So I was Dumped Yesterday

[Huey Freeman]

And this shit hurts like hell. I have never been dumped like this before tbh. Usually my relationships end with me throwing them away someway. This is the first time in my life that girl that I had a thing for rejectme like this. Blantly reject me, and leave me cliche line "let's just be friends" line. She actually told me that. with the What sucks is I work with this chick and she sits a cube right next to me ( yes it's the same chick from m previous thread). We werent officially dating, but damn this hurts for some reason. It's like I'm numb tbh. :wow

PS- I only fucked with 2 woman from my office. This is really not the norm for me tbh.

[TDMVPDPOY]

when u say dump, u mean someone took a shit on u?

[bigzak25]

You don't shit where you eat.

[Reck]

It was your overbearing ways wasn't it?

I told you in the other thread to back off with the big dog, I'm calling the shots thing. Bitches dont go for that anymore. They like to feel independent and shit.

[Huey Freeman]

It was your overbearing ways wasn't it?

I told you in the other thread to back off with the big dog, I'm calling the shots thing. Bitches dont go for that anymore. They like to feel independent and shit.

No, at least I don't think so. She even told me she liked that about me tbh
She says we were not connecting but we could still hangout as friends.
God this shit hurts. wtf. I don't why this hurts so bad

[Reck]

No, at least I don't think so. She even told me she liked that about me tbh
She says we were not connecting but we could still hangout as friends.
God this shit hurts. wtf. I don't why this hurts so bad

Friends can still fuck. fwb time.

[Huey Freeman]

Friends can still fuck. fwb time.

Naw, she doesn't want to do that cause she doesn't want to mess up our friendship.
God this shit hurts wtf

[Huey Freeman]

Fuck bitches tbh
l hate this shit

[Huey Freeman]

I don't know why I just texted her if there is hope for us. She just texted "no"
God why did I text that? Now my Sunday is ruined lol

[Nbadan]

Your being pathetic man....find a chick hotter than her and bring her by the office....

[The Reckoning]

you should be happy tbh. sounds like it was quick and easy. many more women out there who will try to tie you down. might as well sow your oats while you can.

[Huey Freeman]

Your being pathetic man....find a chick hotter than her and bring her by the office....

Your right tbh.

[Huey Freeman]

you should be happy tbh. sounds like it was quick and easy. many more women out there who will try to tie you down. might as well sow your oats while you can.

I guess, the problem here is I caught feelings and we'll.......she does not want to be with me (her words)
Those words are kinda calming me down tbh. Now I know there is nothing there. That's cool. It sucks I got to see this chick on Monday and throughout week though. I gotta find a fine chick before she finds a dude tbh. That's my new mission

[Big Dog]

Stop giving such a shit. If she dumped your ass you obviously aren't material for her. Onto the next one.

[N0 LyF3 ScRuB]

Stop giving such a shit. If she dumped your ass you obviously aren't material for her. Onto the next one.
Ya and quit texting her Emo shit. Now you have to save face. Be nice to her at work but don't go out of your way to talk to her. Act like what she said to you has no weight. Don't be a diva.

[SpursforSix]

Text her again and ask if she's sure. She might have changed her mind.

[Thread]

That "lets be friends" tact is enough to justify hatred. I'd beat her to the ignore.

[lefty]

She is probably fucking your black coworker

[Mitch]

Just do your work and focus on making yourself better, adding a woman isn't going to help.

[SpursforSix]

Just do your work and focus on making yourself better, adding a woman isn't going to help.

This. But you should get one of your coworkers to ask her if she still likes you.

[Mitch]

This. But you should get one of your coworkers to ask her if she still likes you.

Buy her a new purse, that'll fix everything :lol

[SpursforSix]

Buy her a new purse, that'll fix everything :lol

Lol. A purse filled with those chalky hearts. Perfect.

[bigzak25]

So how many times did you lay the pipe with this chic, huey?

[BD24]

So how many times did you lay the pipe with this chic, huey?
Sounds like just once and she wasn't impressed with that dick :lol

[Oh, Gee!!]

Don't give up. This sounds like the beginning of a beautiful relationship. Or a restraining order. You won't know until you try.

[mrsmaalox]

Lol. A purse filled with those chalky hearts. Perfect.

Heart shaped pizza. Duh.

[koriwhat]

I just got out of a relationship too... short lived and the chick was gorgeous but the hell she put me through wasnt worth it. Free time again is something i truly missed and didnt realize it before.

Her bj's were amazing though... sex was blah... but those bj's!

[spurraider21]

I'd be legitimately shocked if any of OP's threads are based on true stories

[SpursforSix]

I've been thinking about this. Pick out a song that expresses the way you feel about her. Go to her house at night and go stand outside her window and play the song through a Beats Pill until she comes to the window. Hold the Beats Pill up over your head. Wear a trench coat. Sounds crazy but take a chance.

[Reck]

I just got out of a relationship too... short lived and the chick was gorgeous but the hell she put me through wasnt worth it. Free time again is something i truly missed and didnt realize it before.

Her bj's were amazing though... sex was blah... but those bj's!

That happens when you try to match calf tats.

[koriwhat]

That happens when you try to match calf tats.

Clever... so clever.

[Pelicans78]

Text her again and ask if she's sure. She might have changed her mind.

:lol

[CavsSuperFan]

Almost always I am the one being dumped so there is very little emotion on my part…When she is saying blah blah blah I just interrupt her & will not let her finish and then I say things like “you are so right, I agree with you, we will always be friends, time to move on”…Then I get the call a week later from her asking to go out again…I am like, "sorry but I am having a Twilight Zone Marathon with the buds…But yea we can try it again at a later time"…It's hysterical when she realizes that I don't really care one way of the other :lol

[DPG21920]

It's very strange you've been dumped enough to have developed that strategy :lol ^

[SnakeBoy]

Almost always I am the one being dumped so there is very little emotion on my part…When she is saying blah blah blah I just interrupt her & will not let her finish and then I say things like “you are so right, I agree with you, we will always be friends, time to move on”…Then I get the call a week later from her asking to go out again…I am like, "sorry but I am having a Twilight Zone Marathon with the buds…But yea we can try it again at a later time"…It's hysterical when she realizes that I don't really care one way of the other :lol

Next time try a preemptive break-up. Worked for George.

[lebomb]

I was dumped twice by a girl a few years before my marriage. We dated for a few months, then out of the blue she broke up with me. A couple of months later she asked to give it another try. Then, on New Years eve she left me at a party and broke up with me on the phone later that night. What I didnt realize is that it was a blessing in disguise. She wasnt good for me to begin with. She was a royal bitch to be honest. She flirted with other guys, but got mad if I even mentioned another girls name. She was rude as shit to me, she never appreciated a damned thing. She was a thick hispanic girl (curvy) with tig ol bitties. I guess she thought those soft, plump thingys would get her whatever she wanted. Anyhow, I ended up meeting my current wife a month later. I dated her for 4-1/2yrs and then tied the knot. I could not be happier, even if I won the powerball last week.

The moral of this? If ol girl dumps you, there is a damned good reason for it. Its also a great opportunity to meet someone who really cares about you and is nice and sweet and fine as all hell. So screw that skank Huey!!!

[I. Hustle]

I've read the comments and have dissected your situation over and over in my head. First off, I want to say that you made the right choice in turning to Spurstalk with your problem. There is no better place to get sound advice and a caring ear.

Here is what I would do given your current sitch. If you haven't already, go ahead and have a real good cry. I mean a good one with snot and everything. Put on some Adele and use your tears as lube to rub one out while screaming her name. This is a good way to relieve stress and still honor her memory.

After you've gotten that out of the way, buy a men's health magazine. Find a picture of a real hot girl and cut her out. I suggest using an exacto knife and not scissors so that you get every line just right. Then have a buddy take a pic with you. Go to your nearest Sam's club (because you can get a good deal) and have it printed out. Then get some elmer's glue and glue the picture of the hot girl over your buddy. It works even better if you get your bud to do the exact same pose. Then you take that pic and put it up in your cubicle.

I promise you that it will drive her wild with desire. She probably won't even care anymore about your little pener because you were able to satisfy such a hot babe (or so she thinks). Give it a couple of days then send out a feeler text saying that you are willing to give her another shot.

And before I forget, make sure that you ask her if everything is okay. I mean A LOT! Also, ask her if she is mad at you.

In no time you guys are going to be married and have a couple of kids if you follow my instructions. Even if it doesn't last, I bet she lets you go backdoor.

[I. Hustle]

http://www.spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=30637&highlight=heart+shaped+pizza

[BD24]

I've read the comments and have dissected your situation over and over in my head. First off, I want to say that you made the right choice in turning to Spurstalk with your problem. There is no better place to get sound advice and a caring ear..
:lol

[Sybok]

You got friend-zoned while Leroy is pouring black cock to her on the regular and he's a douchebag but he's "interesting". You're not. You're probably a neck beard wearing faggot who spends too much time playing MMOs.

[Sybok]

I was dumped twice by a girl a few years before my marriage. We dated for a few months, then out of the blue she broke up with me. A couple of months later she asked to give it another try. Then, on New Years eve she left me at a party and broke up with me on the phone later that night. What I didnt realize is that it was a blessing in disguise. She wasnt good for me to begin with. She was a royal bitch to be honest. She flirted with other guys, but got mad if I even mentioned another girls name. She was rude as shit to me, she never appreciated a damned thing. She was a thick hispanic girl (curvy) with tig ol bitties. I guess she thought those soft, plump thingys would get her whatever she wanted. Anyhow, I ended up meeting my current wife a month later. I dated her for 4-1/2yrs and then tied the knot. I could not be happier, even if I won the powerball last week.

The moral of this? If ol girl dumps you, there is a damned good reason for it. Its also a great opportunity to meet someone who really cares about you and is nice and sweet and fine as all hell. So screw that skank Huey!!!
lol beta-cuck faggots pouring out their hearts to other betas

[Sybok]

Almost always I am the one being dumped so there is very little emotion on my part…When she is saying blah blah blah I just interrupt her & will not let her finish and then I say things like “you are so right, I agree with you, we will always be friends, time to move on”…Then I get the call a week later from her asking to go out again…I am like, "sorry but I am having a Twilight Zone Marathon with the buds…But yea we can try it again at a later time"…It's hysterical when she realizes that I don't really care one way of the other :lol
But you're a Cavs fan. You have low standards to begin with and are ok with not getting anything for your efforts.

Here's some alpha advice. Write it down.

If a chick even starts down that "not sure" road, she's on the curb. If you're dating, that's a trial period. You don't drive a lease that sometimes won't start. You return that motherfucker at the 1st sign of an issue. If drama starts that early in dating you're saving yourself child support and a shit load of divorce issues down the road with this bitch.

[lebomb]

lol beta-cuck faggots pouring out their hearts to other betas

Im married faggot. A beta is you.......lonely jackin off in the corner with your moms jergens lotion.

[Sybok]

Im married faggot. A beta is you.......lonely jackin off in the corner with your moms jergens lotion.
I'm not the one crying on a sports forum about being dumped, faggot. Cucks are usually married.

[I. Hustle]

What is this sites obsession with cucks? Is that just the new put down these days? You guys watch too much porn. You need to get out and actually see the world around you.
That shit is nasty. Disgusting that people do that and even more disgusting that you guys search that stuff out.

[DisAsTerBot]

What is this sites obsession with cucks? Is that just the new put down these days? You guys watch too much porn. You need to get out and actually see the world around you.
That shit is nasty. Disgusting that people do that and even more disgusting that you guys search that stuff out.

it's a white dude's biggest fear tbh imo. it's the greatest insult they can think of

[I. Hustle]

it's a white dude's biggest fear tbh imo. it's the greatest insult they can think of

It's disgusting though. Something that I never even heard of before this site and I am in my 30s. Once I knew what it was...


I was like WTF? People do this? Then my next thought was "How do these guys know so much about it?" They have to search it out, right?

[lebomb]

:toast

Move on playuh........

[lebomb]

I'm not the one crying on a sports forum about being dumped, faggot. Cucks are usually white and married.

Im a niggra with a BBC, so I dont qualify as a cuck. :hat

[Sybok]

Im a niggra with a BBC, so I dont qualify as a cuck. :hat
She disagreed.

[DisAsTerBot]

is there a star trek character in here acting tough?! lmao

[Mitch]

What is this sites obsession with cucks? Is that just the new put down these days? You guys watch too much porn. You need to get out and actually see the world around you.
That shit is nasty. Disgusting that people do that and even more disgusting that you guys search that stuff out.

They either frequent Reddit or Bodybuilding.com's misc section. They're filled with people who believe being "alpha" is all that's worth living for and non-alpha's are cucks.

[Huey Freeman]

Damn this bitch. Now we are going to the movies as friends. Since when did I become this punk ass dude going on friend dates and shit with chicks. Wtf is this?

[SpursforSix]

it's a white dude's biggest fear tbh imo. it's the greatest insult they can think of

Bend over, I'll show you the greatest fuckin insult

[lebomb]

Damn this bitch. Now we are going to the movies as friends. Since when did I become this punk ass dude going on friend dates and shit with chicks. Wtf is this?


Dude, cancel the movies immediately. This will never work. She wants to be buddy ol pals, and you want to drop a load of cum in her fawtbox. Move on, this will end badly. :depressed

[140]

OP has an uncontrollable desire to be a cuck and won't be stopped until he fulfills it, tbh

[DMC]

I realize this is copypasta or some shit but real talk, if you act like you give a shit even a little they start thinking they know how their life will be with you and they get bored or fear being bored, that they settled. If you care that much for them, they must be worth it and can do better than you. They go by the Peter principle (no pun intended), in that they trade up until they are out of their league and get used and dumped. You have to portray yourself as someone who is close to being that person, else you just some soft douchebag they are embarrassed to be seen with.

If you friend an ex-fuck to the movies, you're done. Instead, find an excuse why you can't go. Don't make it obvious like "I have another date" or "my bros are coming over", that's all "getting at you" shit and she knows it. Don't tell her why, it's not her business. Just say you have to cancel and apologize and wish her the best, and delete her number from your phone. Hopefully you don't fuck her again, ever. Her friends will hear about it and look you up. Fuck them instead.

[Reck]

OP has an uncontrollable desire to be a cuck and won't be stopped until he fulfills it, tbh

Time to consult the school of Blake and Chump.

They'll give you the finer points. :lol

[703 Spurz]

Plenty of cunts in the sea....

[KarmaKarma]

And this shit hurts like hell. I have never been dumped like this before tbh. Usually my relationships end with me throwing them away someway. This is the first time in my life that girl that I had a thing for rejectme like this. Blantly reject me, and leave me cliche line "let's just be friends" line. She actually told me that. with the What sucks is I work with this chick and she sits a cube right next to me ( yes it's the same chick from m previous thread). We werent officially dating, but damn this hurts for some reason. It's like I'm numb tbh. :wow

PS- I only fucked with 2 woman from my office. This is really not the norm for me tbh.

Well.
Life happens.
I've been that woman that has said no, rejected a coworker we were never sexually involved went out on a few dates, he just want for me our personalities didn't go together , yet as coworkers we did absolutely fine.
How old are you again ?
And the reason I feel you are taking it so hard is not because you liked her, or she was "hott" , or sex was good. The reason you feel awful is because you were REJECTED.DENIED.
and that shit hurts.

[KarmaKarma]

This.

The moral of this? If ol girl dumps you, there is a damned good reason for it. Its also a great opportunity to meet someone who really cares about you and is nice and sweet and fine as all hell. So screw that skank Huey!!![/QUOTE]

[KarmaKarma]

Don't do it.

[Big Empty]

Text her again and ask if she's sure. She might have changed her mind.
Ha

[UNT Eagles 2016]

Have some nice breakup sex before y'all part ways for good.

[~O~]

You better not text that bitch again (I don't know if she's bitch personally). Do not hold on to something that isn't deer to you. The moment she realizes you've moved on to big and better things is the moment she falls into disparity and a feeling of inadequacy. You need to have the perception of the superior male.

If she's see's you with a new elite class female, she'd probably even call you for casual sex if she was in a moment in which she felt low or even in desperation. Its either that or she'll be stuck in limbo from her regret.

I've dealt with this shit and coached females into confessing these things to me since my mind is open and as hell. I've talked about some extreme and women can have a mind as dark as a man's to be honest.

[KarmaKarma]

Truth. :bobo

You better not text that bitch again (I don't know if she's bitch personally). Do not hold on to something that isn't deer to you. The moment she realizes you've moved on to big and better things is the moment she falls into disparity and a feeling of inadequacy. You need to have the perception of the superior male.

If she's see's you with a new elite class female, she'd probably even call you for casual sex if she was in a moment in which she felt low or even in desperation. Its either that or she'll be stuck in limbo from her regret.

I've dealt with this shit and coached females into confessing these things to me since my mind is open and as hell. I've talked about some extreme and women can have a mind as dark as a man's to be honest.