A question for the guys of spurstalk.

[SmotPoker]

For any guy here whos been told by their exgirlfriends that they just want time for themselves, but theirs still a possibility that you'll get back together.... what was the conclusion to that? Did you get back together?.. are you still broken up? Married?

I'm just look for some kind of hope.

[thispego]

ehhh didnt you already start a thread asking something similar?

[midgetonadonkey]

Dude, give up. Go find yourself a new chick, as stated in your previous thread.

[MannyIsGod]

If I give you 20 bucks will you go Cherry St.?

[Johnny Tightlips]

Who says I been poking smot?




Even I'll tell you that there's no chance.

[whottt]

IF the chick ever loved you you can get her back, Yes.

You can get them back even if they tell you that there is no chance you'll get back together...but if they tell you there is still a chance? Definitely.


How hard it will be to pull off just depends on how pissed off she is, how long you are willing to wait, how desperate she thinks you are, how much of an ego you have, and how much shit you are willing to take to get her back, and you also have to be willing to let go. And all of that stuff depends on the type of girl she is as well...


But yeah...you can do it, even if she thinks she's just keeping you on a string you can still turn the tables on her..., it usually isn't worth the effort though, and when you do get her back you will probably still have the same issues you had in the first place, she'll probably do the same thing the next time she gets mad, and you probably won't ever get that romantic fun feeling back again...but then again, you just might.

The main thing you need to remember is be nice, and be classy, but don't be a dumbass.

[thispego]

time for herself = time for her to go and fuck other dudes without the guilt of cheating

[midgetonadonkey]

time for herself = time for her to go and fuck other dudes without the guilt of cheating

You fucking nailed it.
Just like some dude is nailing your chick smot poker.

[Aggie Hoopsfan]

time for herself = time for her to go and fuck other dudes without the guilt of cheatin

Yep. Run for the hills (but take advantage of the ex-sex if it presents itself :lol ).

Just realize in that case she's pretty much using you until she finds someone better.

[midgetonadonkey]

but take advantage of the ex-sex if it presents itself :lol

Just make sure to double bag it.

[IceColdBrewski]

ehhh didnt you already start a thread asking something similar?

Yep. Methinks he's just looking for reaction with these types of threads. But to answer the question, when a girl says that, it usually means that she has her eye on some other dude she wants to get with for a while to see how things go.

[whottt]

Hey, at least she's being honest about it and not going around fucking other guys while telling him she's madly in love with him. Those are the worst kind...This one is the honest kind.

It sounds to me like she broke up with him and he's wanting to get back together with her...if she wants to go out and fuck other guys so be it...it's not like she owes him her chastity or something.

At least she cut him lose before doing it.

The thing is smot...what you have to do to get her back is the same thing you have to do if you don't want her back...

Go out and get laid and not worry about it for a while.

If the idea of her fucking some other guy really tears you up then this is probably not the girl for you...if you are the type of guy that can man up and go fuck her best friend then you guys probably have a good future together.

Just tell her you are sorry things didn't work out and tell her to give you a call if she ever wants to go out again, be nice, don't paint yourself into a corner by being a complete dick about it...Then go out and have some fun and get your shit together. It's true that being a dick does work on some girls...but IME, if you aren't a dick naturally, why you would want a girl that only responds to you when you are an asshole? So be be nice and cool about it...and just say ok.

Unless she meets Mr.Wonderful(and she probably won't) she'll give you a call after she gets done fucking some other guys and realizing they are bigger assholes than you are...one of them will probably make her feel like shit and then she'll come running back to you...


I didn't say you were going to like what you have to do to get her back...but that's pretty much what you have to do: Be nice, deal with the fact she's going to go out and fuck some other guys, and move on.

[Peter]

It depends on why she's your ex. If you pulled the trigger and are now having second thoughts, go with what makes you happy. If she did, walk on.

[The sone]

ya' know what...shes playing you. face it.

[whottt]

How is she playing him if she broke up with him and he's the one trying to get back together?

[The sone]

For any guy here whos been told by their exgirlfriends that they just want time for themselves, but theirs still a possibility that you'll get back together.... what was the conclusion to that? Did you get back together?.. are you still broken up? Married?

I'm just look for some kind of hope.


can you not read?...idiot!

[The sone]

remember to check every morning to see if you have antlers growing out your head

lets hope horny wont tease him back. move on man. if you need help gimme a call. im down.

[N.Y. Johnny]

For any guy here whos been told by their exgirlfriends that they just want time for themselves, but theirs still a possibility that you'll get back together.... what was the conclusion to that?

http://www.gregdooley.com/images/oj.jpg






Silly Girls, Sometimes It Gets Pretty Ugly


Sincerely,
Orenthal

[The sone]

what manner of proposal is this?


more along the lines of "lets hit the bar scene...lets go to a game...", not "i want you like she does"...elpimpo4cc...you sicko. :lol

[ChumpDumper]

Don't ever call this chick again. You'll lose any shred of manhood you thought you had.

If you're really on her mind, she'll call you.

[ThugJohnson]

For any guy here whos been told by their exgirlfriends that they just want time for themselves, but theirs still a possibility that you'll get back together.... what was the conclusion to that? Did you get back together?.. are you still broken up? Married?

I'm just look for some kind of hope.


obviously you fucked up somewhere. best case? she want to see if she really really likes you. you know the phrase absence makes the heart grow fonder?

worst case? she's riding dick as you read this...actually, sorry to break it to you...she's pretty good...:lmao

[batman2883]

I'm sorry to say this to you bro but pego is correct, she just wants to go fuck around and see if she could find someone better than you if she doesnt she will come back if she does than she will shoot you the duece

[SA210]

Cut and run, nothing will come good of this. They r right.

[SWC Bonfire]

She is no longer interested in you. Don't ever take her back, make her feel bad for dumping you by finding someone else.

[batman2883]

She is no longer interested in you. Don't ever take her back, make her feel bad for dumping you by finding someone else.
someone else hotter, so that way you can throw it in her face

[GoldToe]

I always say..."I'm so glad you feel the same way....I'll call you."

[Sportcamper]

When a woman says she just wants to be friends...It means she has already cut herself a new pony from the herd...And if she is not already riding him...She is at least saddled up & ready to go....

[SWC Bonfire]

When a woman says she just wants to be friends...It means she has already cut herself a new pony from the herd...And if she is not already riding him...She is at least saddled up & ready to go....

:lol Who said that originally? I know I've heard it somewhere.

[Sportcamper]

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[PakiDan]

It's Fucking Over Dude. That's Exactly What My Ex-wife Said.

[bigzak25]

It's Fucking Over Dude. That's Exactly What My Ex-wife Said.



you divorced dio? :lol

[mikejones99]

When a girl just wants to be your friend it means she do not like sex with you. Never speak to her again.

[Samr]

In the amount of time you have spent worrying about her and/or trying to get her back, you could have found someone else.

One of the most important things you can learn in life is know when to cut your losses, say "fuck it," and move on with your damn life. People are not worth your time. If they cause any more heartache than you feel like dealing with, move on. Find someone else. Chances are they will make you just as happy, but they'll provide a relationship with less drama. And when they start to cause it, say "fuck it" and move on.

Don't worry about loves lost and just get on with life. You'll be a better man for it.