Relationships at work

[JudynTX]

A co-worker was having an affair with someone they work with. Needless to say, he is now going through a divorce. But this is when it gets good.

The soon-to-be ex-wife is pissed off at him, she called the HR department and told them he was stealing equipment. She also named 3 other accomplices and they are all now on suspension with pay. :wow

We don't know if stealing the equipment is true, but she told him she would get him back and well she is. :D

[DeadlyDynasty]

What a bitch.

[mavs>spurs]

Don't blame her cheaters suck. And so do relationships at work, made that mistake once.

[ChumpDumper]

Paid vacation!

[JudynTX]

Paid vacation!

:lol

I never ever ever dated anyone I worked with. It's a lose-lose situation.

[DeadlyDynasty]

Don't blame her cheaters suck. And so do relationships at work, made that mistake once.

Relationships at work are oftentimes inevitable, especially depending on what your job is. You're around these people more than you're around your family. I'm not saying it's right, but it's nothing abnormal at all.

Trying to get a guy arrested b/c he cheated on you is fucking dumb...if the dude is guilty in this case, then ok--but still...just walk out, much easier.

[benefactor]

I learned at an early age that dating people at work usually turns out bad. We have all kinds of love triangle drama going on at my job right now. If I was single I wouldn't touch even the good looking women at my work with a ten foot pole.

Quote from one of my female coworkers..."You don't get your meat where you make your bread."

[manufan10]

Don't dip your pen in company ink. :lol

[The Gemini Method]

I dated someone that came to work for me after we stopped dating--that was pretty awkward for the first few weeks.

[Dex]

Yeah, I just don't see how dating people you work with can turn out well.

If things don't go well in the relationship, then you are stuck with the awkward situation of having to work with your ex every day.

If things do go well, then you have to deal with your significant other virtually 24/7, especially if things progress as far as moving in with each other. I don't see how things won't get burned out quick that way unless you are truly just like peas in a damn pod, and that only increases the likelihood of ending up in the first situation.

There is currently a girl at my work who I'm attracted to and we get along great, but I just know better than to take that dive.

[spurs_fan_in_exile]

I've seen a few cases of highly successful ones, and honestly the success rate isn't all that different than I've seen from friends relationships that start with meeting someone at a party or through a dating website or any of the other usual methods. The difference is that when they go bad they go supernova kind of bad almost every damn time. Like others here have said as a rule I advise against them.

[Spurminator]

So she's the kind of person who, when outraged, would not only falsely accuse someone of stealing at the possible expense of their job, but NAME OTHER ACCOMPLICES? Were they all involved in his affair somehow?

No wonder he was cheating on her. What a horrible person.

[mrsmaalox]

Never had a problem with it myself.

[TE]

Well the guys a player, and the chick is a bitch. Seems like two negatives attempting to attract each other.

[Trill Clinton]

yea NEVER date a chick/dude at the job. even just fucking somebody at the job can cause problems. :depressed

[Engineering Major]

It's not a good idea. You'll understand when you're older.

[marini martini]

One of the hottest affairs I ever had was with some one from work. :toast

S'up Jesse!

[Greg Oden]

I find it both appalling and sad that this is the kind of stuff the op lives for so she can gossip with the other grannies it.

[ChuckD]

Don't shit where you eat.

[JoeyGreco]

Don't blame her cheaters suck. And so do relationships at work, made that mistake once.

Word.

[mavs>spurs]

One of the hottest affairs I ever had was with some one from work. :toast

S'up Jesse!

bragging about being a whore :rolleyes

[TenBuckTammy]

bragging about being a whore :rolleyes

:flipoff

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Don't shit where you eat.

Took me a few times to realize that. Oy vey.

[tlongII]

I've done it a couple of times, but I'm surrounded by a multitude of beautiful women at work. It's inevitable.

[BUMP]

I find it both appalling and sad that this is the kind of stuff the op lives for so she can gossip with the other grannies it.

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And OHHHHHHHHH GREG......O-DEN!!!! WITH NO REGARD......FOR HUMAN LIFE!!!

[DMC]

I have three basic rules I live by.

1. Don't date coworkers
2. Don't trust a man who says you're attractive for an "older man"
3. Don't pay for the motel


never again

[Sisk]

I have three basic rules I live by.

1. Don't date coworkers
2. Don't trust a man who says you're attractive for an "older man"
3. Don't pay for the motel


never again

:wow

[m>s]

dating a co-worker of the opposite sex would be just like dating one's own sister/brother, it's like incest imho

between co-workers its only friendship and all, not relationship

[Koolaid_Man]

Don't blame her cheaters suck. And so do relationships at work, made that mistake once.

funny thing is we already knew you sucked..literally :lol

and scorned...whoever cheated on you must have really fucked up your world...because you've been talking about it non stop for like 2 yrs straight...perhaps she cheated with me...:lol

[mavs>spurs]

Sigh..lemme break it down for you chimp brain. Cheaters suck, that's one separate thought. Has nothing to do with point number 2, which is don't date a coworker. These are two separate thoughts which are true all on their own. I've never been cheated on brah.

[JudynTX]

I find it both appalling and sad that this is the kind of stuff the op lives for so she can gossip with the other grannies it.

The punk is back!

[DMC]

:wow
Imagine my surprise when I found out.

[JoeChalupa]

I met my wife at work.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Sometimes they do work. Somehow. The VP of the company I work for married our warehouse manager and they've been married for quite a while. Don't know how she can stand that man but it works for her. He's a lucky SOB. She's a dead ringer for Erin Burnett. Only chink(no racist) in the armor is she's Cuban.

[cantthinkofanything]

Imagine my surprise when I found out.

But it sure the hell explains a lot.

[PakiDan]

Dad !?!?!

[Koolaid_Man]

I have three basic rules I live by.

1. Don't date coworkers
2. Don't trust a man who says you're attractive for an "older man"
3. Don't pay for the motel


never again


I'm sorry DMC I didn't know you were really gay...that was mean of that guy to make you pay for the hotel...:lol

[z0sa]

DMC made a mistake, and not just in this thread.

[manufan10]

No no no, idiots. Always, and I mean always get that co-worker pussy, especially if she's married. Look, nerds, there are no strings attached. Its easy play. Some of my favorite female friends are ex fuck buddies at work. The military has a code of honor where you must have a fuck buddy at work. I had three. The only exception to the rule is if you are her boss. Then you have to pass her along to a buddy.

Pot, meet kettle.

:lol Naruto

[benefactor]

No no no, idiots. Always, and I mean always get that co-worker pussy, especially if she's married. Look, nerds, there are no strings attached. Its easy play. Some of my favorite female friends are ex fuck buddies at work. The military has a code of honor where you must have a fuck buddy at work. I had three. The only exception to the rule is if you are her boss. Then you have to pass her along to a buddy.

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You tell 'em Abdul...

[Wild Cobra]

Don't blame her cheaters suck. And so do relationships at work, made that mistake once.
LOL...

Don't blame her?

She should be arrested. If it is true, she is an accomplice. If it is false, she is making false allegations, harming other people's livelihood.

[Wild Cobra]

:lol

I never ever ever dated anyone I worked with. It's a lose-lose situation.
I agree. There are three women at my workplace that immediately come to mind that I would approach for a date if they weren't coworkers.

[Wild Cobra]

I met my wife at work.
It's not always a bad thing. Just too many problems can occur, even if the relationship doesn't sour.

[clambake]

wild cobra giving relationship advice.

this world is truly fucked.

[Blake]

I have three basic rules I live by.

1. Don't date coworkers
2. Don't trust a man who says you're attractive for an "older man"
3. Don't pay for the motel


never again

roflmaoioso

[DMC]

I'm sorry DMC I didn't know you were really gay...that was mean of that guy to make you pay for the hotel...:lol
He said "I left my wallet at the office".

:rolleyes

[DMC]

No no no, idiots. Always, and I mean always get that co-worker pussy, especially if she's married. Look, nerds, there are no strings attached. Its easy play. Some of my favorite female friends are ex fuck buddies at work. The military has a code of honor where you must have a fuck buddy at work. I had three. The only exception to the rule is if you are her boss. Then you have to pass her along to a buddy.
There's no such code.

[DMC]

DMC made a mistake, and not just in this thread.
I know, I told you it was time but you didn't move your face so that's that. Nothing a towel won't fix.

[JudynTX]

The soon-to-be ex-wife is pissed off at him, she called the HR department and told them he was stealing equipment. She also named 3 other accomplices and they are all now on suspension with pay. :wow

We don't know if stealing the equipment is true, but she told him she would get him back and well she is. :D

Update :lol

The accusations of the 4 workers stealing equipment was true. :wow

They have since been fired and will be prosecuted.

:wakeup

[rascal]

I have never worked with an attractive girl.

The guy deserved what his wife did.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Update :lol

The accusations of the 4 workers stealing equipment was true. :wow

They have since been fired and will be prosecuted.

:wakeup

Daaaaaamn. What about the scorned woman?

[JudynTX]

Daaaaaamn. What about the scorned woman?

Well I imagine she's getting her nails done. :lol

[Viva Las Espuelas]

I have never worked with an attractive girl.
Damn. Where in the hell do/have you work/worked? I find that hard to believe unless you're pretty picky.

[mrsmaalox]

Well I imagine she's getting her nails done. :lol

Euphemism for "having her claws sharpened"......:lol

[JudynTX]

Euphemism for "having her claws sharpened"......:lol

:toast Maalox got it. :lol

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Y'all do have that :D

[PakiDan]

Update :lol

The accusations of the 4 workers stealing equipment was true. :wow

They have since been fired and will be prosecuted.

:wakeup

Dad????

[JudynTX]

Y'all do have that :D

Just what exactly are you saying? :lol


Dad????


??

[rascal]

Damn. Where in the hell do/have you work/worked? I find that hard to believe unless you're pretty picky.

I am in a field (electronics) where men are mostly the workers. The women that work directly in my area are not attractive, overweight or black ect. It has always been like that where ever I have worked.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Just what exactly are you saying? :lol
Ha. Yeah right.

[cantthinkofanything]

I am in a field (electronics) where men are mostly the workers. The women that work directly in my area are not attractive, overweight or black ect. It has always been like that where ever I have worked.

so you work with skinny or in shape whites and Mexicans but they're ugly? all of them? butterfaces?

[rascal]

so you work with skinny or in shape whites and Mexicans but they're ugly? all of them? butterfaces?

I don't work with any Mexicans. I am in CT.

I have had 30 different jobs in my lifetime(fields where very few women are working) and never have I worked directly with one attractive woman. I never had a date from work. Getting to know a girl at work makes it easy to get a date. Much easier than approaching as a stranger.

[rascal]

so you work with skinny or in shape whites and Mexicans but they're ugly? all of them? butterfaces?

I worded it wrong. It should be I work with overweight(fat), black, old or not attractive women. That is ususually the norm. Attractive women are not all that common in many lines of work. If your not in the right field you are out of luck.

[tlongII]

I work with so many good looking women it's ridiculous. Seriously.

[Wild Cobra]

I am in a field (electronics) where men are mostly the workers. The women that work directly in my area are not attractive, overweight or black ect. It has always been like that where ever I have worked.
There are some beauties where I work, but not the women technicians. Some of the women who operate the equipment I service are pretty fine.

[rascal]

I should have chosen a field in the medical field. Lots of good looking women there and the pay is better than electronics.

[mrsmaalox]

I should have chosen a field in the medical field. Lots of good looking women there and the pay is better than electronics.

LOTS of hanky panky happening at hospitals....

[Proxy]

Proximity is a big part of attraction. Just throwing that out there as a variable in work-relationships taking root.

[GoodOdor]

Tbh it's almost inevitable, where else am I supposed to meet chicks I can date? I'm not into the bar scene and all the chicks in my coed soccer games are taken. It's gonna have to be a co-worker tbh.

[tlongII]

Soccer chicks are hot.

[GoodOdor]

Soccer chicks are hot.

Interestingly enough they go in 2 extremes: the hot, fit chicks who are really good soccer players, and the 200+ pound chicks who used to play back in college, and now think it's a good idea to start playing again to lose some weight.....not much inbetween tbh.

[rr2418]

I've dated women I've worked with and remained friends with both. But I'm sure it doesn't happen often tbh.

[rascal]

Tbh it's almost inevitable, where else am I supposed to meet chicks I can date? I'm not into the bar scene and all the chicks in my coed soccer games are taken. It's gonna have to be a co-worker tbh.

This is what makes meeting women hard if you don't work with them. You basically have to approach them as a complete stranger on the street. If your friends don't know anyone and you don't want to meet a girl in a bar you are left with dating services or meeting them as a stranger on the street or in a store. Very awkward approaching a girl you don't know, high probability of failure.

[rascal]

If you go about your regular boring life and try to meet a girl naturally, just have her there were you work or meet through a mutual friend it can take years to get a date.

Possible things you do during the week:
Go to work(nothing there), go to the gym(possibly a good place but numbers are not that great for attractive available women and many more guys there than women), go to a store, go home do it all over again until the weekend.

Go fishing(no girls there), go play in your softball league( no girls there) go to more stores(back to trying to meet a woman as a stranger), for some go to church( what are you going to do run up to one as they are leaving after church as they are walking out and try to strike up a conversation not knowing anything about her).

You almost have to go to a bar because there are not a lot of other good options.

[benefactor]

LOTS of hanky panky happening at hospitals....
Yup...everybody is banging everybody...from admin on down. I have several that are after me right now, but that's a road I've been down and will never go down again.

[Capt Bringdown]

I met my wife at work.
I never could live by the rules and still never do. (Thanks, Chrissy)

[rascal]

I met my wife at work.
I never could live by the rules and still never do. (Thanks, Chrissy)

So your banging everyone at the hospital.

[rascal]

Women generally don't like guys approaching them out of the blue. If you don't have many other options then this is how you have to do it or just let luck come into play and met a girl whenever it happens by just going about your life, unfortunately that can take years. I know through experience, it can take years.

Women generally don't like or trust guys they don't know and it takes some time to warm them up to like you. So you are already fighting an uphill battle when you just walk up to a girl you don't know. First off most of the best looking girls won't even be interested or are not available.

You often hear I am married or I am seeing someone or I don't know you. If your a smooth talker you can get somewhere faster , if your not it will take many failures before you met a girl willing to give you a shot.