so putting kids on leashes is hot in these streets?

[Trill Clinton]

i was at the rim this weekend doing some shopping and noticed a lot of parents had their kids on leashes like this:

http://i45.tinypic.com/1zmzbk7.jpg


http://i50.tinypic.com/20scih.jpg

pardon my ignorance, but is this lazy parenting?i think children should be free to explore, not be attached to some leash like a dog.

[I. Hustle]

The leash thing is dumb. No way I would ever treat my kid like a dog.

[ashbeeigh]

Kori may know thing or two about this - Real Mom Debate (http://realmomsguide.sheknows.com/2013/01/11/real-moms-debate-child-harnesses-heck-yeah-or-omg-no/?fb_action_ids=4198911418608&fb_action_types=og.likes&fb_source=aggregation&fb_aggregation_id=246965925417366)

[Trill Clinton]

The leash thing is dumb. No way I would ever treat my kid like a dog.


i'm with you fam.

[jag]

All these white parents got their disobedient ass kids on leashes and can't figure out how to control them. Got 6 year olds screaming "No!" to their parents and calling their mom stupid in public. If they'd start beating that ass instead of putting their kids in timeout, they wouldn't have these issues. There will be no need for a leash when you go out in public because the little bastard will know the consequences for him wandering off and acting like a retard.

[hehateme]

I've had this debate with the wife and we have come to the conclusion that the things we did as kids (say ride our bike by ourselves down three blocks at age 10 or so) is no longer considered safe in todays society. I am not sure if thats bad parenting or if the morale has degraded to the point where 1 out of 3 people you live near is bat shit crazy or a molestor. However, I still wouldnt walk my kid as a dog thats just degrading.

[mrsmaalox]

I've seen people with their kids on leashes and it hardly looks like treating their kid "like a dog" :lol All the kids appear pretty well taken care of and I haven't seen anyone of them acting out of control as if the leash is the only way the kid can be maintained. So I figure it has to do more with the parents having a heightened level of paranoia about losing their kid, than actually needing a way to control them. As a parent, if kid is safe and doesn't seem neglected or abused, I don't really think it's any of my business how others take care of their kids.

[D12]

Jag speaks the truth. Beat the shit out of the little fucker once and he/she will remember it next time they wanna act up.

[jeebus]

Lazy parenting. If I acted up too much when I was a kid, I'd get the ol spanking or another punishment when we got home. After a while, I learned to not act like a jackass in public. Nowadays, you see teens acting like little kids all the time.

[cantthinkofanything]

wtf do you mean by "hot"?
you damn pedo

[bus driver]

wtf do you mean by "hot"?
you damn pedo

:lmao



lazy, yes but at least their trying. its better than having the damn kid running around the store. or even worse talking to me.
sometimes you cant even enjoy places because there is too many damn kids running around and shit and their parents are no where around.

[Sisk]

Lazy parenting. If I acted up too much when I was a kid, I'd get the ol spanking or another punishment when we got home. After a while, I learned to not act like a jackass in public. Nowadays, you see teens acting like little kids all the time.

wtf is that gif from?

[spurs_fan_in_exile]

lazy, yes but at least their trying. its better than having the damn kid running around the store. or even worse talking to me.
sometimes you cant even enjoy places because there is too many damn kids running around and shit and their parents are no where around.

+1. FWIW, I can't recall a time where I've seen kids in a harness like this where they were acting up. Not saying it's some magical thing that solves all problems, but I'm not going to argue with parents doing something that works for them.

[Blake]

I've had this debate with the wife and we have come to the conclusion that the things we did as kids (say ride our bike by ourselves down three blocks at age 10 or so) is no longer considered safe in todays society. I am not sure if thats bad parenting or if the morale has degraded to the point where 1 out of 3 people you live near is bat shit crazy or a molestor. However, I still wouldnt walk my kid as a dog thats just degrading.

I don't think society has gotten morally worse or less safe.

What I think is that thanks to the internet and other technological advances, we are bombarded with bad news almost as fast as it happens.

We are much more paranoid now than we were 15+ years ago.

[HarlemHeat37]

:lol what the fuck?..this is a real thing? :lol..

My dad is an immigrant, he constantly beat me when I was out of line, and while Harlem isn't the nicest person, he has pretty good discipline, tbh..

[resistanze]

:lol Whenever I acted out in public, my mom would give me the "I'm gonna fuck you up" look.

By then it's too late even if I behaved. We get back home 4 hours later I'm still getting whooped.

[JudynTX]

We need one of those for Avante.

[lebomb]

Your kids NO!!!! Your woman? Hellz yeah!!!!

http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/vibevixen-ludacris-and-girlfriend.jpg

[Blake]

lebomb has to tie his women up to keep them from leaving.

[JudynTX]

:lol

[mrsmaalox]

We need one of those for Avante.

A leash? Or a straitjacket?!

[JudynTX]

Both

[spurs_fan_in_exile]

Shock collar, tbh.

[I. Hustle]

A muzzle

[lebomb]

lebomb has to tie his women up to keep them from leaving.


Yours stay because of the cuck in the next room. :toast

[Blake]

Yours stay because of the cuck in the next room. :toast

Untrue.

[Trill Clinton]

:lol Whenever I acted out in public, my mom would give me the "I'm gonna fuck you up" look.

By then it's too late even if I behaved. We get back home 4 hours later I'm still getting whooped.

okay!!!

shiiiit acting out in public was one rule i did not break.

if we pushed the cart on the back of mom's heels, fought or begged for candy, that was our ass.

[resistanze]

okay!!!

shiiiit acting out in public was one rule i did not break.

if we pushed the cart on the back of mom's heels, fought or begged for candy, that was our ass.

Believe me brah I didn't make it a habit. Even when you KNOW, you still pull that shit once in a while.

Sometimes I'd even forgot why I was geting whooped, it'd been so damn long since I misbehaved. :lmao

[cantthinkofanything]

wife and I were watching Family Feud

"Name something a woman might put on to appear more sexy."

I blurted out "dog collar" and she didn't even crack a smile.
I shoulda gone with "ball gag".

[2pac > Kobe]

When I got in trouble in public I had to walk home =(

[Drachen]

My mom beat the crap outta me on numerous occasions and no she didn't wait for us to get home. She just did it right there in the store. Despite all of that, I still liked hiding in the things the clothes were hung on. With all of that being said, I use one of these things. My one year old doesn't always want to be in the stroller or carried (and we don't always want to carry him). He likes to walk. This gives him an incremental amount of freedom to explore while walking. We used one for my daughter too. We didn't use it much past her when she was 2 and a half because we felt that it was time for the next incremental step (walking around on her own, but showing us that she was responsible enough to stay nearby) and she did a great job with that. It wasn't something that we consciously planned out, but we were just giving her an ever increasing circle of autonomy. You may not agree with it, but my kids are pretty well behaved, so...

Now, if you have people using these on 4 or 5 year olds... yeah, maybe lazy parenting. The thing I hate the most is seeing a 5+ year old being pushed around HEB in a stroller or even older in the shopping cart.

[jag]

With all of that being said, I use one of these things.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Usy_a__WrRA/T2zBGg7z2HI/AAAAAAAAqyI/QAnhTHjCpkk/s1600/cain+smile.gif

[ididnotnothat]

My wife makes me wear a collar and leash sometimes. But that is a different story.

[Drachen]

I know what this is from, but I don't get the meme.

[Koolaid_Man]

i was at the rim this weekend doing some shopping and noticed a lot of parents had their kids on leashes like this:

http://i45.tinypic.com/1zmzbk7.jpg


http://i50.tinypic.com/20scih.jpg

pardon my ignorance, but is this lazy parenting?i think children should be free to explore, not be attached to some leash like a dog.

man..I remember years ago I was baby sitting my cousins kids...now I had never done no shit like this so I didn't know what to expect...he fucking got 3 bad ass kids...at the time one was 5, the girl was 12 and the teen boy was 14...so I'm sitting on the sofa watching some fucking In Living Color Re-Runs and the little 5 yr old comes behind me and hits me in the fucking eye with a wet rag...man I reached over and whip the shit outta his little ass...then his brother said you betta not hit my little brother or else..I said or else what little Nigga...he started bumping his gums and so I took off my belt and tried to whip his ass...he grabbed my belt and said he wasn't afraid of me..so I said ok then I stomp your ass like a nigga on the street..and we boxed and I dropped his little ass with a quick 2 punch combo...he got up crying and said he was gonna run away...so he did...my cousin and his girl came back and I told them what happened and he didn't say too much he just said ok - whatever and went to bed...I was like ok fuck it and rolled on out...but man them bad ass kids never disrespected me again...not even to this day...

[DMC]

ES with the dead negro comedian shtick thievery.

[resistanze]

man..I remember years ago I was baby sitting my cousins kids...now I had never done no shit like this so I didn't know what to expect...he fucking got 3 bad ass kids...at the time one was 5, the girl was 12 and the teen boy was 14...so I'm sitting on the sofa watching some fucking In Living Color Re-Runs and the little 5 yr old comes behind me and hits me in the fucking eye with a wet rag...man I reached over and whip the shit outta his little ass...then his brother said you betta not hit my little brother or else..I said or else what little Nigga...he started bumping his gums and so I took off my belt and tried to whip his ass...he grabbed my belt and said he wasn't afraid of me..so I said ok then I stomp your ass like a nigga on the street..and we boxed and I dropped his little ass with a quick 2 punch combo...he got up crying and said he was gonna run away...so he did...my cousin and his girl came back and I told them what happened and he didn't say too much he just said ok - whatever and went to bed...I was like ok fuck it and rolled on out...but man them bad ass kids never disrespected me again...not even to this day...

:lmao

A Koolaid_Man classic.

[ploto]

If I really believed that parents were doing it out of some sort of paranoia for safety, then I would be more understanding. I think most use it so that they do not have to "keep an eye" on their kid as much. They can hold the leash and do other things without actually looking at their kid.

I never did that. My kid rode in a stroller, and then when he got bigger, he "helped" me. Maybe I was lucky, but I think you can teach a kid how to act, but it is a lot of work. You have to be consistent, remind them 100% of the time, and actually get up and leave wherever you are when they act up.

[mavs>spurs]

All these white parents got their disobedient ass kids on leashes and can't figure out how to control them. Got 6 year olds screaming "No!" to their parents and calling their mom stupid in public. If they'd start beating that ass instead of putting their kids in timeout, they wouldn't have these issues. There will be no need for a leash when you go out in public because the little bastard will know the consequences for him wandering off and acting like a retard.
if you want to talk about that then you have to look no furthr than bean3rs in that regard..those people are the WORST hands down about not controlling their 20 fucking welfare anchor babies tbh. not to mention they're just plain rude in general..last time i was in the mall and some rude mexican bitch just walked out right in front of me pushing a baby stroller like i was supposed to stop on a dime and basically dive out of the way to avoid hitting her i cussed her out and told her i ought to kick that stroller across the fucking food court, not that i'd actually do it but can't stand shitty parents tbh.

[redzero]

wife and I were watching Family Feud

"Name something a woman might put on to appear more sexy."

I blurted out "dog collar" and she didn't even crack a smile.
I shoulda gone with "ball gag".

Damn, does anybody think you're funny?

[Latarian Milton]

if you don't want your kid to wander off you can carry him on your back rather than treat him like a dog. its not like a leash may cause any physical harm to the kid or whatsoever, but it's gonna be a bad memory for the kid when he's grown. its like dressing up your boy in a girl's clothes and it sucks for the parents to do so.

[Latarian Milton]

My mom beat the crap outta me on numerous occasions and no she didn't wait for us to get home. She just did it right there in the store. Despite all of that, I still liked hiding in the things the clothes were hung on. With all of that being said, I use one of these things. My one year old doesn't always want to be in the stroller or carried (and we don't always want to carry him). He likes to walk. This gives him an incremental amount of freedom to explore while walking. We used one for my daughter too. We didn't use it much past her when she was 2 and a half because we felt that it was time for the next incremental step (walking around on her own, but showing us that she was responsible enough to stay nearby) and she did a great job with that. It wasn't something that we consciously planned out, but we were just giving her an ever increasing circle of autonomy. You may not agree with it, but my kids are pretty well behaved, so...

Now, if you have people using these on 4 or 5 year olds... yeah, maybe lazy parenting. The thing I hate the most is seeing a 5+ year old being pushed around HEB in a stroller or even older in the shopping cart.
tbh i've seen parents treating their kids even worse than a normal white couple do with their pets. they beat the kids to tears like they enjoy their kids' crying and the pain they're suffering, and shit mostly happens among minority families. most white couples treat their kids (especially daughters) like princes and princesses, which's the problem and the main reason why there're so many whining bitches out there today. while spoiling kids is not good, it may be just as bad, if not worse to treat them like sub-humans tbh.

[jag]

I think you can teach a kid how to act, but it is a lot of work.

lol "I think you can teach a kid how to act."

Yeah, that's called "parenting." It's not for everyone, and it's hard work.