Koolaid_Man
03-14-2014, 04:45 PM
some of you parents ought to educate yourselves...lurk if you have too but I suggest you check this out...not just from moms but from the young girls themselves...
Debbie - posted on 02/20/2010 ( 30 moms have responded )
My 14 year old daughter is very attractive, and thus, attracts attention from boys. She has many friends who have already "done it." I know she's thought about it, but she's just 14! How can I help her to realize she's too young?
Samantha - posted on 02/20/2010
Im only 18 so i cant give you a parental view. but i can tell you that the more you try to stop her the more shes going to sneak around. and it will cause your relationship to go bad. But if she feels comfortable opening up to you about it then you both might feel better. And if you are worried you definatley want to know all the details. Also i definatley recommend birth control. But i dont recommend nuva ring coz you wont know if shes actually using it. try something you can monitor. that will also help you feel better. i hope i was helpful.
Ashlie - posted on 02/20/2010
Theres really not much you can do to make her realize that. Teenage girls have a lot of pressure when it comes to having sex. i agree with jocelyn you should put her on a form of birth control, but make sure that you tell her that your not okaying her to have sex.
Tammy - posted on 05/22/2012
Don't try to force her not to cause then she will just want to even more. Like what Jocely Smith said, ask her if she wants to and if she wants to take birth control just incase.
At 14 it is very tempting to have sex. I remember when i was 14, I was also very atractive and had many friends that had 'done it' and i wanted to but the thing that kept me from doing it was that i could get pregnant or get an STD and I was always terrified that if that happened my mom would know and she would be mad at me or even hate me.
So make sure your daughter is well informed about pregnancy, STDs and the pain that comes from it all. Tell her that you don't want her to, but dont make it forceful. And if she still wants to just ask her to be very carful. Hope this helps!!!
Pam - posted on 07/14/2011
There really is nothing you can do to stop it...it nay have already happened. What you can do is encourage her to come to you and talk about birth control if she is really thinking about it. This can only be done if you can be calm and supportive. Just remember...she will do it with or without your permission so it would be better to get her on birth control. Girls now are getting pregnant younger and younger and it is scary. I worry about my daughter as well in a couple years. She may not come to you and ask to go to the doctor, but if you give her that suggestion, maybe she will go on her own and be safe about it, if and when she does have sex
http://www.circleofmoms.com/welcome-to-circle-of-moms/how-to-keep-my-14-year-old-from-having-sex-487660
Debbie - posted on 02/20/2010 ( 30 moms have responded )
My 14 year old daughter is very attractive, and thus, attracts attention from boys. She has many friends who have already "done it." I know she's thought about it, but she's just 14! How can I help her to realize she's too young?
Samantha - posted on 02/20/2010
Im only 18 so i cant give you a parental view. but i can tell you that the more you try to stop her the more shes going to sneak around. and it will cause your relationship to go bad. But if she feels comfortable opening up to you about it then you both might feel better. And if you are worried you definatley want to know all the details. Also i definatley recommend birth control. But i dont recommend nuva ring coz you wont know if shes actually using it. try something you can monitor. that will also help you feel better. i hope i was helpful.
Ashlie - posted on 02/20/2010
Theres really not much you can do to make her realize that. Teenage girls have a lot of pressure when it comes to having sex. i agree with jocelyn you should put her on a form of birth control, but make sure that you tell her that your not okaying her to have sex.
Tammy - posted on 05/22/2012
Don't try to force her not to cause then she will just want to even more. Like what Jocely Smith said, ask her if she wants to and if she wants to take birth control just incase.
At 14 it is very tempting to have sex. I remember when i was 14, I was also very atractive and had many friends that had 'done it' and i wanted to but the thing that kept me from doing it was that i could get pregnant or get an STD and I was always terrified that if that happened my mom would know and she would be mad at me or even hate me.
So make sure your daughter is well informed about pregnancy, STDs and the pain that comes from it all. Tell her that you don't want her to, but dont make it forceful. And if she still wants to just ask her to be very carful. Hope this helps!!!
Pam - posted on 07/14/2011
There really is nothing you can do to stop it...it nay have already happened. What you can do is encourage her to come to you and talk about birth control if she is really thinking about it. This can only be done if you can be calm and supportive. Just remember...she will do it with or without your permission so it would be better to get her on birth control. Girls now are getting pregnant younger and younger and it is scary. I worry about my daughter as well in a couple years. She may not come to you and ask to go to the doctor, but if you give her that suggestion, maybe she will go on her own and be safe about it, if and when she does have sex
http://www.circleofmoms.com/welcome-to-circle-of-moms/how-to-keep-my-14-year-old-from-having-sex-487660