How to ask a girl out?

[1Parker1]

Damn, you guys are mean to poor usckk. Don't listen to them! Just be confident, and ask the girl out to a movie or dinner or something. Life is too short to waste so much time worrying about something like this. What's the worst that can happen? She'll say no? Well then, it just wasn't meant to be and you move on. If she says yes? Well, then you'll be kicking yourself in the ass for wasting so much time worrying about it and trying to figure out the "best way" to ask her out.

Every guy has their own style of asking a girl out. I've noticed this (BTW, I'm female :lol). Some guys are all straightforward, others try and get to know you a little, others try to get their friends to ask around about you, etc. I personally prefer the straightforward way. No games, no hesitation, just ask.

And if I don't like you, the worst I'll say is...."Sorry, I'm seeing someone else" (:lol even if I'm not at the time, that's my standard turn down).

[usckk]

Thanks. I'm planning on asking if she's doing anything on the weekend and then popping the question "Would you like to have dinner sometime"

[ALVAREZ6]

Thanks. I'm planning on asking if she's doing anything on the weekend and then popping the question "Would you like to have dinner sometime"
Just ask her to go anywhere, and if she does, then ask her out.

[usckk]

Just ask her to go anywhere, and if she does, then ask her out.
Are you saying to go do something with her and then ask her out during the activity?

[ALVAREZ6]

Are you saying to go do something with her and then ask her out during the activity?
Well, not necessarily during the activity. What I'm trying to say is, if she already agreed to go somewhere with you, it means that she is somewhat interested in you.
Then you could ask her, but I'm not saying it has to be during the activity. Whatever seems right at the momment. If she says yes, congrats, and if she says no, then move on and keep your head up.




Good luck.

[angel_luv]

You are way over-thinking this, Usckk!

[usckk]

I know! :( I won't post anymore about this, until it actually happens.

[HB22inSA]

Well, according to author Tom Wolfe, the "bases" have changed.

1st base is kissing, 2nd base is oral sex, 3rd base is going all the way, and home plate is actually introducing yourself!!

So just go for it and skip the introductions until after you've gotten laid!!!

Brilliant!!

:lol

[angel_luv]

You need to set yourself a deadline- in the next few days- and just ask her out.

You can have a day or so to prepare if you must. But seems to me all you are doing is making yourself nervous and possible postponing an actual date.

Just do it!

[bigzak25]

hey man, if you REALLY like this girl?

you need to let her chase you.

stop trying to get reassurance from others and go get it for yourself.

what do you need to do to be confident in yourself?

whether it's your health, your knowledge, or maybe your plans for the future, sports, talents, whatever floats your boat,

go do it!

that way, when you talk to her, you won't be shy, cuz you'll know your taking care of business and not just spending all your time on the internet...not that there's anything wrong with that...said the guy posting this at 4 in the morning...:lol

but seriously, dude, work on YOU, get your self confidence up, and when you see her, you won't be afraid to talk to her. all you gotta do is be nice and LISTEN to what she says. If a girl/woman knows your listening to her and then when you talk to her, you make her feel good about herself?

man, that's the key right there.

now, of course, a girl has to be attracted to the guy somewhat. girls/women know pretty quickly if they are talking to a guy/man that they could see themselves with in a relationship. but sometimes they are wrong. we all are sometimes. and sometimes you can get them to change their mind by going through their heart.

just don't be a lying asshole like so many so called 'playas'.

i mean, if a hoochie is advertising and on the prowl, that's different, everyone knows the game...but if it's just a sweet (i'm guessing here) girl, and one that you like?

never lie and you'll be fine.

don't 'wonder' if she'll go out with you.

KNOW she will, cuz it would be her pleasure, cuz you'll show her such a good time and show her what it is to be a man that cares about a woman/girl.

don't be arrogant though. there is a fine line between quiet, calm confidence, and cocky, loud, arrogant. the latter attracts the aforementioned hoochies.

good luck bro, just work on yourself 1st and you'll be fine.

women can smell fear a mile away, and the don't like it unless they just got hurt bad and want a puppydawg boyfriend. :tu

[TDMVPDPOY]

Dont you hate it when the gurl knows u like her, and she feels insecure or always backin out when you tryin to talk to her, look at her in the eyes, and i donno if its me or is she playin hard to get, man i only a couple of days left to chase this girl b4 she goes back to china not comin back.....

[ZStomp]

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[batman2883]

Grow some balls and start a damn conversation then ask her out, always the best way to break the ice, just say hi or something to damn woman

[angel_luv]

http://license-plate-world.com/CUSTOM_NIKE-JUST-DO-IT.jpg


Exactly!

[batman2883]

.....makes the world go round

[King]

I would venture a guess that most of the people saying something like 'stop being a sissy - just do it. hit that shit' are the biggest cowards around girls. Such is the internet, though.

I'd say you're overthinking it. Trying to gather something from her tone when she says hi is just going to kill you, when there's probably no reason for it. We always think of the worst possible reaction that we'll get (which is not really possible). More than likely, she'll be flattered - whether or not she's interested - and let you down easy, or feel the same way. You're not going to get absolutely embarrassed. The worst possible scenario is not going to happen.

[angel_luv]

I would venture a guess that most of the people saying something like 'stop being a sissy - just do it. hit that shit' are the biggest cowards around girls. Such is the internet, though.

I'd say you're overthinking it. Trying to gather something from her tone when she says hi is just going to kill you, when there's probably no reason for it. We always think of the worst possible reaction that we'll get (which is not really possible). More than likely, she'll be flattered - whether or not she's interested - and let you down easy, or feel the same way. You're not going to get absolutely embarrassed. The worst possible scenario is not going to happen.


That's what I said. In other words. excellent advice! :lol

[TDMVPDPOY]

I would venture a guess that most of the people saying something like 'stop being a sissy - just do it. hit that shit' are the biggest cowards around girls. Such is the internet, though.

I'd say you're overthinking it. Trying to gather something from her tone when she says hi is just going to kill you, when there's probably no reason for it. We always think of the worst possible reaction that we'll get (which is not really possible). More than likely, she'll be flattered - whether or not she's interested - and let you down easy, or feel the same way. You're not going to get absolutely embarrassed. The worst possible scenario is not going to happen.

They watch too many soap operas man