Spanking kids

[CubanSucks]

any parent who says they don't believe in spanking never had to use it or never had to of had it done to them

fuck all these bullshit studies saying it causes emotional problems. The kids with inherent emotional problems are more likely to be spanked because they already act out naturally! Some kids NEED a spanking because they don't give a shit about what there parents have to say or they'r enot scared of having their things taken away/grounded

especially sick of seeing these self righteous pricks on news shows recenty talking about it

[Ron Popeil]

any parent who says they don't believe in spanking never had to use it or never had to of had it done to them

fuck all these bullshit studies saying it causes emotional problems. The kids with inherent emotional problems are more likely to be spanked because they already act out naturally! Some kids NEED a spanking because they don't give a shit about what there parents have to say or they'r enot scared of having their things taken away/grounded

especially sick of seeing these self righteous pricks on news shows recenty talking about it

your parents shouldve beaten you without mercy

[SA210]

Some kids need it. Period.

[polandprzem]

That's not a method of teaching anybody anything?


Why are we not spanking adults who are not behaving well?
Because they will give back?

[leemajors]

I have never spanked my daughter, she is almost 7. Have never felt the need to. It was never too much of a deterrent for me when I was a kid.

[z0sa]

Spanking has its place; the problem is the vast majority of parents do it as a straight up deterrent for just about anything, rather than as a grievous last measurement.

If you can't convince your kid of the problem with what they're doing, maybe you're just being a lazy piece of shit parent.

[byrontx]

My eight year old boy is easy to raise. Caring, straight A's, good in karate, loves tennis and never been spanked; or even threatened with it. Beating the crap out of kid just proves the larger can push around the smaller.

[RIP CITY.]

My eight year old boy is easy to raise. Caring, straight A's, good in karate, loves tennis and never been spanked; or even threatened with it. Beating the crap out of kid just proves the larger can push around the smaller.

He is a wuss in making.

[TDMVPDPOY]

spankin = discipline...if u dont believe that, come back t o me when ur kid goes off the road and becomes a menace to society

[cantthinkofanything]

Spanking is just like a gun. Not everyone knows how to use it. But you shouldn't be able to take it away from those that are responsible with it.

[cantthinkofanything]

^ LMAO. In my head, it made more sense. WTF.

[Drachen]

Actually, I thought it was a pretty reasonable metaphor.

[manufan10]

spanking is just like a gun. Not everyone knows how to use it. But you shouldn't be able to take it away from those that are responsible with it.


actually, i thought it was a pretty reasonable metaphor.

+1

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Spanking is just like a gun. Not everyone knows how to use it. But you shouldn't be able to take it away from those that are responsible with it.

Yep

Time outs lol

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Oh and there's a difference between spankings and beatings.

[Frenzy]

Every kid is different..some need spanking some don't. Does it make you a better parent if your kid doesn't need it?...god I hope you're not that ignorant.

[mrsmaalox]

I've spanked each of my kids maybe a couple of times. I can't say it was the absolutely only solution to the problem, as I have handled more problems just as effectively using other methods. I know for sure though, that it had a much longer lasting effect on me than on them. :lol

My mom was a strict disciplinarian, who spanked, slapped, hit and screamed all the time, for any infraction, including ones I wasn't guilty of. Did it hurt me in the long run? Nah, I don't think so, but I'm pretty sure it didn't help me either.

[leemajors]

Every kid is different..some need spanking some don't. Does it make you a better parent if your kid doesn't need it?...god I hope you're not that ignorant.

I agree with the overall sentiment, but saying some kids need spanking is just silly.

[ididnotnothat]

I agree with the overall sentiment, but saying some kids don't need spanking is just silly.

fify

[xellos88330]

This is a touchy issue.

The only time I spank my kids is if they won't listen to my warnings if they try to do something dangerous. If my kids are running into the street after I tell them to stay in the yard, yes... I feel it deserves a spanking. It is better than getting hit by a car.

If the kids don't want to go to sleep, I don't really think that is a reason to spank them.

[leemajors]

fify

An actual fix would be to say some parents need to hit something, and it's often a kid.

[Death In June]

Hitting a person that trust you implicitly, and is the most vulnerable and most destroyed by being hit, seems like a bad idea.

[clambake]

naruto kids should be spanked

[JudynTX]

I still have a vivid memory of my mom spanking me inside of Piggly Wiggly, right there in the aisle. Let's just say it never happened again. :lol

My mom meant business, all she had to do was raise her hand and we would behave. :D

[Cyrano]

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[SA210]

Spanking is just like a gun. Not everyone knows how to use it. But you shouldn't be able to take it away from those that are responsible with it.



Yep

Time outs lol


Oh and there's a difference between spankings and beatings.


I still have a vivid memory of my mom spanking me inside of Piggly Wiggly, right there in the aisle. Let's just say it never happened again. :lol

My mom meant business, all she had to do was raise her hand and we would behave. :D

:tu

[Viva Las Espuelas]

I still have a vivid memory of my mom spanking me inside of Piggly Wiggly, right there in the aisle. Let's just say it never happened again. :lol

My mom meant business, all she had to do was raise her hand and we would behave. :D

See, and that's pretty much the point of spankings. Again, I'm speaking of spankings not beatings. I remember various ass whoopin's but I deserved them. I was an only child for 8 years and boy was I shit. My Mom tells me of a time I didn't get my way and I threw myself down in the aisle in the middle of some store and cried my eyes out and screamed at the top of my lungs. I'm sure my ass was lit up from that one. No, I'm not "scarred" nor did I get or need any sort of therapy over it. Again, I was spanked and not beat. To be physically bruised is crossing the line and doesn't need to be lumped with spankings.

[JoeChalupa]

I've spanked my kids. I was harder on the oldest and while we've had some trouble in her later years she is doing well and getting ready to head off to college. I was way easier on my youngest and didn't spank and now she is in alternative school. Go figure.

[mrsmaalox]

I learned early on that just the threat of the spanking was all that was necessary. I had a plastic spatula that the mere sight of would pretty much avert any difficulties; without a word, I'd place it in the car and my kids decided for themselves there'd be no nonsense on this trip :lol

[Viva Las Espuelas]

A spatula?? :lol

It was just belt or hand for me. Boy, I remember when I caught the belt with my hand. I also remember my grandmother's palo. Boy was she vicious with that thing. Not on me but with my cousins. She never had to hit me. I was an angel :D

[JoeChalupa]

I got some chancladas a few times.

[manufan10]

The dreaded words, "Go get a switch." :depressed


:lol

[Viva Las Espuelas]

I got some chancladas a few times.

Oh man. My grandmother was a chancla ninja. Pretty much anything within arms reach, but again, I was angel :D

[manufan10]

I learned early on that just the threat of the spanking was all that was necessary. I had a plastic spatula that the mere sight of would pretty much avert any difficulties; without a word, I'd place it in the car and my kids decided for themselves there'd be no nonsense on this trip :lol

All my grandmother had to do was look at us.. she had these steely grey eyes.. man!

[mavs>spurs]

i like to spank bitches, not kids

[JoeChalupa]

i like to spank bitches, not kids

I let them spank me.

[manufan10]

I let them spank me.

:lol

:frying:

or

:deadhorse

[SA210]

"I will fuck your kids up. You ain't got to fill out no applications, the first 3 months free. You don't need no hidden videos around the house to see what the fuck is going on. Cause when you come to pick your kid up. I'm gonna look you in the eye and tell you what the fuck is going on. When you come to pick your kid up and he's got a knot on the corner of his head. And you say what happened to my son, I'm gonna tell you. I took a hammer and slapped the fuck out of him."

-Bernie mac :lol

[CubanSucks]

I have never spanked my daughter, she is almost 7. Have never felt the need to. It was never too much of a deterrent for me when I was a kid.

either your daughter never needed a spanking or you've sacrificed discipline so you can have a more friendly relationship with her which is retarded


An actual fix would be to say some parents need to hit something, and it's often a kid.

the actual act of spanking isn't needed, it's just the most effective way. If you can think of a better way when groundings/time outs or taking their stuff away doesn't work then please share

[CubanSucks]

My eight year old boy is easy to raise. Caring, straight A's, good in karate, loves tennis and never been spanked; or even threatened with it. Beating the crap out of kid just proves the larger can push around the smaller.

typical modern bullshit. Take a perfect form of discipline that's been around forever and make it out to be a bigger deal than it actually is. When the fuck did I say "beating the crap out of a kid?"


Hitting a person that trust you implicitly, and is the most vulnerable and most destroyed by being hit, seems like a bad idea.

If you think you're ruining the trust of a kid by spanking them after they do wrong then you're underestimating the intelligence of the kid. When I got spanked I wasn't thinking "why are my parents hitting me?! I thought I could trust them!" like I'm some clueless fucking dog. I knew they were pissed for a reason that I caused

[Cochina]

My Mom tells me of a time I didn't get my way and I threw myself down in the aisle in the middle of some store and cried my eyes out and screamed at the top of my lungs.


Ha! My liddle mijo trys that throwing himself down shit, and when I walk away he keeps getting up and runing ahead of me & flopping down & crying again. He did that shit at La Contera a few weeks ago!!!!:lol

[JudynTX]

I've spanked my kids. I was harder on the oldest and while we've had some trouble in her later years she is doing well and getting ready to head off to college. I was way easier on my youngest and didn't spank and now she is in alternative school. Go figure.

I'm wishing the best for her. :)


I learned early on that just the threat of the spanking was all that was necessary. I had a plastic spatula that the mere sight of would pretty much avert any difficulties; without a word, I'd place it in the car and my kids decided for themselves there'd be no nonsense on this trip :lol

:lol Was it metal?


I got some chancladas a few times.

We'd buy my mom new slippers for Mother's Day, Xmas, etc.., knowing damn well we'd get hit with those things. :lol

[JoeChalupa]

You gotta do what you feel works best for your children. I know that I'm guilty of seeing a child throw a tantrum in public and thinking to myself, "that kids needs a spankin." or "why doesn't that parent take control?".

[CubanSucks]

Ha! My liddle mijo trys that throwing himself down shit, and when I walk away he keeps getting up and runing ahead of me & flopping down & crying again. He did that shit at La Contera a few weeks ago!!!!:lol

what the hell was your ghetto ass doing at La Cantera?

[manufan10]

You gotta do what you feel works best for your children. I know that I'm guilty of seeing a child throw a tantrum in public and thinking to myself, "that kids needs a spankin." or "why doesn't that parent take control?".

I agree.. It's even worse when you're standing in line at a store and they're right in front of you. :ihit :lol

[Cochina]

You gotta do what you feel works best for your children. I know that I'm guilty of seeing a child throw a tantrum in public and thinking to myself, "that kids needs a spankin." or "why doesn't that parent take control?".

You were at La Contera when me & mijo were????:downspin:

[mrsmaalox]

You gotta do what you feel works best for your children. I know that I'm guilty of seeing a child throw a tantrum in public and thinking to myself, "that kids needs a spankin." or "why doesn't that parent take control?".

Not me. I always just laugh to myself and think "Thank God that's not my kid!". :lol

[Cochina]

Not me, I just laugh and think all the dinero each little caca head brings in welfare. :lol

[Creepn]

naruto kids should be spanked

:lol

[jack sommerset]

Deuteronomy 21:18-21 says "If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who does not obey his father and mother and will not listen to them when they discipline him, his father and mother shall take hold of him and bring him to the elders at the gate of his town.All Israel will hear of it and be afraid."

Talk to your children, help them understand what is right and wrong,lead by example, discipline them if needed but no spanking. If this does not work then society will take care of them. Kids need love not fist.

God bless you all.

[manufan10]

Deuteronomy 21:18-21 says "If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who does not obey his father and mother and will not listen to them when they discipline him, his father and mother shall take hold of him and bring him to the elders at the gate of his town.All Israel will hear of it and be afraid."

Talk to your children, help them understand what is right and wrong,lead by example, discipline them if needed but no spanking. If this does not work then society will take care of them. Kids need love not fist.

God bless you all.

"He who spares his rod hates his son,
But he who loves him disciplines him promptly." - Proverbs 13:24

[Blake]

New International Version (NIV)
2 Kings 2

23 From there Elisha went up to Bethel. As he was walking along the road, some boys came out of the town and jeered at him. “Get out of here, baldy!” they said. “Get out of here, baldy!”
24 He turned around, looked at them and called down a curse on them in the name of the LORD. Then two bears came out of the woods and mauled forty-two of the boys.

Talk to your children, help them understand calling someone a baldy is wrong,lead by example, discipline them if needed but no spanking. If this does not work then bears will take care of them. Kids need love not bear claws.

God bless you all.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

When the fuck did I say "beating the crap out of a kid?"
People love putting words in other people's mouths here for some stupid reason.

[leemajors]

either your daughter never needed a spanking or you've sacrificed discipline so you can have a more friendly relationship with her which is retarded



the actual act of spanking isn't needed, it's just the most effective way. If you can think of a better way when groundings/time outs or taking their stuff away doesn't work then please share

When she was old enough to understand me, I told her as long as she behaves she can do the stuff she normally does - watch TV, have a small dessert, have a story read to her. If she misbehaves past a count to three warning, I take one of these away at a time. My ex wife has spanked her before, but she always treated her more like a friend who did fun stuff with her - I was the parent who kept her on a regular schedule with a strict bedtime, very few exceptions. Because she is used to her schedule, I never have problems putting her to bed while her mother still struggles with it. I would like to think some of the things I do - like the schedule and/or always trying to give her a choice as to what we do, watch, or eat has contributed to her being such a good child, but I am probably just lucky.

I don't really have anything against spanking, it is just not something I would do at this point. I may have an entirely different view of it if I had a son, though. Do you have children?

[Viva Las Espuelas]

???????? Why would it matter if it's a male or female?

[mrsmaalox]

............ Do you have children?

:lol

[leemajors]

???????? Why would it matter if it's a male or female?

Do you have a daughter? Little girls are hyper sensitive for the most part. Mine cries if voices are raised a lot of the time.

[leemajors]

See, and that's pretty much the point of spankings. Again, I'm speaking of spankings not beatings. I remember various ass whoopin's but I deserved them. I was an only child for 8 years and boy was I shit. My Mom tells me of a time I didn't get my way and I threw myself down in the aisle in the middle of some store and cried my eyes out and screamed at the top of my lungs. I'm sure my ass was lit up from that one. No, I'm not "scarred" nor did I get or need any sort of therapy over it. Again, I was spanked and not beat. To be physically bruised is crossing the line and doesn't need to be lumped with spankings.

Did being spanked deter you at all from being a shit? I got my share of hard ass spankings but it was little more than a mild deterrent. Unless the metal end of the belt was used it was something to be endured and over quickly. Kinda pointless.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Do you have a daughter?
nope and not a parent. Don't really see how that discredits mine or any other non-parent's opinion on it.


Mine cries if voices are raised a lot of the time.
I'm pretty sure boys do the same......

[JoeChalupa]

If you don't want to spank then don't but saying it is wrong or doesn't accomplish anything isn't true or not always true. Spanking worked on me as a kid.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Did being spanked deter you at all from being a shit? I got my share of hard ass spankings but it was little more than a mild deterrent. Unless the metal end of the belt was used it was something to be endured and over quickly. Kinda pointless.

Eventually it deterred me. And using the buckle constitutes a beating by my and I'd think anyone's elses definition. I'm sorry that happened to you but I believe the thread specifies spankings. I'm commenting on spankings.

[leemajors]

nope and not a parent. Don't really see how that discredits mine or any other non-parent's opinion on it.


I'm pretty sure boys do the same......

You also don't have to discipline a child yourself. It's far different when you are dealing with it in real time.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

If you don't want to spank then don't but saying it is wrong or doesn't accomplish anything isn't true or not always true.
Neither is trying to discredit you because you don't have a child of your own.........

[CubanSucks]

Do you have children?

oh boy, here we go.

"Don't talk unless you have kids yourself!"

since I guess we're going on anecdotes now I once was a child with 2 older sisters and we all got spankings because we were all too stubborn to shut up after the threat of groundings and no tv


Do you have a daughter? Little girls are hyper sensitive for the most part. Mine cries if voices are raised a lot of the time.

we're talking about it as the last resort! If your daughter behaves after raising your voice then obviously she doesn't need spanking. You shouldn't avoid it just cause it's a girl

[Viva Las Espuelas]

You also don't have to discipline a child yourself. It's far different when you are dealing with it in real time.

Ah. So childless people have no compassion or not as much as parents????

Sorry. Gonna have to disagree with you there.IF that's what you're alluding to :D

[CubanSucks]

You also don't have to discipline a child yourself. It's far different when you are dealing with it in real time.

a big point I made in the OP was that every kid is different and some don't need it (your daughter obviously being one of them). Just because you have ONE personal example doesn't give you a special insight

[leemajors]

Ah. So childless people have no compassion or not as much as parents????

Sorry. Gonna have to disagree with you there.IF that's what you're alluding to :D

No. I'm just saying people often say one thing and do another when the situation actually presents itself. My ex swore up and down she would never spank our daughter, and lo and behold she did it. I came home from work and she was bawling about it.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

No. I'm just saying people often say one thing and do another when the situation actually presents itself. My ex swore up and down she would never spank our daughter, and lo and behold she did it. I came home from work and she was bawling about it.

Hmm. Well I'm not quite sure how that fits with you asking if we're a parent or not.

[leemajors]

oh boy, here we go.

"Don't talk unless you have kids yourself!"

since I guess we're going on anecdotes now I once was a child with 2 older sisters and we all got spankings because we were all too stubborn to shut up after the threat of groundings and no tv



we're talking about it as the last resort! If your daughter behaves after raising your voice then obviously she doesn't need spanking. You shouldn't avoid it just cause it's a girl

I was honestly curious if you had children or not.

[leemajors]

Has anyone else heard about parents dosing their kids with cough syrup so they are calm in public? I overheard a discussion about this at a playground the other day and was kinda shocked.

[Cochina]

what the hell was your ghetto ass doing at La Cantera?

You really need to ask?:greedy

[DMC]

Has anyone else heard about parents dosing their kids with cough syrup so they are calm in public? I overheard a discussion about this at a playground the other day and was kinda shocked.
I've dosed myself a few times with Jack and Coke in public so that I am more calm. It works.

[DMC]

nope and not a parent. Don't really see how that discredits mine or any other non-parent's opinion on it.


I'm pretty sure boys do the same......

There's a term called "speaking from experience". Your opinion is a presumption, not an opinion based on personal experience. Once you gain personal experience, your opinion on that subject will mean more.

That seems like common fucking sense to me.

[CubanSucks]

There's a term called "speaking from experience". Your opinion is a presumption, not an opinion based on personal experience. Once you gain personal experience, your opinion on that subject will mean more.

That seems like common fucking sense to me.


a big point I made in the OP was that every kid is different and some don't need it (your daughter obviously being one of them). Just because you have ONE personal example doesn't give you a special insight

unless you're raising an entire fucking orphanage you don't have anything on anyone

[Kori Ellis]

Has anyone else heard about parents dosing their kids with cough syrup so they are calm in public? I overheard a discussion about this at a playground the other day and was kinda shocked.

Those are probably the same parents that put their kids to bed with melatonin every night starting at a year old, or get them on ADHD meds at 3 because they are "active."

It's lame that so many parents don't want to actively parent, so just medicate their kids.

[byrontx]

He is a wuss in making.

At eight years old he has been in karate for 4 years. We spend a lot of time outdoors, too. He is tough enough. He has also been raised to be respectful to others. If you want to see a wuss, find a mirror..

[leemajors]

Those are probably the same parents that put their kids to bed with melatonin every night starting at a year old, or get them on ADHD meds at 3 because they are "active."

It's lame that so many parents don't want to actively parent, so just medicate their kids.

Yeah, I just let my daughter run around with her friends for an hour or two after school at the playground. She falls asleep within 15 minutes almost all the time. If it rains I take her to one of the inflatable playgrounds. Those things are just awesome, I wish they had them when I was a kid. The trampoline parks are pretty sweet too.

[DMC]

unless you're raising an entire fucking orphanage you don't have anything on anyone
If you can determine every kid is different, then you must have raised every kid.

See how that works?

[CubanSucks]

If you can determine every kid is different, then you must have raised every kid.

See how that works?

uhhh no, that doesn't work at all. So you're denying every kid is different? How do I know every kid is different? I'm a fucking human and I live on this planet

[byrontx]

Little Johnny comes home from school and is busy pestering his mom about this and that. Finally she says "Little Johnny why don't you go across the street and watch those men build a house and leave me alone for a bit." So he heads across the street.

Later, when he comes home, she says "Well, Little Johnny, What did you learn?"

He says, "I learned how to hang a damn door. You hold the summabitch up like this and you take some goddam nails..."

She said, "Whoa there, boy. You wait 'til your father's home and you tell what you learned."

Dad gets home and said, "Well, what did you learn from those men building a house today?"

Little Johnny says, "I learned how to hang a damn door. You hold the summabitch up like this and you take some goddam nails..."

"Stop it," says Dad. "I have heard enough. Go in the backyard and get me a switch."

"Fuck You" says Little Johnny. "Do I look like a damn' electrician?"

[Koolaid_Man]

My dad let me get away with bloody fuckin murder...lol

[Koolaid_Man]

i sucked my moms tits until I was like 4 maybe even 5...lol

[Dex]

My dad let me get away with bloody fuckin murder...lol


i sucked my moms tits until I was like 4 maybe even 5...lol

At least explains why you are such a spoiled, dysfunctional twit.

[CubanSucks]

Little Johnny comes home from school and is busy pestering his mom about this and that. Finally she says "Little Johnny why don't you go across the street and watch those men build a house and leave me alone for a bit." So he heads across the street.

Later, when he comes home, she says "Well, Little Johnny, What did you learn?"

He says, "I learned how to hang a damn door. You hold the summabitch up like this and you take some goddam nails..."

She said, "Whoa there, boy. You wait 'til your father's home and you tell what you learned."

Dad gets home and said, "Well, what did you learn from those men building a house today?"

Little Johnny says, "I learned how to hang a damn door. You hold the summabitch up like this and you take some goddam nails..."

"Stop it," says Dad. "I have heard enough. Go in the backyard and get me a switch."

"Fuck You" says Little Johnny. "Do I look like a damn' electrician?"

I think you're trying to prove a point somewhere in there

[FuzzyLumpkins]

Horse trainers have a saying that goes along the lines of "you want to tame a thoroughbred's spirit but you don't break it." Its a fine line and many people do not know how to walk it.

[DMC]

uhhh no, that doesn't work at all. So you're denying every kid is different? How do I know every kid is different? I'm a fucking human and I live on this planet

So you know how to raise kids because you're a human and you live on this planet. Got it.

[CubanSucks]

So you know how to raise kids because you're a human and you live on this planet. Got it.

you must've forgotten what you posted. You said that I must've raised every kid if I could determine that they're all different..to which I said "How do I know every kid is different? I'm a fucking human and I live on this planet"

I didn't say "I'm a human and I live on this planet therefore I know how to raise kids"

[O.J.Simpson]

My dad let me get away with bloody fuckin murder...lol

:tu