View Full Version : Female's are crazy!
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 04:57 AM
Okay, so I got this "girl problem."
I am really diggin this girl. We are pretty close. We spend alot of time together and are very open with each other. We both share alot of things with eachother. I have really strong feelings for her and she has feelings for me (No Supreme Allah, its not SD!! :lol). We are intimate and stuff, but are waiting til marrige before having sex. Anyways, on to my problem. When we spend time together alone, we are very close. The conversations we have, the moments we share, it is all amazing. I just love spending time with her. But, when we are in a group (ie. a party or sumthin) she is totally different.
She acts like I dont even exist! No "Hi." No "Hows it going?" Nothing! If i come up to her and say hi, she responds, answers my questions, and leaves as soon as she can. She will talk to almost everyone else, except me. This really bugs me. I wonder why she is so different around other people.
I am not saying,she can ONLY talk to me and no one else. She can talk to anyone she wants. That doesnt matter. What does bug me, is that fact that she totally blows me off, like I am not even there. All I would like is a simple acknowlegdement. Just a simple greating. A "Hi, nice to see you!" is all I want. And she can talk to whoever she wants.
I just dont like the fact that she acts so differently around other people. For example. We were at a party the other week. She TOTALLY ignores me as usual. While we are at the party, I dont even exist to her. Even as we pass eachother in the hall, she doesnt say a thing. Then as we are leaving, we see eachother in the parking lot, and she is all nice with me again. Shes all like "Hi, how are you! Good to see ya" Yada yada ya. Dont get me wrong, I really enjoyed that, and it made me feel better that night, but i would just like to know why she is so different around other people.
I really care about her, and I want our relationship to be all it can be, but this just bugs me. What should I do? Do I confront her about it? Do I ignore it and enjoy all the private moments we share? Any advice from anyone who has gone through this before?
Are all women like this? Is she trying to make me jealous? Whats the deal??? :wtf
xcoriate
08-11-2005, 06:23 AM
confront her... I think.
On second thoughts get a womans advice.
They understand their own :p
spurschick
08-11-2005, 07:21 AM
Are you guys in an acknowledged relationship or had you decided to keep things under wraps or something? Either way, I can't see any reason for ignoring you in public.
CharlieMac
08-11-2005, 07:27 AM
Positive she isn't dating someone?
TheTruth
08-11-2005, 07:35 AM
Positive she isn't dating someone?
What he said.
SpursWoman
08-11-2005, 08:13 AM
Either way, I can't see any reason for ignoring you in public.
Me either....none whatsoever. You definely need to get on the same page on the status of your relationship.
ObiwanGinobili
08-11-2005, 08:20 AM
I agree with SW and SC... it seems weird.
Does everyone know that ya'll are "together"??
(1)Perhaps she is uncomforrtable or doesn't know how to act with a BF in public, (2) maybe she's trying to widen out her association, (3)maybe her friends/others don't know she is "seeing" you....
whatever her reasons... it's wrong. it's practicly rude and disrespectful.
do the 2 of you go out and do things together in public or in a group? or do you only see each other in privete? (if you only see each other in privete it's gonna get pretty hard to stay abstinate.......i know from experiance)
Mixability
08-11-2005, 08:22 AM
if she's ashamed of you, drop her immediately
batman2883
08-11-2005, 08:30 AM
Women drive me nucking futs
Mixability
08-11-2005, 08:31 AM
Women drive me nucking futs
join the club
Clandestino
08-11-2005, 08:33 AM
Okay, so I got this "girl problem."
I am really diggin this girl. We are pretty close. We spend alot of time together and are very open with each other. We both share alot of things with eachother. I have really strong feelings for her and she has feelings for me (No Supreme Allah, its not SD!! :lol). We are intimate and stuff, but are waiting til marrige before having sex. Anyways, on to my problem. When we spend time together alone, we are very close. The conversations we have, the moments we share, it is all amazing. I just love spending time with her. But, when we are in a group (ie. a party or sumthin) she is totally different.
She acts like I dont even exist! No "Hi." No "Hows it going?" Nothing! If i come up to her and say hi, she responds, answers my questions, and leaves as soon as she can. She will talk to almost everyone else, except me. This really bugs me. I wonder why she is so different around other people.
I am not saying,she can ONLY talk to me and no one else. She can talk to anyone she wants. That doesnt matter. What does bug me, is that fact that she totally blows me off, like I am not even there. All I would like is a simple acknowlegdement. Just a simple greating. A "Hi, nice to see you!" is all I want. And she can talk to whoever she wants.
I just dont like the fact that she acts so differently around other people. For example. We were at a party the other week. She TOTALLY ignores me as usual. While we are at the party, I dont even exist to her. Even as we pass eachother in the hall, she doesnt say a thing. Then as we are leaving, we see eachother in the parking lot, and she is all nice with me again. Shes all like "Hi, how are you! Good to see ya" Yada yada ya. Dont get me wrong, I really enjoyed that, and it made me feel better that night, but i would just like to know why she is so different around other people.
I really care about her, and I want our relationship to be all it can be, but this just bugs me. What should I do? Do I confront her about it? Do I ignore it and enjoy all the private moments we share? Any advice from anyone who has gone through this before?
Are all women like this? Is she trying to make me jealous? Whats the deal??? :wtf
sounds like someone a chick would post
batman2883
08-11-2005, 08:36 AM
What the hell is wrong with bitches these days i swear......they love to make guys freaking go nuts before they acknowledge our undying attraction to them.. I mean do women find this very funny to be like, "lets see how much this guy really likes me....lets put him through hell give him a little tease, then send him straight through hell again, and if he stays he's a winner"??????
ALVAREZ6
08-11-2005, 08:37 AM
Are you considered popular? She could be doing it to keep her reputation up, I know a lot of girls like that. They think the people they hang out with have to be "cool".
I'm not saying anything about you, but who knows what she thinks. At those parties that you go to, other than her, how many of your friends go?
If I were you, I would just ask her. That's the best way to do it, just ask her why she acts differently around other people and how she ignores you.
AlamoSpursFan
08-11-2005, 08:38 AM
We are intimate and stuff, but are waiting til marrige before having sex.
Mistake Numero Uno.
:lol
batman2883
08-11-2005, 08:39 AM
Mistake Numero Uno.
:lol
Holy crap i missed that..lol man bang that shit raw and split........make her come after you
Guru of Nothing
08-11-2005, 09:06 AM
Are you ugly?
Mixability
08-11-2005, 09:08 AM
how old are you guys, age would be a major factor in this situation
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 09:56 AM
You are just a friend, dude, and not a very good one. She probably acts like that with other guys she is "friends" with.
Get outta there as soon as you can. Sometimes you rejecting her will make her think she likes you more, but she is not balanced, so just get away from her. Go get yourself a nice girl who isn't a nutjob or has to use/manipulate others to enlarge her ego.
Run.
SpursWoman
08-11-2005, 09:57 AM
You are just a friend, dude, and not a very good one. She probably acts like other guys she is "friends" with.
Get outta there as soon as you can. Sometimes you rejecting her will make her think she likes you more, but she is not balanced, so just get away from her. Go get yourself a nice girl who isn't a nutjob or has to use/manipulate others to enlarge her ego.
Run.
Actually...that's really what I wanted to say. Regardless of what happens when you aren't around other people...she is a bitch for treating you like that when you are and you deserve better. :)
batman2883
08-11-2005, 09:58 AM
Yeah your already in the friend stage, at that, she might mess around with you but nothing more....its a huge trap, once she finds someone she really wants, your going to get extremely jealous, and then she'll hate you for that...move on find someone who is going to care and want a relationship from you
spurschick
08-11-2005, 11:22 AM
What the hell is wrong with bitches these days i swear......they love to make guys freaking go nuts before they acknowledge our undying attraction to them.. I mean do women find this very funny to be like, "lets see how much this guy really likes me....lets put him through hell give him a little tease, then send him straight through hell again, and if he stays he's a winner"??????
Most of the women I know don't do that.
Kori Ellis
08-11-2005, 11:26 AM
Dre 7 - I would assume if that's how she acts in public, then she has another boyfriend. I don't know how old she is, but it's a freak move at any age to act like she doesn't even know you. She's behaving like you are having an affair with her and she doesn't want her boyfriend to find out.
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 11:28 AM
What the hell is wrong with bitches these days i swear......they love to make guys freaking go nuts before they acknowledge our undying attraction to them.. I mean do women find this very funny to be like, "lets see how much this guy really likes me....lets put him through hell give him a little tease, then send him straight through hell again, and if he stays he's a winner"??????
Psst! ...If you act like you actually have been laid by a woman in your lifetime and don't act like a desparate sailor going to sea in 8 hours, maybe she would profess her attraction to you after a few dates.
Kori Ellis
08-11-2005, 11:29 AM
Or maybe if you just don't refer to her as a bitch that might help. :lol
batman2883
08-11-2005, 11:43 AM
Psst! ...If you act like you actually have been laid by a woman in your lifetime and don't act like a desparate sailor going to sea in 8 hours, maybe she would profess her attraction to you after a few dates.
LOL trust me most of the time, i always get every girl i want.......and some, i just say some girls like to play crazy mind games......mostly immature ones though
batman2883
08-11-2005, 11:44 AM
ha ha ha ha ha i normally dont refer to women as bitches, it just comes out every now and then
Mixability
08-11-2005, 11:47 AM
LOL trust me most of the time, i always get every girl i want.......and some, i just say some girls like to play crazy mind games......mostly immature ones though
sure you do.....sure you do...... :lol
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 11:48 AM
LOL trust me most of the time, i always get every girl i want.......and some, i just say some girls like to play crazy mind games......mostly immature ones though
Sounds like you're waaaay more interested in them than they are in you.
Dial it back a few notches; make her wonder whether you like her or not. Don't act like you want her to carry on your DNA from the first moment you saw her (even if you do :lol).
batman2883
08-11-2005, 11:53 AM
No its not even like that, the ones that act crazy like that are the ones that are like, "ive been hurt so many times and i have to make sure you wont do the same"...." i have this wall built up now and you have to tear it down".....lol then after about a couple of weeks they are like i love you so much and im like peace....
Mixability
08-11-2005, 11:56 AM
No its not even like that, the ones that act crazy like that are the ones that are like, "ive been hurt so many times and i have to make sure you wont do the same"...." i have this wall built up now and you have to tear it down".....lol then after about a couple of weeks they are like i love you so much and im like peace....
you're a great storyteller
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 11:58 AM
No its not even like that, the ones that act crazy like that are the ones that are like, "ive been hurt so many times and i have to make sure you wont do the same"...." i have this wall built up now and you have to tear it down".....lol then after about a couple of weeks they are like i love you so much and im like peace....
What do you want, someone to profess their undying love to you in 30 minutes? :lol :lol :lol
Grow up, be a gentleman instead of some needy little boy who has to have constant reassurance, and gradually see whether this gal is deserving of YOUR time.
batman2883
08-11-2005, 12:00 PM
Ha ha haa Time is money time is money
spurschick
08-11-2005, 12:04 PM
LOL trust me most of the time, i always get every girl i want.......and some, i just say some girls like to play crazy mind games......mostly immature ones though
Sounds like you graduated from the GiG school of dating :lol
batman2883
08-11-2005, 12:05 PM
LOL fuck gig..........
Mixability
08-11-2005, 12:06 PM
Sounds like you graduated from the GiG school of dating :lol
and the student now becomes the teacher..... :lol
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 01:16 PM
:lol
Anyways...I have been asleep for most of the day (work nights) but I have just read through this. Lemme answer some questions. Yes, we are in an acknowledged relationship. Yes the people we go out with know that we are in a relationship, so she has nothing to hide. Thats why I cant seem to figure out why she is doing that. The people we hang with are for the most part, the same people. Thats how we met. Most all of them are completely aware of how close we are. It makes no sense for her to ignore me like that.
I really want to confront her, but a friend of mine says that it would probably not be wise to ask her about it.
SpursWoman
08-11-2005, 01:18 PM
I really want to confront her, but a friend of mine says that it would probably not be wise to ask her about it.
What is his reason for thinking it wouldn't be wise?
batman2883
08-11-2005, 01:18 PM
I have a friend that was like that, but the truth was she had more than one of those "acknowledged" relationships, she had like 3 more guys on the side
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 01:21 PM
What is his reason for thinking it wouldn't be wise?
He says that for one, if I do confront her she may try to force conversation the next time. And two, she will know how much it bugs me, and in the future she will have a way to make me mad/jealous when she gets upset with me.
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 01:21 PM
I have a friend that was like that, but the truth was she had more than one of those "acknowledged" relationships, she had like 3 more guys on the side
I am pretty sure she does not have another relationship. I would be willing to put a large amount of money on that.
travis2
08-11-2005, 01:30 PM
He says that for one, if I do confront her she may try to force conversation the next time. And two, she will know how much it bugs me, and in the future she will have a way to make me mad/jealous when she gets upset with me.
1. If she needs to "force" conversation with you in public, she is either incredibly shy about you, or she is uncomfortable about you in public. Either way, that needs to be addressed.
2. If having "a way to make you mad/jealous" is what the worry is, then there isn't much of a relationship.
batman2883
08-11-2005, 01:30 PM
From what you described in your story on how she ignores you around other people and stuff, it sounds to me like your not in any type of relationship with the girl. People do stuff like that when they are trying to hide the fact they are with someone or messing with someone, if she is acting like that, then you need to set her straight right away put your food down and just straight up tell her whats up.....she should respect that
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 01:33 PM
1. If she needs to "force" conversation with you in public, she is either incredibly shy about you, or she is uncomfortable about you in public. Either way, that needs to be addressed.
2. If having "a way to make you mad/jealous" is what the worry is, then there isn't much of a relationship.
No, thats just what he says. He has never met her. We have a strong relationship. Aside from this one little thing, everything else is great.
Mixability
08-11-2005, 01:34 PM
just move on......... she's not worth the trouble, if you ignore her and she comes to you, then maybe, but if you ignore her and she doesn't care....then theres your answer
Cant_Be_Faded
08-11-2005, 01:35 PM
have you considered her parents
maybe they dont allow her to have boyfriends and are strict like no other, and therefore she always feels nervous showing affection in public
that would make sense if this was a little toned down, i mean if you were exaggerating
but from the sounds of it, i think you should confront her about it (if you are really that close only good will come of it..) and if she has another BF then try to do one of her friends
batman2883
08-11-2005, 01:35 PM
Yeah just move on man cause that problem that you call little isnt a little problem, if your with a girl most of the time they are the ones happy to tell the world this is my b/f or this is my man or something, if she doesnt even talk to you in front of people there is something horribly wrong going on
Mixability
08-11-2005, 01:37 PM
Yeah just move on man cause that problem that you call little isnt a little problem, if your with a girl most of the time they are the ones happy to tell the world this is my b/f or this is my man or something, if she doesnt even talk to you in front of people there is something horribly wrong going on
i agree, you want to be with someone who is proud to be with you and someone you'd be proud to be with
Cant_Be_Faded
08-11-2005, 01:37 PM
if you dont confront her about it, then just straight up regulate on her
or at least have sex with her
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 01:38 PM
:lol
Yeah, I think I will confront her about it. Then I will go from there.
batman2883
08-11-2005, 01:38 PM
exactly that is just drama for your momma man, find someone who will be proud to have you around.
travis2
08-11-2005, 01:49 PM
No, thats just what he says. He has never met her. We have a strong relationship. Aside from this one little thing, everything else is great.
My point wasn't to bring your relationship into question...it was more to point out that I didn't think much of your buddy's advice.
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 01:54 PM
My point wasn't to bring your relationship into question...it was more to point out that I didn't think much of your buddy's advice.
Oh ok. Yeah I guess I dont think much of it either. He is someone I trust and stuff, but I think I am going to have to go against his advice and just confront her.
Guru of Nothing
08-11-2005, 01:57 PM
Sounds like you graduated from the GiG school of dating :lol
Does that make him a GiGolo?
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 01:58 PM
:lmao
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 02:00 PM
Show this girl the taillights and don't look back.
Tell her that her actions were unacceptable and politely as possible end it. You should refrain from chewing her out (even though you probably want to)so that you come off to everyone else as the mature one.
Mixability
08-11-2005, 02:02 PM
Show this girl the taillights and don't look back.
or the headlights and run her indecisive ass over! :lol
David Bowie
08-11-2005, 02:02 PM
Two things. It is possible that she acts different in private (when she is talking t oonw person) and in public. I know I do and it causes a lot of problems.
Two. It may be weird for her that she is spending so much "alone" time eith you. She may want to prove that she has other friends, etc. and other support besides you.
ObiwanGinobili
08-11-2005, 02:02 PM
1. If she needs to "force" conversation with you in public, she is either incredibly shy about you, or she is uncomfortable about you in public. Either way, that needs to be addressed.
2. If having "a way to make you mad/jealous" is what the worry is, then there isn't much of a relationship.
also- if you can't talk to her about your concerns and worries now... how are you going to do that in the future? (you did mention marriage)
openess and honesty are vital in a thriving healthy relationship.
whottt
08-11-2005, 02:53 PM
Dre 7...in my experience there are 3 types of women in this world when it comes to social situations...
1.Those that like to be the life of the party and need to be the center of attention...and just want their mate to be a supportive sidekick that doesn't embarrass them or steal attention away from them in social situations. These are usually the type of women, that have tons of friends and are well liked...but that become obsessed with someone who doesn't like them. These are the type that will viscerally despise you if they think you are pouting because they aren't giving you enough attention.
2. Those that are insecure and get jealous if you look or talk to another person, and always feel like you aren't paying them enough attention. IF you are having a good conversation with your buds, she'll be pissed off for some reason you can't quite figure out. But basically she's uncomfortable in a social surrounding.
3. The laid back ones. These girls are neither insecure nor do they desire to be the center of attention. These are usually referred to as the perfect woman and they are rare.
They are like the blonde chick in the first Conan movie...and they probably like sports...they are probably actually willing to get their hair wet in a swimming pool, even after you are in a serious relationship. These are the girls in 90% of hollywood movies..but I don't think I have met more than 1 or 2 of them in real life.
None of these girls are inherently good or bad, or better than the others...just different, and you have to decide which one is right for you.
It sounds to me like you have a type 1 girl. This girl might be pissing you off but there are certain benfits to having this type of girl...
These types of girls usually put a premium on their appearance and they usually look hot...of course they are usually so worried about their appearance that the chance for spotaneous sex is nil. Still they look good...
The other benefit to this type is that when you are at a party you can pretty much do what ever you want and not worry about if they are having a good time. You can actually watch the football game at the Superbowl Party etc...
I have gone out with a lot of these types of girls...IMO, if you are looking for a serious relationship this is probably the worst type of girl to try and have one with. These types are used to the world revolving around them and they are high matinence with low reward. If you are willing to spend the rest of your life as Abner Kravitz...then be my guest...but just ask yourself if you would be willing to put up with her high matinence BS if she wasn't hot...if the answer is no, this probably is not the girl for you.
My guess is this girl probably thinks you are being too clingy and pouty....if you are truly concerned with getting attention from this girl in social surrounding sitting around and pouting is probably not the best way to go about it...What you should do is become the lift of the party and then she'll flock to you in that sitation to try and syphon off some of the attention you are getting...Still, if you get too good at being the life of the party, she'll probably never want to leave you, but she will be jealous and resentful of you stealing her attention away...so you are really not going to end up any happier.
My advice with this girl is to go out with her and enjoy the chance to be free at Social sitations and talk to people who interest you about things that are interesting to you...while not having to worry about her. And since she is probably hot, you should fuck her as often as you can until things go bad.
Waiting until marriage to have sex with this type of girl is a losing proposition...get it now while the getting is good..because if you keep being a wallflower at parties she is going to dump you eventually...long before you get married, either that or else she'll feed off your misery and you'll have the ultimate love hate antagonistic relationship. IMO, this is the worst type of girl to go out with if you are really looking for a serious relationship, and probably the best type to go out with if you aren't. Types 2 and 3 are much better for serious relationships.
batman2883
08-11-2005, 02:58 PM
Waiting until marriage to have sex with this type of girl is a losing proposition...get it now while the getting is good..because if you keep being a wallflower at parties she is going to dump you eventually...long before you get married, either that or else she'll feed off your misery and you'll have the ultimate love hate antagonistic relationship. IMO, this is the worst type of girl to go out with if you are really looking for a serious relationship, and probably the best type to go out with if you aren't. Types 2 and 3 are much better for serious relationships.
Amen
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 02:58 PM
3. The laid back ones. These girls are neither insecure nor do they desire to be the center of attention. These are usually referred to as the perfect woman and they are rare.
They are like the blonde chick in the first Conan movie...
:lol Good one.
Kori Ellis
08-11-2005, 02:59 PM
maybe they dont allow her to have boyfriends and are strict like no other, and therefore she always feels nervous showing affection in public
She doesn't avoid affection in public. She avoids him completely in public.
I can understand not wanting to cling to you at a party. I can understand not wanting to make out with you. But ignoring and avoiding you?
It makes absolutely no sense if she's in a relationship with you.
batman2883
08-11-2005, 03:00 PM
Kori makes a great point....man i need to start posting my relationship problems here so people can help me out
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 03:03 PM
Kori makes a great point....man i need to start posting my relationship problems here so people can help me out
http://www.kidsplaythings.cc/cartmedia/images/product_category/136203.jpg
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 03:05 PM
She doesn't avoid affection in public. She avoids him completely in public.
I can understand not wanting to cling to you at a party. I can understand not wanting to make out with you. But ignoring and avoiding you?
It makes absolutely no sense if she's in a relationship with you.
Exactly, and thats what I dont understand. I will talk to her today or tomorrow and go from there.
AlamoSpursFan
08-11-2005, 03:09 PM
Hit it and quit it, dude.
batman2883
08-11-2005, 03:19 PM
Goose her then lose her, man its the only way to go, make her feel like shit for ignoring you......trust me youll feel better in the end
batman2883
08-11-2005, 03:19 PM
Matter of fact while your hitting it, go to to the Real Women Thread and do what im talking about over there.
tlongII
08-11-2005, 03:24 PM
She is playing you. Don't believe that crap about "saving it for marriage" either.
Mixability
08-11-2005, 03:25 PM
She is playing you. Don't believe that crap about "saving it for marriage" either.
i agree, but I did once date a girl that was saving her "ass" for marriage... everything else was in play, weird huh? :lol
tlongII
08-11-2005, 03:27 PM
i agree, but I did once date a girl that was saving her "ass" for marriage... everything else was in play, weird huh? :lol
Very weird.
David Bowie
08-11-2005, 03:40 PM
I don't understand why everyone on this site (not just in this thread) usually tells the OP to break up the relationship. It's not that easy to start up a relationship with someone. and also, when one is in the relationship, there are still feelings for the other person involved. It's usually not THAT easy to just break up with someone and hten forget about them.
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 03:44 PM
I don't understand why everyone on this site (not just in this thread) usually tells the OP to break up the relationship.
What's the stupid commercial jingle - You never get a second chance at a first impression. Once the shit has hit the fan, it's hard to clean it off. Better to get a nicer fan and keep the blades clean.
Mixability
08-11-2005, 03:47 PM
I don't understand why everyone on this site (not just in this thread) usually tells the OP to break up the relationship. It's not that easy to start up a relationship with someone. and also, when one is in the relationship, there are still feelings for the other person involved. It's usually not THAT easy to just break up with someone and hten forget about them.
i agree, but this particular relationship isn't worth it if she's ashamed of him and doesn't want to been seen with him too.
MannyIsGod
08-11-2005, 03:50 PM
I don't understand why people in relationships can't be more forthright and simply ask. She probably doesn't even know what she is doing.
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 03:54 PM
I don't understand why people in relationships can't be more forthright and simply ask. She probably doesn't even know what she is doing.
Hmmm? I never thought of that. Hopefully you are right. We shall see. I called her and left a voicemail. She will prolly call back soon, then I will ask her.
David Bowie
08-11-2005, 03:56 PM
Hmmm? I never thought of that. Hopefully you are right. We shall see. I called her and left a voicemail. She will prolly call back soon, then I will ask her.
Also, are you guys in High school? or older?
AlamoSpursFan
08-11-2005, 03:56 PM
And then go Sam Kinison on her. Come all over her back, take some cash out of her purse and crawl out the window while she's sleeping.
:lmao
AlamoSpursFan
08-11-2005, 03:57 PM
Also, are you guys in High school? or older?
I start 9th grade next year. Is it hard?
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 03:58 PM
Also, are you guys in High school? or older?
Older. Early 20s. I know, I am young and still "have a lot to learn." Ive heard it many times. :lol
batman2883
08-11-2005, 04:03 PM
U Need to donkey punch her to show her your not playing around
AlamoSpursFan
08-11-2005, 04:05 PM
And then give her a Dirty Sanchez. Chicks dig that the most.
:lmao
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 04:05 PM
To be exact, I am 20, turning 21 in December. She is 25.
batman2883
08-11-2005, 04:06 PM
so i take it you dont know what a donkey punch or what a dirty sanchez is huh?
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 04:06 PM
Enlighten me.
MiNuS
08-11-2005, 04:13 PM
1. show her the true you. If you feel this is a great prospect for you then..
2. distance yourself(give yourself some space,enough time for her to relax) then ..
3. be romantic,be spontaneous(flowers,nice restaurants,the zoo,a Spurs game,game court seats why not!)...then when she least expects it....
4. treat her like dirt...(don't go over board,though).... then
5. repeat steps 1-4 and you will have a nice relationship.
Warning! Do not fall on the opposite side of these steps or you will be washing her dishes,her clothes,car,and bathing the dog....for the rest of your life!
Mix it up.If she's interested she will come.
SWC Bonfire
08-11-2005, 04:14 PM
To be exact, I am 20, turning 21 in December. She is 25.
To make a sweeping generalization, there is no way a 25 year old should be going out with a 20 year old, unless she is really immature and/or enjoys controlling other people.
SpursWoman
08-11-2005, 04:17 PM
To make a sweeping generalization, there is no way a 25 year old should be going out with a 20 year old, unless she is really immature and/or enjoys controlling other people.
So Kori, Shelly & I are controlling and/or immature? :lmao
I know, we're over 25 and *they* are over 20.....and you were generalizing, but it was funny typing it anyway... :lol
batman2883
08-11-2005, 04:19 PM
Go to the real women thread
MiNuS
08-11-2005, 04:19 PM
To make a sweeping generalization, there is no way a 25 year old should be going out with a 20 year old, unless she is really immature and/or enjoys controlling other people.
not necessarily! Let her feel she's in control and use that for your advantage!
21 and she's 25! I remember being 18 and going out with women as old as 30.
There's no way you should be falling in love with any woman at that age!
Enjoy your youth!
ObiwanGinobili
08-11-2005, 04:30 PM
Enlighten me.
you don't want to know.
you may think you do.
but you'll regret finding out the definitions of those phrases.
trust me.
batman2883
08-11-2005, 04:57 PM
you don't want to know.
you may think you do.
but you'll regret finding out the definitions of those phrases.
trust me.
Ha ha ha ha ha ha its good for a laugh at least?
ObiwanGinobili
08-11-2005, 05:14 PM
Ha ha ha ha ha ha its good for a laugh at least?
it was once Kori introduced the idea of you being the punchee. :lol
sorry. :princess
Mixability
08-11-2005, 05:23 PM
it was once Kori introduced the idea of you being the punchee. :lol
sorry. :princess
now thats funny! :rollin
batman2883
08-11-2005, 05:27 PM
Ha ha ha ha ha very very funny its all good you can laugh it up i know the truth..........Kori your awesome, can i bestow upon you a little title of mini me......you can be Awesome Jr.
Dre_7
08-11-2005, 08:24 PM
To make a sweeping generalization, there is no way a 25 year old should be going out with a 20 year old, unless she is really immature and/or enjoys controlling other people.
Or, unless the 20 year old is mature??
Didnt think about that one did ya? :p
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