Question for the Females...

[usckk]

What qualities do females look for in a guy and rank them by starting with the most important. Here's a good starting list you can choose from but feel free to add some of your own:

-Ambition
-Physical Appearance
-Education
-Personaltiy
-Family Backgroud
-Religion
-Race
-Sense of Humor
-Money
-Relationship with Friends
-Hobbies
-Nationality
-Intelligence
-Sincre
-Confidence
-Easyness to Talk to
-Popularity

[LuvBones]

Damn, I was just starting to answer this and you added like 10 more things. :lol

So is this some kind of survey?

[George W Bush]

Intilligance :tu

[TheSanityAnnex]

1.bedroom skills

[midgetonadonkey]

They love it when you aren't a little homo that asks random people on a forum how to dance to hip-hop. They love that.

[Summers]

What makes a man attractive to me is when he has the entire package (and I don't mean that in the dirty way you're thinking, although that's icing on the cake :lol). It's not about any one or two or three specific traits. A man is attractive to me if he's smart, funny, kind to everyone, passionate about the things he believes in and loves, talented, confident, mature, and humble. I've never cared about superficial things, although basic hygiene is a must (and I have this weird dislike of long nails, dirty teeth, or unkempt hair). If he can please my head and heart and he's nice to look at too, that's a bonus, but it's not a priority.

[angel_luv]

It is hard to rank those in a one by one order, as all the qualities you mentioned are so important. I tried though.




Biblical Christian ( some people claim to believe in God but sure don't act like it)

Outstanding values and character- I like guys who are well above average when it comes to being kind and acting like gentleman.

Affectionate- someone not afraid to show he has a heart.

Sincere, confidence- those qualities are best when paired together

Personality- Has to be balanced. I want someone fun and romantic but not over the top

Intelligence-Education- College degrees are secondary to me. I want someone who is creative and street smart as well as book smart.


Great Communicator- someone who can make his point known in an interesting way.

Physical Appearance & Sense of Humor- these two are of equal importance. I think a sense of humor adds to a person's good looks.
( I ranked those two high up because no matter how fantastic a guy is, if I am not attracted to him than I won't date him.

Hobbies- If our relationship is going to go anywhere, we will need to be of the same mind.


Family relationships

I want a guy to be a part of a loving family since his family could become my family too.
Background is a factor but not a deciding one since some situations were not/ are not a guys fault. Some things you should not be judged by, especially if you have worked to overcome them.

Ambitious- in a responsible way

Money- I'm not materialistic but would rather we have it than not.

[angel_luv]

P.S. Well said Summer!

What she said. :)

[easjer]

Hmmm. I don't think I can rank all those things.

In no particular order, the things that were important to me were:

Kindness, gentleness, loyalty, willingness to show affection, intelligence, great sense of humor, Spurs fan, Christian, likes/wants children, similar (but not necessaril the same) ambitions/goals/outlooks/priorities.

That was for a potential spouse. For a date or a fun evening the most important thing was sense of humor, personality, and possibly looks and money.

[SpursWoman]

-remembers my last name most of the time. Or hell, even my first. And it's not SpursWoman.

[furry_spurry]

Someone with whom I have enough in common to make a relationship possible but with whom I have enough difference to make it interesting.

Character-- a "good" man
Humble-- yet accomplished
Strong-- but also kind and gentle; tender of heart
Spiritual-- believing in something greater than himself
Charitable-- generous and grateful for what he has
Dependable/Reliable/Trustworthy-- means what he says
Affectionate-- but in an "appropriate" way in public

Intangibles-- the look in his eyes; the way he treats his mother; the people in his life

[1Parker1]

It's simple:

1) Humorous: They have to make me laugh above anything. I don't care if you look like Brad Pitt and have the body of a workout God. If you can't make me laugh and if you can't laugh yourself, then you won't be attractive to me.

2) Intelligence: Education is a must, I personally have never been attracted to those Liberal Arts type of guys (i.e Poets, Artists, Philosophy majors, etc.) Usually, I like guys in my own field, something in Business or Engineering. Doctors and Lawyers get a bonus pass :eyebrows :lol

3) Attractive: They have to be attractive to me. This means they dress decent, not sloppy (I HATE Sloppily dressed guys), and generally just have good hygene. Oh, and they have to be tall (but not so tall that I fee like a midget :oops).

4) Interesting: This is the most important thing. If they aren't someone I could see myself as friends with first, then I know it would never work out. We have to have things in common (Basketball!) and we have to be able to carry on conversations. We also can't be too similiar. I've found opposites really do attract.

That's basically it. I really don't care what his relationship with friends is, or whether he's "sincere" or popular. I don't expect him to be perfect, since I already am. As long as he has the four qualities above, he'll be ok. :)

[1Parker1]

-remembers my last name most of the time. Or hell, even my first. And it's not SpursWoman.

:lmao Guess you've never hooked up with a guy at a bar or club.

[1Parker1]

Someone with whom I have enough in common to make a relationship possible but with whom I have enough difference to make it interesting.

Character-- a "good" man
Humble-- yet accomplished
Strong-- but also kind and gentle; tender of heart
Spiritual-- believing in something greater than himself
Charitable-- generous and grateful for what he has
Dependable/Reliable/Trustworthy-- means what he says
Affectionate-- but in an "appropriate" way in public

Intangibles-- the look in his eyes; the way he treats his mother; the people in his life

:lol I'm not sure if I, myself, have half those characteristics on that list...which is why I don't expect him to.

[SpursWoman]

:lmao Guess you've never hooked up with a guy at a bar or club..


Why do you think that's a quality I now place great importance on? I met my ex-husband at a club. :spin

[1Parker1]

:lol I don't think there's anything more insulting than a guy calling you by some other chick's name.

EDIT: Of course, the insult would be 10 times worse if he said the wrong name during a certain activity or event. :oops

[SpursWoman]

.


Why do you think that's a quality I now place great importance on? I met my ex-husband at a club. :spin

And to make things even easier, I found someone who actually has the masculine version of my name ... so if he can't even get it right, I don't really know what to say about that.

:drunk

[furry_spurry]

Doctors and Lawyers get a bonus pass :eyebrows :lol

Over-rated. Trust me.

[1Parker1]

Over-rated. Trust me.

:lol Nonsense!

[midgetonadonkey]

Nobody has mentioned beer bellied alcoholics with tasteless humor and a lust for being an asshole to strangers. Are my types just not desireable to females?

[1Parker1]

^I doubt your kind is even desirable to males. You may want to try another spieces altogether. :angel

[midgetonadonkey]

Que gatcho.

[Phenomanul]

It is hard to rank those in a one by one order, as all the qualities you mentioned are so important. I tried though.




Biblical Christian ( some people claim to believe in God but sure don't act like it)

Outstanding values and character- I like guys who are well above average when it comes to being kind and acting like gentleman.

Affectionate- someone not afraid to show he has a heart.

Sincere, confidence- those qualities are best when paired together

Personality- Has to be balanced. I want someone fun and romantic but not over the top

Intelligence-Education- College degrees are secondary to me. I want someone who is creative and street smart as well as book smart.


Great Communicator- someone who can make his point known in an interesting way.

Physical Appearance & Sense of Humor- these two are of equal importance. I think a sense of humor adds to a person's good looks.
( I ranked those two high up because no matter how fantastic a guy is, if I am not attracted to him than I won't date him.

Hobbies- If our relationship is going to go anywhere, we will need to be of the same mind.


Family relationships

I want a guy to be a part of a loving family since his family could become my family too.
Background is a factor but not a deciding one since some situations were not/ are not a guys fault. Some things you should not be judged by, especially if you have worked to overcome them.

Ambitious- in a responsible way

Money- I'm not materialistic but would rather we have it than not.


Kudos to you that you know exactly what you are looking for.... :spin

[whottt]

What makes a man attractive to me is when he has the entire package (and I don't mean that in the dirty way you're thinking, although that's icing on the cake :lol). It's not about any one or two or three specific traits. A man is attractive to me if he's smart, funny, kind to everyone, passionate about the things he believes in and loves, talented, confident, mature, and humble. I've never cared about superficial things, although basic hygiene is a must (and I have this weird dislike of long nails, dirty teeth, or unkempt hair). If he can please my head and heart and he's nice to look at too, that's a bonus, but it's not a priority.


Moderately High Mantinence

[whottt]

It is hard to rank those in a one by one order, as all the qualities you mentioned are so important. I tried though.




Biblical Christian ( some people claim to believe in God but sure don't act like it)

Outstanding values and character- I like guys who are well above average when it comes to being kind and acting like gentleman.

Affectionate- someone not afraid to show he has a heart.

Sincere, confidence- those qualities are best when paired together

Personality- Has to be balanced. I want someone fun and romantic but not over the top

Intelligence-Education- College degrees are secondary to me. I want someone who is creative and street smart as well as book smart.


Great Communicator- someone who can make his point known in an interesting way.

Physical Appearance & Sense of Humor- these two are of equal importance. I think a sense of humor adds to a person's good looks.
( I ranked those two high up because no matter how fantastic a guy is, if I am not attracted to him than I won't date him.

Hobbies- If our relationship is going to go anywhere, we will need to be of the same mind.


Family relationships

I want a guy to be a part of a loving family since his family could become my family too.
Background is a factor but not a deciding one since some situations were not/ are not a guys fault. Some things you should not be judged by, especially if you have worked to overcome them.

Ambitious- in a responsible way

Money- I'm not materialistic but would rather we have it than not.



Extremely High Mantinence...

When Jesus comes back, the apocalypse is coming with him...so you better grab him fast.

[whottt]

Hmmm. I don't think I can rank all those things.

In no particular order, the things that were important to me were:

Kindness, gentleness, loyalty, willingness to show affection, intelligence, great sense of humor, Spurs fan, Christian, likes/wants children, similar (but not necessaril the same) ambitions/goals/outlooks/priorities.

That was for a potential spouse. For a date or a fun evening the most important thing was sense of humor, personality, and possibly looks and money.


Not bad...a little on the high mantinence side...but can be worked around.

[whottt]

-remembers my last name most of the time. Or hell, even my first. And it's not SpursWoman.


^^^^ Damn fine woman...

Did you ditch los er I mean User yet?

[whottt]

It's simple:

1) Humorous: They have to make me laugh above anything. I don't care if you look like Brad Pitt and have the body of a workout God. If you can't make me laugh and if you can't laugh yourself, then you won't be attractive to me.

2) Intelligence: Education is a must, I personally have never been attracted to those Liberal Arts type of guys (i.e Poets, Artists, Philosophy majors, etc.) Usually, I like guys in my own field, something in Business or Engineering. Doctors and Lawyers get a bonus pass :eyebrows :lol

3) Attractive: They have to be attractive to me. This means they dress decent, not sloppy (I HATE Sloppily dressed guys), and generally just have good hygene. Oh, and they have to be tall (but not so tall that I fee like a midget :oops).

4) Interesting: This is the most important thing. If they aren't someone I could see myself as friends with first, then I know it would never work out. We have to have things in common (Basketball!) and we have to be able to carry on conversations. We also can't be too similiar. I've found opposites really do attract.

That's basically it. I really don't care what his relationship with friends is, or whether he's "sincere" or popular. I don't expect him to be perfect, since I already am. As long as he has the four qualities above, he'll be ok. :)


You just broke my high maninence scale 1billups1

[whottt]

Someone with whom I have enough in common to make a relationship possible but with whom I have enough difference to make it interesting.

Character-- a "good" man
Humble-- yet accomplished
Strong-- but also kind and gentle; tender of heart
Spiritual-- believing in something greater than himself
Charitable-- generous and grateful for what he has
Dependable/Reliable/Trustworthy-- means what he says
Affectionate-- but in an "appropriate" way in public

Intangibles-- the look in his eyes; the way he treats his mother; the people in his life


High Mantinence...but not as high as some. I would say you're on the verge of being one of those that demands a mate have ESP though...

[1Parker1]

You just broke my high maninence scale 1billups1

:lmao Lemme guess, you're single right?

[1Parker1]

It is hard to rank those in a one by one order, as all the qualities you mentioned are so important. I tried though.




Biblical Christian ( some people claim to believe in God but sure don't act like it)

Outstanding values and character- I like guys who are well above average when it comes to being kind and acting like gentleman.

Affectionate- someone not afraid to show he has a heart.

Sincere, confidence- those qualities are best when paired together

Personality- Has to be balanced. I want someone fun and romantic but not over the top

Intelligence-Education- College degrees are secondary to me. I want someone who is creative and street smart as well as book smart.


Great Communicator- someone who can make his point known in an interesting way.

Physical Appearance & Sense of Humor- these two are of equal importance. I think a sense of humor adds to a person's good looks.
( I ranked those two high up because no matter how fantastic a guy is, if I am not attracted to him than I won't date him.

Hobbies- If our relationship is going to go anywhere, we will need to be of the same mind.


Family relationships

I want a guy to be a part of a loving family since his family could become my family too.
Background is a factor but not a deciding one since some situations were not/ are not a guys fault. Some things you should not be judged by, especially if you have worked to overcome them.

Ambitious- in a responsible way

Money- I'm not materialistic but would rather we have it than not.

Well....Rasho appeared to be a GREAT communicator and quite ambitious the way he tried to steal back the starting job from Nazr. He defintely has $$$ now that he's in Toronto. Oh and he seems to have a lot of confidence. Your list epotimizes Rasho in a nutshell, Angel. Well done.

[dougp]

^I doubt your kind is even desirable to males. You may want to try another spieces altogether. :angel
Sheep have standards too, ask tlong.

[SpursWoman]

^^^^ Damn fine woman...

Did you ditch los er I mean User yet?


:lol :lol


If I were to make a definitive list and adhere strictly to it, I'd be destined to be disappointed...or awfully lonely. I just know what I can't or won't tolerate, and after that just keep an open mind. :)

[whottt]

:lmao Lemme guess, you're single right?

I'm saving myself for a woman that just wants me for my money.

[whottt]

:lol :lol


If I were to make a definitive list and adhere strictly to it, I'd be destined to be disappointed...or awfully lonely. I just know what I can't or won't tolerate, and after that just keep an open mind. :)


Way to be...

[1Parker1]

See, Whott? All women are high maintenance, even those who proclaim to be otherwise. :)

[1Parker1]

I'm saving myself for a woman that just wants me for my money.

How you doin? :eyebrows

[tlongII]

I see that I'm perfect for 1P1. Too bad she's a human.

[PM5K]

Sense of humor has to be much higer on people's list...

I mean even if a guy is perfect but doesn't have that, he'd be boring as fuck...

[1Parker1]

I see that I'm perfect for 1P1. Too bad she's a human.

:lol Too bad for Mrs. Tlong too....

[whottt]

How you doin? :eyebrows


Doing good...broke, but doing good ;)

How YOU doin'? :angel

[1Parker1]

Doing good...broke, but doing good ;)

:lmao Damn, I can't believe I fell for it. :shootme

[Summers]

-remembers my last name most of the time. Or hell, even my first. And it's not SpursWoman.

:lol

[Summers]

Moderately High Mantinence

Me?? You can double-check with Random Guy in case I'm giving myself too much credit, but I'm not high maintenance in the least. I'm, like, the anti drama queen. :lol I do have standards, but I think that ranks me somewhere around Standard Minimal Maintenance. (Just because a girl wants nice-smelling shampoo, doesn't make her difficult!)

[Summers]

Nobody has mentioned beer bellied alcoholics with tasteless humor and a lust for being an asshole to strangers. Are my types just not desireable to females?

Under the right circumstances, being an asshole can be hot. :lol I remember (this one time, at band camp...) when my husband stood up to some fast-food manager who'd been rude to me and embarrassed me. As for the alcoholism, it depends on whether you're a mean drunk or just a stupid one. :lol

[ShoogarBear]

-Money
-Car
-Chocolates
Translation for men.

[ShoogarBear]

:lmao @ whottt owning this thread.

[easjer]

Not bad...a little on the high mantinence side...but can be worked around.


Thanks. SFIE might disagree though. . . :lol

I *can* be high maintenance. I try not to be or to make up for it in other areas.

I got lucky though, and SFIE, who was absolutely everything I wanted. He's the best partner I could ever ask for. :makeout

[MrChug]

[QUOTE=angel_luv]It is hard to rank those in a one by one order, as all the qualities you mentioned are so important. I tried though.




Biblical Christian ( some people claim to believe in God but sure don't act like it)

Outstanding values and character- I like guys who are well above average when it comes to being kind and acting like gentleman.

Affectionate- someone not afraid to show he has a heart.

Sincere, confidence- those qualities are best when paired together

Personality- Has to be balanced. I want someone fun and romantic but not over the top

Intelligence-Education- College degrees are secondary to me. I want someone who is creative and street smart as well as book smart.


Great Communicator- someone who can make his point known in an interesting way.

Hobbies- If our relationship is going to go anywhere, we will need to be of the same mind.

Family relationships

I want a guy to be a part of a loving family since his family could become my family too.
Background is a factor but not a deciding one since some situations were not/ are not a guys fault. Some things you should not be judged by, especially if you have worked to overcome them.

Ambitious- in a responsible way


THIS IS A MAN WE'RE TALKING ABOUT RIGHT?!?!?! :oops

[tlongII]

What is a Biblical Christian and how does it differ from an "ordinary" christian?

[1Parker1]

Translation for men.

:lol Not neccesarily in that order, either. You know me so well...:tu

[1Parker1]

THIS IS A MAN WE'RE TALKING ABOUT RIGHT?!?!?! :oops

Angel deserves Perfection...now if only I had the power to engineer her idea of a perfect man.

[Mixability]

Angel deserves Perfection...now if only I had the power to engineer her idea of a perfect man.

Perfection = 7 foot non dunking white guy with purple lips?

[ShoogarBear]

:lmao

[furry_spurry]

Great Communicator

THIS IS A MAN WE'RE TALKING ABOUT RIGHT?!?!?!

I wondered about that one, too.


Having standards about the kind of man I choose to spend time with does not make me high maintenance. I am very low maintenance if you are the right kind of guy.

[1Parker1]

Perfection = 7 foot non dunking white guy with purple lips?

:lol Sorry, Angel.

[usckk]

Okay. Here's is another hard question. What if the guy is perfect, except for the fact he's not a Christian?

[NorCal510]

Okay. Here's is another hard question. What if the guy is perfect, except for the fact he's not a Christian?
wtf ninja that shit dont matter to me

[CosmicCowboy]

-remembers my last name most of the time. Or hell, even my first. And it's not SpursWoman.

I like a woman with high standards!...
:lol

That also explains why User had your name tattoo'ed on the back of his hand LOL

[Kori Ellis]

:lmao @ whottt rating the girls' maintenance level.

1. Intelligent
1. Good looking
1. Sexual
1. Sincere
1. Easy to talk to
2. Ambitious
2. Confident


I care very little about
-Education
-Family Backgroud
-Religion
-Race
-Money
-Relationship with Friends
-Nationality
-Popularity

[easjer]

Okay. Here's is another hard question. What if the guy is perfect, except for the fact he's not a Christian?


That will depend entirely on the woman and her personal belief structure. I personally wouldn't marry a non-Christian, because that would too greatly interfere with what I want for my life, how I choose to live, how I raise my children, what I believe the purpose of marriage to be.

But not everyone believes that. Religion doesn't matter in terms of friends to me. I have friends with all different kinds of backgrounds and beliefs. I casually dated a couple of guys who weren't Christian, but I never dated anyone seriously who was not a Christian.

I have friends who are Christian (both sexes) that married non-Christians and are perfectly happy.

But no one is ever perfect. It's about priorities and what is most important - what you know you need in a relationship and don't need. Just like money might be really important to person A, it's less important to me because I am capable of earning a decent living. That's not to say I wouldn't like it, just that it is less important to me. Everyone is different.

[2Blonde]

What qualities do females look for in a guy and rank them by starting with the most important. Here's a good starting list you can choose from but feel free to add some of your own:

-Ambition
-Physical Appearance
-Education
-Personality
-Family Background
-Religion
-Race
-Sense of Humor
-Money
-Relationship with Friends
-Hobbies
-Nationality
-Intelligence
-Sincre
-Confidence
-Easyness to Talk to
-Popularity
For me it's...
-Sense of humor
-Sense of self ( kind of a combination of of sincerity and self-confidence)
-Physical appearance (not that they're good looking, but that there is something about them physically that you find appealing)
-Strong faith in God (not necessarily a particular religion)
-Truly respects women and shows it in the way he talks about them. And see them as equals.
-Easy to talk to
-Ambition
-Intelligence is a plus
-Having friends shows reliability and that he knows how to maintain relationships.

[CuckingFunt]

- Intelligence -- brains are absolutely number one on my list
- Sense of Humor -- I like the smart-asses, also have a bit of a snarky sense of humor myself and want someone who can keep up with me
- Physical Attraction -- can overlook a lot here for the right person, but attraction is important
- Confidence -- I'm attracted to that almost arrogant level of confidence, as long as it's well deserved
- Respect -- can't date an asshole
- Sex -- I like a guy (or a girl) who can fuck me till I can't see straight

[Melmart1]

At the risk of alienating my fanbase who think I am 100% lesbian (not true), here is my list for men:

1. Sense of humor- This is of the utmost importance. When we are old and grey you gotta have a sense of humor about my saggy tits and I gotta be able to laugh at his wrinkly balls.
2. Personality- If he has a terrible one, doesn't matter if he is funny. So basically, he can laugh at my saggy tits, but if he criticizes them he has a shitty personality. And his wrinkly balls will pay for it.
3. Easyness (is this a word?) to talk to- I don't want to have to water down what I say, but I am no Rhodes Scholar either.
3. Sincere- This is kinda tied with intelligence. Smarts and sincerity are just about equal on my 'standards'.
4. Intelligence- See above.
5. Relationship with Friends- This says a lot about his character.
6. Hobbies- I am not picky about these, unless they include like collecting his ear wax or any creepy collections like shrunken heads or bugs.
7. Religion- I am actually not that picky about this, being a lapsed Catholic. But please don't be a Scientologist. I want to be able to take you seriously.
8. Money- If you have enough to help me stay on the Adam and Eve VIP customer list, then we might be right for each other.
9. Confidence- Eh, not that important. One of those shy, unassuming guys can be cute.

The other stuff.. eh, just doesn't matter. I guess appearance-wise I don't mind tats (I have a small one myself) but the guys with a ton of them or a lot of piercings just turn me off.

[SpursWoman]

That also explains why User had your name tattoo'ed on the back of his hand LOL


No, there is no "-ty". That was his own name. :spin

[scott]

Wow, what a bunch of bullshitters who have contributed to this thread so far.

The real list, compiled by a team of esteemed scientists after years of research:

1. Money
2. Money
3. Money
4. Money
5. Looks
6. Money
7. Money
8. Monkey (don't know where this one came from)
9. Looks
10. Money

[SpursWoman]

Wow, what a bunch of bullshitters who have contributed to this thread so far.

The real list, compiled by a team of esteemed scientists after years of research:

1. Money
2. Money
3. Money
4. Money
5. Looks
6. Money
7. Money
8. Monkey (don't know where this one came from)
9. Looks
10. Money


Sorry, I don't fall into that category.

[TheSanityAnnex]

After reading this thread I've come to the conclusion that a man's penis size and his skill in bed are not important to a woman.

[ShoogarBear]

Before someone gets the bright idea of starting a similar thread for the men, allow me to pre-emptively answer for us all:

WHAT MEN LOOK FOR IN WOMEN
-Personality
-Intelligence
-Sense of Humor
-Sensitivity
-Wonderfulness

Guys, if you know what's good for you, just agree and move on . . .

[Kori Ellis]

After reading this thread I've come to the conclusion that a man's penis size and his skill in bed are not important to a woman.

Go back to my list and CuckingFunt's list. :lol

[ShoogarBear]

9. Confidence- Eh, not that important. One of those shy, unassuming guys can be dominated.

[CuckingFunt]

After reading this thread I've come to the conclusion that a man's penis size and his skill in bed are not important to a woman.

- Sex -- I like a guy (or a girl) who can fuck me till I can't see straight

[TheSanityAnnex]

Go back to my list and CuckingFunt's list. :lol:lol. I skipped over page three. But, I can still gather that size isn't important to a woman from this surveyed group.


Still, only two mentioned it? The ladies who responded must be like corpses in bed.

[2Blonde]

Wow, what a bunch of bullshitters who have contributed to this thread so far.

The real list, compiled by a team of esteemed scientists after years of research:

1. Money
2. Money
3. Money
4. Money
5. Looks
6. Money
7. Money
8. Monkey (don't know where this one came from)
9. Looks
10. MoneyYou are totally off base with this one. Most women now days are brought up with the mindset that the only person you can count on in life to support you financially is yourself, so finding a mate who has money is nice but not the top priority. When I met my husband I made significantly more money than him although he was an officer in the Army. Now he's the breadwinner and even if I did go back to work we would probably make about the same salary. My mom raised me to believe that education is key because you need to be able to support yourself always and I am raising my daughter the same way. She is more than welcome to pursue any dreams she wants but she needs to get an education first. That way she can support herself and won't have to make money high on the list of priorities when choosing who she decides to be with. That would totally suck to be tied to someone because of they were worth.

[2Blonde]

:lol. I skipped over page three. But, I can still gather that size isn't important to a woman from this surveyed group.


Still, only two mentioned it? The ladies who responded must be like corpses in bed.Nah, probably only if they were forced to sleep with you.:lol

[TheSanityAnnex]

Nah, probably only if they were forced to sleep with you.:lolIs that supposed to be funny just because you put a ":lol" after your sentence?



Instead of trying to make some witty reply, why not just answer the question?

Are size and bed skills an important trait in a man?


All of you women should have answered yes!!!
If you don't care about these things, shame on you.
Size is important to a certain extent. If he's just sticking a golf tee inside you, it probably won't be very stimulating. If he's hung like an elephant yet can't work it, he is of no use either. A combination of size and skill is essential to please a woman.

[Kori Ellis]

A combination of size and skill and tongue is essential to please a woman.

[TheSanityAnnex]

tongue skills are a whole different story.

[CuckingFunt]

tongue skills are a whole different story.
A whole different story, but WAY more important than size issues. Skill trumps size across the board.

[2Blonde]

Is that supposed to be funny just because you put a ":lol" after your sentence?



Instead of trying to make some witty reply, why not just answer the question?

Are size and bed skills an important trait in a man?


All of you women should have answered yes!!!
If you don't care about these things, shame on you.
Size is important to a certain extent. If he's just sticking a golf tee inside you, it probably won't be very stimulating. If he's hung like an elephant yet can't work it, he is of no use either. A combination of size and skill is essential to please a woman.
Granted it is hard to make a mountain out a molehill but you can still have a lot of fun with someone who knows how to use any amount of equipment they possess. Experience counts for a lot. I would say size is a factor but it's one that can be worked around with positioning. I think experience & creativity are the key to pleasing a woman over the long haul.

[TheSanityAnnex]

:tu

[TheSanityAnnex]

and I was just giving you ladies a hard time

[CuckingFunt]

and I was just giving you ladies a hard time
Which, as you suggested, is what we really wanted anyway.

[Gatita]

Size is important to a certain extent.


No pun intended.

[angel_luv]

Oh my gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :oops :oops :oops :oops

How could I not mention Spurs fan! :oops What was wrong with me?!?!??!?!?? That too! The guy I date MUST be a Spurs fan and a fan of the Slovenia NT. :D

[angel_luv]

High Mantinence...blah, blah, blah


Since when is having standards a bad thing? :lol

[ALVAREZ6]

Oh my gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :oops :oops :oops :oops

How could I not mention Spurs fan! :oops What was wrong with me?!?!??!?!?? That too! The guy I date MUST be a Spurs fan and a fan of the Slovenia NT. :D
You're gonna have a hard time finding a date then :lol

[angel_luv]

Well....Rasho appeared to be a GREAT communicator and quite ambitious the way he tried to steal back the starting job from Nazr. He defintely has $$$ now that he's in Toronto. Oh and he seems to have a lot of confidence. Your list epotimizes Rasho in a nutshell, Angel. Well done.


:lmao

Oh gosh, I can't type! You're a funny little troll! :lol


Seriously though, Rasho is fantastic. Whoever he marries will be a very blessed girl.

[1Parker1]

Oh my gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :oops :oops :oops :oops

How could I not mention Spurs fan! :oops What was wrong with me?!?!??!?!?? That too! The guy I date MUST be a Spurs fan and a fan of the Slovenia NT. :D

:lmao Then your only options are Slovenian8 and Slomo (Well, he's taken)

[1Parker1]

:lmao

Oh gosh, I can't type! You're a funny little troll! :lol


Seriously though, Rasho is fantastic. Whoever he marries will be a very blessed girl.

Did you just call me a Troll?! :depressed

[angel_luv]

What is a Biblical Christian and how does it differ from an "ordinary" christian?


Someone who is a Christian as the Bible defines it- not a hypocrite... someone who lives what he believes.

[angel_luv]

Angel deserves Perfection...now if only I had the power to engineer her idea of a perfect man.


:D


Perfection = 7 foot non dunking white guy with purple lips?
:loser :lol
Fear the Sho!

[Melmart1]

Where was sex and skill a part of the original set of answers? I didnt' see it. Also, every man and woman fit together differently, so I don't care how much experience you have, it will never be perfect right away, it takes a litlte communication. So I would say WILLINGNESS sexually is important- the rest will then fall in place.

[angel_luv]

You're gonna have a hard time finding a date then :lol


What are dates? :lol

Seriously, I am not worried. I just need one guy and God will bring him when I am ready.

Wait till you guys meet my future man; he is going to be AWESOME! Well worth the wait! :D

[1Parker1]

Angel has got to be the most positive, upbeat person I know. :lol :tu

[angel_luv]

Did you just call me a Troll?! :depressed


Truly
Remarkable
Outstanding
Lovely
Lady


Yes, yes I did. :angel

[1Parker1]

Truly
Remarkable
Outstanding
Lovely
Lady


Yes, yes I did. :angel

Nice save...oh and added bonus for calling me a lady. :princess

[angel_luv]

Nice save...oh and added bonus for calling me a lady. :princess


*curtsey*

:)

[lilmads]

Angel you are awesome... :)

[ShoogarBear]

One of my goals in life is to really piss angel off . . .

[ALVAREZ6]

One of my goals in life is to really piss angel off . . .
Go to the Spurs vs. Raptors game and throw a cup at Rasho, see if he pulls a Ron Artest.

[angel_luv]

Angel you are awesome... :)


Awww thanks Lil. I think you are pretty spiffy too. :)

[LuvBones]

One of my goals in life is to find a good man for angel . . .There I fixed it for you Angel. ;)

[angel_luv]

One of my goals in life is to really piss angel off . . .

I might get mad if you stopped trying to make me mad. Why don't you gibe it a try :angel



Go to the Spurs vs. Raptors game and throw a cup at Rasho, see if he pulls a Ron Artest.


Sho wouldn't but I might. bwhahahahaha!


:lol I kid! I kid!

[ShoogarBear]

There I fixed it for you Angel. ;)

Aw, no! Another do-gooder! :madrun

[angel_luv]

There I fixed it for you Angel. ;)


Thank you! :) You are good people!

[ShoogarBear]

Sho wouldn't but I might. bwhahahahaha!

Being physically assaulted by angel?

Ooooh, no, anything but that!

[angel_luv]

Being physically assaulted by angel?

Ooooh, no, anything but that!


Don't worry SB. I have no intention whatsoever of hitting on you!

:lol

[angel_luv]

There is another quality I want to add to my list;

He must be gallant when it comes to killing insects that invade the home.

I just had to kill and dispose of a big ol water bug. :(
Meanwhile my roomate's useless (yet lovable) tom cat sat there and watched.


Oh my gosh you guys!!!!!!!! It is still alive!!!!!! I thought I had sucked it alive into the vacuum but the cat just meowed it to my attention.

The stupid cat was right by it and just let it go by it into hiding. Now the cat has gone to hide, leaving me all alone.

I can wait for a boyfriend but I really want an exterminator about now.

Ewww! :cry

[spurschick]

What qualities do females look for in a guy and rank them by starting with the most important.

The very first hurdle is
HE HAS TO BE SINGLE!

Furthermore:

1. Money - My past has been full of men who make less than me (not that I make a lot) and it ends up an issue. If he has enough money that it isn't on his mind constantly, he can focus on other things... like me.

2. Passion - and I'm not just talking about sex

3. Must Love Cats. Period.

4. Common Sense/Responsible - often overlooked, but important

5. Physical Appearance - that doesn't mean you have to look like George Clooney, but we should be appealing to each other

6. Sense of Humor - including the ability to get my sense of humor

7. Education - doesn't need to be booksmart, but someone who has a good head on their shoulders and has the means to take care of himself, and me

8. Spurs/Sports fan - if you don't want to buy season tickets and go to games, and also watch road games at home, you won't be seeing much of me

9. Sober - if I'm having to dodge your fists and/or carry your ass to the car all the time, forget it

10. Family Background - if he's got a shitload of family baggage that is going to make holidays a living hell, I've been-there-done-that and prefer my holidays nice and quiet

11. Religion - I'm not a religious person, so I would prefer someone who has their faith, but would rather spend Sundays sleeping in with me

So I've probably listed myself right out of ever finding someone, but it worked for Sandra Bullock in Practical Magik, so I guess anything is possible. :lol

[ALVAREZ6]

Fuck cats.

[usckk]

11. Religion - I'm not a religious person, so I would prefer someone who has their faith, but would rather spend Sundays sleeping in with me



Thank You. Your the only one here that said religion isn't a must. That's really the main characteristic i'm looking for, and the main reason I started this thread. A lot of people here in TN are hardcore Christians (mainly Southern Baptist), and I'm not a religious person. So my worry is that a girl wouldn't date just because of that. So do yall think its a big deal for most Christians?

[angel_luv]

Thank You. Your the only one here that said religion isn't a must. That's really the main characteristic i'm looking for, and the main reason I started this thread. A lot of people here in TN are hardcore Christians (mainly Southern Baptist), and I'm not a religious person. So my worry is that a girl wouldn't date just because of that. So do yall think its a big deal for most Christians?


I would say that most Christians you meet are going to want to date another Christian. But I think that is probably true of anyone with strong religious beliefs.

[ShoogarBear]

Fuck cats.
:lol

Couldn't have said it better.

[usckk]

I would say that most Christians you meet are going to want to date another Christian. But I think that is probably true of anyone with strong religious beliefs.

I personally don't think it should be that way, especially for those that aren't strongly dedicated. They should look and consider the whole person and not there religion.

[angel_luv]

I personally don't think it should be that way, especially for those that aren't strongly dedicated. They should look and consider the whole person and not there religion.




I have no problem being friends with non Christians. Several of my very favorite people don't go to church and yet are still wonderful people to me.

However when it comes to a relationship.

As someone who is dedicated to my beliefs and wants to raise children whom have faith in God,I want/need my husband to be likeminded.

[whottt]

Before someone gets the bright idea of starting a similar thread for the men, allow me to pre-emptively answer for us all:

WHAT MEN LOOK FOR IN WOMEN
-Personality
-Intelligence
-Sense of Humor
-Sensitivity
-Wonderfulness

Guys, if you know what's good for you, just agree and move on . . .



Sorry but I have to make my list...


Temperament - very important
Intelligence - I love smart women
Tenderness - I like a woman with a soft heart
Sense of Humor - Laughing is important

[Phenomanul]

I personally don't think it should be that way, especially for those that aren't strongly dedicated. They should look and consider the whole person and not there religion.


You don't understand the essence of that belief system then.... Christianity is a lifestyle... not a religious title. As such, being a 'Christian' will inherently be a major part of the 'whole person'... and not something one could lightly overlook.

The Bible refers to unions of people with disimilar belief systems as 'uneven yolk'. In said unions, too many issues would arise that would hinder the full functionality and purpose of the marriage... though I have seen some couples work it out (WITH MUCH SACRIFICE and PATIENCE, notwithstanding)....

GOD is the full and quintessential manifestation of LOVE. When a couple continually asks for divine wisdom, mundane problems can be overcome with much greater ease. With GOD as the guide, a couple can truly find their 'perfect complement' despite the fact that both will have faults and imperfections of their own (all people do of course, since no one is perfect)...

The point being that most of the time, unions of Christians with non-Christians won't work out.... Why the emphasis on this point though, are you interersted in dating a 'Christian' lady?

[Mixability]

Angel has got to be the most positive, upbeat person I know. :lol :tu

She gives me cavities.

[ORION]

Girls love white mexicans

[angel_luv]

She gives me cavities.


That is the nicest thing you have ever said about me.

Thank you. :D

[CuckingFunt]

Where was sex and skill a part of the original set of answers? I didnt' see it.
I don't think it was there. I just listed what was important to me rather than sticking to the original options.

[furry_spurry]

I personally don't think it should be that way, especially for those that aren't strongly dedicated. They should look and consider the whole person and not there religion.
I understand completely what you are saying-- and I am a person of faith. But we all know- not all Christians practice their faith in the same way and there is great variance among Christian denominations.

I have encountered many people who make a big deal about the label of "Christian"- one day on one occasion they got "saved"- but it isn't really part of their life. They don't go to church, at all, but they still present it as their main criteria. The other person also must have on one occasion gone up to the front and gotten saved, as well. I know a woman who was already very spiritual and of deep faith her whole life, but she went through that "ritual" so she could marry the man she wanted. It is not the religious background from which I come, but I know many people who subscribe to that belief.

As for dating, I personally don't see a reason automatically to exclude someone because religious faith is not part of their life. Maybe it is something to which he wasn't really exposed or to which he has not given much thought-- especially for someone as young as you are. I would expect, though, for him to be respectful of my spirituality and to be open to discovering it within himself. For an actual relationship to develop, there would have to be a spiritual component for me. I do know, though, girls who have been taught that even one date could lead to a serious relationship so you better not even go out on one date with a non-believer. I think that is the part you do not understand-- can't she just have dinner with you?? But I am guessing that she was taught that no, she can't.

[1Parker1]

Sorry but I have to make my list...


Temperament - very important
Intelligence - I love smart women
Tenderness - I like a woman with a soft heart
Sense of Humor - Laughing is important

Too high maintanance :angel

NEXT....

[travis2]

Sorry but I have to make my list...


Temperament - very important
Intelligence - I love smart women
Tenderness - I like a woman with a soft heart
Sense of Humor - Laughing is important

:lmao

[polandprzem]

Fuck cats.

That's how you love them?

-----------

Hey to me the most important thing is the "THING" that "SOMETHING" woman have. Damn - I never had a chance to meet that girl closer :(

[1Parker1]

SpursChick....I don't know any guy who loves cats. Hvae you come across many who do?

[SpursWoman]

SpursChick....I don't know any guy who loves cats. Hvae you come across many who do?


I have one. I don't know about love ... but they certainly love him. :fro

[1Parker1]

:lol

[CuckingFunt]

I've met guys who can tolerate my cats -- maybe even go so far as to say they like them -- but the one guy I very briefly dated who loved my cats, really fucking creeped me out. There's something inherently female about going ga-ga over an aloof, but pretty, ball of fluff.

[Phenomanul]

The very first hurdle is
HE HAS TO BE SINGLE!

Furthermore:

1. Money - My past has been full of men who make less than me (not that I make a lot) and it ends up an issue. If he has enough money that it isn't on his mind constantly, he can focus on other things... like me.

2. Passion - and I'm not just talking about sex

3. Must Love Cats. Period.

4. Common Sense/Responsible - often overlooked, but important

5. Physical Appearance - that doesn't mean you have to look like George Clooney, but we should be appealing to each other

6. Sense of Humor - including the ability to get my sense of humor

7. Education - doesn't need to be booksmart, but someone who has a good head on their shoulders and has the means to take care of himself, and me

8. Spurs/Sports fan - if you don't want to buy season tickets and go to games, and also watch road games at home, you won't be seeing much of me

9. Sober - if I'm having to dodge your fists and/or carry your ass to the car all the time, forget it

10. Family Background - if he's got a shitload of family baggage that is going to make holidays a living hell, I've been-there-done-that and prefer my holidays nice and quiet

11. Religion - I'm not a religious person, so I would prefer someone who has their faith, but would rather spend Sundays sleeping in with me

So I've probably listed myself right out of ever finding someone, but it worked for Sandra Bullock in Practical Magik, so I guess anything is possible. :lol

Darn it!!! I don't satisfy spurschick's list because of one item out of the 11... and two other items (1 and 5) cannot be gauged by me so it may push the incompatibility by 2 or 3 more items. Furthermore, I'm neutral on item 3; I don't love cats, but I definitely don't hate 'em.... and like 1Parker1 said, that's going to be about as close as you will get with men.

I'm cool with just being spurschick's internet friend though. :D

[Manuismysex]

Nice
Funny
Attractive
Intelligent
Ambitious
Supportive
Mellow

Everything else is whatever...

Is that so much to ask?

[Mr. Blonde]

Sorry but I have to make my list...


Temperament - very important
Intelligence - I love smart women
Tenderness - I like a woman with a soft heart
Sense of Humor - Laughing is important




:lol nice.

[ShoogarBear]

Too high maintanance :angel

NEXT....
Umm, read his list again. Think acronyms.

[ShoogarBear]

SpursChick....I don't know any guy who loves cats. Hvae you come across many who do?
Maybe if you used another word besides cat.

[angel_luv]

Umm, read his list again. Think acronyms.


:lol

I missed it too. I gave Whott more credit for sentiment than he deserves.

[Johnny_Blaze_47]

Fuck cats.

Yeah, cause that was going to be your only problem with landing Spurschick...

[Johnny_Blaze_47]

wtf ninja that shit dont matter to me

It's always good to know that you don't discriminate when it comes to the religion of the men you see.

[whottt]

Why I never!

Shoogar....get you mind out of the gutter.

Angel...I assure you the acronyms were unintentional and it took a deviant mind like Shoogar to notice that...

I was sincere and you can go ahead and give me credit for the sentiment.

Don't hold Shoogar's preoccupations againt moi.

Thanks.

[1Parker1]

Umm, read his list again. Think acronyms.

:lmao My gosh you men have dirty minds! I never even noticed that. Between that and DSL, I'm learning quite a few things from you this week, Shoog. :oops

[1Parker1]

Yeah, cause that was going to be your only problem with landing Spurschick...

:lmao

[whottt]

:lmao My gosh you men have dirty minds!

I know...can you believe the way Shoogar's mind works?


I never even noticed that.

Me either.

[1Parker1]

Maybe if you used another word besides cat.

Guys do love them some pussy. :lol

[1Parker1]

I know...can you believe the way Shoogar's mind works?



Me either.

:flipoff You're on the list with him.

[Johnny_Blaze_47]

Guys do love them some pussy. :lol

http://www.exclaim.ca/images/george_clinton_01.jpg

"Why must I be like that..."

[Mixability]

Guys do love them some pussy. :lol

Preferably hairless, cause I'm allergic. :fro

[Phenomanul]

I know...can you believe the way Shoogar's mind works?



Me either.


:lol :lol :lol @ whottt's feigned bliss....

[Clandestino]

usckk, stop worrying about shit like this... with all the shit you worry about you sound more like a chick.. maybe you are gay... maybe your next thread can be, "what do guys look for in a man?"

[ALVAREZ6]

usckk, stop worrying about shit like this... with all the shit you worry about you sound more like a chick..
Amen!




usckk, stop worrying about little details of life..just live your life!!!

[ShoogarBear]

:flipoff You're on the list with him.
I hope I'm at least ahead of him. :eyebrows

[1Parker1]

I hope I'm at least ahead of him. :eyebrows

Nah, you're third on the list...behind NorCal and GIG. :eyebrows

[ShoogarBear]

Nah, you're third on the list...behind NorCal and GIG. :eyebrowsThou hast cut me to the very quick.

[1Parker1]

Thou hast cut me to the very quick.

Thou cut me when thou put me behind someone named CuckingFunt. :depressed

[Phenomanul]

I hope I'm at least ahead of him. :eyebrows

And I hope that I'm not on it....

[CuckingFunt]

Thou cut me when thou put me behind someone named CuckingFunt. :depressed
:madrun

I think I was just insulted.

[ShoogarBear]

I think this can only be settled in one way:

Jello Wrestle-Off.

[JoeChalupa]

I'm just glad I have what my wife likes and that she's very low maintenance.

[angel_luv]

Why I never!

Shoogar....get you mind out of the gutter.

Angel...I assure you the acronyms were unintentional and it took a deviant mind like Shoogar to notice that...

I was sincere and you can go ahead and give me credit for the sentiment.

Don't hold Shoogar's preoccupations againt moi.

Thanks.

Yea. Right
I was born at night... just not last night. :lol

[KEDA]

What about guys that drive nice cars?

does that fit into society anymore?

damn it all!!!

[z0sa]

I think this can only be settled in one way:

Jello Wrestle-Off.

i second this notion

[1Parker1]

What about guys that drive nice cars?

does that fit into society anymore?

damn it all!!!

Hmm...only if they drive hot silver Jags. :eyebrows

[1Parker1]

I think this can only be settled in one way:

Jello Wrestle-Off.

What would be the prize?

[ShoogarBear]

What would be the prize?

:eyebrows

[CuckingFunt]

:eyebrows


What would be the prize for US?

[1Parker1]

What would be the prize for US?

:lol Seriously...cuz if it's over you, we may have a long fight....with BOTH of us trying our hardest to lose. :angel

[spurschick]

Oh, I forgot one....

12. Political Affiliation - I'm a bleeding heart Liberal. If you're a Republican, that's fine. I enjoy the occasional heated discussion. However, it's usually a mood killer, which means very little sex for you.

[SpursWoman]

Oh, I forgot one....

12. Political Affiliation - I'm a bleeding heart Liberal. If you're a Republican, that's fine. I enjoy the occasional heated discussion. However, it's usually a mood killer, which means very little sex for you.


:lol


I'm more of a right-leaning centrist, and User is pretty much the same....and I have a hard time with extremist from either side. You never really think it's that big of a deal until things like elections and important news issues come up, but yeah ... that's potentially a big-time nookie killer. I try to avoid talking about it at all, just in case. :lol

[AlamoSpursFan]

Oh, I forgot one....

12. Political Affiliation - I'm a bleeding heart Liberal. If you're a Republican, that's fine. I enjoy the occasional heated discussion. However, it's usually a mood killer, which means very little sex for you.

Like I had a shot anyways...

:lmao

[ShoogarBear]

What would be the prize for US?
I would have thought the chance to jello wrestle would be prize enough for you.


:lol Seriously...cuz if it's over you, we may have a long fight....with BOTH of us trying our hardest to lose. :angelOh, no. Don't tell me that you might have to wrestle for a long, long time. Anything but that.