How to ask a girl out?

[usckk]

Any ideas? I'm a shy person and I can't bring myself to ask a girl out. And where shall we go or what should we do?

Also, how do I know they like me?

[MaNuMaNiAc]

not this again!! How about GROW SOME BALLS! :lmao

[usckk]

Thanks for boosting my confidence Manumnia.

[GINNNNNNNNNNNNOBILI]

just ask "Yo can i get all up in that kool-aid"

[usckk]

Come'on guys. serious ideas.

[Kdfelicity]

He's kinda right. Just do it. Just say to her "Hey, you want to go have a drink sometime?" If you try to make it too complicated you'll be like every other guy and wimp out.

[spurs=bling]

Any ideas? I'm a shy person and I can't bring myself to ask a girl out. And where shall we go or what should we do?
i as a girl, like for guys to be sweet when asking me out.
you could go to the movies, go eat somewhere & maybe even go the mall.

but that is up to you. i'm sure you can come up with something.
or go out for a drink.

[TheTruth]

roll up to her with a bad ass limp, look her strait in the boobs and say, "yo, wanna get wit dis."

[tw05baller]

i as a girl, like for guys to be sweet when asking me out.
you could go to the movies, go eat somewhere & maybe even go the mall.

but that is up to you. i'm sure you can come up with something

your 12 who cares

[GINNNNNNNNNNNNOBILI]

roll up to her with a bad ass limp, look her strait in the boobs and say, "yo, wanna get wit dis."


"and bring yo friend too"

[Horry For 3!]

Just say, "nice shoes, wanna fuck?" works about 98% of the time

[GINNNNNNNNNNNNOBILI]

Just say, "nice shoes, wanna fuck?" works about 98% of the time

the 2% is when they aren't wearing shoes, so always check and make sure they are wearing shoes

[A Serbian Beast]

How ironic... :)

[TDMVPDPOY]

Any ideas? I'm a shy person and I can't bring myself to ask a girl out. And where shall we go or what should we do?

Hey buddy im in the same situation as you are now atm, except that im waitin till my exams are over in a couple of days before i go all out tryin to ask this girl out, cause i already experience what it feels like gettin lead on and gettin rejected then you feel shit and go fail all ur exams for one term of uni work :(:(, girls dont take me seriously since im tryin to change the way i talk with them instead of pulling dirty jokes to get them into bed...anyway good luck man.

[Kdfelicity]

Yall are mean, he's asking for REAL ideas. He actually wants to take her out first, props to usckk :tu

Just keep it simple, don't overthink it. Find a common interest yall have and go with it.

[Boo]

talk to them. get to know em and then it will all come together

[usckk]

Hey buddy im in the same situation as you are now atm, except that im waitin till my exams are over in a couple of days before i go all out tryin to ask this girl out, cause i already experience what it feels like gettin lead on and gettin rejected then you feel shit and go fail all ur exams for one term of uni work :(:(, girls dont take me seriously since im tryin to change the way i talk with them instead of pulling dirty jokes to get them into bed...anyway good luck man.
Good point.

[Spurminator]

They love it when you talk about your penis.

[CharlieMac]

Depends. If it's some random girl in class or a bar, what have you got to loose.

If it's a friend, think it out first.

[usckk]

Depends. If it's some random girl in class or a bar, what have you got to loose.

If it's a friend, think it out first.
Its a friend

[A Serbian Beast]

just go with the flow, dont rush it but dont go sloooowwww.

[Mijo]

If you can make eye contact. you just say these three words... Can I hit it?

[CharlieMac]

If it's a friend just go with something casual. For the first date or two atleast. last thing you want to do is go all out, have her not feel the same way about you, then lose that friend. Good luck.

[usckk]

If it's a friend just go with something casual. For the first date or two atleast. last thing you want to do is go all out, have her not feel the same way about you, then lose that friend. Good luck.
What do you mean by "go with something casual"

[Kori Ellis]

usckk is a young guy looking for advice. Many of you so called playas should maybe simmer down and either say something useful or STFU.

[A Serbian Beast]

If you can make eye contact. you just say these three words... Can I hit it?
thats 4...

[CharlieMac]

What do you mean by "go with something casual"

Just ask her out for dinner at one of these restaurant chains. Nothing too fancy. Leave it all up to her whether she'd rather be picked up or just meet you there. Have dinner. Then maybe a drink or two at the bar. I'm not too sure how old you are. If not the bar, bring up a movie or coffee after dinner.

[Aggie Hoopsfan]

http://www.scarysquirrel.org/special/balsac/balani1.gif

Grow a pair and ask.

[Kdfelicity]

usckk is a young guy looking for advice. Many of you so called playas should maybe simmer down and either say something useful or STFU.


Kori, you're so smooth. Way to put it to these mofos!!

[usckk]

Just ask her out for dinner at one of these restaurant chains. Nothing too fancy. Leave it all up to her whether she'd rather be picked up or just meet you there. Have dinner. Then maybe a drink or two at the bar. I'm not too sure how old you are. If not the bar, bring up a movie or coffee after dinner.
Thanks. Hahaha, but i can't legally drink yet. I know what you mean though. I'm a senior in high school if that helps.

[TheTruth]

What do you mean by "go with something casual"
take her putt putt golfing...you can be close and alone...plus its still something "friends" would do.

[A Serbian Beast]

thetruth is a pimp, i can tell.

[usckk]

take her putt putt golfing...you can be close and alone...plus its still something "friends" would do.
Good Idea. I go putt-putting for 6 hours every SAT.

[Marklar MM]

Good Idea. I go putt-putting for 6 hours every SAT.

You ever try for the putt putt championships on ESPN. They are freakin insane.

[usckk]

You ever try for the putt putt championships on ESPN. They are freakin insane.

Haha, I wish. I watched it before. They are insane. I own the course here though :) 18 hole in ones in 10 minutes. Its a game called aces races where you can't move on to the next hole until you make a hole in one.

[Trainwreck2100]

Good Idea. I go putt-putting for 6 hours every SAT.

Not really something to broadcast to her though.

[CharlieMac]

I don't know if Cool Crest is open, but that was the place to take dates in high school.

[Gatita]

Do something simple, like go watch a movie, since your not too smooth in the speech department. :)

[TheTruth]

You guys remember Pear Apple County Fair?

[Kdfelicity]

You guys remember Pear Apple County Fair?


YES!!! That was funtastic! Why'd it close down??

[CharlieMac]

Hell yeah.

[Low End Specialist]

Don't take her out to the movies on the first date. You don't get any talking done, so you can't spit your game. Also, if the movie is boring, both of you will be tired and the date will suck.

You say she's a friend of yours, so why don't you just try having a good ol' fashioned convo with her? Let her know you're interested in her in that way. Worked for me in high school. Remember that actions speak louder than words. Flirt with her both verbally and physically. Poke her, tickle her, whatever man. Do what feels natural, and don't be nervous. Visualize what kind of person you want to project to her and go for it. :) Good luck.

[usckk]

After all the generous help from SOME people, I think i'm going to ask her to a dinner and a movie when we get a chance to be alone. How does Chili's sound? And current movie suggestions?

[TheTruth]

YES!!! That was funastic! Why'd it close down??
$14 bucks and you could ride any ride all you wanted..
I think it closed down because the gangbangers were keeping the families away.

[spurs=bling]

After all the generous help from SOME people, I think i'm going to ask her to a dinner and a movie when we get a chance to be alone. How does Chili's sound? And current movie suggestions?
its sounds great.

Adam & i went to go see Two For The Money.
its was a good movie.

[TheTruth]

After all the generous help from SOME people, I think i'm going to ask her to a dinner and a movie when we get a chance to be alone. How does Chili's sound? And current movie suggestions?
The Reese Witherspoon/Mark Ruffalo movie...

[A Serbian Beast]

march of the penguins was a big favorite of mine...

[Gatita]

Poke her

Not on the first date. :nope

[Kdfelicity]

And current movie suggestions?


ELIZABETHTOWN!!!!

[Low End Specialist]

Not on the first date. :nope

Haha. Just to get her attention if she drifts off to La La Land. :oops

[spurs=bling]

march of the penguins was a big favorite of mine...
are you serious ?

[TheTruth]

ELIZABETHTOWN!!!!
Negative...Orlando Bloom is too good looking..
Go for the Ruffalo movie, he's but fugly.

[spurs=bling]

take your pick

1. Wallace & Gromit: The Curse of the Were-Rabbit
2. Flightplan
3. In Her Shoes
4. Two for the Money
5. The Gospel
6. Tim Burton's Corpse Bride
7. Waiting...
8. Serenity
9. A History of Violence
10. Into the Blue

[usckk]

Haha. Just to get her attention if she drifts off to La La Land. :oops

haha.

Oh yeah, should I pay for her dinner and movie on the first date?

[spurs=bling]

haha.

Oh yeah, should I pay for her dinner and movie on the first date?

yes.

[TheTruth]

haha.

Oh yeah, should I pay for her dinner and movie on the first date?
Make her pay...Its the new millenium man.

[usckk]

take your pick

1. Wallace & Gromit: The Curse of the Were-Rabbit
2. Flightplan
3. In Her Shoes
4. Two for the Money
5. The Gospel
6. Tim Burton's Corpse Bride
7. Waiting...
8. Serenity
9. A History of Violence
10. Into the Blue
Good list. Anyone of those comedy? I think a comedy movie would be nice. :)

[Low End Specialist]

haha.

Oh yeah, should I pay for her dinner and movie on the first date?

If you offer to take her out to a dinner and a movie instead of you two just going to a dinner and movie, then yes.

[spurs=bling]

Good list. Anyone of those comedy? I think a comedy movie would be nice. :)

i'm not sure, but i think In Her Shoes

maybe?

[TheTruth]

i wonder what ALVAREZ has to say.
He's the undisputed High School pimp of this site.

[usckk]

i wonder what ALVAREZ has to say.
He's the undisputed High School pimp of this site.
hehe

[Gatita]

haha.

Oh yeah, should I pay for her dinner and movie on the first date?

Most definately. Don't be a cheap ass. It doesn't have to be pricey. Somewhere decent like the aforementioned Chili's.

[usckk]

If you offer to take her out to a dinner and a movie instead of you two just going to a dinner and movie, then yes.
Do I need to do this everytime? That's like 50-60 bucks every date :(

[bigzak25]

Any ideas? I'm a shy person and I can't bring myself to ask a girl out. And where shall we go or what should we do?

Also, how do I know they like me?


brother, asking a girl out is easy. getting her to say yes is the hard part.

if you are shy, ask yourself why?

girls/women really appreciate a confident man. i say man, cuz girls/women also appreciate someone that is above boyhood games and knows what the terms honesty and responsibility are.

if you come across as confident (not cocky or arrogant, but confident, slight difference) she'll jump at the chance at you to take her to dinner and whatever.

the key here is that the whatever has to be something she really likes and that you might have an interest in as well.

you do not want your lady to be bored.

also, on a date, let her do all the talking, you do all the listening.

be supportive and be nice!

good luck brother. you got this. :tu

[CharlieMac]

:lol
Do I need to do this everytime? That's like 50-60 bucks every date :(

:lol

No.

[Low End Specialist]

i'm not sure, but i think In Her Shoes

maybe?

unless you're into chick flicks and looking like an emasculated douche, then yeah.

[Low End Specialist]

Do I need to do this everytime? That's like 50-60 bucks every date :(

only the first date. second date should be a movie and popcorn at your house. not much spending there, and you'll get her in your bedroom. :fro

[Gatita]

you'll get her in your bedroom. :fro

That's wishful thinking. :lol

[usckk]

unless you're into chick flicks and looking like an emasculated douche, then yeah.
Hey, whatever she likes right :)

[Low End Specialist]

That's wishful thinking. :lol

Not really. Just say the TV room's DVD player is broken, and the only one that works is in your bedroom. You say that you'd bring the DVD player from your room over to the TV room, but all the damn connections and wires will be a pain in the ass to assemble and disassemble. she'll understand. :elephant

[Gatita]

Not really. Just say the TV room's DVD player is broken, and the only one that works is in your bedroom. You say that you'd bring the DVD player from your room over to the TV room, but all the damn connections and wires will be a pain in the ass to assemble and disassemble. she'll understand. :elephant

:lol She would really have to be naive and unexperienced to fall for that one. But, hey you can't blame a guy for trying.

[CharlieMac]

She's probably 17.

[spurs=bling]

Hey, whatever she likes right :)
yep

[usckk]

Haha, for some reason, sex is the last thing I think about when I'm with a girl that I really like.

[Low End Specialist]

Hey, whatever she likes right :)

I'd say no. Only things she can choose is her dinner and choice of movie snack. You pick the movie because that'll be the easiest way to show her what kind of personality you have. Usually, a thought provoking movie works, because if the conclusion to the flick leaves a lot of open-ended questions, you can get a convo started after the movie and not just call it a night.

[usckk]

She's probably 17.
Yup.

[angel_luv]

The Reese Witherspoon/Mark Ruffalo movie...


Yes!!!!!!!!! "Just like Heaven!" Great Film!

[Gatita]

Haha, for some reason, sex is the last thing I think about when I'm with a girl that I really like.

Ahh! Your a sweetie pie! :shootme Just kidding.

[usckk]

Ahh! Your a sweetie pie! :shootme Just kidding.
I'm serious, not BSing. I see the person as something perfect and don't want to ruin it.

[Low End Specialist]

:lol She would really have to be naive and unexperienced to fall for that one. But, hey you can't blame a guy for trying.

She is in high school after all. Older women require different methods. But a little fibbing and scenario manipulation are almost always required to get something going with any woman.

[Trainwreck2100]

Haha, for some reason, sex is the last thing I think about when I'm with a girl that I really like.


Aw he hasn't hit puberty yet.



Seriously though, just because you are not thinkin about it doesn't mean that she is not.

[usckk]

Aw he hasn't hit puberty yet.
Haha, I think about it sometimes, just not about me and her.

[Gatita]

I'm serious, not BSing. I see the person as something perfect and don't want to ruin it.

Innocence....isn't it grand?! :angel

[usckk]

Seriously though, just because you are not thinkin about it doesn't mean that she is not.

OH, I definently know she's not. She's extremely nice. Will never cuss, hurt anyone, and never gets mad.

[usckk]

Innocence....isn't it grand?! :angel
Haha, still don't believe me :)

[Low End Specialist]

OH, I definently know she's not. She's extremely nice. Will never cuss, hurt anyone, and never gets mad.

The quiet ones have the most skeletons in their closet. I learned that from Eddie Murphy. Eddie Murphy never lies.

[Gatita]

Haha, still don't believe me :)

I do believe you. I think we all can relate.

[usckk]

The quiet ones have the most skeletons in their closet. I learned that from Eddie Murphy. Eddie Murphy never lies.
haha. True, but this person is differnt from most. She's pretty much could be the nicest person in the world, nice. I'm serious. Its amazing.

[Trainwreck2100]

OH, I definently know she's not. She's extremely nice. Will never cuss, hurt anyone, and never gets mad.

Hey girls can suprise you, I know two people that have never done it, and their spouses keep trying to get them in the sack.

Here's the kicker, the one's that have never done it are the dudes.

[Low End Specialist]

I'm serious, not BSing. I see the person as something perfect and don't want to ruin it.

You sound like my best friend, Jorge, from when I was in high school. He was very smart, but extremely shy around women. He realized that when if you put a woman up on such a high pedastal, there's no way of you ever getting close enough to her. She's a human just like you.

[usckk]

Oh yeah, do i need to be with her everywhere in school? I always see couples together all the time, everywhere, anytime at school. This will be impossible for us, since we have different classes. Is just calling her by phone good enough?

[usckk]

You sound like my best friend, Jorge, from when I was in high school. He was very smart, but extremely shy around women. He realized that when if you put a woman up on such a high pedastal, there's no way of you ever getting close enough to her. She's a human just like you.
Wow, that's me alright.

[midgetonadonkey]

In my experience with the ladies, the best way for you to keep them all over you is to treat them like shit. For some reason chicks dig a dude that ignores them and gets mad at them all the time. I was a nice guy in high school and chicks always dissed me for the assholes. I realized I needed to listen to what Snoop had to say on his Doggystyle album. "I treat a bitch like 7-up, I never have I never will." I don't know exactly what that means but it's pretty good advice.

[usckk]

haha

[Low End Specialist]

In my experience with the ladies, the best way for you to keep them all over you is to treat them like shit. For some reason chicks dig a dude that ignores them and gets mad at them all the time. I was a nice guy in high school and chicks always dissed me for the assholes. I realized I needed to listen to what Snoop had to say on his Doggystyle album. "I treat a bitch like 7-up, I never have I never will." I don't know exactly what that means but it's pretty good advice.

To get more ass, yes. The asshole route works great. But if you're into getting hooked up with one particular girl that you want to spend a significant amount of time with, then I guess the nice guy route works because they know they can walk all over you so they'll stick around just for that.

[bigzak25]

I'm serious, not BSing. I see the person as something perfect and don't want to ruin it.


you must be very careful about the preliminary pedestal you build.

those things have a way of crumbling down.

nobody is perfect brother.

you guys are young. time for fun. responsible fun, but fun.

don't take things so serious. just tell her you want to take her out and have some fun together. friends first, remember that. :tu

[E20]

If you're friends, you can just bring up the weekend and maybe you can just make up a bullshit story like I got free tickets to the movies you wanna go with. Or something along the lines.

[usckk]

you must be very careful about the preliminary pedestal you build.

those things have a way of crumbling down.

nobody is perfect brother.

you guys are young. time for fun. responsible fun, but fun.

don't take things so serious. just tell her you want to take her out and have some fun together. friends first, remember that. :tu
True, true.

[midgetonadonkey]

To get more ass, yes. The asshole route works great. But if you're into getting hooked up with one particular girl that you want to spend a significant amount of time with, then I guess the nice guy route works because they know they can walk all over you so they'll stick around just for that.

But who the fuck wants to be a doormat? Fuck that.

[usckk]

Another question...some have suggested to me about bring a group of friends to an activity with her? For me, it doesn't make sense.

[E20]

I think it will make it less noticable that you want to date her.

[midgetonadonkey]

Another question...some have suggested to me about bring a group of friends to an activity with her? For me, it doesn't make sense.

No way dude. Make this one on one so you can bust out your Barry White voice and talk her into some sweet love making. You can't bone a chick you like in front of your friends. You only do that with sluts and fat chicks.

[Low End Specialist]

But who the fuck wants to be a doormat? Fuck that.

Some seriously misled individuals. Glad it ain't me. :lol

[bigzak25]

But who the fuck wants to be a doormat? Fuck that.

sincerely, former doormat. :lol j/k bro.


Another question...some have suggested to me about bring a group of friends to an activity with her? For me, it doesn't make sense.

listen, sometimes in a group, the girl will can be more comfortable.

but don't fool yourself. this is about you and her having a good, fun time and getting to know each other. a group doesn't allow for that as there are too many distractions.

if she chooses group 1st. that is fine. then 2nd 'date' can be just the two of you. but either way, pay her much attention and you will be fine.

[Aggie Hoopsfan]

Good Idea. I go putt-putting for 6 hours every SAT.

No matter how good you are, you have to tank it and let her win.

Run away from the movie idea and don't think twice. Going to the movies is about the worst first "date" you could ever think about going on.

Go someplace fun, shit like putt putt, or something out of the way that you'd have fun doing.

One of the best first dates I had while I was at A&M I took this girl out south of town. There's a place where the train tracks run across a creek and the support structure is all concrete.

You could go out there, sit on the concrete, and have the train come by all of 8 feet from your head. The great part about it was the entire time we spent waiting for the train to come we were just talking about anything and everything.

Movies require you to shut up for two hours, like I said - run away from that idea as fast as you can.

[usckk]

but either way, pay her much attention and you will be fine.

Opps...I tend to ignore people I like...yeah, i know. I'm stupid.

[usckk]

No matter how good you are, you have to tank it and let her win.


Should I do this for everything?

[midgetonadonkey]

sincerely, former doormat. :lol j/k bro.

No joke dude. I used to be one. My high school girlfriend ditched me on my birthday to make out with some college dude. I forgave the bitch. After a few months of letting this bitch walk all over me I turned it around and fucked her friend. After that I treated her like shit. I made her buy me shit, ignored her and made her stay home while I went out and I she never treated me better. I have now been able to find the balance between doormat and asshole. I now have the perfect girl that walks all over me as much as I walk all over her. Now that's true love.

[E20]

I don't even know why I'm giving advice;, I've gotten rejected, and pushed aside by girls like it's an everyday activity.

[Trainwreck2100]

No way dude. Make this one on one so you can bust out your Barry White voice and talk her into some sweet love making. You can't bone a chick you like in front of your friends. You only do that with sluts and fat chicks.


That reminds me of a joke

Why do fat girls give the best blowjobs?




Because they have to.

[midgetonadonkey]

too many ways to share....my favorite though is jus spittin a classic GiG flow

So that means his flows have to somewhat rhyme and have no rythem to them.

[GINNNNNNNNNNNNOBILI]

too many ways to share....my favorite though is jus spittin a classic GiG flow

No better way to get a girl, than to make her laugh, but usually you want her laughing with you, instead of AT you

[Cant_Be_Faded]

take her putt putt golfing...you can be close and alone...plus its still something "friends" would do.


This is the absolute best advice you can get.

Do NOT take a girl to the movies on a first date, even if she is your friend.


Also, the hardest part is saying the first word of the first sentence towards asking her out.

Make eye contact when asking her out, also don't look like a statue, use your body language to ease her to you.

Putt Putt is an ideal first date. By the 18th hole if your friend is diggin you, you'll be home free my friend. (oh, boy! --corso)

[GINNNNNNNNNNNNOBILI]

This is the absolute best advice you can get.

Do NOT take a girl to the movies on a first date, even if she is your friend.


Also, the hardest part is saying the first word of the first sentence towards asking her out.

Make eye contact when asking her out, also don't look like a statue, use your body language to ease her to you.

Putt Putt is an ideal first date. By the 18th hole if your friend is diggin you, you'll be home free my friend. (oh, boy! --corso)


Great advice.

who is that in your avatar?

[midgetonadonkey]

Yeah dude. Movies blow as a first date. Save those for 6-8 months into the relationship, when niether one of you have anything to say to the other.

[usckk]

This is the absolute best advice you can get.

Do NOT take a girl to the movies on a first date, even if she is your friend.


Also, the hardest part is saying the first word of the first sentence towards asking her out.

Make eye contact when asking her out, also don't look like a statue, use your body language to ease her to you.

Putt Putt is an ideal first date. By the 18th hole if your friend is diggin you, you'll be home free my friend. (oh, boy! --corso)

What if your date isn't very athletic? Do I have to miss on purpose? Wouldn't it be obvious?

[GINNNNNNNNNNNNOBILI]

What if your date isn't very athletic? Do I have to miss on purpose? Wouldn't it be obvious?


No, just dont keep score, or give her a bunch of mulligans

[Cant_Be_Faded]

unless you're into chick flicks and looking like an emasculated douche, then yeah.


if you are an alter-ego please message me
this is the funniest thing i've read in 18 days.

[midgetonadonkey]

What if your date isn't very athletic? Do I have to miss on purpose? Wouldn't it be obvious?

Does it really take athleticism to play putt-putt? You can always do the "let me show you how to do it" move and get behind her and help her putt. That's why Jesus invented putt-putt. Just for that move.

Oh yeah, when you "help her putt" don't forget to grind on her ass a little. Let her know what's up.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

OH, I definently know she's not. She's extremely nice. Will never cuss, hurt anyone, and never gets mad.


Hmmmmm. I met a couple chicks like that in high school.

Unless you are a perfect good-looking muscular ultra masculine pimp of the school, you have absolutely no chance of getting into her panties ANY time soon (based on your ages).

But you still have a chance at a short term relationship if you play the cards right.

[midgetonadonkey]

Hmmmmm. I met a couple chicks like that in high school.

Unless you are a perfect good-looking muscular ultra masculine pimp of the school, you have absolutely no chance of getting into her panties ANY time soon (based on your ages).

But you still have a chance at a short term relationship if you play the cards right.

Maybe a hand job. Maybe.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

That reminds me of a joke

Why do fat girls give the best blowjobs?




Because they have to.


It's times like these I remember why your avatar is elite.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

Great advice.

who is that in your avatar?


If you don't know you never will. Sorry.

[atlfan25]

I Noticed The Obvious Choice Of The Dirtroad For A First Date Has Been Passed Over.

Trust Atl On This One. Dirtroad. You Cannot Go Wrong.

It Will Be Fantastic.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

You can always do the "let me show you how to do it" move and get behind her and help her putt. That's why Jesus invented putt-putt. Just for that move.



Precisely why putt putt is a perfect 1st date and a perfect all around date.

I would not grind on her the first date, but definitely get behind her and gently do the 'let me show you' move (based on her described personality and age of course..)

if she seemed more open then definitely grind

judge it as it goes, if she's all into you by the 10th hole then you better pull a move soon. If she's just acting like your friend the hole way, with no extra giggles or no extra expressions, then cut your losses and your money.

[atlfan25]

If she's just acting like your friend the hole way, with no extra giggles or no extra expressions, then cut your losses and your money.
And Push Her In One Of The Putt Putt Rivers Or Lakes So That You Come Out Of It Having Had A Good Time.

[midgetonadonkey]

I would not grind on her the first date

Pussy

[Cant_Be_Faded]

Pussy


Based on what this dude's told us, its true, just tryin to help a guy out.

But if you're talking Barbara Blowjob, then naturally I would grind on her on like the first hole.

Pun intended.

[midgetonadonkey]

Based on what this dude's told us, its true, just tryin to help a guy out.

But if you're talking Barbara Blowjob, then naturally I would grind on her on like the first hole.

Pun intended.

I was just bustin' balls dude. I understand the situation. The chick is a prude little high school chick. The best the dude can hope for is a kiss on the lips, maybe with tongue. If he's lucky. But the putt-putt route is the best for him to take.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

No doubt. Midget I need to start pimpin in your neighborhood, man. Or at least your friend's you told us about in the __rip off__ thread.

[midgetonadonkey]

No doubt. Midget I need to start pimpin in your neighborhood, man. Or at least your friend's you told us about in the __rip off__ thread.

Just jump on the Yahoo chat and ask random chicks in your city if they want to fuck. That is exactly how my boy managed to fuck so many internet chicks.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

If it were that easy then why doesn't everyone do this?

[GINNNNNNNNNNNNOBILI]

If you don't know you never will. Sorry.

Is it John Frusciante from the zephyr song?

[midgetonadonkey]

If it were that easy then why doesn't everyone do this?

It really is that easy and the only reason people don't do this is because they worry about diseases and shit.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

Is it John Frusciante from the zephyr song?


No, I don't like him, or that song. Dave Navarro was my favorite RHCP guitarist.

If you do guess it i will tell you.



It really is that easy and the only reason people don't do this is because they worry about diseases and shit.

If your friend did not rap it up then he's hemann

[midgetonadonkey]

If your friend did not rap it up then he's hemann

He wrapped it up, but not everything is afraid of the rubber.

[GINNNNNNNNNNNNOBILI]

No, I don't like him, or that song. Dave Navarro was my favorite RHCP guitarist.

If you do guess it i will tell you.



I don't know man, dave is a badass guitarist but he just didn't gel with the peppers like JF does

[Triumph]

oh please, i take a sniff, drop a milkbone in front of her and go to town.

easy as 1-2-3.

although, if she is a have puppies with prospect, i'd move much slower....

1-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-3. :smokin

[A Serbian Beast]

are you serious ?
Since when do people take me seriously?

[Cant_Be_Faded]

I don't know man, dave is a badass guitarist but he just didn't gel with the peppers like JF does


in the long term NATURALLY but in the short term

ginnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnobili have you not heard the entire album One Hot Minute??????


As a 'regular' RHCP fan, I would say it's their 2nd best album. Being me, and appreciating overall songwriting and funkadelity, it's easily their FIRST best album.

Dave Navarro is nowhere near the skill level of Frusciante, but he knows how to use his skills to a superior level, adding funkadelic effects and what not.

If you want a little bit of CBF trivia, One Hot Minute was one of my first, true CD's (I got OHM and Siamese Dream for my 12th birthday)

[Clandestino]

usk can't take her to putt-putt.. 1. he seems like a pro(6 hrs a day on saturdays??? wtf???) anyway, he probably wouldn't let her win.. or 2. if she was somehow bad ass and beat him, he would probably pout.

but the one thing you need to do is stop acting like a little pussy. just talk to her and be cool. hide your dungeons and dragons, prized mini-golf club, and take those band stickers off your notebook.. well, unless of course, she is in to all that stuff.

and remember everyone gets rejected at some time in their life. so, if she gives you the friend routine, which i feel is VERY, VERY likely(because of the way you talk about her and i'm sure the way you act around her)... then who cares, move on.

[batman2883]

Damn what is it about so many fucking loser guys in this world that are too afraid to talk to girls....grow a fucking pair of balls and just go up to a girl you like and say "Yo baby i couldnt help but notice you were looking at me...wanna sample the goods?"

[SpursWoman]

How to Ask Question The Right Way (http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html)

[SpursWoman]

Or you can just pass her a note....



http://www.imaginationproject.com/gallery/albums/pic-nicky/CheckYesorNoSherryLaffoon.sized.jpg

[ObiwanGinobili]

Damn what is it about so many fucking loser guys in this world that are too afraid to talk to girls....grow a fucking pair of balls and just go up to a girl you like and say "Yo baby i couldnt help but notice you were looking at me...wanna sample the goods?"


:lmao and exactly what class of girls are you pivking up with such endearingly sweet lines like that?

[batman2883]

Dude girls are the easiest thing in life to attain you just gotta learn how to talk to them, its quite simple.

[ObiwanGinobili]

of course... i wasn't snagged by the smoothest line myself.
but it was sincere.

I just got done tellign emo about me breaking up with my BF becasue I wanted to be single for awhile.
and he says: "well would you consider goin out with me 1st?"
and I said: "yeah. ok"

thus the super couple was born. we are twowryknows and noone can stop us.
:lmao

[SWC Bonfire]

:lol

Some good suggestions so far and a lot of really bad ones.

[SpursWoman]

Dude girls are the easiest thing in life to attain you just gotta learn how to talk to them, its quite simple.


You've gotta get a lot of " :rolleyes " :lol




If She Posts on a forum, you could ask her like this.....it worked. (http://spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5871) :smokin :lol


And if she says yes, here are a few suggestions for a first date... (http://spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6091) :lmao

[SWC Bonfire]

:lmao and exactly what class of girls are you pivking up with such endearingly sweet lines like that?

Imaginary ones.

[batman2883]

You just gotta be willing to make eye contact(women love that shit) and just go with the flow, dont be nervous, dont be over confident....and just explain the situation

[SWC Bonfire]

You just gotta be willing to make eye contact(women love that shit) and just go with the flow, dont be nervous, dont be over confident....and just explain the situation

That's much better advice...

Don't let them know that you would cut off your left nut to be with them... let them wonder if you're really interested in them or not. It's not dishonest, it's self control, and women like it.

[ObiwanGinobili]

You just gotta be willing to make eye contact(women love that shit) and just go with the flow, dont be nervous, dont be over confident....and just explain the situation


holy crap. that is the first non-shit you ever posted.
I'm so proud I could cry.

[batman2883]

What can i say im very capable, i just love posting shit

[ObiwanGinobili]

And if she says yes, here are a few suggestions for a first date... (http://spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6091) :lmao


So... exactly how many times have you gone to PF Changs??? :lol

[ObiwanGinobili]

What can i say im very capable, i just love posting shit


screw the beer keg.. you need to the holy shit for halloween.

Or you could be batman and your son could be robin... that would kick ass.
especially if you did up a littel kids wagon like the batmobile with cardboard and black spray paint.......

[batman2883]

that would be a kick ass costume duo, i have got him all into batman too

[SpursWoman]

So... exactly how many times have you gone to PF Changs??? :lol


We haven't yet ... maybe we can go for our 1 year anniversary ... a month from Sunday. :wow :lmao

[ObiwanGinobili]

:lol

you should call and mak the reservations .. and get the sitter..... and do EVERYTHING to make it happen yourself.
then when you get there you can look him in the eye and say real sweetly: "thank you so much dear for bringing me to PF Changs.. this is really very nice and thoughtfull of you."
:lmao :lmao :devil

[ObiwanGinobili]

that would be a kick ass costume duo, i have got him all into batman too


and with the wagon you could still be going strong long after he's too tired to keep walking.
just go up to the door and say "trick or treat! yeah.. thats my kid in the 'batmobile' wagon... yeah he has narcoplepsy.... yeah it;s really sad.. oh! extra candy?? why thank you so much....."

[batman2883]

narcolepsy ha ha haha ha, that shit is funny

[TOP-CHERRY]

Is it John Frusciante from the zephyr song?
It's Adam Jones from A Perfect Circle.

[MiNuS]

1.take a shower,shave,and use AXE Tsunami.Spray it all over.
2.before you ask her out tease her.Smile at her,compliment her,small talk(you know give her an "appetizer")
3.Shyness? Use that to your advantage and just say what you feel and ask her out.Real women(not girls) like a man no matter if he's straight forward and all macho or shy.Speak from the heart(not from the nuts) and you will be allright.If she says "no" DON'T SHOW your emotions!Bluff it!Remember she's one in a million and if she didn't bite,keep her as a friend and go to the next.Women like to be chased but not stalked.
4.a card or a single flower with a smile,a sincere smile will go a long way.Do that before you even ask her out.

Everyone's different.It just depends on what you want from that certain girl you want to go out with.
You gotta go thru the fire an burn before you learn.

[batman2883]

he's right you will get rejected a few times, but it will lead to a better path, just be prepared and dont give up after the first rejection

[TOP-CHERRY]

That's the way the cookie crumbles sometimes...

[batman2883]

Aliyah said it best, and i follow these rules strictly


"if at first you dont succeed, dust yourself off and try again, you can dust it off and try again, try again."

[tlongII]

Tell her you'll give her 50 bucks for a hummer.

[spurs_fan_in_exile]

Lots of good advice on here. :tu to staying away from the movies. You just sit there, and there's way too much left to chance that can ruin the evening (the movie could suck or you get stuck sitting next to some assholes. Then she associates a bad time with your company. It's very Pavlovian, because women and drooling dogs aren't all that different. :spin )

The putt-putt angle is a classic, and clearly its someplace that you'd feel fairly comfortable. And comfort is going to be the key factor here. You need to exude comfort and you need to make sure she is comfortable. One of the biggest hurdles you're going to face is convincing this girl that this isn't going to shift the earth's axis and ruin your friendship, so you can't appear to suddenly have this change in demeanor. She'll either think that a) you're just trying to get in her pants and/or b) you've been lying all this time while acting like a nice guy just to get close enough to try to spring this trap on her. Both are not good thoughts. The fact that you're friends already is IMO a huge plus. In my experience (and I'm not a woman so this could way off the mark in general) if you're friends with a girl it's kind of like being in the minor leagues. She clearly believes that there is some talent there, otherwise she wouldn't have brought you into the system, but you're just not ready for the big leagues yet. So clearly you've got something about you that she likes. If you know what it is, try to accentuate it.

After that you need what a friend of mine once dubbed the three C's. Calm, confident, compliment. If you're nervous you're going to make her nervous, if you come across like you think she'll say know, she's going to think that you know of some reason why she should say know. The compliment thing can be a little tricky but it sounds like you're in a position to make it work. There are two schools of thought on this: the first is that if you know something that she is self conscious about you can compliment her about it. If she believes what she thinks is a weakness is a positive to you then she's going to be less guarded and more open around you. The trick is that you have to use some finesse. If the girl has braces and hates them don't try to compliment her smile or she's going to smell bullshit on you. But if she's always complaining that she needs to lose ten pounds you can say something about how chicks like Paris Hilton make you sick because they're so damn bony, but she looks like a real woman. Shit like that. The other is to compliment her on whatever she thinks is her greatest asset. At the very least it shows you know her well enough and that you agree on something. Again, finesse and sincerity are must haves. You're the only one in position to know which would work better. This carries over to the date too. The rule of thumb is that you should average something nice to say about her once an hour and a half or so. Any more than that and you look like a suck up.

Take this from a guy who blew a few good opportunities in high school because the problems you listed. I was uber-shy, I tended to put girls on pedestals, and the rare occasion that I landed a date, I blew it by trying to hard and changing from what the girl liked about me in the first place. I overhauled my approach once I got college and believe me, this works. I'm married, to a girl who was at first just a very good friend. You can do it!

[Weather Man Bob]

Haha, for some reason, sex is the last thing I think about when I'm with a girl that I really like.
That is a straight up lie, and if it isn't then you are a homo in denial...

[usckk]

Lots of good advice on here. :tu to staying away from the movies. You just sit there, and there's way too much left to chance that can ruin the evening (the movie could suck or you get stuck sitting next to some assholes. Then she associates a bad time with your company. It's very Pavlovian, because women and drooling dogs aren't all that different. :spin )

The putt-putt angle is a classic, and clearly its someplace that you'd feel fairly comfortable. And comfort is going to be the key factor here. You need to exude comfort and you need to make sure she is comfortable. One of the biggest hurdles you're going to face is convincing this girl that this isn't going to shift the earth's axis and ruin your friendship, so you can't appear to suddenly have this change in demeanor. She'll either think that a) you're just trying to get in her pants and/or b) you've been lying all this time while acting like a nice guy just to get close enough to try to spring this trap on her. Both are not good thoughts. The fact that you're friends already is IMO a huge plus. In my experience (and I'm not a woman so this could way off the mark in general) if you're friends with a girl it's kind of like being in the minor leagues. She clearly believes that there is some talent there, otherwise she wouldn't have brought you into the system, but you're just not ready for the big leagues yet. So clearly you've got something about you that she likes. If you know what it is, try to accentuate it.

After that you need what a friend of mine once dubbed the three C's. Calm, confident, compliment. If you're nervous you're going to make her nervous, if you come across like you think she'll say know, she's going to think that you know of some reason why she should say know. The compliment thing can be a little tricky but it sounds like you're in a position to make it work. There are two schools of thought on this: the first is that if you know something that she is self conscious about you can compliment her about it. If she believes what she thinks is a weakness is a positive to you then she's going to be less guarded and more open around you. The trick is that you have to use some finesse. If the girl has braces and hates them don't try to compliment her smile or she's going to smell bullshit on you. But if she's always complaining that she needs to lose ten pounds you can say something about how chicks like Paris Hilton make you sick because they're so damn bony, but she looks like a real woman. Shit like that. The other is to compliment her on whatever she thinks is her greatest asset. At the very least it shows you know her well enough and that you agree on something. Again, finesse and sincerity are must haves. You're the only one in position to know which would work better. This carries over to the date too. The rule of thumb is that you should average something nice to say about her once an hour and a half or so. Any more than that and you look like a suck up.

Take this from a guy who blew a few good opportunities in high school because the problems you listed. I was uber-shy, I tended to put girls on pedestals, and the rare occasion that I landed a date, I blew it by trying to hard and changing from what the girl liked about me in the first place. I overhauled my approach once I got college and believe me, this works. I'm married, to a girl who was at first just a very good friend. You can do it!
Thanks. Awesome advice.

[ALVAREZ6]

Haha, for some reason, sex is the last thing I think about when I'm with a girl that I really like.
I actaully know what he's talkin about. That happens to me sometimes...If it's a chick that I've known for a while and I really like, then I normally don't think about it, I sort of think that I just wanna be with her or some other crap.


On the other hand, if it's a chick I just met, or a chick that I don't really talk to, then that's all I'm thinkin about.

[Buenos Hairys]

IN ARGENTINA ASK GIRL OUT WE SAY "TOUCH MEAT MINE?"

[Shelly]

Give her this:

http://tinypic.com/ek42te.gif

[Buenos Hairys]

ALVAREZ HOMO NO HIM SENORITA WITH.

[ALVAREZ6]

ALVAREZ HOMO NO HIM SENORITA WITH.
Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you, the Argentine ducks.

[Shelly]

15 year olds should not be having sex unless they're prepared to deal with the results that would most likely happen because they are too embarrassed to go buy birth control.

[midgetonadonkey]

15 year olds should not be having sex unless they're prepared to deal with the results that would most likely happen because they are too embarrassed to go buy birth control.


Yeah Alvarez. Just go for blowjobs. I don't want my taxes to pay for your bastard child.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

Plus they might have to go shopping for condoms in the Juniors section

[ALVAREZ6]

15 year olds should not be having sex unless they're prepared to deal with the results that would most likely happen because they are too embarrassed to go buy birth control.
I make chicks take birth control. You think I'm crazy?

[Shelly]

You make them? Yeah, right. Are you force feeding them the pill?

Lucky girl.

[ALVAREZ6]

You make them? Yeah, right. Are you force feeding them the pill?

Lucky girl.
No :lol, but I would never bang my gf without her taking a pill.

[ShoogarBear]

You make them? Yeah, right. Are you force feeding them the pill?


Nah, he wears those glasses.

[Shelly]

No :lol, but I would never bang my gf without her taking a pill.

And how do you know she's 1)taking it, and 2) taking it correctly?

[Shelly]

Nah, he wears those glasses.

:lol

[ALVAREZ6]

And how do you know she's 1)taking it, and 2) taking it correctly?
I'm willing to risk it, and if she doesn't, then it's that bitch's fault.

[midgetonadonkey]

It's funny. Alvarez is acting like he gets laid. Go through puberty first and then talk about getting pussy.

[Buenos Hairys]

BEFORE PILL ALVAREZ LUNG EXERCISE

http://www.measureformeasure.co.uk/admin/uploads/images/9318doll.jpg

[Shelly]

I'm willing to risk it, and if she doesn't, then it's that bitch's fault.

:rolleyes

reminding myself that you're still a teenager...

[Shelly]

Buenos Hairys is funny! :lmao

[ALVAREZ6]

It's funny. Alvarez is acting like he gets laid. Go through puberty first and then talk about getting pussy.
I'm not saying I'm a pimp that bangs all kinds of bitches all the time, I've only banged one girl, and that's my gf.





And this whole "go through puberty first" thing...what do you mean? Did your generation still have the peach fuzz and high voices when they were 16? If you can grow a beard, you can bang a chick.

[SpursWoman]

No :lol, but I would never bang my gf without her taking a pill.

You know it's a prescription you take every single day of the month, regardless of whether or not you bang, right? You don't just take A pill ...

Her parents have her on the pill at 15? :fro

[ALVAREZ6]

You know it's a prescription you take every single day of the month, regardless of whether or not you bang, right? You don't just take A pill ...

Her parents have her on the pill at 15? :fro
Don't ask me how she gets them, but teenagers always find a way.




Just like how we always go to certain people for weed or drinks. It's all the same.

[midgetonadonkey]

I'm not saying I'm a pimp that bangs all kinds of bitches all the time, I've only banged one girl, and that's my gf.


And this whole "go through puberty first" thing...what do you mean? Did your generation still have the peach fuzz and high voices when they were 16? If you can grow a beard, you can bang a chick.

I'm just bustin balls dude. Don't get your little under-roos all bunched up. Did you miss your nap or what?

[ALVAREZ6]

I'm just bustin balls dude. Don't get your little under-roos all bunched up. Did you miss your nap or what?
Yeah I know but it happens in every single thread, every damn day, and it gets old.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

You know it's a prescription you take every single day of the month, regardless of whether or not you bang, right? You don't just take A pill ...

Her parents have her on the pill at 15? :fro


Actually alot of young women are on the pill, this has been going on since I was in high school.

The trick, or idea, is that they get them for Acne reasons.

That's why all the chicks that used to have bad acne were always highly sought after.

It's bull shit cuz sometimes they'd get them perscribed even when their acne wasn't that bad.

[midgetonadonkey]

Yeah I know but it happens in every single thread, every damn day, and it gets old.

It doesn't get old for us.

[ALVAREZ6]

It doesn't get old for us.
I can tell.

[midgetonadonkey]

Don't ask me how she gets them, but teenagers always find a way.




Just like how we always go to certain people for weed or drinks. It's all the same.

So your chick has a birth control pill dealer?

[violentkitten]

just remember you would be sexually active teens...

http://brokekid.net/img/Shaved_Cat.jpg

there's nothing more fun than a shaved pussy

[Cant_Be_Faded]

Alvarez hates the day I first started making fun of his youth.

[Shelly]

You know it's a prescription you take every single day of the month, regardless of whether or not you bang, right? You don't just take A pill ...

Her parents have her on the pill at 15? :fro

Not only that, but if you miss it taking it 2 days in a row, you need back up. Plus, for it to be the most effective it should be taken at the same time of the day.

She can get them from a doctor or Planned Parenthood. You don't get them from some guy on the street.

[ALVAREZ6]

So your chick has a birth control pill dealer?
:lol No idea...




But hey, it could be a good business.

[thispego]

Actually alot of young women are on the pill, this has been going on since I was in high school.

The trick, or idea, is that they get them for Acne reasons.

That's why all the chicks that used to have bad acne were always highly sought after.
It's bull shit cuz sometimes they'd get them perscribed even when their acne wasn't that bad.
roflroflroflrofl :lmao

[Shelly]

Actually alot of young women are on the pill, this has been going on since I was in high school.

The trick, or idea, is that they get them for Acne reasons.

That's why all the chicks that used to have bad acne were always highly sought after.

It's bull shit cuz sometimes they'd get them perscribed even when their acne wasn't that bad.

I think only Ortho-Tricyclene is perscribed for that. Most likely, the pills were perscribed to regulate the monthly curse.

Hey! I'm all for them using birth control, but you better be prepared in case it fails. And it's probably a pretty high rate during the teen years.

[violentkitten]

normally i'd just fuck the hot chicks with the large breasts but a zitty titty?

[midgetonadonkey]

That's why all the chicks that used to have bad acne were always highly sought after.

I always went after them because their self-esteem issues made them easier. I had no idea they were on the pill.

[Cant_Be_Faded]

I think only Ortho-Tricyclene is perscribed for that. Most likely, the pills were perscribed to regulate the monthly curse.

Hey! I'm all for them using birth control, but you better be prepared in case it fails. And it's probably a pretty high rate during the teen years.


No, they seriously got the pill. My sister even got them for that reason and she had the lightest case of acne ever

[midgetonadonkey]

No, they seriously got the pill. My sister even got them for that reason and she had the lightest case of acne ever

Is she hot?

[PizzaFace]

I always went after them because their self-esteem issues made them easier. I had no idea they were on the pill.

I wish women felt the same way.

[SpursWoman]

No, they seriously got the pill. My sister even got them for that reason and she had the lightest case of acne ever


There are a million & 1 reasons other than to prevent pregnancy you can get them prescribed for .... I used the irregular one on my mom. :lol

But I was 17 *ahem*legal*ahem* ... 15 just seems so young for me for that kind of thing because my daughter isn't too far away from that...


:makemyday :lol

[usckk]

I believe Alvaraz. Lots of teenagers, now days ,have sex. I have heard many, many, many, many stories. They are all true. The couples never deny it.

[SpursWoman]

I didn't just fall off the turnup truck...teenagers had sex waaaaay back then, too. :lol

As long as Alvarez and his girlfriend know that just one BC pill won't cut it ... what they do isn't my 'bidness. Although the fact that he's apparently relying on her for birth control but has no idea what she's doing is kind of scary....if I were a young guy I'd be a little more interested in making sure I wasn't a daddy before I could vote. :wow :wow

[Mijo]

All joking aside, you should just go with your gut instinct. Approach her and just be yourself. You want her to go out with you and the last thing you need is a pick up line from one of us. Unless you're just looking for a one nighter but I'm gathering that you really like her. If you pretend from the get go you may have to pretend just for her to continue to want to go out with you again.

[Mijo]

Although the fact that he's apparently relying on her for birth control but has no idea what she's doing is kind of scary....if I were a young guy I'd be a little more interested in making sure I wasn't a daddy before I could vote. Ain't that the truth! I thought I was sterile when I was in high school. :spin

[ShoogarBear]

I didn't just fall off the turnup truck

See, now, if you had said "hay wagon" we could have had some fun with this . . .

[TastesLikeChicken]

I make chicks take birth control. You think I'm crazy?


No :lol, but I would never bang my gf without her taking a pill.


I'm willing to risk it, and if she doesn't, then it's that bitch's fault.








http://accordionguy.blogware.com/Photos/2005/08/40_year_old_virgin.jpg

[spurs=bling]

I believe Alvaraz. Lots of teenagers, now days ,have sex. I have heard many, many, many, many stories. They are all true. The couples never deny it.


my sister.

[Arragontigo]

Alvarez doesnt know crap about dating or a sex life, he's only 12

[usckk]

More help. Does the following events mean she likes me or just a friend or not enough to tell?

-says hi everytime we see each other on the halls, although she says hi to EVERYONE. That's her personality. She's super nice.
-asked me to dance at prom even though she's not my date and my date was next to me.
-we have small talk sometimes when we do see each other
-at the first day of school, we both kind of ignored each other.
-she ignores me sometimes. I do the same sometimes

[ALVAREZ6]

Alvarez doesnt know crap about dating or a sex life, he's only 12
Ignore my title, that's just Kori's creativity.


I'm 16

[usckk]

Haha, I can't believe she did that. What grade are you in Alvaraz?

[angel_luv]

More help. Does the following events mean she likes me or just a friend or not enough to tell?

-says hi everytime we see each other on the halls, although she says hi to EVERYONE. That's her personality. She's super nice.
-asked me to dance at prom even though she's not my date and my date was next to me.
-we have small talk sometimes when we do see each other
-at the first day of school, we both kind of ignored each other.
-she ignores me sometimes. I do the same sometimes


If you like her why don't you just say so?

[usckk]

If you like her why don't you just say so?
Fear of rejection.

[ALVAREZ6]

Haha, I can't believe she did that. What grade are you in Alvaraz?
10

[angel_luv]

Fear of rejection.


So all this wondering "what if" is more fun?

She obviously likes you as a friend. I don't see the harm in you wanting to better define your relationship.

I can tell you that even if I haven't wanted to date the guy, I have never been mad at one for liking me.

Speaking from experience, when you're ready for it, the truth is always best.
= )

[TOP-CHERRY]

Fear of rejection.
Is it really fear of rejection, or fear of losing her friendship?

[usckk]

Is it really fear of rejection, or fear of losing her friendship?
Rejection...She's such a super super super nice person that she won't hate anyone for anything. She's a friend to all.

[TOP-CHERRY]

Rejection...She's such a super super super nice person that she won't hate anyone for anything. She's a friend to all.
Well then if you're more interested in a relationship with her, and not a friendship, you have nothing to lose. If she rejects you, suck it up.

:)

[usckk]

I also fear that she already has a boyfriend and I ask her out. That would be so embarrassing... Any ideas how I can find out? I don't want to ask her friends because they would spread to the whole school that I like her. And I dont' want that.

[ALVAREZ6]

I also fear that she already has a boyfriend and I ask her out. That would be so embarrassing... Any ideas how I can find out?
Uhhhh.......ask her?



If you say that you guys are good friends, how don't you know this already?

[midgetonadonkey]

Fear of rejection.

I know you like this chick but is it so bad she says no? I mean you will get over it and start to like another chick that might like you. Just ask her out and if she says no then fuck her. Be her friend but try to meet another chick.

[mookie2001]

midget cbfs sister is really hot

[usckk]

Uhhhh.......ask her?



If you say that you guys are good friends, how don't you know this already?
Because she's not that way. She's your typical perfect "Christian Girl."

[ALVAREZ6]

Because she's not that way. She's your typical perfect "Christian Girl."
I don't get it?????




So since she's your typical "Christian Girl" you can't ask her a question?

[usckk]

I'm just saying it would be awkward.

[ALVAREZ6]

I'm just saying it would be awkward.
How?

[usckk]

Because we both don't normally talk about that stuff.

[ALVAREZ6]

Because we both don't normally talk about that stuff.
Then start. Would she mind???




BTW, how old are you?

[usckk]

Haha, i'm 17 and i'm a senior. Its probably weird that your 16 and a sophomore and your the one helping.

[usckk]

I've also noticed something. Sometimes she would have a happy tone when she says hi; other times she has a sad tone when she greets me. However, I dont think she's like that around her friends; she's always in a talks in a happy tone to her friends. Any ideas why?

[TOP-CHERRY]

Ask her what's wrong, genius. She may want to confide in you about something.

[ALVAREZ6]

Basically, stop being shy, talk to her often, and find out more about her. Find out if she has a boyfriend or not, and if she doesn't, ask her out. You don't even have to mention the fact that you want to start a relationship yet. Ask her if she wants to go out anywhere.

That's when you'll find out if she likes you or not.

[usckk]

Haha, someone needs to make a Vbookie thing on when i will ask this girl out.

[NameDropper]

Ever hear of the saying, "you snooze, you lose"?

[usckk]

Yeah, I know. I've been waiting my entire life, and I regret it. That's why i'm asking her out the first chance I get. I just need assurance, hehe.

[midgetonadonkey]

Haha, someone needs to make a Vbookie thing on when i will ask this girl out.

I'd put all my cash on never.

[atlfan25]

Yeah, I know. I've been waiting my entire life, and I regret it. That's why i'm asking her out the first chance I get. I just need assurance, hehe.
FAG

[usckk]

I'd put all my cash on never.
I'm going to prove you wrong. :)

[ALVAREZ6]

I'd put all my cash on never.
:lol :lol

[ALVAREZ6]

I'm going to prove you wrong. :)
I hope you do.