Letting Go of the Past

[Faccia di Angelo]

I've been wondering about something lately. If someone is always talking about their ex or bringing them up, in some form or another: be it ex girlfriend/boyfriend, or ex- wife/husband and its already been say, years of separation; should it just be obvious that they are never going to let go and move on? Are they still in love with them and can't seem to get over the past? And it wouldn't be smart for someone to even attempt to get tangled up in that?

[Puppy Dog]

people that can't let go of the past are trouble.

1st, try to help them to let go, but if you can't, you gotta be strong enough to move on.

who knows, maybe when you move on, they will realize what they are missing and wake up and finally let go of whatever was bringing the relationship down...but never hold your breath...clean breaks are best...remain friends only if your feelings run deep.

[ZStomp]

I wonder who you're talking about.....hmmmmm :lol

[Deadbeat Dad]

Evertime I look in my wallet I think of my ex.

[Puppy Dog]

:lol

[Mr Hanky]

My ex is a real piece if shit .

[2centsworth]

At some point they have to move on and ideally have a new and happier life. Otherwise, they could be a real drag.

[Earl Hickey]

Scratch them off the list....

[Mr Furley]

That's why you have backups....;)

But it's easy for me to say being I'm an excellent dresser and a ladies man. :)

[Steve Perry]

I miss the lovin ,the touchin ,and the squeezzin.....

[Ocotillo]

^^ lol

[Jack Tripper]

Maybe he's Gay

[Al Swearengen]

Maybe the cocksucker likes to fuck himself or maybe he enjoys shit like prostitutes pissing on him or shitting on his chest.

[Faccia di Angelo]

who knows, maybe when you move on, they will realize what they are missing and wake up and finally let go of whatever was bringing the relationship down...but never hold your breath...clean breaks are best...remain friends only if your feelings run deep.

good point. I'm sure its hard staying friends though when you feel something for someone. I guess thats when you put it all to the test.


Damn Mouse :lol

[Zombie Terri Schiavo]

I thirst for love.............

[Mr Roper]

The only painting that will be going on will be Jack painting my rental house to its original colors and get rid of those pink gay ass bedroom walls.

[Vashner]

Life is like a book. There is no letting go of the past. It is part of who you are. Letting it bother you or depress you is another thing.

[Das Texan]

every time i think of lying, cheating, slutty bitches i think of my ex.

[Puppy Dog]

Life is like a book. There is no letting go of the past. It is part of who you are. Letting it bother you or depress you is another thing.


exactly, you never forget. but you can forgive. :tu

[Puppy Dog]

every time i think of lying, cheating, slutty bitches i think of my ex.


funny...i think of your ex too....:lmao :p

[Faccia di Angelo]

Life is like a book. There is no letting go of the past. It is part of who you are. Letting it bother you or depress you is another thing.
hmmm..thats a different way of looking at it. Interesting. I like that.

Damn Das, she was a piece of work eh? :( Glad you're past her :)

[Das Texan]

Damn Das, she was a piece of work eh? :( Glad you're past her :)


its your fault. you mentioned her name earlier tonight.

[midgetonadonkey]

I used to bring up my ex-gf a lot at the beginning of my relationship with my current girlfriend. It didn't have anything to do with my inability to let her go, I just had so many stories that I would tell that kind of involved her. I didn't long for her or miss her, I was just with her for so long that she kind of ended up in most of my retellings of the past.

[MannyIsGod]

Sometimes people have a big impact on your life, and you never let them completely go. That doesn't mean you haven't moved on.

[Puppy Dog]

you don't have to let the memories go...but if you still have feelings for an ex while your with another?

well...then i can only assume that that person was your true love that got away...

and that sucks...hopefully it was for the right reasons...:tu

[KEDA]

Sometimes people have a big impact on your life, and you never let them completely go. That doesn't mean you haven't moved on.


well Manny, you hit the nail on the head.

I have moved on from a previous relationship, but she had a massive impact on my life, and it is very hard to let go, but I have tried my hardest to make it happen, and every day I get stronger.

[Puppy Dog]

the only value of the past is lessons learned and happy memories.

learn that, and you'll be a better person. :tu

[MannyIsGod]

you don't have to let the memories go...but if you still have feelings for an ex while your with another?

well...then i can only assume that that person was your true love that got away...

and that sucks...hopefully it was for the right reasons...:tu
That is absolute bullshit. You can have feelings for another person after you've been with another person. It happens. That doesn't mean anything more than the simple fact that you cared about them.

There is no "one" that got away.

[Puppy Dog]

oh, so you mean friendship feelings....that's cool. :tu

[JoeChalupa]

There have been many people who have had an impact on my life and that I will never forget.

[SWC Bonfire]

I'm no expert on manners by a long shot, but it is disrespectful to the woman/man you are with to talk about other women/men. Show some class and don't do it. :tu

[SpursWoman]

I'm no expert on manners by a long shot, but it is disrespectful to the woman/man you are with to talk about other women/men. Show some class and don't do it. :tu


:tu


Unless you're telling them how much better they are in every aspect than so&so. :angel

[Shelly]

:tu

[Marcus Bryant]

It happens. The cliche is that time heals all wounds and that is, unfortunately, correct.