Koolaid_Man
02-01-2016, 09:46 PM
:lol.....oh Tammy oh Tammy
The size of my boyfriend's butt hole is concerning (https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/3o8ipl/serious_the_size_of_my_boyfriends_butt_hole_is/)
My boyfriend likes to spread his butt cheeks and show me his butthole from across the room as a joke because I get grossed out by that kind of thing.. ANYWAYS I noticed that his butthole is pretty damn big. I'm pretty sure he isn't gay but it seems a little stretched out. Just wondering if other guys have this problem.
He might just take huge dumps or maybe he does play with toys. Have you asked him?
[–]TheTinyKitten (https://www.reddit.com/user/TheTinyKitten)
As far as I know dumps don't stretch you, I was guessing anal play, which is pretty normal. Many male friends I talked to said they tried at least once. And I finger my boyfriend when he asks. Butt = gay is so 1950s.
[–]Amy Duncan
Playing with toys doesn't really stretch you in any lasting way either.
Wanting it, on the other hand... That gets things incredibly loose.
[–]Amy Duncan
I have the same question about my husband. We recently started anal play and he "reluctantly" allowed me to play back there, though let's just say his mouth was kinda hesitant but his body language was quite eager. The first night I tried anything at all I was able to slip a 8" vibrator about the girth of an average penis in there, and it wasn't even difficult. When he started playing with me, it took several sessions to build up to that and it still hurt when it first went in, he had to hold it still for a couple minutes. Also, from the get-go the outside appearance of his asshole was more smooth and a little bigger, like mine is now after butt play and anal sex. Before my hole was definitely smaller and tighter with a more puckered appearance.
He is in his 30's and plays basketball in San Antonio and I would say more homophobic than average even for his age. I don't care if he has done butt things or even if he is too uncomfortable ever to admit it to me. I did ask him and he said he'd never done anything back there. But I do wonder. He does have a history of hiding/lying about sexual things he is embarrassed about.
TheLonelySamurai (https://www.reddit.com/user/TheLonelySamurai)
You know I used to think that people were full of it (heh) when they said that anal play changes the way your asshole looks...but yeah it totally does. I've noticed that guys into bigger toys (sorry, mainly familiar with the gay male community, can't comment on too many girl butts, although my current partner has a cute one!) sometimes have this really weird "worn out" look to theirs, it's hard to explain but it's kinda gross to me, it almost looks like their ass has developed scar tissue. An extreme example would be the goatse guy, his butthole when it's not being stretched open is the "worst case scenario" look of what I'm talking about.
[–]Isimagen (https://www.reddit.com/user/Isimagen)
Has nothing to do with being gay or even having played around back there. I've seen guys that have been fisted a lot look totally normal and untouched and I've seen others, never touched at all be odd looking and large like a slit.
Bathroom habits, weight, and time sitting down seems to have some to do with it but that might not even be true. Someone who has had issues with constipation or hard stools may have another look.
Just like they say opinions are like assholes and we each have a unique one, I'd say the reverse in this case. Assholes are like opinions, we all have them and they aren't all the same!
[–]Sh1t4brainz (https://www.reddit.com/user/Sh1t4brainz)
Maybe he's constipated a lot. All those dynamite deuces he's been dropping has stretched it like a limousine.
The size of my boyfriend's butt hole is concerning (https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/3o8ipl/serious_the_size_of_my_boyfriends_butt_hole_is/)
My boyfriend likes to spread his butt cheeks and show me his butthole from across the room as a joke because I get grossed out by that kind of thing.. ANYWAYS I noticed that his butthole is pretty damn big. I'm pretty sure he isn't gay but it seems a little stretched out. Just wondering if other guys have this problem.
He might just take huge dumps or maybe he does play with toys. Have you asked him?
[–]TheTinyKitten (https://www.reddit.com/user/TheTinyKitten)
As far as I know dumps don't stretch you, I was guessing anal play, which is pretty normal. Many male friends I talked to said they tried at least once. And I finger my boyfriend when he asks. Butt = gay is so 1950s.
[–]Amy Duncan
Playing with toys doesn't really stretch you in any lasting way either.
Wanting it, on the other hand... That gets things incredibly loose.
[–]Amy Duncan
I have the same question about my husband. We recently started anal play and he "reluctantly" allowed me to play back there, though let's just say his mouth was kinda hesitant but his body language was quite eager. The first night I tried anything at all I was able to slip a 8" vibrator about the girth of an average penis in there, and it wasn't even difficult. When he started playing with me, it took several sessions to build up to that and it still hurt when it first went in, he had to hold it still for a couple minutes. Also, from the get-go the outside appearance of his asshole was more smooth and a little bigger, like mine is now after butt play and anal sex. Before my hole was definitely smaller and tighter with a more puckered appearance.
He is in his 30's and plays basketball in San Antonio and I would say more homophobic than average even for his age. I don't care if he has done butt things or even if he is too uncomfortable ever to admit it to me. I did ask him and he said he'd never done anything back there. But I do wonder. He does have a history of hiding/lying about sexual things he is embarrassed about.
TheLonelySamurai (https://www.reddit.com/user/TheLonelySamurai)
You know I used to think that people were full of it (heh) when they said that anal play changes the way your asshole looks...but yeah it totally does. I've noticed that guys into bigger toys (sorry, mainly familiar with the gay male community, can't comment on too many girl butts, although my current partner has a cute one!) sometimes have this really weird "worn out" look to theirs, it's hard to explain but it's kinda gross to me, it almost looks like their ass has developed scar tissue. An extreme example would be the goatse guy, his butthole when it's not being stretched open is the "worst case scenario" look of what I'm talking about.
[–]Isimagen (https://www.reddit.com/user/Isimagen)
Has nothing to do with being gay or even having played around back there. I've seen guys that have been fisted a lot look totally normal and untouched and I've seen others, never touched at all be odd looking and large like a slit.
Bathroom habits, weight, and time sitting down seems to have some to do with it but that might not even be true. Someone who has had issues with constipation or hard stools may have another look.
Just like they say opinions are like assholes and we each have a unique one, I'd say the reverse in this case. Assholes are like opinions, we all have them and they aren't all the same!
[–]Sh1t4brainz (https://www.reddit.com/user/Sh1t4brainz)
Maybe he's constipated a lot. All those dynamite deuces he's been dropping has stretched it like a limousine.