the ONE .

[KarmaKarma]

So. Tell me... how do you know when she/he is "the ONE " ...
:makeout

[Rogue]

She looks & sounds similar to me in some way despite that we ain't even of the same race, I keep thinking of her in my mind night after day. Being a friend of her is always the #1 thing I crave.

[lebomb]

So. Tell me... how do you know when she/he is "the ONE " ...
:makeout

If she has become your best friend like Rogue said. Also, if you dont really desire to go out or do anything unless she is involved some way. I miss my g/f like crazy when she is away :depressed

[The Reckoning]

if you can live together without her bitching at you and can maintain a healthy lifestyle

[CavsSuperFan]

Doesn’t really matter…One day she will get close to 40 & accuse you of being abusive, a homosexual, not being there for her, etc etc…See Tammy Duncan…I hope this helps...

[Spur|n|Austin]

1. He/she is your best friend and personal confidant.
2. You can be 100% yourself around them.
3. You share the same plans for the future.
4. You work out difference by resolution and compromise.
5. You never cut each other down or belittle one another.
6. You can't see yourself with anyone else.

F what the old timers say, in this day and age a couple pretty much have to live with one another for an extended period of time to make sure you're compatible. You may be a perfect couple until you live together and drive each other batshit crazy.

[Chingo Bling]

Like, the one for today?

[silverblk mystix]

There is no - the one - this is just stupid thinking perpetuated by stupid people.

[Spur|n|Austin]

There is no - the one - this is just stupid thinking perpetuated by stupid people.

What would your wife say to this?

[silverblk mystix]

What would your wife say to this?

She would agree.

[Spur|n|Austin]

She would agree.

I'm not arguing, I'm just curious now - so ya'll are both on the agreement that you may not be meant for each other, and that there could still be someone else that's better suited for one another out there?

It makes sense, it's just a little dark and not very romantic :lol

[silverblk mystix]

I'm not arguing, I'm just curious now - so ya'll are both on the agreement that you may not be meant for each other, and that there could still be someone else that's better suited for one another out there?


Not exactly. It just means that we are realistic. Right now this is what reality is. There was no "the one" - We met. We got married. In the future we could stay til death do us part, one of us could die, one of us could be gone tomorrow, etc...
It is called reality.

It makes sense, it's just a little dark and not very romantic :lol


Romantic?

Another bullshit word - made up by stupid people and subcribed to by stupid gullible people. Reality - that is the most romantic word in the world if you think about it.

[TeyshaBlue]

She would agree.

Then you throw the tennis ball.....

[Bynumite]

When i stick my dick in her vaj and she says: "Wrong hole."

[The Reckoning]

F what the old timers say, in this day and age a couple pretty much have to live with one another for an extended period of time to make sure you're compatible. You may be a perfect couple until you live together and drive each other batshit crazy.


^this

couples need to live together for 4 or 5 months before even thinking long term. some people are awesome until you get into their personal space then they treat you like another tool to achieve their means.

[KarmaKarma]

1. He/she is your best friend and personal confidant.
2. You can be 100% yourself around them.
3. You share the same plans for the future.
4. You work out difference by resolution and compromise.
5. You never cut each other down or belittle one another.
6. You can't see yourself with anyone else.

F what the old timers say, in this day and age a couple pretty much have to live with one another for an extended period of time to make sure you're compatible. You may be a perfect couple until you live together and drive each other batshit crazy.

yesssssss,=] :married:

[Chief Brody]

when brown wings are achieved

[SnakeBoy]

You don't have to live together, just take a 10 day vacation with her. Days 5 thru 10 will reveal all flaws in the relationship if you are paying attention.

[JMarkJohns]

I can't. I thought I'd found her a decade ago. Nope. Meanwhile that other girl I could of got serious with during that time is freakin' hot, and an artist into body painting and artsy nude photography. The first was a dancer and gymnast growing up but got fat after having one kid at age 28. The latter was never involved in athletics in high school, and has now had two kids at age 30 and is one of those good looking fitness chicks and owns her own personal training business.

Not only can I not determine "the one" correctly, I didn't even correctly pick "the one" who'd make the best "one".

Now I enjoy my bachelor status, and above all, my freedom. I see all my friends from high school and the only other ones after me who got out of the shit town did so via military. Had that one been "the one", not sure if I would have made it out, either.

[KarmaKarma]

Not only can I not determine "the one" correctly, I didn't even correctly pick "the one" who'd make the best "one".

Now I enjoy my bachelor status, and above all, my freedom.

Ouch:(:bang

[KarmaKarma]

You don't have to live together, just take a 10 day vacation with her. Days 5 thru 10 will reveal all flaws in the relationship if you are paying attention.

Excellent theory .

[JMarkJohns]

When I was 20 I was blinded by blond hair and flexibility. Didn't even give that other girl a second date.

Regardless of whomever I coulda-woulda-shoulda picked at 20, now that I'm 30 and a univiserity instructor, I'm pretty thrilled to not be married.

I'll worry about "the one" when I feel like I need her.

[The Reckoning]

When I was 20 I was blinded by blond hair and flexibility. Didn't even give that other girl a second date.

Regardless of whomever I coulda-woulda-shoulda picked at 20, now that I'm 30 and a univiserity instructor, I'm pretty thrilled to not be married.

I'll worry about "the one" when I feel like I need her.


does that mean you get with college girls?

[The Reckoning]

and everyone has that girl they should have dated that was cute in high school then turned into a bombshell in their 20s. while all of the hot girls look like crack addicts or got fat. it happens.

[lefty]

and everyone has that girl they should have dated that was cute in high school then turned into a bombshell in their 20s. while all of the hot girls look like crack addicts or got fat. it happens.
Truth bombs

[Spur|n|Austin]

and everyone has that girl they should have dated that was cute in high school then turned into a bombshell in their 20s. while all of the hot girls look like crack addicts or got fat. it happens.

Far too often - they should tell boys this in Jr. High just to prep them.

[KarmaKarma]

When I was 20 I was blinded by blond hair and flexibility. Didn't even give that other girl a second date.

Regardless of whomever I coulda-woulda-shoulda picked at 20, now that I'm 30 and a univiserity instructor, I'm pretty thrilled to not be married.

I'll worry about "the one" when I feel like I need her.
...



I see. [ said.the.blind.man]

Wellll... I wouldn't, couldn't,shouldn't be able to "pick" someone at age 20! come on! & I understand that there are indeed exceptions........
obviously you fail to understand or know intial question....
Also, no-one needs to " worry" in finding THEONE. :rolleyes

[KarmaKarma]

and everyone has that girl they should have dated that was cute in high school then turned into a bombshell in their 20s. while all of the hot girls look like crack addicts or got fat. it happens.


TRUE STORY.

[The Reckoning]

Far too often - they should tell boys this in Jr. High just to prep them.


i always take into consideration how the girl's mom looks tbh. they usually fill out that way.

[Spur|n|Austin]

i always take into consideration how the girl's mom looks tbh. they usually fill out that way.

This is vital. I'd say they turn out that way about 90% of the time.

[JMarkJohns]

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I see. [ said.the.blind.man]

Wellll... I wouldn't, couldn't,shouldn't be able to "pick" someone at age 20! come on! & I understand that there are indeed exceptions........
obviously you fail to understand or know intial question....
Also, no-one needs to " worry" in finding THEONE. :rolleyes

I don't fail to understand. I said I couldn't help there, because my decade old experience was very wrong, pointed out that maybe even my decision of whom and not just when was wrong, and have since opted to be a professorial bachelor of arts and photography, where, yes, the reckoning, I'm plenty happy. Not saying I nail my students (technically not allowed), but it's a big campus.

Lighten up, man. I get you really want to know. But if you're honestly seeking advice on a life mate from a sports forum where subjects of sniffing panties, comparisons of porn/real sex, and a whole host of sexually immature topics are bandied about, then you'll be seriously looking for a long time. Have no idea your age, so I shared my wisdom on the topic in case you were a blinded 20 year old.

[KarmaKarma]

I don't fail to understand. I said I couldn't help there, because my decade old experience was very wrong, pointed out that maybe even my decision of whom and not just when was wrong, and have since opted to be a professorial bachelor of arts and photography, where, yes, the reckoning, I'm plenty happy. Not saying I nail my students (technically not allowed), but it's a big campus.

Lighten up, man. I get you really want to know. But if you're honestly seeking advice on a life mate from a sports forum where subjects of sniffing panties, comparisons of porn/real sex, and a whole host of sexually immature topics are bandied about, then you'll be seriously looking for a long time. Have no idea your age, so I shared my wisdom on the topic in case you were a blinded 20 year old.

WhoA.
Well.. like Isaid you fail to understand question, because you are not there yet,
but good for you! you are happy & single as you pointed out numerous times:lol =]
& I am lightened up
& no I am not a man or 20.
& no, I am not blind, I believe that was you as you stated...by blondes & flexibility.
& no I m not in need or seeking advice,from such forum
But what I am seeking is a good laugh :rollin
& I do realize what forum I am in, THECLUB where anything hangs out besides sports:downspin:

[scroteface]

1) she shares my white nationalist views
2) shes loyal
3) shes intelligent and can hold an intellectual conversation

those are my only 3 requirements

[JMarkJohns]

You fail to understand that I don't fail to understand the question. I simply haven't the trite, cookie-cutter ideal response you must be looking for. Your initial post was round about, as was my response saying I wasn't good at it at the point in my life I cared.

Had no idea you were compiling a list.

I'll help you out:

Kool requires panty sniffing
Lebomb requires cornhole as a regular meal
Scrote requires lots of bleach
Razonte likes talking sex with his sisters, so shared DNA seems high on his list
Duncan requires the likelihood of cuckolding and, maybe, a penis
Kobe requires the right to park is mamba in your pooper and give you surprise pearl necklaces

Need I go on?


WhoA.
Well.. like Isaid you fail to understand question, because you are not there yet,
but good for you! you are happy & single as you pointed out numerous times:lol =]
& I am lightened up
& no I am not a man or 20.
& no, I am not blind, I believe that was you as you stated...by blondes & flexibility.
& no I m not in need or seeking advice,from such forum
But what I am seeking is a good laugh :rollin
& I do realize what forum I am in, THECLUB where anything hangs out besides sports:downspin:

[byrontx]

When I was a young man I spent half my money on drugs, booze and women...and wasted the other half.

Can't say I regret it. Got married at age 46 to a much younger, beautiful woman and still had time to have a great son and family. Don't worry about finding Ms. Right, go find Ms. Wrong and have a good time. Get it out of your system so when you do settle down its without regrets. Then be committed.

[The Reckoning]

or you can find an awesome international girl, see the world together, and abandon society's pressures to act like a dumbass when you're young and marry when you're old.

i've heard people say marry and have kids young so when you're 40 and they're adults you can just take off wherever and enjoy life.

i'd say there's no one solution. it's completely dependent on where you're at in life and who you meet imo. it's nothing you can plan.

[lebomb]

1) she shares my white nationalist views
2) shes loyal
3) shes intelligent and can hold an intellectual conversation

those are my only 3 requirements


You forgot 4) .......... she pulls her dick out to piss.

[KarmaKarma]

We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in love.”*―*


Galway Kinnell

Great read:worthy::worthy: