM
"Are you going to have Hebrew"
- Lefty
And oddly enough the answer to this is yes, I put manischewitz wine in jungle juice when I make it.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:25 PM
And oddly enough the answer to this is yes, I put manischewitz wine in jungle juice when I make it.
What is that. You need to try this punch:
Vodka or Everclear + http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/3148RylMgQL._SL500_AA300_.jpg
Findog
10-20-2010, 10:26 PM
We began talking marriage about 3-4 months into the relationship. Level of passion was pretty even; some relationships are in trouble long-term if one person is way more into the other person and that is not recipocrated.
Her behavior had not changed recently, there was no pulling away. There was nothing to indicate that the relationship was in trouble. She told me repeatedly throughout the course of the rel'ship that it was the best rel'ship she had ever been in, I was everything she ever wanted in another man, she sat her parents down and told them she wanted to marry me and explained to them how I was different from all the other guys she'd been with, and her parents wanted to meet my parents for dinner. She was raised by her mom and stepfather, and I became the first guy she ever dated that she introduced to her biological father, who she has a very arms-length relationship with.
I've got an email from her two weeks before she broke it off where she says she had a great time with me over the weekend (it was pretty mundane by our standards) and I am an amazing man. I've got another email three days before where says "I was just thinking about you. Love u :)" etc. Two weeks before the breakup she tells me that one of her friends from her wild partying days that had met me told her that she had seen some of the losers she used to date, she was lucky to have me, and she told me that she agreed. She was not behaving like somebody who had mentally checked out and was looking for the exits.
Last Saturday morning she texts me and asks to come over. We had a wedding for a friend of hers to go to that night and I texted her back since it was 10 am in the morning and pointed out that we would have several hours to kill and wanted to know how she wanted to fill that time. She texts back that she'll be over soon and then we can talk. That got my radar up. I called her four times and she refuses to answer the phone.
She comes over, sits down on the couch and the first thing she says is that she can't love me the way she thinks I need to be loved and want to be loved. I tell her that I've always felt loved by her and I've never felt like I wasn't getting what I wanted or needed from her. She says she woke up this week with a funny feeling that something didn't feel quite right and I tell her that it sounds like jitters and cold feet, those are normal feelings, the thought of marriage is scary to me as well at times, and it doesn't necessarily mean our relationship is doomed.
She says she's never been in a relationship longer than a year, that this is what she does, she can't be in a relationship right now, she needs to be single. I point out that she has told me repeatedly that before she met me, she was lonely and single, and after we became a couple, she felt incredibly happy and loved. I asked her what had changed and if she still loved me. She said she still loves me, I'm everything she ever wanted in a man, but she can't get married, she can't be in a relationship, she has to be alone. She tells me she doesn't want to waste any more of my time, she doesn't want me to go to weddings I don't have to go to and don't want to go. (By way of background, we had four weddings for friends of hers this fall. We'd already been to one, Saturday was supposed to be the second, and I had never expressed resentment over having to go to the weddings. I told her that I loved just being with her and I didn't care what we were doing). The whole thing lasted about 15 minutes and then she says she can't stay any longer and she has to leave. That was last Saturday. We've both maintained radio silence since then.
I don't know if I should have done this or not, but there will be a bouquet of Gerber daises (her favorite) arriving at her apartment tomorrow with the message "I love you. I miss you. My heart aches for you. You're my Rushmore." When I woke up today I was overcome with feelings of powerlessness and helplessness, along with missing her terribly. I'm not going to call, text or email her, that's all I'm going to do for now. I figure if I have any shot at getting her back, I need to give her some space to figure out what she really wants and if she actually misses me. If I bombard her with texts, emails and calls, she'll just retreat even further. Plus I'm a real mess right now and need to gather myself before I interact with her at all.
So, as to the accusations of cheating, when you're in a relationship with the woman that you think you're going to marry, and everything seems to be going great, and then you get blindsided with a breakup that does not include a satisfactory explanation, yeah, your mind races and you consider every possible angle, including cheating. I can't rule it out. It's inconsistent with the person I've known her to be. And if that turned out to be the case, then that would be even more painful than this thing already is, and I'd have to walk away, since how can I expect her to be faithful in a marriage when she can't be faithful at this point of our rel'ship? I suspect cold feet and jitters (we hadn't set a date but we both kinda assumed anywhere from late 2011 to early 2013), but who knows? Nothing about what she did makes any sense.
Probably the only reason I haven't completely turned into a basketcase is that a small part of me harbors hope that we can reconcile, but I'm trying to stay grounded and prepare for the worst-case scenario that she won't come around.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:27 PM
What is that. You need to try this punch:
Vodka or Everclear + http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/3148RylMgQL._SL500_AA300_.jpg
My jungle juice recipe:
1 gallon of sunnyD
1 gallon of Hawaiian Punch
4 liters of sprite
2 pineapples
1 bottle of manischewitz wine
2 fifths of everclear
EDIT: didn't realize you were asking what manischewitz wine was:
http://thehardcoregourmet.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/maniwine.png?w=155&h=300
Albert Haynesworth
10-20-2010, 10:27 PM
DPG gonna have to talk to the ollllllll ball coach efter det one!
http://themixtapemonster.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/bball5.jpg?w=295&h=500
Findog
10-20-2010, 10:28 PM
Oh, and as to the pickup games, I can't make it tomorrow out to UTD mono, but I absolutely can do it starting probably a week or two from now. Last Thursday night, two days before she broke up with me, my dad drove home drunk and wrecked both my parent's cars. I just bought a car myself and am loaning that car to my mom while hers gets fixed so she can avoid having to shell out for a rental car. My dad's in a 30-day rehab place. So it will probably be a couple of weeks until everything returns to what you might call "normalcy" but I absolutely NEED a regular pickup game. I'm in crisis mode on two fronts right now.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 10:28 PM
So with that in mind, how much of a diversion will the Mavericks offer me this year? I see 47-52 wins and another first-round exit.
Imma keep it real wit ya Fin....I can tell ya why she left...
either 1.) you not laying the pipe properly...if you fucking her face 2 face you lose...they like to be hit from the back or long and deep stroked...you cant be no square either...lick that ass if you need to...choke her ass...
or 2.) you outta shape...the reason i work out so much and eat egg whites and oatmeal for breakfast is simple...abs...if you don't have em your girl will fuck you but she dont really want to ...don't matter how much you earn...or what kinda exciting bullshit you got going on...if either of you outta shape it wont last...period...
3.) she ran into a Koolaid type nigga...if you dont hang long enough she ain't sticking around...you gotta have at least 2 of the 3 sixes...:lol (take notes Vulva)
either 6 figures
6 feet tall or
6 inches
5 , 5 , 5 and you're fucked....:lol
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 10:32 PM
She'll regret it years from now, Fin, but, I just don't know if you could convince her of that in real time. She sounds decided.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:32 PM
1) If this is an elaborate Bump Classic, I will be astonished at your dedication.
2) If this is real, the only advice I can give is that nothing anyone will say will make a difference. There is a time period where you will feel terrible, because this is a terrible thing. Eventually, just like all things, it will pass.
My advice is don't use this as an excuse to shut down. Sure you are upset and sad, but the worst thing you can do is use the things that happen to you in life to become a colder person. Just keep the mindset that your goal is to find true love and that although somethings are going to hurt along the way, when you find it, none of this will matter.
Albert Haynesworth
10-20-2010, 10:32 PM
Imma keep it real wit ya Fin....I can tell ya why she left...
either 1.) you not laying the pipe properly...if you fucking her face 2 face you lose...they like to be hit from the back or long and deep stroked...you cant be no square either...lick that ass if you need to...choke her ass...
or 2.) you outta shape...the reason i work out so much and eat egg whites and oatmeal for breakfast is simple...abs...if you don't have em your girl will fuck you but she dont really want to ...don't matter how much you earn...or what kinda exciting bullshit you got going on...if either of you outta shape it wont last...period...
3.) she ran into a Koolaid type nigga...if you dont hang long enough she ain't sticking around...you gotta have at least 2 of the 3 sixes...:lol (take notes Vulva)
either 6 figures
6 feet tall or
6 inches
5 , 5 , 5 and you're fucked....:lol
Does it hurt being so dumb?
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 10:32 PM
We began talking marriage about 3-4 months into the relationship. Level of passion was pretty even; some relationships are in trouble long-term if one person is way more into the other person and that is not recipocrated.
Her behavior had not changed recently, there was no pulling away. There was nothing to indicate that the relationship was in trouble. She told me repeatedly throughout the course of the rel'ship that it was the best rel'ship she had ever been in, I was everything she ever wanted in another man, she sat her parents down and told them she wanted to marry me and explained to them how I was different from all the other guys she'd been with, and her parents wanted to meet my parents for dinner. She was raised by her mom and stepfather, and I became the first guy she ever dated that she introduced to her biological father, who she has a very arms-length relationship with.
I've got an email from her two weeks before she broke it off where she says she had a great time with me over the weekend (it was pretty mundane by our standards) and I am an amazing man. I've got another email three days before where says "I was just thinking about you. Love u :)" etc. Two weeks before the breakup she tells me that one of her friends from her wild partying days that had met me told her that she had seen some of the losers she used to date, she was lucky to have me, and she told me that she agreed. She was not behaving like somebody who had mentally checked out and was looking for the exits.
Last Saturday morning she texts me and asks to come over. We had a wedding for a friend of hers to go to that night and I texted her back since it was 10 am in the morning and pointed out that we would have several hours to kill and wanted to know how she wanted to fill that time. She texts back that she'll be over soon and then we can talk. That got my radar up. I called her four times and she refuses to answer the phone.
She comes over, sits down on the couch and the first thing she says is that she can't love me the way she thinks I need to be loved and want to be loved. I tell her that I've always felt loved by her and I've never felt like I was getting what I wanted or needed from her. She says she woke up this week with a funny feeling that something didn't feel quite right and I tell her that it sounds like jitters and cold feet, those are normal feelings, the thought of marriage is scary to me as well at times, and it doesn't necessarily mean our relationship is doomed.
She says she's never been in a relationship longer than a year, that this is what she does, she can't be in a relationship right now, she needs to be single. I point out that she has told me repeatedly that before she met me, she was lonely and single, and after we became a couple, she felt incredibly happy and loved. I asked her what had changed and if she still loved me. She said she still loves me, I'm everything she ever wanted in a man, but she can't get married, she can't be in a relationship, she has to be alone. She tells me she doesn't want to waste any more of my time, she doesn't want me to go to weddings I don't have to go to and don't want to go. (By way of background, we had four weddings for friends of hers this fall. We'd already been to one, Saturday was supposed to be the second, and I had never expressed resentment over having to go to the weddings. I told her that I loved just being with her and I didn't care what we were doing).
The whole thing lasted about 15 minutes and then she says she can't stay any longer and she has to leave. That was last Saturday. We've both maintained radio silence since then.
I don't know if I should have done this or not, but there will be a bouquet of Gerber daises (her favorite) arriving at her apartment tomorrow with the message "I love you. I miss you. My heart aches for you. You're my Rushmore." When I woke up today I was overcome with feelings of powerlessness and helplessness, along with missing her terribly. I'm not going to call, text or email her, that's all I'm going to do for now. I figure if I have any shot at getting her back, I need to give her some space to figure out what she really wants and if she actually misses me. If I bombard her with texts, emails and calls, she'll just retreat even further. Plus I'm a real mess right now and need to gather myself before I interact with her at all.
So, as to the accusations of cheating, when you're in a relationship with the woman that you think you're going to marry, and everything seems to be going great, and then you get blindsided with a breakup that does not include a satisfactory explanation, yeah, your mind races and you consider every possible angle, including cheating. I can't rule it out. It's inconsistent with the person I've known her to be. And if that turned out to be the case, then that would be even more painful than this thing already is, and I'd have to walk away, since how can I expect her to be faithful in a marriage when she can't be faithful at this point of our rel'ship?
I suspect cold feet and jitters (we hadn't set a date but we both kinda assumed anywhere from late 2011 to early 2013, but who knows?
Probably the only reason I haven't completely turned into a basketcase is that a small part of me harbors hope that we can reconcile, but I'm trying to stay grounded and prepare for the worst-case scenario that she won't come around.
I love that, great movie, good use. I hope it works out Fin
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 10:33 PM
that's the thing, i don't know the meaning of the word restraint and i don't care to. i'm balls to the wall when it comes to anything and i always speak my mind and say what i gotta say and do what i gotta do. sorry fin but like i said feel free to decline comment if you dont want to
see that's your problem...throw dem tiny lil family jewelz you possess at some real pussy instead of the wall...
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 10:33 PM
One of my boys was actually in your exact situation, Fin, based on the post you just made..
Sorry if I missed it before, how long had you been with the female?..
This story was very, very similar to what happened with my man..his girl at the time wasn't used to long-term relationships, it was new to her..she had the same comments about being "lonely" and whatever before she found him, and how her life was so much better with him..they were also pretty close to marriage as well..I really don't think she was cheating on him, she's a stand-up girl, he didn't believe she was either, even though every guy thinks of that scenario many times..
It turned out that she wanted to experience single life again, just to "wild out" and be free before making a decision..while that seems cliche in some cases, it was true here..they just separated for a little while, they both did their thing, and they actually ended up back together, and now they're married..
Findog
10-20-2010, 10:35 PM
1) If this is an elaborate Bump Classic, I will be astonished at your dedication.
2) If this is real, the only advice I can give is that nothing anyone will say will make a difference. There is a time period where you will feel terrible, because this is a terrible thing. Eventually, just like all things, it will pass.
My advice is don't use this as an excuse to shut down. Sure you are upset and sad, but the worst thing you can do is use the things that happen to you in life to become a colder person. Just keep the mindset that your goal is to find true love and that although somethings are going to hurt along the way, when you find it, none of this will matter.
It's real. And that's my goal, to not become hardened in the heart by this, but to move on after grieving in a constructive way.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:35 PM
My jungle juice recipe:
1 gallon of sunnyD
1 gallon of Hawaiian Punch
4 liters of sprite
2 pineapples
1 bottle of manischewitz wine
2 fifths of everclear
EDIT: didn't realize you were asking what manischewitz wine was:
http://thehardcoregourmet.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/maniwine.png?w=155&h=300
I know yours is probably a hit. Just make a little side one with what I told you. Those are the only two ingredients. Tell me what you think.
Venti Quattro
10-20-2010, 10:36 PM
Sorry to read about it brah. Wishing you all the best.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:36 PM
I know yours is probably a hit. Just make a little side one with what I told you. Those are the only two ingredients. Tell me what you think.
How much everclear should I mix with one carton of that stuff?
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:36 PM
It's real. And that's my goal, to not become hardened in the heart by this, but to move on after grieving in a constructive way.
That's all you can do.
Findog
10-20-2010, 10:36 PM
Sorry if I missed it before, how long had you been with the female?..
One year.
Venti Quattro
10-20-2010, 10:37 PM
When were you getting married?
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:38 PM
How much everclear should I mix with one carton of that stuff?
We just flavor it to taste. I don't have an exact measurement. Usually like 4 cartons to one bottle or something like that.
Findog
10-20-2010, 10:39 PM
When were you getting married?
No date was set, but we both had talked a lot about venue, and the thinking was late 2011 at the earliest, early 2013 at the latest.
NRHector
10-20-2010, 10:40 PM
keep yourself and mind busy and like you say don't call her or text her, if she comes back fine if not you'll be fine and there's always someone out there for you. Look at culby even him found someone
Like someone said earlier, go out and be with friends and remember that everyone goes through humbling times in their life that bring you to your knees. I've had moments like that.
Surprisingly just going out and playing sports has gotten me through A LOT in life.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 10:41 PM
Oh, and as to the pickup games, I can't make it tomorrow out to UTD mono, but I absolutely can do it starting probably a week or two from now. Last Thursday night, two days before she broke up with me, my dad drove home drunk and wrecked both my parent's cars. I just bought a car myself and am loaning that car to my mom while hers gets fixed so she can avoid having to shell out for a rental car. My dad's in a 30-day rehab place. So it will probably be a couple of weeks until everything returns to what you might call "normalcy" but I absolutely NEED a regular pickup game. I'm in crisis mode on two fronts right now.
findog...go to her and beg her to take you back...get on your fucking knees and cry..tell her how miserable you'll be without her...cry your fucking eyes out...shake uncontrollably and throw yourself to the ground...spit a slob at the mouth...tell her you no longer want to live...curl yourself up into a big ole ball and drink a bottle of Mad dog 20/20...
QAzs3kZ5T7Y
Venti Quattro
10-20-2010, 10:42 PM
Think about it as it could've been the best thing for you. You don't want these things to happen during marriage. It's going to be a bigger pile of shit if you're wed-locked and she acts like what she did.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 10:43 PM
and drink a bottle of Mad dog 20/20
Definitely do that, Fin.
tee, hee.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:43 PM
We just flavor it to taste. I don't have an exact measurement. Usually like 4 cartons to one bottle or something like that.
Hmmm sounds like something to try.
Tbh I might save it for another time since I'll be too fucked up to taste it :lol. My plan is to chug 3 four lokos before the game, sneak one into the game to drink during, and then go back to my house around 3 hours later to party :lol
ginobili's bald spot
10-20-2010, 10:43 PM
The flowers were a mistake man. From now on you need to cut off all contact with her. Whether you want to get her back or move on, cutting off all contact is the most effective thing you can do.
Fpoonsie
10-20-2010, 10:43 PM
The modern dating scene to Cully:
"You're out, and yer stayin' out"
I thought that was Darrin's break up speech...
Venti Quattro
10-20-2010, 10:44 PM
The flowers were a mistake man. From now on you need to cut off all contact with her. Whether you want to get her back or move on, cutting off all contact is the most effective thing you can do.
HarlemHeat37
10-20-2010, 10:45 PM
Playing sports is a cure for everything, TBH, 100% agree..
Playing ball makes me forget about EVERYTHING, no matter the severity of the issue..
NRHector
10-20-2010, 10:45 PM
wow hot thread!!!! 8 pages and counting
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 10:45 PM
Playing sports is a cure for everything, TBH, 100% agree..
Playing ball makes me forget about EVERYTHING, no matter the severity of the issue..
Our 16th withstanding.
tee, hee.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:46 PM
I can't believe yall drink that nasty stuff
Findog
10-20-2010, 10:46 PM
The flowers were a mistake man. From now on you need to cut off all contact with her. Whether you want to get her back or move on, cutting off all contact is the most effective thing you can do.
Too late now. Don't worry, I won't dig the hole any deeper. I'm just trying to explain, you develop a feeling of overwhelming powerless and helplessness. There's nothing else for me to do now in the short-term, so in a way it's liberating and I feel some peace, since I've now "left it all out on the floor" to borrow a basketball cliche.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 10:47 PM
Stick your finger down your throat, Fin. You'll gag, break a clean sweat and you'll feel much better.
dallasmavsnfuego214
10-20-2010, 10:47 PM
Wow, until this thread I always thought Findog was a Bump troll.
I'm pretty drunk right now, so tkae what I say with a grain of salt but take it lightly and give her about 2 weeks to come to her senses. if nothigng than just forget about it and just let life go on. It's hard to deal with, but life goes on brotha,
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 10:47 PM
6'2
10 inches
don't earn 6 figures yet, still in college
go to sleep hoe
so you didn't earn 6 figs when you sold that yayo...:lol
:lol using college as an excuse...and if you holding a 10 inch peter and your girl getting out tha car with other niggas causing you to wanna fight the guy thats fucking yo gal then you just a bad fuck homie...:rollin
just ask her:rollin
Findog
10-20-2010, 10:47 PM
I can't believe yall drink that nasty stuff
No self-medicating for me. I love pot, but even when I'm happy and in a good mood, it makes me way too introspective. I couldn't handle it right now. As for booze, it just intensifies whatever mood or feeling you're having.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:47 PM
I can't believe yall drink that nasty stuff
dude it's the perfect shit to drink before a sporting event. It's enough alcohol to get you drunk but the caffeine gets you AMPED. Between that stuff and the aderall ima take with it I might get ejected heckling Jake Locker.
NRHector
10-20-2010, 10:48 PM
Too late now. Don't worry, I won't dig the hole any deeper. I'm just trying to explain, you develop a feeling of overwhelming powerless and helplessness. There's nothing else for me to do now in the short-term, so in a way it's liberating and I feel some peace, since I've now "left it all out on the floor" to borrow a basketball cliche.hey man you did your part
daslicer
10-20-2010, 10:49 PM
Like some posters have mentioned that if she's vague about why she left it probably means that she cheated on you. Everybody is different and honestly there is no magic bullet that works for everybody to get over this type of situation. Not trying to poke fun at this but its like that scene from goodwill hunting when Sean tells Will "Its not your fault its not your fault." Basically you need to stop blaming yourself for this and be strong enough to accept that there is nothing you could have done that would have changed the outcome. At the end of the day the only love that is guaranteed in this world is self love so respect yourself and stop pursuing this girl because she obviously doesn't respect you.
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 10:49 PM
I hate that type of stuff: Red Bull/Vodka, Bull Blasters....Stuff is nasty to me.
Why not just drink liquor with soda?
dude it's the perfect shit to drink before a sporting event. It's enough alcohol to get you drunk but the caffeine gets you AMPED. Between that stuff and the aderall ima take with it I might get ejected heckling Jake Locker.
you ever drink Joose? Try chugging one of those before you play basketball. Surprisingly really effective :wow
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 10:50 PM
No self-medicating for me. I love pot, but even when I'm happy and in a good mood, it makes me way too introspective. I couldn't handle it right now. As for booze, it just intensifies whatever mood or feeling you're having.
also explain to her that over 20,000 posts on ST is just a typo....:lol
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:51 PM
Tbh now that I think about it I'm going to the game with the girl I'm trying to get with (and some other people), if she sees me with 3 4lokos and 40mgs of aderall in my system, shit'll hit the fan.
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 10:52 PM
also explain to her that over 20,000 posts on ST is just a typo....:lol
Kool, gettin' his Rickles on.:lol
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 10:52 PM
yeah i earned 6 figures back then, i've seen more money go threw my hands and blown more than you ever will. but i'm talking about now. i don't do those things anymore
so where did you learn 2 fight so good...choking yo chicken out made you a bad ass huh...:lol
Latarian Milton
10-20-2010, 10:53 PM
its no use to mourn what u already lost tbh. dawg, your still the most beloved dude on the mavs krew tbh.
DeadlyDynasty
10-20-2010, 10:53 PM
Too late now. Don't worry, I won't dig the hole any deeper. I'm just trying to explain, you develop a feeling of overwhelming powerless and helplessness. There's nothing else for me to do now in the short-term, so in a way it's liberating and I feel some peace, since I've now "left it all out on the floor" to borrow a basketball cliche.
Good. Total radio silence. If she happens to text you I wouldn't respond, same with emails. Make her call you or see you in person if she ends up wanting you back.
sounds like a great way to twist an ankle
nah bruh
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 10:56 PM
Good. Total radio silence. If she happens to text you I wouldn't respond, same with emails. Make her call you or see you in person if she ends up wanting you back.
Christ, it's like that leg sweep video by Wreck. My heart is pounding thinking of the wait above.
Imma keep it real wit ya Fin....I can tell ya why she left...
either 1.) you not laying the pipe properly...if you fucking her face 2 face you lose...they like to be hit from the back or long and deep stroked...you cant be no square either...lick that ass if you need to...choke her ass...
or 2.) you outta shape...the reason i work out so much and eat egg whites and oatmeal for breakfast is simple...abs...if you don't have em your girl will fuck you but she dont really want to ...don't matter how much you earn...or what kinda exciting bullshit you got going on...if either of you outta shape it wont last...period...
3.) she ran into a Koolaid type nigga...if you dont hang long enough she ain't sticking around...you gotta have at least 2 of the 3 sixes...:lol (take notes Vulva)
either 6 figures
6 feet tall or
6 inches
5 , 5 , 5 and you're fucked....:lol
Proof Kool is a virgin.
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:56 PM
you ever drink Joose? Try chugging one of those before you play basketball. Surprisingly really effective :wow
TBh I play football every week, what do you think the effects would be for football?
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 10:56 PM
life experience/boxing/training
you actually boxed your chicken?
drinking = lessened sense of balance = twisting your ankle
that's what they want you to believe
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 10:57 PM
life experience/boxing/training/ratting
:lmao
DUNCANownsKOBE2
10-20-2010, 10:57 PM
drinking = lessened sense of balance = twisting your ankle
True, but drunk also loosens your muscles up and could lead to a better stroke. It's like beer pong when everyone is better a few beers in rather than completely sober.
Latarian Milton
10-20-2010, 10:58 PM
you all should be celibates tbh. as hardworking as findog is, he has little spare time in his daily life and even when he gets some, he'll spent it balling with picklebreaths. your destined to be celibate just like me, findog.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 10:58 PM
Proof Kool is a virgin.
at being gay all day...
there's your completed sentenced...:rollin
just make sure you put on your low tops
nigga, i don told you 1 Joose is not gonna turn you into a stumbling buffoon
Ignignokt
10-20-2010, 10:59 PM
i would have offered her an open line of booty calls.. Then i would conspire to have her have the best nut ever. tbh
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 10:59 PM
you all should be celibates tbh. as hardworking as findog is, he has little spare time in his daily life and even when he gets some, he'll spent it balling with picklebreaths. your destined to be celibate just like me, findog.
Me too, by default.
Fpoonsie
10-20-2010, 11:00 PM
"I love you. I miss you. My heart aches for you. You're my Rushmore."
...with the goods.
I'm really sorry Findog. I don't know you at all but hopefully you won't mind some advice.
Don't drink and don't smoke. No matter what anyone tells you it will all make you feel worse. The absolute best thing you can do is workout and treat yourself well. Use all that energy and pain and turn it into some productive so that when you are ready to head back out there you will be in your top shape. Even if you don't want to be with anyone else the natural endorphins will pull you out of this sooner than alcohol will.
Also, don't talk to her, you will regret it. What she did was wrong. Leaving you sucked but is ok compared to the fact that she didn't even give you a reason for leaving. That is complete bullshit and shows just how weak of a person she is. Women and people like that deserved to be shit on then forgotten.
Perk up man and you will be fine. If you need to talk to a stranger you can send me a message on this thing.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:01 PM
finny ole boy...did you get the ring back...
TBh I play football every week, what do you think the effects would be for football?
tbh, you feel like a sprinter who just got out of his stance on offense. really weird
NRHector
10-20-2010, 11:02 PM
come on trolls have some respect for Findog
DPG21920
10-20-2010, 11:03 PM
tbh, you feel like a sprinter who just got out of his stance on offense. really weird
Does it give you the power to dunk over Joe Pesci?
Findog
10-20-2010, 11:03 PM
Also, don't talk to her, you will regret it. What she did was wrong. Leaving you sucked but is ok compared to the fact that she didn't even give you a reason for leaving. That is complete bullshit and shows just how weak of a person she is. Women and people like that deserved to be shit on then forgotten.
.
That's what I don't get it. Even if there was some other reason, can't you go with the catchall "I don't love you anymore and I've been drifting apart and I think we're too different blah blah blah"...?
Does it give you the power to dunk over Joe Pesci?
if we're playing on a 9 foot rim, then yeah :tu
Oh, Gee!!
10-20-2010, 11:05 PM
So with that in mind, how much of a diversion will the Mavericks offer me this year? I see 47-52 wins and another first-round exit.
it's no wonder she left. you're a loser and so is your german boyfriend, dirk.
at being gay all day...
there's your completed sentenced...:rollin
In a thread which everyone offered some advice or shared a story. You come in and described what you think your idea man should be (3 sixes)...
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:06 PM
finny ole boy how come you didn't call Joey Greco...I mean you live in Dallas right...
You could learn a lesson from this old school G...
9HVr8qbRfsE
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:08 PM
In a thread which everyone offered some advice or shared a story. You come in and described what you think your idea man should be (3 sixes)...
I offered great advice...lay the pipe right, stay in shape, and avoid niggas like Kool...pretty simple...:toast
That's what I don't get it. Even if there was some other reason, can't you go with the catchall "I don't love you anymore and I've been drifting apart and I think we're too different blah blah blah"...?
That ain't how the shit works.
Frankly, if you leave her alone, I'd bet that she'll come crawling back to you within a couple of weeks. Sometimes, chicks have mental breakdowns and pull the whole "I need to be single for a while" bit. Once they have some distance, and return back to reality, they realize that they made a mistake.
I don't want to fill you with false hope; I don't know her or crap like that. I'm just speaking from experience ...
That's what I don't get it. Even if there was some other reason, can't you go with the catchall "I don't love you anymore and I've been drifting apart and I think we're too different blah blah blah"...?
I just read your long post a few pages back... it really seems like she started having feelings for someone else, probably her ex. Or at least some of those feelings resurfaced and she freaked out. That shit is natural though. Even when I see ex's who I could care less if they were dead, when I see them again I'm always flushed with old emotions.
Anyway, again I'm sorry man. Just remember that no matter how bad you have it, someone else has it worse. Hell, I was engaged once and I lost her to leukemia. Now that shit never goes away.
Latarian Milton
10-20-2010, 11:10 PM
it's no wonder she left. you're a loser and so is your german boyfriend, dirk.
being celibate doesn't make one a loser tbh. it's just the way we choose to live and we're happy with such life. findog just wrongfully challenged his fate by making love with a woman. God makes him a celibate and surely God must win.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:11 PM
come on trolls have some respect for Findog
ok this one is just fucking hilarious...prolly vulva
UMH-JV8IOWU
NRHector
10-20-2010, 11:11 PM
If there's any woman reading this thread, what is your input about Fin's situation?
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:14 PM
If there's any woman reading this thread, what is your input about Fin's situation?
you need some answers bad don't ya....:lmao you gonna be next watch ya back...Hector....:lmao
Latarian Milton
10-20-2010, 11:15 PM
That ain't how the shit works.
Frankly, if you leave her alone, I'd bet that she'll come crawling back to you within a couple of weeks. Sometimes, chicks have mental breakdowns and pull the whole "I need to be single for a while" bit. Once they have some distance, and return back to reality, they realize that they made a mistake.
I don't want to fill you with false hope; I don't know her or crap like that. I'm just speaking from experience ...
he should have never got close to her in the first place. findog is made to be a celibate but it seems he didn't know it before. guys like findog are just too smart to get themselves stuck in a relationship/marriage tbh.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:16 PM
being celibate doesn't make one a loser tbh. it's just the way we choose to live and we're happy with such life. findog just wrongfully challenged his fate by making love with a woman. God makes him a celibate and surely God must win.
:lol yeah those women are filthy creatures I tell ya...just filthy....:lmao
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 11:16 PM
Certainly puts O & Forever and The Skunker into proper perspective, eh?
Findog
10-20-2010, 11:17 PM
I just read your long post a few pages back... it really seems like she started having feelings for someone else, probably her ex. Or at least some of those feelings resurfaced and she freaked out. That shit is natural though. Even when I see ex's who I could care less if they were dead, when I see them again I'm always flushed with old emotions.
About 6 weeks ago, 2 months ago, she tells me the last guy she had a serious rel'ship with, they broke up 2 years before we met, (a guy she dogged whenever she mentioned him, but it's not like she always brought him up, when we would talk about past experiences with exes she would compare me favorably to him) emailed her wanting to get back together, and she emailed him back and said she was with me now and too bad, so sad. Then she says that she's had guys tell her they loved her before, that they would marry her before, and nothing lasted beyond a year, and she wanted to know if I was serious. And I assured her that I was, and she says "Good. I hate him. You're the one I want to be with."
I don't like the idea of her talking to exes at all, but the way it was presented, he contacted her, not the other way around, and based on her account, there was nothing to really be mad at her for. I would have preferred she just ignore him, but emailing him to tell him that he she was involved with somebody else could be interpreted as a courtesy. And if you were going to cheat on me, why would you even mention that you were talking to exes? The way our rel'ship was going, I would be none the wiser if she simply kept her mouth shut, and she didn't have much physical opportunity to do so, since we were together every Friday-Sunday and then another night during the week.
I'm not ruling it out, of course, but it doesn't seem likely either.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:21 PM
About 6 weeks ago, 2 months ago, she tells me the last guy she had a serious rel'ship with, they broke up 2 years before we met, (a guy she dogged whenever she mentioned him, but it's not like she always brought him up, when we would talk about past experiences with exes she would compare me favorably to him) emailed her wanting to get back together, and she emailed him back and said she was with me now and too bad, so sad. Then she says that she's had guys tell her they loved her before, that they would marry her before, and nothing lasted beyond a year, and she wanted to know if I was serious. And I assured her that I was, and she says "Good. I hate him. You're the one I want to be with."
I don't like the idea of her talking to exes at all, but the way it was presented, he contacted her, not the other way around, and based on her account, there was nothing to really be mad at her for. I would have preferred she just ignore him, but emailing him to tell him that he she was involved with somebody else could be interpreted as a courtesy.
I just can't believe Joey Greco lives in your backyard and you didn't call him...real story is you were being cuckholded by your girl and her ex...and you liked it...problem is she did too and that ex dick hit a switch and now ole finny boy is history :lol....
Giuseppe
10-20-2010, 11:22 PM
She sounds shallow and a little crass, Fin. She should never speak of her other relationships with you. Ever. It's in terrible taste to do so and reveals her inner being.
Findog
10-20-2010, 11:23 PM
I just can't believe Joey Greco lives in your backyard and you didn't call him...real story is you were being cuckholded by your girl and her ex...and you liked it...problem is she did too and that ex dick hit a switch and now ole finny boy is history :lol....
:lol maybe so, maybe so :lol
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:24 PM
:lol maybe so, maybe so :lol
and there it is folks leave it to Kool to crack the code everytime...I'm a fucking modern day Einstein...:lol
ElNono
10-20-2010, 11:25 PM
Sorry to hear that Fin.
I went through a relationship like that (not as close to marriage, but severe mood swing like that, no explanations, sometimes the 'I need time on my own' BS, severe broken heart, borderline-paranoia, etc.)
When I look back at it, I'm grateful that after the ensuing pain and recovery things didn't work out. It was a learning experience and an eye opener.
My advice, stay far... far away from women like that.
My next serious relationship was a couple of years after that one, and I met a much 'simpler' person (in terms of mood swings/personal complexity), whom I made clear from the get go that communication was priority number one. If she couldn't tell me how she felt, and she kept piling shit inside, then eventually it would all come out one day and we'll be screwed by then. We built a pretty solid relationship around that, and after dating for a little over a year, we moved together. We married shortly afterwards.
I have 5 years being married (anniversary this coming Saturday), and to be honest I'm probably the happiest married man alive. Wouldn't have it any other way really. But I also understand that I found the closest thing to what I wanted/needed, and that we're 100% honest to each other. We don't hold anything back. And that's what works great for us.
Ultimately, if she feels like she can dump you but she can't look at you straight in the eyes and tell you what she really thinks or how she really feels, then that's a mammoth warning light. Stay away. I understand the pain that goes through you, and I would say: try to keep distracted. Go play some basketball, keep your mind busy at work, and let time heal you. You will come out of this with a lot better idea of what you want from a relationship, and specifically what you absolutely do not want. And I'm sure someday you'll cross roads with your match. Really wish you the best bro, because I know how painful this can be. But there's always a light at the end of the tunnel.
About 6 weeks ago, 2 months ago, she tells me the last guy she had a serious rel'ship with, they broke up 2 years before we met, (a guy she dogged whenever she mentioned him, but it's not like she always brought him up, when we would talk about past experiences with exes she would compare me favorably to him) emailed her wanting to get back together, and she emailed him back and said she was with me now and too bad, so sad. Then she says that she's had guys tell her they loved her before, that they would marry her before, and nothing lasted beyond a year, and she wanted to know if I was serious. And I assured her that I was, and she says "Good. I hate him. You're the one I want to be with."
I don't like the idea of her talking to exes at all, but the way it was presented, he contacted her, not the other way around, and based on her account, there was nothing to really be mad at her for. I would have preferred she just ignore him, but emailing him to tell him that he she was involved with somebody else could be interpreted as a courtesy. And if you were going to cheat on me, why would you even mention that you were talking to exes? The way our rel'ship was going, I would be none the wiser if she simply kept her mouth shut, and she didn't have much physical opportunity to do so, since we were together every Friday-Sunday and then another night during the week.
I'm not ruling it out, of course, but it doesn't seem likely either.
That's the thing though is why would she even bother telling you? The only time I or my gf make a reference to an ex is when it has to do with a story. Apparently the same thing happened to my gf (ex called her up and wanted her back) and she didn't tell me because it was of no matter to either of us. Obviously she said fuck no and that was that.
Remember that women are rarely straight forward and can't help but to play mind games. They can't keep secrets so you know what's on their mind by what they talk about. If it's anything about ex's, they are thinking about ex's. It doesn't matter if it is good or bad. The reason why men have such a bad rep is that we can keep secrets very well and very easily. We rarely talk about what is going on in our head.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:28 PM
Sorry to hear that Fin.
I went through a relationship like that (not as close to marriage, but severe mood swing like that, no explanations, sometimes the 'I need time on my own' BS, severe broken heart, borderline-paranoia, etc.)
When I look back at it, I'm grateful that after the ensuing pain and recovery things didn't work out. It was a learning experience and an eye opener.
My advice, stay far... far away from women like that.
My next serious relationship was a couple of years after that one, and I met a much 'simpler' person (in terms of mood swings/personal complexity), whom I made clear from the get go that communication was priority number one. If she couldn't tell me how she felt, and she kept piling shit inside, then eventually it would all come out one day and we'll be screwed by then. We built a pretty solid relationship around that, and after dating for a little over a year, we moved together. We married shortly afterwards.
I have 5 years being married (anniversary this coming Saturday), and to be honest I'm probably the happiest married man alive. Wouldn't have it any other way really. But I also understand that I found the closest thing to what I wanted/needed, and that we're 100% honest to each other. We don't hold anything back. And that's what works great for us.
Ultimately, if she feels like she can dump you but she can't look at you straight in the eyes and tell you what she really thinks or how she really feels, then that's a mammoth warning light. Stay away. I understand the pain that goes through you, and I would say: try to keep distracted. Go play some basketball, keep your mind busy at work, and let time heal you. You will come out of this with a lot better idea of what you want from a relationship, and specifically what you absolutely do not want. And I'm sure someday you'll cross roads with your match. Really wish you the best bro, because I know how painful this can be. But there's always a light at the end of the tunnel.
:lol you cats are fucking hilarious with these long as love stories...like Luva said...dudes being raised by women are weak...
NRHector
10-20-2010, 11:28 PM
Sorry to hear that Fin.
I went through a relationship like that (not as close to marriage, but severe mood swing like that, no explanations, sometimes the 'I need time on my own' BS, severe broken heart, borderline-paranoia, etc.)
When I look back at it, I'm grateful that after the ensuing pain and recovery things didn't work out. It was a learning experience and an eye opener.
My advice, stay far... far away from women like that.
My next serious relationship was a couple of years after that one, and I met a much 'simpler' person (in terms of mood swings/personal complexity), whom I made clear from the get go that communication was priority number one. If she couldn't tell me how she felt, and she kept piling shit inside, then eventually it would all come out one day and we'll be screwed by then. We built a pretty solid relationship around that, and after dating for a little over a year, we moved together. We married shortly afterwards.
I have 5 years being married (anniversary this coming Saturday), and to be honest I'm probably the happiest married man alive. Wouldn't have it any other way really. But I also understand that I found the closest thing to what I wanted/needed, and that we're 100% honest to each other. We don't hold anything back. And that's what works great for us.
Ultimately, if she feels like she can dump you but she can't look at you straight in the eyes and tell you what she really thinks or how she really feels, then that's a mammoth warning light. Stay away. I understand the pain that goes through you, and I would say: try to keep distracted. Go play some basketball, keep your mind busy at work, and let time heal you. You will come out of this with a lot better idea of what you want from a relationship, and specifically what you absolutely do not want. And I'm sure someday you'll cross roads with your match. Really wish you the best bro, because I know how painful this can be. But there's always a light at the end of the tunnel.Dr. Love? :lol
Latarian Milton
10-20-2010, 11:28 PM
About 6 weeks ago, 2 months ago, she tells me the last guy she had a serious rel'ship with, they broke up 2 years before we met, (a guy she dogged whenever she mentioned him, but it's not like she always brought him up, when we would talk about past experiences with exes she would compare me favorably to him) emailed her wanting to get back together, and she emailed him back and said she was with me now and too bad, so sad. Then she says that she's had guys tell her they loved her before, that they would marry her before, and nothing lasted beyond a year, and she wanted to know if I was serious. And I assured her that I was, and she says "Good. I hate him. You're the one I want to be with."
I don't like the idea of her talking to exes at all, but the way it was presented, he contacted her, not the other way around, and based on her account, there was nothing to really be mad at her for. I would have preferred she just ignore him, but emailing him to tell him that he she was involved with somebody else could be interpreted as a courtesy. And if you were going to cheat on me, why would you even mention that you were talking to exes? The way our rel'ship was going, I would be none the wiser if she simply kept her mouth shut, and she didn't have much physical opportunity to do so, since we were together every Friday-Sunday and then another night during the week.
I'm not ruling it out, of course, but it doesn't seem likely either.
sounds like she treated you as a puppet. you were only used as a method of revenge against her ex-bf, and it's sure enough that she didnt love you as much as you think. she also treated her other ex-bfs this way i assume. she has no love at all, it's always the internal resentment that drives her to stay with a man, who she doesn't love at all. she lost all her love in her first relationship and surely she got hurt badly. the hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, tbh.
Latarian Milton
10-20-2010, 11:29 PM
is romance still so pivotal for a 32yr old man?
I'm not trying to convince you that she cheated on you. I feel kind of bad looking at what I wrote. Just that there were multiple warning signs of what type of girl this is. ElNono made a great post above. Ask him how often his wife mentioned an ex and I'll bet it will be close to never.
The sad thing about all this is that it seems like when us guys finally figure all this BS out, we settle down and don't put it to good use lol. All my buddies are finally tying the knot and I'm one of the last few holding out lol.
ElNono
10-20-2010, 11:33 PM
:lol you cats are fucking hilarious with these long as love stories...like Luva said...dudes being raised by women are weak...
Dr. Love? :lol
I'm trying to encourage the guy from my personal experience.
Y'all can keep singing the 'broads' and the 'bitches' tunes, that's fine by me. I have no problem telling anybody that wants to hear it that I'm a happily married man.
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:35 PM
Mrs Kori Ellis I see you reading this thread...when are you gonna let Kool get into your good graces...I know you may not believe me when I type this but I love you. I love you for many reasons and they're valid...tbh I wanted to be the first on ST to say that but seriously for providing this medium for us I do...I do love you and I'm not ashamed to say it. ;-)
Koolaid_Man
10-20-2010, 11:36 PM
I'm trying to encourage the guy from my personal experience.
Y'all can keep singing the 'broads' and the 'bitches' tunes, that's fine by me. I have no problem telling anybody that wants to hear it that I'm a happily married man.
that's cool man...I'm not hating on that...good luck to you and your wife...I'm just saying old fin is a nasty cuckhold...he don't want no real advice he just don't wanna come clean about how he likes to watch...it backfired on him and now he's out and staying out. :lol
Ignignokt
10-20-2010, 11:37 PM
Mrs Kori Ellis I see you reading this thread...when are you gonna let Kool get into your good graces...I know you may not believe me when I type this but I love you. I love you for many reasons and they're valid...tbh I wanted to be the first on ST to say that but seriously for providing this medium for us I do...I do love you and I'm not ashamed to say it. ;-)
six inches :lmao
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