Pissed off at your parents

[JudynTX]

Never in all my life was I so upset or angry with either parent that I never wanted to talk to them again. Who does that?

[TDMVPDPOY]

it depends over what...

[manufan10]

Never in all my life was I so upset or angry with either parent that I never wanted to talk to them again. Who does that?

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[mavs>spurs]

talk to my uncle about it, fuckin idiot

[Reck]

Did that all the time when I was under their ruling.

[JoeChalupa]

My mom and I are not speaking right now. It happens.

[cantthinkofanything]

My mom and I are not speaking right now. It happens.

Do you want me to tell her anything for you?

[JoeChalupa]

Do you want me to tell her anything for you?

nah, we were very close until the past few years when she has made my sister, the oldest, pretty much the only one she tells anything to and my brothers and I have to hear from her.
I love my mother will all my heart but it doesn't, IMHO, give her a free pass to act rude and diss my family.
I pray that things will get better but only time will tell.

[JoeChalupa]

I was actually thinking about posting a thread like this to see if anyone else has had this happen to them.

[cantthinkofanything]

nah, we were very close until the past few years when she has made my sister, the oldest, pretty much the only one she tells anything to and my brothers and I have to hear from her.
I love my mother will all my heart but it doesn't, IMHO, give her a free pass to act rude and diss my family.
I pray that things will get better but only time will tell.

I had no idea. Sorry to hear it. I'll see if I can talk some sense into her.

[SpurinDallas]

I was actually thinking about posting a thread like this to see if anyone else has had this happen to them.

Just a sad situation. I lost my mother 2 years ago this May and we never ever feuded about anything. Wish she were here still...

[JoeChalupa]

Just a sad situation. I lost my mother 2 years ago this May and we never ever feuded about anything. Wish she were here still...

I hear ya. Like I said, we were very close up until a few years ago when she started to only confide in my sister. I have many, many fond memories of the good times and that is what I will take with me. But since the bond that we had hasn't been the same for years I don't dwell on it much. As a matter of fact my brothers feel the same way although they didn't have a major falling out like we did. My younger brother, the baby of the family, has even told her that he feels like a step-child compared to the way she treats our sister.
Oh welll. I will pray on it....yeah, that is right...I believe in Jesus.

[TE]

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:lol

[ChumpDumper]

it depends over what...There are things beyond the OP's imagination when it comes to her parents.

She should be happy for that.

[Muser]

Nope. Couldn't imagine hating my parents.

[Looter]

My momma was a crack head.

[Spursfan092120]

Parents gave me life..ain't a damn thing I could be that mad at them for, tbh...well, I'm sure there are, but I'm sure Judy's situation isn't one of them. What's the problem, Judy?

[mrsmaalox]

I've never been that pissed off at either of my parents----my mom on the other hand was a very "conditional love" kind of person; you lived up to her standards or she had no problem writing you off. She did it to me several times and after a few months or a year I'd break down and call her, she'd apologize and we'd start again. I just accepted the fact that she had some kind of emotional baggage she couldn't get past and always had to be in conflict with someone.

[JoeChalupa]

I've never been that pissed off at either of my parents----my mom on the other hand was a very "conditional love" kind of person; you lived up to her standards or she had no problem writing you off. She did it to me several times and after a few months or a year I'd break down and call her, she'd apologize and we'd start again. I just accepted the fact that she had some kind of emotional baggage she couldn't get past and always had to be in conflict with someone.

That is my mom. My sister calls her every single day and expects me to do the same thing so she will throw a guilt trip on us saying that we've forgotten about her, etc. My sister also has a much more flexible work schedule and is not married so she can take off and take her to her Dr. appointments so tells me that she is the only one that does things for her. Every time they come up to SA to visit they always go straight to my sisters house yet won't drive the extra 25 minutes to ours.
It is an accumulation of things and then she started giving the cold shoulder to my wife and when I asked her why she wouldn't even say hello to her she wouldn't answer. So things got heated and my wife begged her to tell her what she did and my mom said nothing. In the end my dad was telling my mom to hug my wife and to move on and she refused.
It has been about 2 months since it happened and since next month is Mother's day I am going to reach out and see if we can all get along but things that were said and not said have ruined what close relationship we had and it will never be the same.
It hurts and it is sad seeing how close we once were. Every time I see a commercial or show about mom's it is like a slap in the face.
Just this weekend I was watching some show about NAS and how close he was to his mom...that was us....and how bad things have changed. I too never thought my mom and I would be where we are now.
But life goes on.

[CuckingFunt]

Never in all my life was I so upset or angry with either parent that I never wanted to talk to them again. Who does that?

Sometimes shit happens. And sometimes parents are assholes who deserve to be shut out. Consider yourself lucky your parents haven't done anything fucked up enough to require such a distance.

One of my best friends was molested by her father. She hasn't seen or said a word to him in more than a decade, which I think is entirely reasonable in that situation. My maternal grandfather is an abusive (emotionally, and, when he was drinking, physically) bastard, and my mother and her siblings have all gone through phases where they cut ties with him for several years at a time. He's still a part of our lives, and I know that we all care enough about him to not wish any specific harm, but he hasn't done too much to earn anyone's respect or warmth.

Conversely, on my dad's side of the family, which is primarily uptight, WASPy Swedes, people who barely know or care about each other (or in a few cases who flat out dislike each other) share superficial pleasantries and come together for a meal once or twice a year in which no one says what's on their mind. I've never been convinced that was any healthier than just calling someone out for being a dick and taking some time away from each other.

[2Blonde]

My 20 yr old daughter has not seen or spoken to her father in almost 7 years. He was verbally abusive to her for years and finally became physically abusive the summer of 2005. The visit ended early with police involved & she has refused any contact with him since then. He still sent gifts for about 4 years but she returned every single one of them, even when he sent cash. He tells everyone it's just a phase and she'll get over it.

[RaZon]

Fantastic parents. I got lucky.

[JJ Hickson]

My 20 yr old daughter



Post pics imo

[SpurinDallas]

Fantastic parents. I got lucky.

I had everything I needed. My mother was the best. My dad was an asshole. Not abusive or anything that severe, but he could have been alot nicer. I learned alot from him about how NOT to talk to my wife and kids. Still love him though, but its hard to stroke up conversation with him these days.

[Twisted_Dawg]

I'm on the other end of this.... I am the parent. My youngest son graduated last May from high school. In his senior year, he started running with a wild crowd. Smoking weed, skipping classes, getting arrested at school for posession of dip, grades tanking, etc. He was always a real good kid, good grades, respectful, played sports, clean cut.
He was clearly spiraling downhill. Had many talks with him trying to right the ship to no avail. Finally gave him ultimatum that if he didn't shape up, I was sending him to Ohio to lve with his mother (who had moved away from he and his brother 6 years ago). He continued with his behavior, so I shipped him to Ohio. He is going to Ohio University, doing well and real pissed at me for sending him off away from his friends. He just texts occassioanlly. We were so tight when he was coming up. It hurts.

[Twisted_Dawg]

just joshing. Maybe someday, perhaps sooner than later, he'll realize you were looking out for him, and come around again

I couldn't just sit by and watch him spiral and deteriorate into some serious bad shit. As I told him, he is the one that made the decison to get shipped to Ohio by his continued bad actions and refusal to make changes.

I hope you are right.

[Pedobear1]

Post pics imo
:depressed

[Viva Las Espuelas]

Damn. I guess I got off lucky. We definitely butted heads but it never got bad.

[Sense]

It can easily happen when religion is involved :P

[TDMVPDPOY]

how many chances do you continue to give b4 you finally have enough?

[J.T.]

My mother guilt tripped me into signing a $3,000 check over to her when I was 18 using the whole "I raised you and did this, that and whatever for your whole life" excuse. Found out later the money was used to cover her own debts. Then three years later I learn from my father and relatives on his side that the divorce was because she cheated on him and he was like fuck this hoe. Something about being lied to your whole life just makes you instinctively angry. But you can't just quit your family like you can quit a job so I'll just be bitter and sarcastic toward her for eternity.

So yeah, I still deal with my mom but it's never me that dials her number. And when I get any of the "I'm old and need your help" phone calls 20 years from now, my response will be something along the lines of "cover $3,000 worth of my debts and we'll talk."

[JudynTX]

Parents gave me life..ain't a damn thing I could be that mad at them for, tbh...well, I'm sure there are, but I'm sure Judy's situation isn't one of them. What's the problem, Judy?

I posed the question because I hate hearing about kids disrespecting their parents these days. I've seen it in person. They have no problem telling their parents they hate them. I lost my mom 4 yrs ago. I would do anything to have her back with me. And since Mother's Day is coming up....well...you know.

Very interesting to hear other parent stories. Domestic abuse I can totally understand not wanting to have anything to do with that parent.

@ Joe....I hope things work out for you. :)

[JoeChalupa]

Just to be clear I do have fantastic parents and I thank God that I have them but even the best of parents can behave badly and cause riffs in the family. The bad part is that my Dad is always with my mother and can't do as much. When my mother left after our disagreement she said she wouldn't be coming back but as my Dad was leaving he turned to me and said "I love you, the kids and Pam" and don't you forget that. He hasn't seen us or his grand kids since that day. Being upset or angry with my mother doesn't mean I hate her or don't love her but I had to stand my ground, IMHO. I simply told her that if she couldn't respect my wife, as she demands we respect her in her home, then she shouldn't come around. Perhaps a harsh thing to say but I was never so proud of my Dad and so disappointed with my mom at the same time.

[sa_butta]

Just a sad situation. I lost my mother 2 years ago this May and we never ever feuded about anything. Wish she were here still...
I lost my mother in Sept. 09 and things with my dad have never been the same. Seems my mother kept the family together. My dad has since remarried and I hardly see him anymore. Last time we argued was because he favors my daughter over my son and does not include him. He called my son a problem child and that maybe he would take him when he is older. He is only 3 and my daughter is 7. Then he told me that he really didn't want me to have more than one kid. I really don't need someone like that in my life or in my childeren's life. It is sad that my kids don't have a set of grandparents like I did. If my mother was still here none of this would be happening...Miss her everyday.

[jack sommerset]

"Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord."

God bless

[Bill_Brasky]

Everyone hates their parents at some point. It's called being an angsty teenager.

[ChumpDumper]

"Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord."

God blessSo, if your parents said worship Satan and murder a bunch of innocent people, doing so would please the Lord.

[2Blonde]

My 20 yr old daughter has not seen or spoken to her father in almost 7 years. He was verbally abusive to her for years and finally became physically abusive the summer of 2005. The visit ended early with police involved & she has refused any contact with him since then. He still sent gifts for about 4 years but she returned every single one of them, even when he sent cash. He tells everyone it's just a phase and she'll get over it.


did he put that big pink wound on her face?


Post pics imo

:lmao I put the big pink wound/dot on her face to preserve her anonymity. Sorry, but all you pervs will have to do w/o having her in your pleasure pics. If she wants her pic on here, then she can join ST. :toast

[DeadlyDynasty]

There's pervs on ST?

[2Blonde]

There's pervs on ST?

:lmao:lmao:lmao:lmao

[I. Hustle]

My parents and I are on the outs too. It happened not too long ago. I was in the basement chilling with my friends and playing guitar hero. We ran out of energy drinks and decided to go on a caffeine run. I grabbed the keys to my parents minivan and they blew up. Yadda Yadda yadda I yelled fuck as loud as I could and my girlfriend had to hold my hands because I kept scratching my face.
Been sleeping on friends couches ever since.

[I. Hustle]

True story

[Viva Las Espuelas]

So you yelled "fuck" then proceeded to scratch your face???

[I. Hustle]

So you yelled "fuck" then proceeded to scratch your face???

Yeah

[NFO]

My momma was a crack head.

So you don't know your dad either and were conceived in a public restroom. Nice/Sad depending upon how you look at it.