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Findog
01-28-2011, 03:03 PM
I will turn 33 next week. I just got out of a relationship with a woman that I thought I was going to marry. I do not believe that there is any chance of this relationship ever being rekindled in the future. So, with that said, I am understandably scared and fearful of what the future has in store for me. I know it's normal to think I'll never love again and or have this in my life again, but those are transient fears.

I know that I need to maintain a positive attitude and put myself into positions where I am likely to meet like-minded individuals. So here is what I have so far:

- online dating
- singles ministry through a church
- volunteer opportunities
- continuing education classes

I want what I thought I had - a connection and chemistry with somebody who had similar values and goals in life that was leading towards a long-term commitment. It's been three months and change since she broke things off, and although I've made a lot of progress, I still have a ways to go to heal my heart. I'm sure I'll feel a lot better in another 3-4 months. I don't think women in their twenties are generally mature enough or looking to settle down. I think looking for romance in the workplace is a big no-no: I can't imagine having to see my ex everyday after the way things ended.

I've been told that women in their thirties are usually more grounded and mature because they have life experience and are no longer motivated by superficial criteria like who has the best head of hair, the best muscle car, etc, but who would make a good long-term companion. I know I was a great boyfriend to my ex and she would be the first person to agree. I know I have a lot to offer somebody else. So how should I go about finding somebody? Most of my closest friends are married with children. My one good single friend that I could go out and do stuff with on the weekends is still very big into the bar scene and playing video games when he's not going out, which I find boring.

I've also been told that in your twenties, women have the advantage because they are still finding themselves, they are not having to worry about the biological clock ticking, they can afford to be picky and go with more superficial criteria. But when they get into their thirties, things change. They have to start looking at who makes better husband/father potential, provided that they do want to get married and start a family. I've also read that when people date in their thirties, they have more experience, they know what they do and don't want in a relationship, and they are likely to either end things quickly when they don't see a future, or pass through the relationship stages quicker and into a firm commitment for engagement/marriage because that is what they want. Thoughts?

I've thought about going back to school for a master's. Perhaps I could find a like-minded individual there?

admiralsnackbar
01-28-2011, 03:08 PM
Don't fret, man-- it's much easier dating in your 30's. Not to mention dating women you're attracted to AND whose company you enjoy. :lol

Just live your life and follow your interests... things take care of themselves.

z0sa
01-28-2011, 03:12 PM
Just let shit settle where it may. Love isn't planned.

4>0rings
01-28-2011, 03:15 PM
You can also take up some hobbies that involve a multitude of people, ex. hiking, scuba diving, etc. These activites do not necessitate you bring someone with you. Going through the same thing right now myself, although I'am not quite 30 yet. Thank God for school. I'am not even looking for another gf right now after having a long term go South, we had a bunch of mutual friends and when I hang out with them, it seems akward. Just looking to make new friends that don't have a connection with my ex, what ever happens happens after that.

Phillip
01-28-2011, 03:16 PM
fall in love with a stripper

Viva Las Espuelas
01-28-2011, 03:20 PM
If you don't need someone then you'll be ok. I think you're over analyzing it a bit.

RandomGuy
01-28-2011, 03:21 PM
I've thought about going back to school for a master's. Perhaps I could find a like-minded individual there?

Advanced college degrees would seem to be a good route. Also mentioned was some kind of hobby.

Of course, you then have to worry about being in the same classes with an ex if things don't go well. Not quite like working with them, though.

Best thing to do is get out and meet them, where ever you find 'em.

Findog
01-28-2011, 03:23 PM
If you don't [I]need[/] someone then you'll be ok. I think you're over analyzing it a bit.

I'm focused right now getting myself back, not my ex. I landed a volunteer position with Dallas Animal Services helping with adoptions. I'm taking a vacation tomorrow to the Bay Area to visit some friends. I've been reaching out to old friends who I didn't keep in touch with much when I was with her. I go to the gym most every night when I don't have plans.

I know you can't force these things. It happens on its own timetable. The gap between her and the ex-ex was 22 months.

Mike Damone
01-28-2011, 03:23 PM
Getting a date is easy. Keeping her interested is the tough part. For that, just go with my Five Point Plan.

First of all Findog, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi."

Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it."

Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?"

Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice."

And five, now this is the most important, Findog. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.

JudynTX
01-28-2011, 03:25 PM
:lol

TDMVPDPOY
01-28-2011, 03:35 PM
how good are you at suckin dick?

Oh, Gee!!
01-28-2011, 03:49 PM
buy some ed hardy t-shirts and you'll be fine.

lebomb
01-28-2011, 04:48 PM
QF............be prepared to meet a great, great deal of women that have kids already.......when they around your age of 30. Otherwise, you may have to drop back down into your 20's to find the ladys that arent moms yet. Oh shit, this is San Antonio, you may have to drop back into the early teens. :lmao

The Reckoning
01-28-2011, 05:04 PM
i see what you did there.

ST has a good deal (one? starts with an A) of single 30 somethings on the board. go get 'em tiger.

koriwhat
01-28-2011, 07:26 PM
oh not this bs again... so ST has become an outlet for those who have been stepped on and who are trying to get back out there? a therapist/psychiatrist for those who can't come up with their own answers to life.

son of a bitch!

Creepn
01-28-2011, 07:46 PM
I'm not thirty yet but I've found 30 year olds to be quite ready for any kind of jump than people in the 20's.

"Wanna go out for a cu-"
"YES! *ahem* sure..I mean excuse me?"
"Wanna go out for a cup of coffee?"
"Oh sure, my house is right next to this coffee place we should go to."
"Uh oka-"
"You know, just in case it rains or whatever."

ashbeeigh
01-28-2011, 08:15 PM
i see what you did there.

ST has a good deal (one? starts with an A) of single 30 somethings on the board. go get 'em tiger.

30? Really? No.

The Reckoning
01-28-2011, 08:18 PM
:lmao

JoeChalupa
01-28-2011, 08:20 PM
Dating in my thirties was the best thing that ever happened to me. I was old enough to know I was ready and I found the love of my life. The thing is that age doesn't matter for I saw my future wife, who was 13 years younger, as if the young man at heart that I was. I hope to never be in the dating game again.

badfish22
01-28-2011, 08:49 PM
how good are you at suckin dick?

u want a green card to australia? marry me!!!!

badfish22
01-28-2011, 08:50 PM
im serious, man

when you smile i feel happy inside, plz remember the person i love is just you, believe me im still waiting for you, i shall be in ur dreams to be by ur side like i said....

benefactor
01-28-2011, 08:53 PM
I feel for you man. We are almost exactly the same age and I can't imagine dating again. Don't try too hard and just let it all come to you.

badfish22
01-28-2011, 08:56 PM
Findog should definitely go to TDMVPDPOY for relationship advice. Hes really been charming that emo girl on here profile page.

frodo
01-28-2011, 09:14 PM
i have had coquettes before but i declined them all. ive never had any romantic relationship with any girl/woman but i never thought it something bad. female is more of a cyanide to male tbqh, especially males who're 30yr or older. wife/kids no longer the main stuff for your life in the 21st century imo, nigga needs to get adapted though i know its not easy for a 33yr old

plus marriage comes with risks. a married man could be cuckolded any time and he would get bankrupted if/when he had to pick the "divorce" option

4>0rings
01-28-2011, 09:52 PM
30? Really? No.
40?

koriwhat
01-28-2011, 10:27 PM
Going back to school and meeting somebody there, going to church, and going to the bar with your aforementioned friend are all much better ideas than online dating, dating someone from work (biiiiiig no no, from personal experience) or any of that other bullshit. I'd suggest not looking too hard because you'll come off as desperate which is a huge turn off for women and the process won't go very smoothly for you. What i'd suggest is a combination of the 3, do all of them (going to church, bar, school) and not only enjoy yourself, but better yourself by earning a higher degree and someone will come along soon enough if you're constantly staying busy with these things and putting yourself out there.

:tu

the internet is so fuckin' impersonal.

Greg Oden
01-28-2011, 10:29 PM
If you're not in a committed relationship to marry by the time you're at the end of college you should just shoot yourself.

you're cool.

Silverheart80
01-28-2011, 10:54 PM
Findog, the best advice I can give you is don't make a wifequest the center of your activity. Spent most of my 20s and much of my early 30s dating and looking for the 'right one', and to no avail. Had a couple of crushing heartbreaks along the way. Eventually I got burned enough and stopped caring about finding the right girl. Put all of my focus into building a career I loved and made everything else a distant second-place. For whatever reason, once I stopped caring about women, I began getting attention rather than giving it.

Ironically once they started coming around, I was more focused on the career than them. Instead of me trying to fit into their ideal picture, they were trying to fit into what they thought mine was. Strange. If you can figure out what you love most in the world (preferably not women) and you go after that fullforce, you'll be alright, man. Don't worry about being the richest or the best-looking or being the most desirable. Just go after that one thing that makes you a contributor to the rest of this world, in some way big or small. Above all, just make sure that doesn't begin and end with women.

Can't promise you'll find love, but I can promise you'll live a happier life with or without them. And should the right prospects arrive, you'll be grounded. And that makes all the difference in the world.

ashbeeigh
01-28-2011, 11:02 PM
If you're not in a committed relationship to marry by the time you're at the end of college you should just shoot yourself.

Says the 16 year old. Call me when you turn 22 and are still at SAC, lonely and single and still at mom's house.

20s (and college) should be about being selfish and allowing yourself to do what you want to do, not finding "the one." If that happens, that happens. I was totally "That girl" in high school who wanted to be married by the time I was 23 and have kids by the time I was 25. Is that me? No. Do I know girls like that. Heck yes. Do I look down at them? No. It's just a different choice.

And to Findog, take some time to just hang out and do your own thing. All the above, like someone else said, are good ways to meet people and women in that age range. But don't feel any pressure to make it happen. It'll happen when it happens. And don't rule out internet dating 100%. I've met some rule duds online (the game chat guys know about him) but you can meet some winners, shoot there's a lot of people from ST that met that way. You'll know when you meet the right now.

redzero
01-28-2011, 11:14 PM
If you're not in a committed relationship to marry by the time you're at the end of college you should just shoot yourself.

This guy's got life figured out.

admiralsnackbar
01-28-2011, 11:27 PM
Get married out of fucking college and you won't ever have to worry about being lonely.

Or just post attention-seeking nonsense on a sports board as often as possible...

The Reckoning
01-28-2011, 11:52 PM
dont worry about women, really. imagine all the cool shit you can do now that you dont have to cater to a vagina 24/7. finance could be your new priority/hobby. "play" with markets and invest in up and coming products and services. now that you dont have to waste money on women and children, youll have a much more disposable income to invest in stuff. it might even pay off.

if you really want a woman, though, take some time off and go out of the country. meet a woman who doesnt know english, so when she nags you, itll sound beautiful.

The Reckoning
01-28-2011, 11:53 PM
Says the 16 year old. Call me when you turn 22.



whatapimp

Creepn
01-28-2011, 11:55 PM
Get married out of fucking college and you won't ever have to worry about being lonely.

Man if you was my 15 year old kid, I'd whup you so bad using that filthy language. You got no guidance kid. Tsk tsk tsk.

byrontx
01-29-2011, 12:32 AM
Sow your oats now. Most people marry too young. Don't go around trying to find a relationship. Get some pussy and have fun. The only downside to marrying in your mid-forties (like I did) is that you cannot plan on a large family. I have a beautiful wife (15 yrs younger) and a 7 year old son. It will keep you young.

MiamiHeat
01-29-2011, 01:07 AM
Acquire Currency.

Enjoy Life.

Enjoy women, but don't take them too seriously.

mojorizen7
01-29-2011, 08:06 AM
Where's the Dating in your 40's thread? :lol
My circle of friends are either IKEA living picket fence heavily married couples w/no friends
or
burnouts and anti-social alcoholics.

Help.

Bukefal
01-29-2011, 08:11 AM
You're thinking about it too much. Just grab a beer and enjoy life, go out, do things you like and after a while you'll find the right woman. :toast

Cupid
01-29-2011, 08:17 AM
I'm on this.

silverblk mystix
01-29-2011, 08:55 AM
some good ideas so far...

I'll add;

I can't tell you how many people I work with that are searching for the opposite of what they already have...
the ones in relationships can't wait to be single and free again because of reasons-a,b,c,d,etc...
the ones that are single because of reasons-x,y,z,etc... want only to fall in love with the right one...and have a home, a solid relationship,etc...

there is one thing they all have in common;

none of them are living right here-right now....everyone is living in the past or in the future...

there is a tea ceremony that is performed in the east...the whole purpose of the ceremony is to enjoy the cup of tea...if you are drinking the tea but thinking of yesterday or tomorrow --or 10 minutes from now-- you have already lost your way...drink the tea--savor it, taste it, the texture, the aroma, the warmth,the mellowness or bitterness,the lemon,the way it feels on you tongue,etc...on & on...afterwards...when you are washing the cup--wash the cup--don't start thinking about the future/past,etc...on & on ad-nauseum...a little simple zen...

if you are in a relationship...be the guy who is in a relationship and enjoy the fuck out of it...

if you are single...be the guy who is single and free and enjoy the fuck out of that...learn to enjoy your OWN company...find things to do that you love...discover the joys in aloneness--not loneliness- ALONENESS...when you meet girls...look at them through new eyes---not in how they would FIT into your desires or needs--but in who they are in THAT moment...discover how they carry themselves, how they live,how they laugh,how they deal with stress, what they say--and what they don't say,etc...

don't try to make them FIT you...this way you won't just try to grab the first thing that happens to come along...

you will NEVER NEVER EVER AGAIN be 33 and single...you don't know what a fucking treasure you have already...you are young,healthy, free, alive,etc...

get into today...live now

tomorrow will be here way too soon--if we are lucky--and THEN you can worry about it--or hopefully you can BE THERE TOO!

symple19
01-29-2011, 09:03 AM
i sure do love these threads

puhleeeeze Spurstalk E-people, give me some sound advice!!!!

My new answer to anyone having relationship problems is this:

1.Lure some porn stars/strippers/hookers to your house

2.Ply them/yourself with booze

3.After getting annihilated on alcohol, call the briefcase yayo guy

4.Watch porn while freebasing/banging aforementioned ladies

5.OD, then go to the hospital with a "hiatal hernia"

6.Enter rehab where you'll finally meet a lady with similar goals

7.Live happily ever after

lebomb
01-29-2011, 09:25 AM
QF..........after my divorce at 35yrs of age, I had more success with dating and women than I had in my entire life. I must have dated 10 ladies before I ended up calling one my official "gf". I ended up marrying her a couple of years later. She had been married before as well.

I dont want you to view this as a complete success at the begining though. 8 out of the 10 ladies were psychotic, or had some type of issue to deal with. *shrugs*

Lastly, if a woman is well into her 30's and hasnt been married before, something is definitely wrong with her IMHO. All the best ones are scouped up and dropping crumb snatchers by this time.....again, IMHO.

Good luck!!!!

SA DAVE
01-29-2011, 11:28 AM
Consider this free advice for dating in your thirties.

You can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you can never lose women chasing money.

TE
01-30-2011, 01:29 AM
Just drink a beer and be yourself when you meet other woman.

redzero
01-30-2011, 04:02 AM
Not going to SAC

<<<---- going to a UT or better school with a full or near full ride scholarship. I'm currently ranked #1 in my class, no lie. As long as I'm in the top 10 (I'm in a class of over 500) I should get a full or near full ride scholarship to a good university.

I wanted to find "the one" in middle school and early high school but in the last 10 months or so I've decided that idea is stupid.

So I'm banking on finding her in college. I don't want to be old and grizzled and untaken. I don't want to wait and then have to be with a woman who's been serious and intimate, etc with a zillion guys (or worse, having been married or yet worse, had a kid already). I want the life my cousins 1k miles north in nebraska have, they got married out of college and are making $70k+/yr each now. They're going to live happy American lives with no financial worries.

I want to find her in college, since late high school is seeming a little less likely.

That's some wisdom right there.

TDMVPDPOY
01-30-2011, 08:57 AM
Lol good luck with that especially if you go to a state school.

Unless your a cool college frat bro, it will be quite hard.

believing this clown is 1/500 students lmao....

leemajors
01-30-2011, 09:31 AM
Not going to SAC

<<<---- going to a UT or better school with a full or near full ride scholarship. I'm currently ranked #1 in my class, no lie. As long as I'm in the top 10 (I'm in a class of over 500) I should get a full or near full ride scholarship to a good university.

I wanted to find "the one" in middle school and early high school but in the last 10 months or so I've decided that idea is stupid.

So I'm banking on finding her in college. I don't want to be old and grizzled and untaken. I don't want to wait and then have to be with a woman who's been serious and intimate, etc with a zillion guys (or worse, having been married or yet worse, had a kid already). I want the life my cousins 1k miles north in nebraska have, they got married out of college and are making $70k+/yr each now. They're going to live happy American lives with no financial worries.

I want to find her in college, since late high school is seeming a little less likely.

prepare for disappointment, but you should be used to it.

The Reckoning
01-30-2011, 03:06 PM
So why not go to orientations join fraternaties and go to parties? I hear college parties are wayyyyyyy better than high school parties anyway.

Freshman year in college in a university that includes people from all over the state and country is like 0 - 0, first quarter, opening tipoff, a second chance at social life basically. And if you get involved in social gatherings and you've got such potential to be successful as I do with my smarts and guitar playing ability then cool guys and beautiful women will flock to you and check you out and other guys will be left with droppings.


ill be honest with you little troll. if you step into a frat party at UT with your whole schtick, you will get your little punkass beat. frats love preying on little bitches like you. everytime i go to a party, there's literally blood all over the walls - i ask what happens - and everytime its because some cool guy thinks he can hit on any chick or play guitar to her gets in the way of some sloshed, 230+ pound frat boy looking for a fight.

have fun in college, mother fucker. you wont survive.

:rollin


when that happens, post pics please. k tanks.


oh and if you decide to rush, theyll make your life a living hell and then not take you in. :lmao

The Reckoning
01-30-2011, 03:12 PM
the thing is, at UT the frats isolate themselves in a nazi encampment known as "west campus." best thing to do is not get involved with people who are tools enough to pay thousands of dollars to be hazed and have "friends."

if you want to make it, get a fake, party with all the minorities and go downtown every thursday night with a group of friends.

Dr. Gonzo
01-30-2011, 03:14 PM
ha

The Reckoning
01-30-2011, 04:13 PM
If it's so hardcore then how did your little gay ass survive?


i grew up straight thuggin under the hill

Greg Oden
01-30-2011, 05:51 PM
guitardude is the most convincing troll since Norcal.

ploto
01-30-2011, 07:50 PM
Still don't believe me?

Your grades are good and you appear to be taking good courses, if that is indeed you, but you should not be #1 in your class with a 91 in Algebra II and a 95 in English II.

mrsmaalox
01-30-2011, 08:07 PM
Your grades are good and you appear to be taking good courses, if that is indeed you, but you should not be #1 in your class with a 91 in Algebra II and a 95 in English II.

I was wondering that too; a 96 in chemistry? I realize those grades don't reflect the Pre-AP adjust for class rank, but that's not a good reflection on that school if those grades qualify for #1 out of 500. My son's school is one of the more competitive in town, and the top 10% of each class maintain averages greater than 105, also before the pre-AP adjustment. And every single one of those kids is also expecting a "full or near full ride scholarship to a good university". Good luck to everyone :lol

benefactor
01-30-2011, 08:52 PM
lol guitarnazi owned by ploto and maalox.

ALVAREZ6
01-30-2011, 09:12 PM
Not going to SAC

<<<---- going to a UT or better school with a full or near full ride scholarship. I'm currently ranked #1 in my class, no lie. As long as I'm in the top 10 (I'm in a class of over 500) I should get a full or near full ride scholarship to a good university.

I wanted to find "the one" in middle school and early high school but in the last 10 months or so I've decided that idea is stupid.

So I'm banking on finding her in college. I don't want to be old and grizzled and untaken. I don't want to wait and then have to be with a woman who's been serious and intimate, etc with a zillion guys (or worse, having been married or yet worse, had a kid already). I want the life my cousins 1k miles north in nebraska have, they got married out of college and are making $70k+/yr each now. They're going to live happy American lives with no financial worries.

I want to find her in college, since late high school is seeming a little less likely.
Your hometown must be fully retarded, and consequently a complete out lier to the mean.

ALVAREZ6
01-30-2011, 09:14 PM
Freshman year in college in a university that includes people from all over the state and country is like 0 - 0, first quarter, opening tipoff, a second chance at social life basically. And if you get involved in social gatherings and you've got such potential to be successful as I do with my smarts and guitar playing ability then cool guys and beautiful women will flock to you and check you out and other guys will be left with droppings.

Dr. Gonzo
01-30-2011, 09:16 PM
@ Ass beat, what the hell? Aren't people mature enough by college to not start petty ass juvenile jealousy fights?

:lmao:lmao:lmao

mature in college :lmao:lmao:lmao

benefactor
01-30-2011, 09:19 PM
nQezXbiroiE

Can anyone guess which one will be the college version of guitardude?

Dr. Gonzo
01-30-2011, 09:20 PM
I do with my smarts and guitar playing ability then cool guys and beautiful women will flock to you and check you out and other guys will be left with droppings.

That line is great. This racist fuck is funny.

ALVAREZ6
01-30-2011, 09:21 PM
@ Ass beat, what the hell? Aren't people mature enough by college to not start petty ass juvenile jealousy fights?
No, not even close. In my opinion, the majority of the population is not as mature as they should be, no matter what age.

mrsmaalox
01-30-2011, 09:25 PM
WTF? How the HELL can you have a 105 WITHOUT the preap adjustment? In my district you can't get over 100 on any of the six weeks grades or on the semester exam grade. Your son's school system is retarded if it allows for more than 100 before preap adjustments.

My school district only adds 5 points to each semester grade to each preap class and as a result it's almost impossible to have a GPA of over 100. My GPA is 100.4 and the next highest is 99.5.

:lol Yes it's probably that school district that is retarded ;)

My kid brings home over 100% work (exams and projects/presentations) pretty regularly. But still not often enough to get him into the top 10% of his class.

But without any regard to what my kid and his school district do, an AP adjusted grade of 100.4 is not bad at all and reflects well on you. :toast It's the 499 below you who should worry I suppose. The main point of my post was to demonstrate the large number of students out there with even higher adjusted GPAs that are competing for the same scholarships you seem to be sure you will recieve. Again, I wish you good luck :)

ALVAREZ6
01-30-2011, 09:25 PM
That line is great. This racist fuck is funny.

lol, check the signature. It's probably the most hilarious quote I've ever read here at ST. Definitely makes my top 3.

ploto
01-30-2011, 11:47 PM
My school district only adds 5 points to each semester grade to each preap class and as a result it's almost impossible to have a GPA of over 100. My GPA is 100.4 and the next highest is 99.5.

I do not know of any district that allows grades over 100 on a report card.

The grades you have posted for the Fall semester only average 99.3 with 5 points for each pre-ap. You would have to have averaged 101 both Freshman semesters to have a 100.5.

ploto
01-30-2011, 11:56 PM
I did!

101.25 the first semester 9th grade
100.8 ish the 2nd semester (I think)

Good for you. I am still surprised that someone does not have higher grades than those. They look like Top Twenty grades but not Valedictorian grades in NISD.

Greg Oden
01-30-2011, 11:59 PM
How the hell did Findawg needing dating advice turn into the second coming of Norcal discussing how cool high school is.

Greg Oden
01-31-2011, 12:13 AM
Do you have any videos of you playing some cool guitar?

TE
01-31-2011, 12:59 AM
What do you plan to study guitardude?

ALVAREZ6
01-31-2011, 01:02 AM
i'll probably end up in the lower half of the top 10 by the end of the 7th semester (when official ranks are finalized) because I don't plan on taking AP courses next year, just 2 dual credit classes.

AP = No college credit unless you get a 4-5 out of 5 on a crazy hard $75 test known as the AP test

DC = College credit providing you get a 75+ in the class
AP is a great way to alleviate your college workload though, and very useful for double majoring, etc. Now that I find myself as a junior trying to double major, which I should be able to complete on time as it stands I believe, I regret only taking 2 AP courses. And for the record, getting a 4 is not too difficult..well, certainly there's subjects where it's much harder to, but nothing to worry about given your grades. However, given your post history though, I'm not totally sure. I guess it doesn't really take much common sense or much knowledge to do well in HS.

I've never heard of DC, but that seems like an easy deal.

ALVAREZ6
01-31-2011, 01:03 AM
I don't show my face on youtube. Not until I'm 18.

You don't need to show your face in order to show your guitar skills, tbh.

badfish22
01-31-2011, 01:56 AM
I don't show my face on youtube. Not until I'm 18.

Thats probably good. You'd get abducted and brutally raped if you did otherwise.

ALVAREZ6
01-31-2011, 01:59 AM
Thats probably good. You'd get abducted and brutally raped if you did otherwise.

Probably not

MiamiHeat
01-31-2011, 05:53 AM
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frodo
01-31-2011, 06:20 AM
how did findawg's relationship advice request thread turn into a brainless discussion of school/college?

Greg Oden
01-31-2011, 09:39 AM
how did findawg's relationship advice request thread turn into a brainless discussion of school/college?

are you still mad that you let your true feelings about this great nation be let known?

tp2021
01-31-2011, 09:47 AM
<<<---- going to a UT or better school with a full or near full ride scholarship. I'm currently ranked #1 in my class, no lie. As long as I'm in the top 10 (I'm in a class of over 500) I should get a full or near full ride scholarship to a good university.

Dude, I graduated Valedictorian and I'm about to graduate from UT, and they didn't give me anything near a full-ride. I got some assistance for being a Hispanic Merit scholar, and they pay your first year of tuition if you are #1, but if you think a "good university" is gonna give YOU money to go there, think again. Scholarships are for attracting students to go to your school that probably wouldn't go without it. UT, for example, doesn't need to do that to attract students; they're beating doors down trying to get in. And yes, I would consider UT to be a "good school."



I wanted to find "the one" in middle school and early high school but in the last 10 months or so I've decided that idea is stupid.

So I'm banking on finding her in college.

So much LOL in this post. Seriously, now that you finally get to college, where hot young women come to party, you are gonna shack up with someone? Bad decision, IMO.

Dr. Gonzo
01-31-2011, 09:51 AM
lol, check the signature. It's probably the most hilarious quote I've ever read here at ST. Definitely makes my top 3.

I agree. This kid is reaching Horry For 3! levels at an incredible rate.

DarkReign
01-31-2011, 10:49 AM
Fin, youre cool, but youre over-thinking this shit far too much. Chill the fuck out.

/advice

ploto
01-31-2011, 06:22 PM
I've never heard of DC, but that seems like an easy deal.

DC=Dual credit. The course you take at your high school simultaneously gives you high school credit and credit at the local Junior College. Your grade is reported as an actual grade at the Community College and is treated like any other JC credit. The only issue is with where you plan to go to school. If you go to UT, the credit should transfer, but some out of state schools may not take the Junior College credit for some courses. My kid's school has some courses that are both DC and AP, so you get the Junior College credit but you are still prepared for the AP exam, so you have more options.

Cant_Be_Faded
01-31-2011, 07:10 PM
I agree. This kid is reaching Horry For 3! levels at an incredible rate.

hey how did guitarhero27 get a reputation of being racist? what did i miss? He is a pretty good troll though, too bad for him this forum has already seen Horry, GIG, and norcal the yak jacker offer

duncan228
01-31-2011, 07:20 PM
hey how did guitarhero27 get a reputation of being racist? what did i miss?

I think it was this. Sorry, forget who first found it but it was posted in a few places on ST once it was found.

http://www.vnnforum.com/showthread.php?t=119676

The Reckoning
01-31-2011, 07:33 PM
wow this guy just gave out so much personal information. that girl's name he said is a real underaged girl.

better check your postings, dude.

DisgruntledLionFan#54,927
01-31-2011, 07:37 PM
But he's super smart.

The Reckoning
01-31-2011, 08:33 PM
:lmao

http://www.vnnforum.com/search.php?searchid=2663281

4>0rings
01-31-2011, 09:04 PM
This thread just got a whole lot better. :lmao

ALVAREZ6
01-31-2011, 09:36 PM
:lmao

http://www.vnnforum.com/search.php?searchid=2663281

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http://img403.imageshack.us/img403/5032/lolhr.jpg

4>0rings
01-31-2011, 10:27 PM
So this proves that this fag is not a troll. He truely is a racist.

ALVAREZ6
01-31-2011, 11:54 PM
So this proves that this fag is not a troll. He truely is a racist.

lol, there is another possibility. It could be the opposite, that he is a full-time troll on the internet. So far, that option is definitely not out the window.

TE
02-01-2011, 12:00 AM
Wow, this thread is going to be epic.

The Reckoning
02-01-2011, 12:12 AM
guitardude...to prove that youre not a troll, we would love a facebook link.

please.

Dr. Gonzo
02-01-2011, 12:16 AM
http://img713.imageshack.us/img713/5622/zieglerg.jpg

Dr. Gonzo
02-01-2011, 12:16 AM
The search is on.

ALVAREZ6
02-01-2011, 12:51 AM
:lmao :lmao :lmao

Racist-ass, 5'6" guitardude27, the same guitar-dude that stated the following:


"Freshman year in college in a university that includes people from all over the state and country is like 0 - 0, first quarter, opening tipoff, a second chance at social life basically. And if you get involved in social gatherings and you've got such potential to be successful as I do with my smarts and guitar playing ability then cool guys and beautiful women will flock to you and check you out and other guys will be left with droppings."

wants to date a 6'3" black girl???







guitardude27...what exactly DOES make sense in your life?

It's like God decided to trip balls on 40 hits of acid and wrote out your life story while under said influence.

ALVAREZ6
02-01-2011, 12:53 AM
hey how did guitarhero27 get a reputation of being racist? what did i miss? He is a pretty good troll though, too bad for him this forum has already seen Horry, GIG, and norcal the yak jacker offer

aren't you forgetting one of the original trolls of the week, asshole?


IMO, efforts should be made in finding GiG and norcal again. Those days were the prime of ST.com

The Reckoning
02-01-2011, 01:05 AM
15 year old genius troll gonna troll


:rolleyes

until someone messages that girl that you cited on facebook telling her to google her name and finds it plastered all over a white supremacist website.

wonder who its gonna be...

baseline bum
02-01-2011, 01:20 AM
LOL, awesome thread trolling those inbred fucks.

Cant_Be_Faded
02-01-2011, 01:24 AM
i think he's a full time troll

pretty amusing though

who found out about his nazi postings on that other site first? Was it Gonzo?

Viva Las Espuelas
02-01-2011, 09:45 AM
http://i187.photobucket.com/albums/x85/hurriandrewfury1209/untitled1.jpg


Well, you may be smart, but with penmanship like that, you're going nowhere.

using same screenname on different message boards lol
showing ass with trousers still on lol
truly acting your age lol

:toast

MiamiHeat
02-01-2011, 10:42 AM
He used the name of a real girl from his school, because her facebook page shows her with the Falcons shirt on, and that's the school mascot of his school. shouldn't do that

ALVAREZ6
02-01-2011, 01:16 PM
Analia Rawlings, the Aryan beauty that denied guitardude27:

http://profile.ak.fbcdn.net/hprofile-ak-snc4/hs475.snc4/49854_100000781141058_8536_n.jpg

ashbeeigh
02-01-2011, 01:59 PM
What has Spurstalk come to? You have his last name and the name of the school he goes to and you can't find the guy? Step your game up, y'all.

ALVAREZ6
02-01-2011, 02:11 PM
lol, I can't tell if ashbeeigh is being sarcastic or not...but I'll answer literally and say that I haven't even tried yet.

I did however find the Aryan beauty that shut him down, but I was more interested in finding his new crush, the black girl that's 9 inches taller than him.

Viva Las Espuelas
02-01-2011, 02:14 PM
I checked but nothing came up, but I did it halfheartedly.

redzero
02-01-2011, 02:18 PM
Wow, what would all the hot college chicks say if they found out that you like to hang out with white supremacists, guitardude?

The Reckoning
02-01-2011, 03:36 PM
his last name isnt ziegler. he just thought of one of his teachers that has a nazi name and used it. trolling 101.


and sorry guitardude...shes not aryan in any way, shape or form. she would have been in the gas chamber along with the rest of us.

for all we know he's probably the school janitor

ashbeeigh
02-01-2011, 03:44 PM
lol, I can't tell if ashbeeigh is being sarcastic or not...but I'll answer literally and say that I haven't even tried yet.

I did however find the Aryan beauty that shut him down, but I was more interested in finding his new crush, the black girl that's 9 inches taller than him.

I mean....if this is some college kid or twenty something that's trolling the board he's doing quite a fine job. If he's not Spurstalk CIA needs to get up on this and find out who he is. We found out who NORCAL was pretty darn quick.

And Ziegler....really? As in Thad Ziegler Glass? Come on now.

Creepn
02-01-2011, 05:15 PM
i think he's a full time troll

pretty amusing though

who found out about his nazi postings on that other site first? Was it Gonzo?


Actually Kori came out with the goods the very first time. He also posted some shit saying there are only 2 black doctors in the whole wide world lol. Good stuff.

I think this dude is a real dude but I've never been to a troll studded forum like ST before so...

Shelly
02-01-2011, 07:38 PM
I looked up his Spanish Teacher (since it's not a common name) and she teaches at Stevens HS, so that's where he goes.

Shelly
02-01-2011, 07:42 PM
pardon me.