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Huey Freeman
02-24-2016, 12:27 AM
I'm probably going to get blasted for this, but here it goes

You have a girl who was in to you, but for whatever reason it doesn't appear as if she is still in to you as much, but you are still real in to her. You know you have to drop her, but she keeps wanting to come around (not to fuck, but to talk). Let's say you never been in this kind of thing before because you work with her and see everyday cause your cubes are right next to each other (I know this shit again:bang). I mean what do you do? Find another chick and screwing her is not fixing this. I still have feelings for this girl and I see her everyday. Advise.

PS: this is the same chick from my last thread. So the work chick thing isn't the norm for me.

Oh yeah, and she gets real pissy when I avoid her, and I really can't cause we work on the same projects.

Reck
02-24-2016, 12:32 AM
Same chick again? :lol

When a girl loses interest in a guy, forget it it's a done deal.

And if you keep pushing your agenda she'll only resent you more and only validates the reason why she didn't want to mess with you in the first place.

Either swallow that bullet you've made for yourself or ask for a transfer within the company you work for and dont repeat that mistake again.

TheSanityAnnex
02-24-2016, 12:38 AM
I'm probably going to get blasted for this, but here it goes

You have a girl who was in to you, but for whatever reason it doesn't appear as if she is still in to you as much, but you are still real in to her. You know you have to drop her, but she keeps wanting to come around (not to fuck, but to talk). Let's say you never been in this kind of thing before because you work with her and see everyday cause your cubes are right next to each other (I know this shit again:bang). I mean what do you do? Find another chick and screwing is not fixing this. I still have feelings for this girl and I see her everyday. Advise.

PS: this is the same chick from my last thread. So the work chick thing isn't the norm for me.

Oh yeah, and she gets real pissy when I avoid her, and I really can't cause we work on the same projects.
Need picture of said chick to determine proper advice

Huey Freeman
02-24-2016, 12:38 AM
Same chick again? :lol

When a girl loses interest in a guy, forget it it's a done deal.

And if you keep pushing your agenda she'll only resent you more and only validates the reason why she didn't want to mess with you in the first place.

Either swallow that bullet you've made for yourself or ask for a transfer within the company you work for and dont repeat that mistake again.

What if she keeps giving you mixed signals? She tells me she loves me and is afraid to fall in love with me (whatever the hell that means). I could easily forget she exists, but she keeps wanting to talk or be around me. I really wish I never met this chick tbh. I'm thinking about quitting me job tbh (and it's a good job tbh). Transfers are alike difficult because the company I work for does not have alot of turnover tbh. I'm sorta stuck

Huey Freeman
02-24-2016, 12:40 AM
Need picture of said chick to determine proper advice

To be honest, she is pretty (wonderful ass) but nothing to brag to your boys about. Im more attracted to her personality and who she is more than anything.

TheSanityAnnex
02-24-2016, 12:50 AM
To be honest, she is pretty (wonderful ass) but nothing to brag to your boys about. Im more attracted to her personality and who she is more than anything.
To be honest, need picture of said chick to determine proper advice

Huey Freeman
02-24-2016, 12:56 AM
To be honest, need picture of said chick to determine proper advice

Think of a little bit prettier version of America Ferrera

MultiTroll
02-24-2016, 12:57 AM
How are your oral skills?

Oh, Gee!!
02-24-2016, 02:19 AM
I wish I had the same problem. I have broken up with a girl about 8 times before it finally took.

spurraider21
02-24-2016, 02:30 AM
every time she comes to "just talk" just be flirty and ask her out. if she's not interested, she's not gna try to be friendly with a guy who keeps hitting on her

xtremesteven33
02-24-2016, 02:36 AM
She may need to experience a bad relationship to get with you. Be patient. Enjoy the ride, find other girls and see how she reacts.

lebomb
02-24-2016, 07:27 AM
Move on........... to many women available to play highschool games with one.

benefactor
02-24-2016, 07:54 AM
Im more attracted to her personality and who she is more than anything.
So she's fat. That's cool man. I'm not gonna give you shit for falling for a fatty. There's someone for everyone.

Seriously though...sounds like you are kinda fucked right now. You are just going to have to ride it out until you guys aren't working so closely together. You fucked this up, so you are going to have to sack up and quit fucking letting your feelings control you. Try to make the best of it. You shouldn't have to give up a good job over some bitch. And :lol at finding someone else to fuck not helping. Come on man...at least attempt to locate your alpha gene through all of this.

It could be much worse tbh...she could hate you and constantly be giving you shit passive aggressive style.

SpursforSix
02-24-2016, 09:44 AM
You should let him suck your dick every once in a while.

mrsmaalox
02-24-2016, 10:17 AM
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Boston Pancake
02-24-2016, 10:18 AM
What if she keeps giving you mixed signals? She tells me she loves me and is afraid to fall in love with me (whatever the hell that means). I could easily forget she exists, but she keeps wanting to talk or be around me. I really wish I never met this chick tbh. I'm thinking about quitting me job tbh (and it's a good job tbh). Transfers are alike difficult because the company I work for does not have alot of turnover tbh. I'm sorta stuck

The only reason a man will ever let a woman affect him like this is because he's not 100% secure and happy with himself. She knows she can fuck with your head, and does it seemingly for her own self-gratification, which tells me she's someone you should have no problem dropping. The fact that you're so hungup on a person like this is unhealthy. You're a grown adult still falling for freshman year bullshit. Fix yourself and the rest falls into place.

I. Hustle
02-24-2016, 10:54 AM
Here is what you do. Go over to her house, stand by her bedroom window and then hold up your boombox playing a mixtape that you made for her. Do that every night for two weeks. She'll start to wear down. Then have your buddy that works at Pizza Hut make a special heart shaped pizza for her. Bring that sumbitch over with a bottle of wine and two glasses. At this point, don't try to get in them panties. Just eat the pizza, unscrew the top on the wine and finish that bottle off. Once you are done eating and maybe watching Labrynth or Only The Strong.

The next time you come over, make sure you stop by the Adult Video Megaplex first. Purchase edible panties, erotic dice and a bottle of KY. When you shop up to her place you need to have everything wrapped like a gift. NOT A BAG! You need to take the time to wrap each one. Maybe make a pit stop at HEB to get some flowers and Pabst too.

By this time, she's already told her girlfriends about the pizza you got her and music you played for her. After opening that first gift, she'll be so wet and begging for it. Don't rush things though. Take it slow and let her know that your intentions are to make love to her and not just fool around. Tell her right away that you love her and want her to have your babies.

SpursforSix
02-24-2016, 10:59 AM
Here is what you do. Go over to her house, stand by her bedroom window and then hold up your boombox playing a mixtape that you made for her. Do that every night for two weeks. She'll start to wear down. Then have your buddy that works at Pizza Hut make a special heart shaped pizza for her. Bring that sumbitch over with a bottle of wine and two glasses. At this point, don't try to get in them panties. Just eat the pizza, unscrew the top on the wine and finish that bottle off. Once you are done eating and maybe watching Labrynth or Only The Strong.

The next time you come over, make sure you stop by the Adult Video Megaplex first. Purchase edible panties, erotic dice and a bottle of KY. When you shop up to her place you need to have everything wrapped like a gift. NOT A BAG! You need to take the time to wrap each one. Maybe make a pit stop at HEB to get some flowers and Pabst too.

By this time, she's already told her girlfriends about the pizza you got her and music you played for her. After opening that first gift, she'll be so wet and begging for it. Don't rush things though. Take it slow and let her know that your intentions are to make love to her and not just fool around. Tell her right away that you love her and want her to have your babies.

this

140
02-24-2016, 11:13 AM
Here is what you do. Go over to her house, stand by her bedroom window and then hold up your boombox playing a mixtape that you made for her. Do that every night for two weeks. She'll start to wear down. Then have your buddy that works at Pizza Hut make a special heart shaped pizza for her. Bring that sumbitch over with a bottle of wine and two glasses. At this point, don't try to get in them panties. Just eat the pizza, unscrew the top on the wine and finish that bottle off. Once you are done eating and maybe watching Labrynth or Only The Strong.

The next time you come over, make sure you stop by the Adult Video Megaplex first. Purchase edible panties, erotic dice and a bottle of KY. When you shop up to her place you need to have everything wrapped like a gift. NOT A BAG! You need to take the time to wrap each one. Maybe make a pit stop at HEB to get some flowers and Pabst too.

By this time, she's already told her girlfriends about the pizza you got her and music you played for her. After opening that first gift, she'll be so wet and begging for it. Don't rush things though. Take it slow and let her know that your intentions are to make love to her and not just fool around. Tell her right away that you love her and want her to have your babies.

solid advice tbh

baseline bum
02-24-2016, 11:33 AM
Here is what you do. Go over to her house, stand by her bedroom window and then hold up your boombox playing a mixtape that you made for her. Do that every night for two weeks. She'll start to wear down. Then have your buddy that works at Pizza Hut make a special heart shaped pizza for her. Bring that sumbitch over with a bottle of wine and two glasses. At this point, don't try to get in them panties. Just eat the pizza, unscrew the top on the wine and finish that bottle off. Once you are done eating and maybe watching Labrynth or Only The Strong.

The next time you come over, make sure you stop by the Adult Video Megaplex first. Purchase edible panties, erotic dice and a bottle of KY. When you shop up to her place you need to have everything wrapped like a gift. NOT A BAG! You need to take the time to wrap each one. Maybe make a pit stop at HEB to get some flowers and Pabst too.

By this time, she's already told her girlfriends about the pizza you got her and music you played for her. After opening that first gift, she'll be so wet and begging for it. Don't rush things though. Take it slow and let her know that your intentions are to make love to her and not just fool around. Tell her right away that you love her and want her to have your babies.

I think a box of wine would have been better.

I. Hustle
02-24-2016, 12:03 PM
I think a box of wine would have been better.

Great idea! You can hold large amounts and carry it around easily. Plus it can be broken down easily to place in the recycle bin. Bitches love recycling.

Ginobilly
02-24-2016, 12:35 PM
Send her some dick pics over your cell phone? When in doubt whip it out!

SpursforSix
02-24-2016, 01:32 PM
Great idea! You can hold large amounts and carry it around easily. Plus it can be broken down easily to place in the recycle bin. Bitches love recycling.

wrong.

box wine lush bitches do not care about recycling.

Fail!

I. Hustle
02-24-2016, 01:50 PM
wrong.

box wine lush bitches do not care about recycling.

Fail!

False! It's a proven fact that bitches that consume alcohol in the form of wine tend to believe they are high class or hipster. The high class woman likes to believe that, by recycling, she is doing her part to help the little people. Hipster chicks will look at you like you just splooged on her favorite shoes if you throw a cardboard box away instead of recycling it.

Educate yourself before you step to me.

SpursforSix
02-24-2016, 01:54 PM
False! It's a proven fact that bitches that consume alcohol in the form of wine tend to believe they are high class or hipster. The high class woman likes to believe that, by recycling, she is doing her part to help the little people. Hipster chicks will look at you like you just splooged on her favorite shoes if you throw a cardboard box away instead of recycling it.

Educate yourself before you step to me.

hmmm...I guess I'm relying too much on my observed cases.

All the drunk wine box bitches I hung out with would have empty boxes in the fridge, on the floor, in the yard. I got the impression that they were not headed for the recycle bin at any point.

hehateme
02-24-2016, 03:33 PM
1. Move to Austin
2. Find college girl with daddy issues
3. Buy booze; get laid
4. Forget this bitch

.G.
02-24-2016, 03:44 PM
What if she keeps giving you mixed signals? She tells me she loves me and is afraid to fall in love with me (whatever the hell that means). I could easily forget she exists, but she keeps wanting to talk or be around me. I really wish I never met this chick tbh. I'm thinking about quitting me job tbh (and it's a good job tbh). Transfers are alike difficult because the company I work for does not have alot of turnover tbh. I'm sorta stuck

She's probably just in love with the idea of you. Just masturbate. Feverishly. You'll be aight.

SpursforSix
02-24-2016, 03:46 PM
To be honest, she is pretty (wonderful ass) but nothing to brag to your boys about. Im more attracted to her personality and who she is more than anything.

you could get her drunk or roofied and then shoot a baby in her. then press her to do the right thing and marry you.

lebomb
02-24-2016, 03:48 PM
I still say move on. But if you dont like that option, you could go straight up Orenthal on her.

SpursforSix
02-24-2016, 03:57 PM
She may need to experience a bad relationship to get with you. Be patient. Enjoy the ride, find other girls and see how she reacts.

this is a good point.

Give her a really bad experience. Stalk her, threaten her, fart around her.

Then let her know that was the opposite of how you'd really treat her.

bigzak25
02-24-2016, 09:38 PM
Hello Huey,

Afraid to fall in love with you means she want to be available for a guy that she really wants to be with. This guy will likely be more self confident than you are right now and will have his own life and will not fawn all over her unless she puts forth the effort first and earns that shit. Bottomline, nobody knows what the future holds, but work on you and get you shit together. Make whatever changes you gotta make in your life to feel better about yourself on a daily basis. Get your money, mind, body, and friendships and family stuff going good.

Then the right girl will add to your life if you choose. Maybe it will be this chick or maybe not. Don't sell yourself short. Refocus on another chick or chicks at work just to get your mind to move on. Then porn to get you by in the meantime.

And just cut her off unless its work related. Keep it professional. If she tries to talk to you about shit other than work, give her one word replies.

Now go listen to gangsta boogie by the ghetto boys.

UNT Eagles 2016
02-24-2016, 09:55 PM
this is a good point.

Give her a really bad experience. Stalk her, threaten her, fart around her.

Then let her know that was the opposite of how you'd really treat her.
rather not go to jail tbh

Sancha
02-26-2016, 02:34 PM
Mira, papi. I didn't want to call you out in front of your friends. The thing is, your are nice. I think you are sweet and shit. Your pinga just isn't the right fit for me. I still talk to you because I see you talking to a few guys that might be what I need. It's not that it's short, it's just that it's really skinny. It was like a spaghetti noodle. I knew it was there but just because it was like ringing the dinner bell. You eat the groceries like a champ, amor, pero I think that is kind of gay and shit.

RGMCSE
02-26-2016, 02:57 PM
Eventually every man experiences some form of this what I call "holding my cock hostage". Shes somewhat flirty attractive and gives you mix signals. Ok fine. So when she rejects your advances here's how you handle it. Bottom line we don't have time for chit chat so straight up ask her are we going to fuck tonight?

It's a fork in the road situation. She's either going to get turned on and say yes or get all fucking offended and cut off ties with you. That's exactly how I like it. Because if I'm trying to fuck and all you wanna do is use me as eye candy then I can't waste my time with you. It works in social situations very well. Especially when alcohol is involved. Inhibitions are loosened and a kinky proposition is more acceptable. And what's the worst that can happen? The chic gets all pissy? Oh fucking well!

Im here anytime if you need more advice.

JudynTX
02-26-2016, 03:23 PM
I'm probably going to get blasted for this, but here it goes

You have a girl who was in to you, but for whatever reason it doesn't appear as if she is still in to you as much, but you are still real in to her. You know you have to drop her, but she keeps wanting to come around (not to fuck, but to talk). Let's say you never been in this kind of thing before because you work with her and see everyday cause your cubes are right next to each other (I know this shit again:bang). I mean what do you do? Find another chick and screwing her is not fixing this. I still have feelings for this girl and I see her everyday. Advise.

PS: this is the same chick from my last thread. So the work chick thing isn't the norm for me.

Oh yeah, and she gets real pissy when I avoid her, and I really can't cause we work on the same projects.

You're whipped.

FuzzyLumpkins
02-26-2016, 03:34 PM
I'm probably going to get blasted for this, but here it goes

You have a girl who was in to you, but for whatever reason it doesn't appear as if she is still in to you as much, but you are still real in to her. You know you have to drop her, but she keeps wanting to come around (not to fuck, but to talk). Let's say you never been in this kind of thing before because you work with her and see everyday cause your cubes are right next to each other (I know this shit again:bang). I mean what do you do? Find another chick and screwing her is not fixing this. I still have feelings for this girl and I see her everyday. Advise.

PS: this is the same chick from my last thread. So the work chick thing isn't the norm for me.

Oh yeah, and she gets real pissy when I avoid her, and I really can't cause we work on the same projects.

It helps to know what she is into you for.

Sancha
02-26-2016, 03:36 PM
It helps to know what she is into you for.

All I do is smile and show him a little teta and he takes me to All Of Garden.

It's free lunch papi.

FuzzyLumpkins
02-26-2016, 03:38 PM
All I do is smile and show him a little teta and he takes me to All Of Garden.

It's free lunch papi.

Creepy but that is not what I asked. If you have no idea what she likes about you then you are wandering around blind. If you figure that out then you have something to work with. It's not overly complicated.

For example if she is into you becuase she is competing with some other girl as opposed to her liking your mind, body, money, or whatever else.

Sancha
02-26-2016, 04:44 PM
Creepy but that is not what I asked. If you have no idea what she likes about you then you are wandering around blind. If you figure that out then you have something to work with. It's not overly complicated.

For example if she is into you becuase she is competing with some other girl as opposed to her liking your mind, body, money, or whatever else.

WTF are you talking about pinche Dr. Phil? I am telling you what I like about him. Are you stupid? He is my free lunch when I don't feel like spending my own money.

DMC
02-26-2016, 11:56 PM
No talking to chicks. You talk to women. Chicks ride dicks.

DMC
02-26-2016, 11:56 PM
All I do is smile and show him a little teta and he takes me to All Of Garden.

It's free lunch papi.
lol I've heard that

The Reckoning
02-27-2016, 01:28 AM
Go celebrate your freedom

chunticakes
02-29-2016, 07:45 AM
Mira, papi. I didn't want to call you out in front of your friends. The thing is, your are nice. I think you are sweet and shit. Your pinga just isn't the right fit for me. I still talk to you because I see you talking to a few guys that might be what I need. It's not that it's short, it's just that it's really skinny. It was like a spaghetti noodle. I knew it was there but just because it was like ringing the dinner bell. You eat the groceries like a champ, amor, pero I think that is kind of gay and shit.

No te gusta ke te mamen el burro el ke te lamban la cola?

bus driver
03-01-2016, 10:55 PM
huh.....didnt think this was going to be a lesbian thread :wakeup

....if you would have been a guy then i would have suggested that you grab your nuts and move on.