I'm So Tired of Being So Undesirable by the Opposite Gender

[DMC]

Anyway, I feel pretty pathetic right now. It doesn't seem to take much to bring me down. I've always had struggle with my own self esteme, and many times, the people around me don't help. Case in point, the boss's teenage daughter came in to his office. The boss has a window in his door. As I walked by, I looked into his office and saw her. My desk is fairly close, but even though his door was closed, she didn't realize that I could hear her and she started making a fuss about me looking at her as if she was "some fish in an aquarium". I make people upset just by LOOKING at them!!

Tonight, a girl I know who has been friendly to me a long time ago, barely gave me the time of day, but was all chummy with this other guy. He's good looking and all, . . . then there's me, someone who isn't a "normal looking guy". It's not like I was after either of the two girls mentioned. The boss's daughter is a teenager, the other girl is married (so is the other guy).

I'm just so tired of being unacceptable to members of the oposite gender. I've already had major struggles being that I never had a serious girlfriend until I was in my mid 30's (my ex wife), now SHE changed her mind too. I SO much want to be "one of the attractive people" but that isn't going to happen and I feel like an idiot even having issues with it, but it's there, right in my face.

I was even having a good night, but it seems like one thing [one week] compounds upon another thing [the next week]. People, even my main counselor, keep saying that "I'll find someone eventually." Heck, I can't even be openly welcomed by girls who aren't even actually available (even if I were looking), what would give me any indication that this will change in the future??

I don't want to live out the rest of my life and be the crazy, weird, old single guy, but that is a very good possibility. And that future will be more than I can bare.

I don't want to just be the nice friend guy. Nice guys really DO finish last. Damn it, I want to be desired, . . . maybe perhaps needed by someone. . . . to be devoured even!! I want to be someone who "rocks someone's world"! And not just for a short while, but for the long haul.

And if I hear one more bit of "Christian advise" about how "God will be your spouse", I'm going to throw something . . . . . really hard . . . . at something maybe very breakable!!! Or whatever. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/rolleyes.gif

I just want to find that seemingly elusive "true love". I've seen it before. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/frown.gif

[lil'mo]

how surprising

[johnsmith]

Not sure if real

[lil'mo]

oh it's real alright

[rascal]

It is real. This guy is bordering on frustrated. And it may not get any better and you may not find anyone. I know, I am 57 and (not bad looking through the years) never worked with an attractive available woman or bumped into one just going about my regular business. You have to take the effort and get out and do things outside of your regular routine if you are not meeting anyone in your regular life. It just isn't going to happen by chance, I know by experience.

[Rogue]

wondering whose original work it is. DMC never seems to have more interest in bitches than Rogue does imho.

[Rogue]

if that's genuine (not trolling), then I guess DMC must've "wasted" too much time on his schoolwork during his childhood and early adulthood when most young guys his age were dating the opposite sex, which was why he hadn't got any serious gf until his mid 30s. I knew DMC's family life is just as much of a failure as the success his career is, tbh. But anyway, God is fair. His success as a scientist can more than compensate for the miserable failure as a husband and a man imho. Your hardwork during school time rewarded you with a doctorate's degree and an affluent life, so you're definitely a winner compared to those who lost their bitches because they're financially broke. Sometimes it's just not easy to achieve the ideal compatibility of bitch and cash, in which situation cash should be the right choice for a man because the other is contigent on it. Say if you choose a bitch over cash, you'll probably end up losing both.

[Robz4000]

:rollin

[rascal]

if that's genuine (not trolling), then I guess DMC must've "wasted" too much time on his schoolwork during his childhood and early adulthood when most young guys his age were dating the opposite sex, which was why he hadn't got any serious gf until his mid 30s. I knew DMC's family life is just as much of a failure as the success his career is, tbh. But anyway, God is fair. His success as a scientist can more than compensate for the miserable failure as a husband and a man imho. Your hardwork during school time rewarded you with a doctorate's degree and an affluent life, so you're definitely a winner compared to those who lost their bitches because they're financially broke. Sometimes it's just not easy to achieve the ideal compatibility of bitch and cash, in which situation cash should be the right choice for a man because the other is contigent on it. Say if you choose a bitch over cash, you'll probably end up losing both.

Got my first GF at 39. And there wasn't any problem with the way I looked. But I was broke and never even had a car in my 20s, so little to offer in a relationship, didn't want to settle for less than what I liked physically but never had the confidence that I had enough for an attractive girl to have any desire in me. Everyone has their own story.

[Trainwreck2100]

only one option left brah go out and rape bitches till they love you

[DJR210]

Here you go DMC, this will definitely help during hard times..

http://sanantonio.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/

Look up Valentina.. she's the shit. Me and baseline bum have both reviewed very highly.

[DeadlyDynasty]

Here you go DMC, this will definitely help during hard times..

http://sanantonio.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/

Look up Valentina.. she's the shit. Me and baseline bum have both reviewed very highly.
There's a Valentina around my old stompin' grounds too.

http://southflorida.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-valentina-super-sexy-sensual-786413-8947-100-real-pics-27/18416558

[The Reckoning]

i'm having issues too.

i don't know whether to go for the cougars who are shit faced and clawing on my ass or play it smooth with the ladies my age who require a little more work.

that said, last night i had a pregnant tatted up mexican girl almost beat me at pool when i was sharking the local joint. wtf :lol.

[DJR210]

There's a Valentina around my old stompin' grounds too.

http://southflorida.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-valentina-super-sexy-sensual-786413-8947-100-real-pics-27/18416558

I think your Valentina wins hands down..This ones got dem "sharpies", but it's cool.

http://images2.backpage.com/imager/u/medium/116045746/PicsArt_1389766910241.jpg

http://images2.backpage.com/imager/u/large/113918254/PicsArt_1389673516414.jpg

[DeadlyDynasty]

I think your Valentina wins hands down..

http://images2.backpage.com/imager/u/medium/116045746/PicsArt_1389766910241.jpg

http://images2.backpage.com/imager/u/large/113918254/PicsArt_1389673516414.jpg
All depends on how many "roses" it costs

[Koolaid_Man]

I think your Valentina wins hands down..This ones got dem "sharpies", but it's cool.

http://images2.backpage.com/imager/u/medium/116045746/PicsArt_1389766910241.jpg

http://images2.backpage.com/imager/u/large/113918254/PicsArt_1389673516414.jpg


you fucker tranny lovers need to cease and desist...:lmao@the cock folded between her legs....hiding the piggly wiggly :lol

[DJR210]

All depends on how many "roses" it costs

As long as you ain't butt ugly or old as shit, shouldn't be hard to talk her down to a cheaper bouquet imo.

[Koolaid_Man]

Anyway, I feel pretty pathetic right now. It doesn't seem to take much to bring me down. I've always had struggle with my own self esteme, and many times, the people around me don't help. Case in point, the boss's teenage daughter came in to his office. The boss has a window in his door. As I walked by, I looked into his office and saw her. My desk is fairly close, but even though his door was closed, she didn't realize that I could hear her and she started making a fuss about me looking at her as if she was "some fish in an aquarium". I make people upset just by LOOKING at them!!

Tonight, a girl I know who has been friendly to me a long time ago, barely gave me the time of day, but was all chummy with this other guy. He's good looking and all, . . . then there's me, someone who isn't a "normal looking guy". It's not like I was after either of the two girls mentioned. The boss's daughter is a teenager, the other girl is married (so is the other guy).

I'm just so tired of being unacceptable to members of the oposite gender. I've already had major struggles being that I never had a serious girlfriend until I was in my mid 30's (my ex wife), now SHE changed her mind too. I SO much want to be "one of the attractive people" but that isn't going to happen and I feel like an idiot even having issues with it, but it's there, right in my face.

I was even having a good night, but it seems like one thing [one week] compounds upon another thing [the next week]. People, even my main counselor, keep saying that "I'll find someone eventually." Heck, I can't even be openly welcomed by girls who aren't even actually available (even if I were looking), what would give me any indication that this will change in the future??

I don't want to live out the rest of my life and be the crazy, weird, old single guy, but that is a very good possibility. And that future will be more than I can bare.

I don't want to just be the nice friend guy. Nice guys really DO finish last. Damn it, I want to be desired, . . . maybe perhaps needed by someone. . . . to be devoured even!! I want to be someone who "rocks someone's world"! And not just for a short while, but for the long haul.

And if I hear one more bit of "Christian advise" about how "God will be your spouse", I'm going to throw something . . . . . really hard . . . . at something maybe very breakable!!! Or whatever. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/rolleyes.gif

I just want to find that seemingly elusive "true love". I've seen it before. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/frown.gif

I sure could use a blow job DMC....fuck those boitches man :lol

[DeadlyDynasty]

Kool would definitely know a tranny, with his track rcord on here:rollin

[DeadlyDynasty]

As long as you ain't butt ugly or old as shit, shouldn't be hard to talk her down to a cheaper bouquet imo.
Haggling ho's is one of my favorite past times

[DJR210]

you fucker tranny lovers need to cease and desist...:lmao@the cock folded between her legs....hiding the piggly wiggly :lol

Buzz off fake internet life, you ain't shit.


I can't keep these ho's off me. Had office head today.

:toast to inter-office pussy. Got some parking lot no quit no spit last Friday, then got swallowed another 5 times Monday. Never met a broad this hungry to eat a load.


Haggling ho's is one of my favorite past times

:lol

[Koolaid_Man]

Buzz off fake internet life, you ain't shit.

:lol nope..I ain't.... I'm gonna spend $120 on a nice steak dinner, some laffy taffy, maybe a Lime-A-Rita, some lottery tix..call up Katie..and hit that shit all night for free..you and Deads....gonna drop $120 on a $2 hooker in some roach infested motel :lmao...

[ChumpDumper]

lol lottery tickets for dinner

[DJR210]

:lol nope..I ain't.... I'm gonna spend $120 on a nice steak dinner, some laffy taffy, maybe a Lime-A-Rita, some lottery tix..call up Katie..and hit that shit all night for free..you and Deads....gonna drop $120 on a $2 hooker in some roach infested motel :lmao...

Lmao, shut your lame ass up, don't you trick money on dudes here at ST? Dropping 50 bucks in dudes paypals?? :lmao

[Trainwreck2100]

:lol nope..I ain't.... I'm gonna spend $120 on a nice steak dinner, some laffy taffy, maybe a Lime-A-Rita, some lottery tix..call up Katie..and hit that shit all night for free..you and Deads....gonna drop $120 on a $2 hooker in some roach infested motel :lmao...

how do you know it's $120?

[DeadlyDynasty]

:lol nope..I ain't.... I'm gonna spend $120 on a nice steak dinner, some laffy taffy, maybe a Lime-A-Rita, some lottery tix..call up Katie..and hit that shit all night for free..you and Deads....gonna drop $120 on a $2 hooker in some roach infested motel :lmao...
You'll be on the same site later tonight, but under the TS tab, as is customary with you and your post history:lol:

http://houston.backpage.com/TranssexualEscorts/?layout=gallery

[DJR210]

You'll be on the same site later tonight, but under the TS tab, as is customary with you and your post history:lol:

http://houston.backpage.com/TranssexualEscorts/?layout=gallery

:lmao faggot. Not just his post history, his race history as well. Studies have proved blacks are most likely to fuck trannies and other queers.

http://www.thecharlottepost.com/index.php?src=news&refno=5084&category=News

[DeadlyDynasty]

He'd also be the one to order a $120 steak well-done and ask the waiter for some ketchup

[DJR210]

I sure could use a blow job DMC....fuck those boitches man :lol

:lmao Hell, he even admitted it himself..Obviously his slang for trannies.

[Koolaid_Man]

:lmao faggot. Not just his post history, his race history as well. Studies have proved blacks are most likely to fuck trannies and other queers.

http://www.thecharlottepost.com/index.php?src=news&refno=5084&category=News

:lol got yall posting links to Trannies all becuz you're mad you got outed fucking that Tranny called Valentine? yall be careful yall getting Cum Dumpster all hot and bothered :lmao

:lmao@these losers

[DJR210]

..yet you legitimately trick money into men's Paypals..smh.

[Trill Clinton]

Anyway, I feel pretty pathetic right now. It doesn't seem to take much to bring me down. I've always had struggle with my own self esteme, and many times, the people around me don't help. Case in point, the boss's teenage daughter came in to his office. The boss has a window in his door. As I walked by, I looked into his office and saw her. My desk is fairly close, but even though his door was closed, she didn't realize that I could hear her and she started making a fuss about me looking at her as if she was "some fish in an aquarium". I make people upset just by LOOKING at them!!

Tonight, a girl I know who has been friendly to me a long time ago, barely gave me the time of day, but was all chummy with this other guy. He's good looking and all, . . . then there's me, someone who isn't a "normal looking guy". It's not like I was after either of the two girls mentioned. The boss's daughter is a teenager, the other girl is married (so is the other guy).

I'm just so tired of being unacceptable to members of the oposite gender. I've already had major struggles being that I never had a serious girlfriend until I was in my mid 30's (my ex wife), now SHE changed her mind too. I SO much want to be "one of the attractive people" but that isn't going to happen and I feel like an idiot even having issues with it, but it's there, right in my face.

I was even having a good night, but it seems like one thing [one week] compounds upon another thing [the next week]. People, even my main counselor, keep saying that "I'll find someone eventually." Heck, I can't even be openly welcomed by girls who aren't even actually available (even if I were looking), what would give me any indication that this will change in the future??

I don't want to live out the rest of my life and be the crazy, weird, old single guy, but that is a very good possibility. And that future will be more than I can bare.

I don't want to just be the nice friend guy. Nice guys really DO finish last. Damn it, I want to be desired, . . . maybe perhaps needed by someone. . . . to be devoured even!! I want to be someone who "rocks someone's world"! And not just for a short while, but for the long haul.

And if I hear one more bit of "Christian advise" about how "God will be your spouse", I'm going to throw something . . . . . really hard . . . . at something maybe very breakable!!! Or whatever. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/rolleyes.gif

I just want to find that seemingly elusive "true love". I've seen it before. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/frown.gif

http://i3.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/199/010/n1b782.gif

[DeadlyDynasty]

At least I gave you material for your very own spankbank (your kinda variety) as you heat up a hotpocket and masturbate into a tube sock tonight:rollin

[koriwhat]

lol what a fag

[CuckingFunt]

Undesirable to, or undesired by.

[Reck]

wondering whose original work it is. DMC never seems to have more interest in bitches than Rogue does imho.
Jacob1983

[Koolaid_Man]

DMC trying to get feedback for his son - tbh

[Rogue]

It doesn't sound like my nigga Jacob and I'm sure as hell that Jacob is just as pure a celibate as Rogue is tbh, which means there ain't never a bitch's hand having ever touched any of the four hands of ours. Plus, Jacob is still in his early 30s, provided that 1983 was the year when he was born, and it ain't nothing new here since there're many ST posters who attach their birth years to their screen names (BRPelican45, Durant_82, xmas1997 etc...)

[DMC]

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/relationship-health/507875-im-so-tired-being-undesirable-opposite-gender.html

lol

[DeadlyDynasty]

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/relationship-health/507875-im-so-tired-being-undesirable-opposite-gender.html

lol
:lolIf ever a forum needed some good trolling.......

[DMC]

:lolIf ever a forum needed some good trolling.......

No shit that one is ripe as fuck.

[DMC]

:p:

[AaronY]

This is funny because in real life of course DMC gets laid A LOT

[AaronY]

So its funny because its the opposite of what is true

[Avante]

Anyway, I feel pretty pathetic right now. It doesn't seem to take much to bring me down. I've always had struggle with my own self esteme, and many times, the people around me don't help. Case in point, the boss's teenage daughter came in to his office. The boss has a window in his door. As I walked by, I looked into his office and saw her. My desk is fairly close, but even though his door was closed, she didn't realize that I could hear her and she started making a fuss about me looking at her as if she was "some fish in an aquarium". I make people upset just by LOOKING at them!!

Tonight, a girl I know who has been friendly to me a long time ago, barely gave me the time of day, but was all chummy with this other guy. He's good looking and all, . . . then there's me, someone who isn't a "normal looking guy". It's not like I was after either of the two girls mentioned. The boss's daughter is a teenager, the other girl is married (so is the other guy).

I'm just so tired of being unacceptable to members of the oposite gender. I've already had major struggles being that I never had a serious girlfriend until I was in my mid 30's (my ex wife), now SHE changed her mind too. I SO much want to be "one of the attractive people" but that isn't going to happen and I feel like an idiot even having issues with it, but it's there, right in my face.

I was even having a good night, but it seems like one thing [one week] compounds upon another thing [the next week]. People, even my main counselor, keep saying that "I'll find someone eventually." Heck, I can't even be openly welcomed by girls who aren't even actually available (even if I were looking), what would give me any indication that this will change in the future??

I don't want to live out the rest of my life and be the crazy, weird, old single guy, but that is a very good possibility. And that future will be more than I can bare.

I don't want to just be the nice friend guy. Nice guys really DO finish last. Damn it, I want to be desired, . . . maybe perhaps needed by someone. . . . to be devoured even!! I want to be someone who "rocks someone's world"! And not just for a short while, but for the long haul.

And if I hear one more bit of "Christian advise" about how "God will be your spouse", I'm going to throw something . . . . . really hard . . . . at something maybe very breakable!!! Or whatever. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/rolleyes.gif

I just want to find that seemingly elusive "true love". I've seen it before. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/frown.gif

First thing ya do is stop wasting your time doing this messageboard trip. Start spending that time doing things more interesting than messing with a bunch of know nothing kids who saw this thread as some stupid excuse to post girlie pictures....wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lose some weight, gain some muscle, cool this.....poor poor me....attitude. Go dancing!

[Rogue]

what's really funny is an established scholar like DMC probably also lives a similar life as was described in the OP but he feels the exact opposite way. He might have fucked few bitches and feel proud of his abstinence. Of course he could've got laid a lot but sex ain't never an activity that appeals to the true scholars and badasses, imho

[Proxy]

self esteme

[Wild Cobra]

The only thing that struck me that I have read, was in the OP where you said

she started making a fuss about me looking at her as if she was "some fish in an aquarium".
Maybe you should take reflection on how you treat women. This suggests to me that you possible stare and stalk with your eyes, rather than normal casual glances. She is obviously uncomfortable with you. Ask yourself why...

[DeadlyDynasty]

The only thing that struck me that I have read, was in the OP where you said

Maybe you should take reflection on how you treat women. This suggests to me that you possible stare and stalk with your eyes, rather than normal casual glances. She is obviously uncomfortable with you. Ask yourself why...
^This.

If you're going to stalk somebody, use google earth

[DMC]

This is funny because in real life of course DMC gets laid A LOT

Like you I shave my chest and post selfies from my doublewide.

[DisAsTerBot]

pretty sure this is rascals life tbmfh

[AaronY]

Like you I shave my chest and post selfies from my doublewide.

Its just that you're so completely miserable and angry all the time, its kind of hard to believe you spend a lot of your free time sleeping with various beautiful women is all.

[DMC]

Its just that you're so completely miserable and angry all the time, its kind of hard to believe you spend a lot of your free time sleeping with various beautiful women is all.

And with those gay mag selfies, it's hard to believe you've ever slept with one.

[mrsmaalox]

Yea go dancing.