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Cyrano
12-24-2010, 06:26 PM
My mom just died this morning. I spoke with her just yesterday, and she seemed well and happy, and we were planning my next visit after the new year.
A close family friend dropped by her house this morning, and found her.

PM5K
12-24-2010, 06:56 PM
Did she get you a present? Did you get her one?

LnGrrrR
12-24-2010, 06:58 PM
My mom just died this morning. I spoke with her just yesterday, and she seemed well and happy, and we were planning my next visit after the new year.
A close family friend dropped by her house this morning, and found her.

That sucks man. How old was she? Hopefully your family can come together.

DeadlyDynasty
12-24-2010, 07:03 PM
I'm very sorry to hear this, hope you're with the rest of your family right now. My condolences to you and yours.

SourCandy
12-24-2010, 07:16 PM
That's horrible. I'm sorry for your loss.

TE
12-24-2010, 07:26 PM
That's horrible, I'm sorry for your lost.


Condolences

HighLowLobForBig-50
12-24-2010, 07:27 PM
oh man. so sad. i'll be praying for you

ashbeeigh
12-24-2010, 07:28 PM
Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, Cyrano.

Sisk
12-24-2010, 07:31 PM
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Been through a very similar situation. Mourn the loss and then live your life like she'd want you to.

JayTheClown
12-24-2010, 09:11 PM
My mom just died this morning. I spoke with her just yesterday, and she seemed well and happy, and we were planning my next visit after the new year.
A close family friend dropped by her house this morning, and found her.

Be strong my friend. This sadness your feeling will pass. God bless you and your family.

MavDynasty
12-24-2010, 09:21 PM
Bro that sucks, sorry for your loss RIP

Condolences

silverblk mystix
12-24-2010, 09:27 PM
Sorry for your loss.

Mojo to your family.

cherylsteele
12-24-2010, 09:30 PM
My condolences.

Sp Ginobili 20
12-24-2010, 10:44 PM
Sorry for your loss, Cyrano. My prayers are with you and your family.

Vinnie_Johnson
12-25-2010, 12:55 AM
Oh Man! Sorry for your loss very sad.

BlackSwordsMan
12-25-2010, 01:14 AM
shitty

marini martini
12-25-2010, 01:24 AM
So sad for you, Cyrano.

Prayers for you and your family!

blizz
12-25-2010, 01:33 AM
I'm sorry man, condolences.

janetcn12
12-25-2010, 02:37 AM
That's terrible. My prayers are with you and your family during this trying times

Buddy Holly
12-25-2010, 02:52 AM
Damn that's horrible. I really feel for you man...especially if your mom and you were really close. My mom and I were really close until 2 years ago on Christmas Eve 2008 when she got in an accident and met her boyfriend she's been with ever since at some auto sales shop. Ever since then my mom and I have been disjointed from each other since she spends the vast majority of her time she's not at work fucking him.

Hey asshole troll. GTFO.

Buddy Holly
12-25-2010, 02:52 AM
My condolences Cy.

Avitus1
12-25-2010, 03:30 AM
Sorry to hear it. I can only offer my condolences and prayers to you and your family.

Jason R
12-25-2010, 04:03 AM
If you ever need to talk you're not alone. I lost my grandma at Christmas and she was a mother to me. Raise me and loved me. Things are tough, but you're never alone.

Cyrano
12-25-2010, 04:21 AM
Thanks, everyone. Mom was 88, and had been living alone since my dad passed three years ago. Yes, we were close, and spoke on the phone just about every day. I last spoke to her Thursday evening, and she sounded well and happy. We were planning for me to visit next month, and my sister and son were planning to be there at the same time.
The toughest thing so far has been notifying the rest of the family. My sister is on her way there now, and we'll make further arrangements tomorrow.

v2freak
12-25-2010, 04:30 AM
I'm so sorry, sir. God bless.

PM5K
12-26-2010, 12:38 PM
That might have seemed like a crass question to ask but I was genuinely curious. The reason is, let's say for example she did get your kids presents (her grandkids) would you let them have them or would you be too worried they'd mess them up, being that they are the last gifts she'd ever give them? Did you get her anything? Kinda crazy that she'll never get to see it, what was it?

ploto
12-26-2010, 02:12 PM
So sorry for your loss. May she RIP.

u4lakers14
12-26-2010, 04:04 PM
so sorry.

god bless you and your family to have the strength to go on.

hang in there for those that need you.

spursfan1000
12-26-2010, 04:47 PM
Very sorry for your loss

slacker77
12-26-2010, 08:30 PM
Sorry to hear about you loss man.I lost my dad right after christmas.I know it doesn't
seem like it now,but with each day that passes it gets a little better.

slacker77
12-26-2010, 08:32 PM
That might have seemed like a crass question to ask but I was genuinely curious. The reason is, let's say for example she did get your kids presents (her grandkids) would you let them have them or would you be too worried they'd mess them up, being that they are the last gifts she'd ever give them? Did you get her anything? Kinda crazy that she'll never get to see it, what was it?

I see what you're getting at,but that's probably the last thing on his mind.

Bukefal
12-26-2010, 08:39 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace. I wish you strength.

TwAnKiEs
12-26-2010, 08:40 PM
My heart goes out to you man. I lost my uncle and almost lost my mother too this year. Hope this next year is a better one.

phxspurfan
12-27-2010, 01:53 PM
Condolences, fellow SpursTalker. RIP

PM5K
12-27-2010, 01:57 PM
I see what you're getting at,but that's probably the last thing on his mind.

You'd think the last thing on his mind would be to get on SpursTalk but it wasn't.

Cyrano
12-27-2010, 08:37 PM
Yes, we got each other presents. Hers was sitting on her dining room table, and mine hasn't arrived yet. She did get presents for my grandkids (her great-grandkids). She bought brass telescopes for them all, and they are still sitting in her living room. My sister and I are going to have them engraved & give them to the kids probably next week. Not a bad memento from great grandma. Since she lived on the east coast, getting plane tickets has been a real pain in the ass, since so many flights were cancelled, there weren't any seats available until the end of the week. Mom's wishes were that she be cremated, and that couldn't be accomplished until we got a death certificate, which won't happen until tomorrow since everything was shut down for Christmas. Since travel is so hazardous right now, my sister and I decided to hold her memorial service in the spring, when her surviving friends will be able to be there, and all her kids, grandkids, great grandkids, and great-great grandkids can be there, too.
That's 3 kids, 5 grandkids, 18 great grandkids, and 6 great great grandkids.

mrsmaalox
12-27-2010, 08:43 PM
Cyrano I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you were able to talk to her the day before she passed away. Just goes to prove what they mean when you hear, "you never know when it will be the last tme". I hope your memories are comforting you at this time.

Cyrano
12-27-2010, 08:57 PM
Yes, it's comforting to know that the last words we spoke to each other were "I love you".

Nathan Explosion
12-27-2010, 10:35 PM
2 years ago my dad died on 12/4. My daughter was less than 2 months old, my son a little over 2 years old and I was only 26 and he was 49. I know how hard it is to get through the holidays, or any day for that matter.

Good luck with that.

Cyrano
12-28-2010, 02:22 PM
385 in dog years.

Dr. Gonzo
12-28-2010, 03:13 PM
That sucks bro.

Darrin
12-28-2010, 06:27 PM
My mom just died this morning. I spoke with her just yesterday, and she seemed well and happy, and we were planning my next visit after the new year.
A close family friend dropped by her house this morning, and found her.

I'm sorry. I lost my dad in March of 2006 and it takes effort to not want to go over to his apartment and ask him out to dinner, almost five years later. I hope you and your family can get through this difficult time. Just remember the good things, the happy memories, share them, and you'll never forget her. My condolences again.

Darrin
12-28-2010, 06:27 PM
My mom just died this morning. I spoke with her just yesterday, and she seemed well and happy, and we were planning my next visit after the new year.
A close family friend dropped by her house this morning, and found her.

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