How do I???

[Kip Fanatic]

There is this girl who I work with (sort of) that I know has a thing for me. She is constantly trying to talk to me. I am really not into her at all. She is very nice, but is annoying and in MY OPINION not attractive.

She works for a plumbing supplier company and is constantly emailing me and send me jokes that aren't funny. She emails me different things and I don't want to respond, but hate ignoring people. For instance, its been awhile since I have had to go in there to order things, so today I get an email saying, "Did you miss me?" The first thing that comes to mind to reply with is "why would I," but I don't want to be mean. If I don't respond, which I hardly ever do, she'll send something saying, "are you busy?"

I reply and say yes so that she can get the hint. However, she doesn't stop. She replies and says something like, "too bad, I'm going to bother you anyway." Its annoying and I want her to stop emailing me for things other than business related. How should I do this or go about it?

Try to be serious please.

[SpursWoman]

OOoooo...tough one. It's hard to stop that kind of stuff without being a jerk. Props to you for not wanting to be one, either. :tu :lol

Only respond to things that are business related?

[Kip Fanatic]

I try to ^, but then she will ask me if I am busy and me not wanting to ignore her respond by saying, "yes I am a little busy," but she doesn't get the hint.

[timvp]

There is this girl who I work with (sort of) that I know has a thing for me. She is constantly trying to talk to me. I am really not into her at all. She is very nice, but is annoying and in MY OPINION not attractive.

She works for a plumbing supplier company and is constantly emailing me and send me jokes that aren't funny. She emails me different things and I don't want to respond, but hate ignoring people. For instance, its been awhile since I have had to go in there to order things, so today I get an email saying, "Did you miss me?" The first thing that comes to mind to reply with is "why would I," but I don't want to be mean. If I don't respond, which I hardly ever do, she'll send something saying, "are you busy?"

I reply and say yes so that she can get the hint. However, she doesn't stop. She replies and says something like, "too bad, I'm going to bother you anyway." Its annoying and I want her to stop emailing me for things other than business related. How should I do this or go about it?

Try to be serious please.

Tell her you are not interested and to stop emailing you.

[Kip Fanatic]

Easier said than done because she emails me when the stuff I order gets in or emails me when items being discontinued go on sale for really cheap.

[JoeChalupa]

If it is your company email you can simply say that your company policy is that emails are for business use only. Then give her a email address that you never use.

Or just lay it on the line and give her your left handed opinion.

[katyon6th]

^ I agree (with timvp).

If you've given her hints and she hasn't yet stopped, you need to be adamant about it and just straight out tell her you don't like it. It sounds like she won't stop otherwise.

[gay abc]

tell her you are gay - works for me all the time :spin

[ChumpDumper]

Send her a virus.

[Kip Fanatic]

tell her you are gay - works for me all the time :spin

:lmao

[CosmicCowboy]

Keep her on the hook...it doesn't take that much time to return the e-mails...plus you don't want to piss off someone that can "lose" an order just when you need it...

plus...you never know...you might be drunk and horny some time and feel differently...:lol

[Oh, Gee!!]

Give her a cleveland steamer

[Oh, Gee!!]

or a dirty sanchez

or the ol' fish hook

[Kip Fanatic]

Keep her on the hook...it doesn't take that much time to return the e-mails...plus you don't want to piss off someone that can "lose" an order just when you need it...

plus...you never know...you might be drunk and horny some time and feel differently...:lol

I don't want to lose total contact with her because she helps me with work, but I get annoyed by this girl.

I don't think I would even go for it even if I was drunk. Why? She is married.

[SequSpur]

Take her to Mortons.

[Kip Fanatic]

Tell me what you think guys. Should I just tell her something like, "I really appreciate all your help, but I really don't have time to be emailing (I'd be lying) back and forth about anything besides work." What do you guys think? Would that work or would it piss her off?

[ShoogarBear]

Take her to someplace quiet, but public. Preferably outdoors where there are people around. Sit down with her casually, look her in the eye, and kindly but firmly say, "Gatita, you've got to stop flirting with me".

[Kip Fanatic]

Take her to someplace quiet, but public. Preferably outdoors where there are people around. Sit down with her casually, look her in the eye, and kindly but firmly say, "Gatita, you've got to stop flirting with me".
:lol

[Oh, Gee!!]

e-mail her the link to this page
http://spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=30965

[SpursWoman]

e-mail her the link to this page
http://spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=30965

:lol

[GoldToe]

e-mail her the link to this page
http://spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=30965

^^RACK 'IM!!^^

[Silver21_Black20]

Tell me what you think guys. Should I just tell her something like, "I really appreciate all your help, but I really don't have time to be emailing (I'd be lying) back and forth about anything besides work." What do you guys think? Would that work or would it piss her off?

That would work, I think, and if she still doesn't get the hint then be a little more firm with her and tell her to back the fuck off...:lol.

[Ed Helicopter Jones]

Take her to Mortons.

^^ :lol That was just cold!





My advice. . .(a) one-night stand and then never call her again, followed by (b) find another plumbing supplier.

You could always be upfront and honest with her like some folks have suggested, but then you'd probably still be stuck following part (b) above, only minus the sex part.

[SequSpur]

Seriously?

Just walk up to her and tell her the deal.

[hussker]

Dude...just HIT IT! (just wanted to get that in before one of our other posters did...you know he will)

[tlongII]

Try farting whenever you are in her presence.

[emo serb]

Dude...just HIT IT!
yes, just hit it and split it.

[IceColdBrewski]

Start telling her about the really hot woman you recently met. Talk incessantly about how sexy, smart, sweet, and financially sucessful she is. Find a way to slip this imaginary hottie into the conversation every time she e-mails you. Eventually, she'll either get sick of hearing about her, or realize that she has no chance of competing with a girl like that.

[Guru of Nothing]

Damn, Chopper and TLong beat me to the draw for my suggestions.

[midgetonadonkey]

Just tell her to fuck off. That usually works.

[2Blonde]

Maybe you could talk about how horribly you treat women in front of her. Let her know what dog you are. (I am not saying you are one). But act like you think women are for using and abusing only and you have no respect for them. Be a real male chauvinist. Maybe she'll back off and lose interest. Of course this could backfire because some girls are into that bad boy thing. How old is she? Is she old enough to be past all bad boy stuff?
You could always mention that time you almost made it on an episodeCops but they told you you had too many teeth. :lol .

[easjer]

She's married?

Ooooo. So maybe she just wants a friend.

You are sending her the signal that you want to continue a non-work relationship by responding to her emails and telling her that you are a 'little' busy, etc. And she sounds a little desparate for contact.

I would go with sending her an email as you suggested. If she emails you again about bothering her anyway, tell her flat out that you really can't read or respond to any more of her emails that are non work related and ignore the rest. Trash them without reading them. Tell you don't want to be rude, but you also cannot endanger your job (tell her they are reading your emails or something) with NWR stuff.

[Useruser666]

Don't respond and if she asks you in person why you've not been responding tell her the spam filter must have eaten them.

[Extra Stout]

According to my corporate sexual harrassment policy, her behavior constitutes "unwelcome advances." Tell her firmly that her advances are unwelcome. If she persists, contact her supervisor.

If she exacts retribution by ceasing to do business with you, then notify her supervisor immediately. She will be subject to disciplinary action up to and including termination.

If she is self-employed, sue her ass off. Once the suit is finished, you will have achieved desirable vertical integration.

This advice was brought to you by Cutthroat Sons of Bitches, Inc.

[Parkersgirl9]

Next time, when you get a email asking if you are busy, tell her yes, and a reason like, "Well I'm busy talking to my girlfriend"

[NZHayden]

wear a wedding ring, or tell her you have an std

[Mixability]

wear a wedding ring

works for me! :fro

[Kip Fanatic]

Finally told her that I was not comfortable with her emailing me because of the fact that she was married. Girl went straight psycho.

[Kip Fanatic]

She started sending email after email with the same question, "why not?" Did I not include the word, "because you're married?" PSYCHO

[CosmicCowboy]

Be prepared for your orders to be all screwed up from now on. You should have just taken one for the team and nailed her.

[Manu'sMagicalLeftHand]

Become a real jerk. Tell her that you have an erection and want her to give you head right now, but only if she swallows. But be sure to tell her before "It's only sex, I found you ugly, in fact, if you could wear a bag or a mask on your face it would make things better". Also tell her "I ask you to blow me because I want something that can keep your mouth busy, so I won't have to hear your annoying voice".

That should work.

[Manu'sMagicalLeftHand]

DISCLAIMER:
Not my fault if you get your penis eaten by a psychotic bitch.

[ALVAREZ6]

Just do what Timvp said. Those situations are tough cus you don't wanna be mean, but that bitch just needs to STFU.