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gospursgojas
09-02-2005, 01:47 AM
Some of you all may already know, but for those who don't... I'm going downtown and getting my girls last name changed to mine on the 12th :elephant
We are getting an apartment together and its something we wanted to do before moving in together. I wish I could give the love of my life the beautiful wedding she deserves, but the $$$ isn't quite there yet. But when we do all of you guys are invited :spin
Anyway... just wanted to know if any of you all have any advice to share with me. On
1. Moving
2. Living together
3. Getting married
Thanks.... :king
Horry For 3!
09-02-2005, 01:49 AM
Congrats. :tu I have no idea...never been married, don't plan on to for awhile.
Johnny_Blaze_47
09-02-2005, 01:49 AM
I wouldn't know a thing about getting married, but all I can say is congrats and best wishes for your future.
Kori Ellis
09-02-2005, 01:50 AM
Being married is awesome!
Don't worry about petty things.
Think before you speak.
Enjoy the simple things.
Have a lot of sex.
:tu
Good luck!
From personal experience, I'd definitely recommend living together (and moving to a new residence - a place that's neither hers nor yours, but belongs to both of you) before getting married.
Sounds like you're on the right track.
I have no advice about moving except not arguing with your woman when it comes to throwing your shit away.
timvp
09-02-2005, 01:53 AM
Just remember to take out the trash.
Oh damn, is it trash day again already?
:depressed
Horry For 3!
09-02-2005, 01:55 AM
Just remember to take out the trash.
Oh damn, is it trash day again already?
:depressed
Yup, Friday is trash day. :tu
Vashner
09-02-2005, 02:39 AM
Run !
TheTruth
09-02-2005, 02:47 AM
Invite TheTruth over whenever the threat of a fight arises.
TheWriter
09-02-2005, 02:52 AM
Get out. Get out now.
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TheWriter
09-02-2005, 02:55 AM
I told my wife I wouldn't drink tonight. Besides, I got a big day tomorrow. You guys have a great time. Like what you ask? Well, um, actually a pretty nice little Saturday, we're going to go to Home Depot. Yeah, buy some wallpaper, maybe get some flooring, stuff like that. Maybe Bed, Bath, & Beyond, I don't know, I don't know if we'll have enough time.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v174/derekmarc/old_school_will_ferrell.jpg
baseline bum
09-02-2005, 02:59 AM
Congrats, man. You two look like an awesome couple!
Mrs.Roper
09-02-2005, 07:24 AM
Remember her needs.
IceColdBrewski
09-02-2005, 07:44 AM
Anyway... just wanted to know if any of you all have any advice to share with me. On
1. Moving
2. Living together
3. Getting married
Thanks.... :king
Getting married: Big weddings are overrated. Head down to the Justice of the peace and get it over with.
Living together: Learn patience.
Moving: Lift with your knees. Not your back.
SpursWoman
09-02-2005, 08:17 AM
Getting married: Big weddings are overrated. Head down to the Justice of the peace and get it over with.
Seriously....if you're going through the PITA of changing her name, just get married! Sometime down the line when ya'll get more established you can renew your vows and have a great party!
JOP & License ... at least a few years ago, was only $110. Cheaper than a name change, which last I heard was $200. :lol
But anyway, good luck! It's great to hear some good news. :)
SWC Bonfire
09-02-2005, 08:27 AM
Getting married: Big weddings are overrated. Head down to the Justice of the peace and get it over with.
Everyone I know who has been married for 50+ years didn't have a big wedding... divorce rate is higher now... possibly a relationship there???
Do like my buddy did - immediate family only, on the beach, spend all the money on booze and the honeymoon. :tu
Congrats!
midgetonadonkey
09-02-2005, 09:03 AM
Stay drunk. That helps me get through the day.
Trainwreck2100
09-02-2005, 09:31 AM
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"Dont foget yo prenup"
SWC Bonfire
09-02-2005, 09:32 AM
http://museum.lamarpa.edu/sjackson.jpg
"Dont forget yo prenup"
:lol :tu
howbouthemspurs
09-08-2005, 01:55 AM
GO SPURS GO!!!!! your Fiance is hot!!! I would LIKE to get a piece of that!!!!
You lucky BASTARD!!!!!
At least she dont look like this!!http://www.clanit.com/art/ugly.jpg
ObiwanGinobili
09-08-2005, 08:11 AM
Anyway... just wanted to know if any of you all have any advice to share with me. On
1. Moving
2. Living together
3. Getting married
Thanks.... :king
Congratulations!!!! :elephant
and don't worry too much about some BIG wedding.. it's just 1 day, your focusing on a lifetimw. Just throw a good party @ a future date. :tu
1. moving. pack your dishes and breakables in your clothes , sheets and towels. move the heavy stuff early in the morning asap.. cause the later it gets the hotter it gets and you'll have no energy.
2. living together/gettign married.
decide right away who gets what side of the bed, who turns off the light, who gets the alarm clock, and who does what chores.
say things as nicely as possible
don't go to bed angry
take each other into consideration with every decision
listen
have lots and lots of sex.
ObiwanGinobili
09-08-2005, 08:15 AM
Everyone I know who has been married for 50+ years didn't have a big wedding... divorce rate is higher now... possibly a relationship there???
Do like my buddy did - immediate family only, on the beach, spend all the money on booze and the honeymoon. :tu
Congrats!
we had 13 people in my mommas huge house.
it was awesome. pics were gifts from friends.. so was hair flowers and makeup.
almost 7 years later and no regrets at all about hte small wedding. It was just what we wanted and we had alot more $$ to spend on US and our honeymoon and stuff we needed for the house etc etc.
batman2883
09-08-2005, 08:17 AM
Some of you all may already know, but for those who don't... I'm going downtown and getting my girls last name changed to mine on the 12th :elephant
We are getting an apartment together and its something we wanted to do before moving in together. I wish I could give the love of my life the beautiful wedding she deserves, but the $$$ isn't quite there yet. But when we do all of you guys are invited :spin
Anyway... just wanted to know if any of you all have any advice to share with me. On
1. Moving
2. Living together
3. Getting married
Thanks.... :king
Here is the best advice i can give....run man run as far as you can possible as fast as you can.......women are the devil...they only treat you nice till you give them what they want run.......lol j/k congrats man keep the love alive in your relationship, always do spontaneous things and treat her with respect best of wishes
BigDaddyMatty
09-08-2005, 08:19 AM
Buy some handcuffs and KY.
That'll keep things going through the hard times.
TOP-CHERRY
09-08-2005, 11:18 AM
Some of you all may already know, but for those who don't... I'm going downtown and getting my girls last name changed to mine on the 12th :elephant
We are getting an apartment together and its something we wanted to do before moving in together. I wish I could give the love of my life the beautiful wedding she deserves, but the $$$ isn't quite there yet. But when we do all of you guys are invited :spin
Anyway... just wanted to know if any of you all have any advice to share with me. On
1. Moving
2. Living together
3. Getting married
Thanks.... :king
Awwwww... Congrats! :elephant
sa_butta
09-08-2005, 11:33 AM
Congrats, have lots of fun together, respect each other and
of course sex is always good medicine.
MiNuS
09-08-2005, 12:27 PM
Anyway... just wanted to know if any of you all have any advice to share with me. On
1. Moving
2. Living together
3. Getting married
IMO
I suggest you postpone the moving in part. Save up instead of paying rent.Get the Married part 1st. I understand why you want to move in first though.I understand.
Moving is a BITCH. I just moved last week and that takes getting off the computer and off your ass.Its a BITCH anyway you see it.
(MOVING FROM ONE APARTMENT/HOUSE TO ANOTHER)
Living together: I will be married 5 years this coming December. It has its ups and downs. Very important to communicate.Keep the bridge open always: emotionally,sexually,financially,and yes be honest about what you type on the internet.Its not good to be a two faced person.
Everybody has differrent expectations. Its better that you talk it over with your gal and not on the internet.
Getting Married: I was brought up believing marriage is sacred and that's why I had tons of fun and went out with women until I was fed up with the same BS until 27 y/o. I love my wife and she is the other half that makes me complete.
You could say I am minus and she is the PLUS is my life.
Marriage is beautiful!Enjoy it!
I will say when you do come to that decision its important to find out your partners expectaions and dreams.Be honest with each other and remember change is inevitable. I am now about 40lbs fatter than when my wife met me.My wife has also gained lbs. We still love each other not for our sexy exterior.
patience is key!
good luck
batman2883
09-08-2005, 12:28 PM
should have called i would have helped you move
tlongII
09-08-2005, 12:34 PM
Don't let these people fool you. In the majority of cases marriage sucks ass!
Sportcamper
09-09-2005, 08:35 AM
Once upon a time, a guy asked a girl "Will you marry me?"
The girl said, "NO!"
And the guy lived happily ever after. . . He went fishing, hunting, played golf a lot, played cards, bought a lot of hot cars, drank beer and farted whenever he wanted....
THE END
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