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Nbadan
04-13-2007, 02:48 PM
Anyone horribly surprised?


WASHINGTON - Students who participated in sexual abstinence programs were just as likely to have sex a few years later as those who did not, according to a long-awaited study mandated by Congress.

Also, those who attended one of the four abstinence classes reviewed reported having similar numbers of sexual partners as those who did not attend the classes, and they first had sex at about the same age as their control group counterparts — 14 years and nine months, according to Mathematica Policy Research Inc.

The federal government now spends about $176 million annually on abstinence-until-marriage education. Critics have repeatedly said they don't believe the programs are working, and the study will give them reinforcement.

However, Bush administration officials cautioned against drawing sweeping conclusions from the study. They said the four programs reviewed — among several hundred across the nation — were some of the very first established after Congress overhauled the nation's welfare laws in 1996.

Yahoo News (http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070413/ap_on_go_ot/abstinence_study)

Bob Lanier
04-13-2007, 02:51 PM
That's been known for years.

Let's discuss it again.

Resolved: that the empirical evidence is complete bullshit. First affirmative constructive is... ah, xrayzebra, please take the podium.

Phenomanul
04-13-2007, 04:33 PM
The survey only drew from the pool of students in public schools (makes sense considering that the study attempts to qualify the success rate for these federal programs).... I'm pretty sure the results would be different if the entire student pool had been adequately represented.... in particular the home-schooled crowd.

Besides, abstinence is tied to a spiritual conviction that one is obeying GOD's will. This mindset cannot be propagated, instilled or nurtured with secular programs that try to achieve the same goal.

Bob Lanier
04-13-2007, 04:47 PM
Resolved: that public school students are fundamentally lacking in moral fibre, and MOREOVER that not getting any is joyous to the soul.

boutons_
04-13-2007, 04:47 PM
"Besides abstinence is tied to a spiritual conviction that one is obeying GOD's will."

Fuck off, Bible-thumper.

Sexual abstinence can be taught for reasons without introducing God. Avoiding pregnancy and STD are the most immediately scary reasons, much more immediate than God's Hell. As with criminals, dissuasion doesn't work for horny, curious kids.

The Repugs also mixed sexual abstinence into their African anti-AIDs campaign, preferring that non-abstaining Africans die of AIDS rather than be encouraged to use condoms in their inevitable sex.

Ideology sucks, Repug/neo-cunt ideology murders.

=======

Just today:

"CDC Changes Recommendations For Gonorrhea Treatment Due To Drug Resistance

Science Daily — The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) no longer recommends antibiotics known as fluoroquinolones (ciprofloxacin, ofloxacin, and levofloxacin) as a treatment for gonorrhea in the United States. This limits the options available to treat gonorrhea, one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases in the United States.

The recommendation was prompted by new data released today in CDC’s Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report (MMWR) showing that fluoroquinolone-resistant gonorrhea is now widespread in the United States among heterosexuals and men who have sex with men (MSM). The data showed the proportion of drug-resistant cases among heterosexuals rising above the recognized threshold of 5 percent for changing treatment recommendations. CDC had recommended fluoroquinolones no longer be used to treat gonorrhea in MSM when this threshold was crossed in earlier years. ....."

ggoose25
04-13-2007, 05:05 PM
there should be a balanced approach to sex ed. abstinence has its rightful place, but is ineffective if not paired with a program that teaches about proper contraceptive use.

plus, in numerous surveys across the country... this kind of dual edged approach is what the majority of parents want

Phenomanul
04-13-2007, 05:21 PM
"Besides abstinence is tied to a spiritual conviction that one is obeying GOD's will."

Fuck off, Bible-thumper.

Sexual abstinence can be taught for reasons without introducing God. Avoiding pregnancy and STD are the most immediately scary reasons, much more immediate than God's Hell. As with criminals, dissuasion doesn't work for horny, curious kids.

The Repugs also mixed sexual abstinence into their African anti-AIDs campaign, preferring that non-abstaining Africans die of AIDS rather than be encouraged to use condoms in their inevitable sex.

Ideology sucks, Repug/neo-cunt ideology murders.

=======

Just today:

"CDC Changes Recommendations For Gonorrhea Treatment Due To Drug Resistance

Science Daily — The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) no longer recommends antibiotics known as fluoroquinolones (ciprofloxacin, ofloxacin, and levofloxacin) as a treatment for gonorrhea in the United States. This limits the options available to treat gonorrhea, one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases in the United States.

The recommendation was prompted by new data released today in CDC’s Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report (MMWR) showing that fluoroquinolone-resistant gonorrhea is now widespread in the United States among heterosexuals and men who have sex with men (MSM). The data showed the proportion of drug-resistant cases among heterosexuals rising above the recognized threshold of 5 percent for changing treatment recommendations. CDC had recommended fluoroquinolones no longer be used to treat gonorrhea in MSM when this threshold was crossed in earlier years. ....."

Reading comprehension 101 my extremely bitter 'ol pal..... here, I'll re-iterate the clause you completely ignored.

"This mindset cannot be propagated, instilled or nurtured with secular programs that try to achieve the same goal."

One can teach abstinence all they want and try to 'scare' teens with STD's and pregnancy. But setting a 'rule' or a 'prohibition' is not as effective as instilling a personal conviction - that inner desire to remain abstinent for a grander purpose and not just to avoid getting sick or having to bring an 'unwanted' baby into the world. Abstinence is a gift for one's future spouse.

So while you are correct in noting that GOD doesn't necessarily have to be part of that conviction, I truly believe that excluding Him from the picture only serves to increase the weight of that 'burden' on a person.

Phenomanul
04-13-2007, 05:36 PM
However, you completely missed my larger point:

That one can't take the survey's results and draw the general conclusion that abstinence programs fail, or that abstinence programs aren't effective.

From the data collected, one can only draw the conclusion that federal abstinence programs in our schools fail to curb premarital sex. That conclusion alone.

There is a big difference.

FromWayDowntown
04-13-2007, 05:49 PM
The government should immediately implement, in every public school system, comprehensive programs basing all elementary, secondary, and collegiate education upon Christian tenets. Not tomorrow. Now.

Phenomanul
04-13-2007, 06:00 PM
The government should immediately implement, in every public school system, comprehensive programs basing all elementary, secondary, and collegiate education upon Christian tenets. Not tomorrow. Now.


Please FWD.... you know that's not what I meant. A moral base cannot be instilled in school. That is one of the chief reasons why the home exists. This responsibility falls squarely on the parents - not the schools. Granted, there is an inherent problem when we get to the point where kids are raising kids.... oh wait.

I'm simply stating why such federal programs are doomed to fail.

Extra Stout
04-13-2007, 06:02 PM
The government should immediately implement, in every public school system, comprehensive programs basing all elementary, secondary, and collegiate education upon Christian tenets. Not tomorrow. Now.


What he said.

ggoose25
04-13-2007, 06:27 PM
However, you completely missed my larger point:

That one can't take the survey's results and draw the general conclusion that abstinence programs fail, or that abstinence programs aren't effective.

From the data collected, one can only draw the conclusion that federal abstinence programs in our schools fail to curb premarital sex. That conclusion alone.

There is a big difference.

agreed. but even with the role of religion at home, i think we have a responsibility to teach safe sex practices for those that are bound to do it anyway

boutons_
04-13-2007, 06:52 PM
"upon Christian tenets"

Be more specific. How are these tenets different from Hindu, Moslim, Jewish, Buddhist tenets about extra-marital sex?

Do they have to be Christian tenets?

Is this part of the vast radical "Christian" conspiracy to force "Christ", to the exclusion of all other religions, into secular areas like government and public schools?

Cant_Be_Faded
04-13-2007, 07:03 PM
The survey only drew from the pool of students in public schools (makes sense considering that the study attempts to qualify the success rate for these federal programs).... I'm pretty sure the results would be different if the entire student pool had been adequately represented.... in particular the home-schooled crowd.

Besides, abstinence is tied to a spiritual conviction that one is obeying GOD's will. This mindset cannot be propagated, instilled or nurtured with secular programs that try to achieve the same goal.

You go out of your way to tie everything in this forum to your god hegamboa. As if someone would never practice abstinence for a non-god reason.

td4mvp21
04-13-2007, 07:07 PM
Phenomanul, you can believe in abstinence without being a Christian. It is possible.



Is this part of the vast radical "Christian" conspiracy to force "Christ", to the exclusion of all other religions, into secular areas like government and public schools?

:lol They don't let Christianity into public schools and government areas either boutons. They try to exclude it so much.

boutons_
04-13-2007, 08:10 PM
"They don't let Christianity into public schools"

The "politico-Christian" conspiracy is to overcome that secularism, forcing God into Caesar's domain, exactly UNlike the NT says. Un-Christian, and un-Constituional, but the "Christians" don't give a FF.

ggoose25
04-13-2007, 08:12 PM
“Render unto Caesar the things which are Caesar’s, and unto God the things that are God’s” Matt 22:21

td4mvp21
04-13-2007, 08:12 PM
"They don't let Christianity into public schools"

The "politico-Christian" conspiracy is to overcome that secularism, forcing God into Caesar's domain, exactly UNlike the NT says. Un-Christian, and un-Constituional, but the "Christians" don't give a FF.

Really? The last time I checked intelligent design (a Christian principle) is banned from public school education, while evolution (a secular principle), is the only theory taught. So who is forcing their beliefs on who?

boutons_
04-13-2007, 08:18 PM
Here's the Repugs stuffing mediocritie from junk "Christian universities" into government.

For God's Sake
By Paul Krugman
The New York Times

Friday 13 April 2007

In 1981, Gary North, a leader of the Christian Reconstructionist movement - the openly theocratic wing of the Christian right - suggested that the movement could achieve power by stealth. "Christians must begin to organize politically within the present party structure," he wrote, "and they must begin to infiltrate the existing institutional order."

Today, Regent University, founded by the televangelist Pat Robertson to provide "Christian leadership to change the world," boasts that it has 150 graduates working in the Bush administration.

Unfortunately for the image of the school, where Mr. Robertson is chancellor and president, the most famous of those graduates is Monica Goodling, a product of the university's law school. She's the former top aide to Alberto Gonzales who appears central to the scandal of the fired U.S. attorneys and has declared that she will take the Fifth rather than testify to Congress on the matter.

The infiltration of the federal government by large numbers of people seeking to impose a religious agenda - which is very different from simply being people of faith - is one of the most important stories of the last six years. It's also a story that tends to go underreported, perhaps because journalists are afraid of sounding like conspiracy theorists.

But this conspiracy is no theory. The official platform of the Texas Republican Party pledges to "dispel the myth of the separation of church and state." And the Texas Republicans now running the country are doing their best to fulfill that pledge.

Kay Cole James, who had extensive connections to the religious right and was the dean of Regent's government school, was the federal government's chief personnel officer from 2001 to 2005. (Curious fact: she then took a job with Mitchell Wade, the businessman who bribed Representative Randy "Duke" Cunningham.) And it's clear that unqualified people were hired throughout the administration because of their religious connections.

For example, The Boston Globe reports on one Regent law school graduate who was interviewed by the Justice Department's civil rights division. Asked what Supreme Court decision of the past 20 years he most disagreed with, he named the decision to strike down a Texas anti-sodomy law. When he was hired, it was his only job offer.

Or consider George Deutsch, the presidential appointee at NASA who told a Web site designer to add the word "theory" after every mention of the Big Bang, to leave open the possibility of "intelligent design by a creator." He turned out not to have, as he claimed, a degree from Texas A&M.

One measure of just how many Bushies were appointed to promote a religious agenda is how often a Christian right connection surfaces when we learn about a Bush administration scandal.

There's Ms. Goodling, of course. But did you know that Rachel Paulose, the U.S. attorney in Minnesota - three of whose deputies recently stepped down, reportedly in protest over her management style - is, according to a local news report, in the habit of quoting Bible verses in the office?

Or there's the case of Claude Allen, the presidential aide and former deputy secretary of health and human services, who stepped down after being investigated for petty theft. Most press reports, though they mentioned Mr. Allen's faith, failed to convey the fact that he built his career as a man of the hard-line Christian right.

And there's another thing most reporting fails to convey: the sheer extremism of these people.

You see, Regent isn't a religious university the way Loyola or Yeshiva are religious universities. It's run by someone whose first reaction to 9/11 was to brand it God's punishment for America's sins.

Two days after the terrorist attacks, Mr. Robertson held a conversation with Jerry Falwell on Mr. Robertson's TV show "The 700 Club." Mr. Falwell laid blame for the attack at the feet of "the pagans, and the abortionists, and the feminists, and the gays and the lesbians," not to mention the A.C.L.U. and People for the American Way. "Well, I totally concur," said Mr. Robertson.

The Bush administration's implosion clearly represents a setback for the Christian right's strategy of infiltration. But it would be wildly premature to declare the danger over. This is a movement that has shown great resilience over the years. It will surely find new champions.

Next week Rudy Giuliani will be speaking at Regent's Executive Leadership Series.

FromWayDowntown
04-13-2007, 10:11 PM
What he said.

My hero. [/swoon]

boutons_
04-14-2007, 12:39 AM
More "Christian" shit from bogus "ministers in Christ"

Chaplains' Complaints Of Bias Rise At NIH

By Jacqueline L. Salmon
Washington Post Staff Writer
Saturday, April 14, 2007; A01

The spiritual ministry department of the National Institutes of Health, which serves patients being treated in the nation's premier research hospital, is in disarray and battling a lawsuit and discrimination complaints that allege bias against Jewish and Catholic chaplains.

In February, a federal panel ordered the hospital to reinstate a Catholic priest who was wrongfully fired in 2004. In January, the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission had found that he was the target of "discriminatory and retaliatory animus." Three other former chaplains have said that they also were wrongfully terminated.

They have accused O. Ray Fitzgerald, a Methodist minister and the former head of the spiritual ministry department, of anti-Semitism and anti-Catholicism. They say that NIH retaliated against them when they spoke up and invented reasons for terminating them.

Fitzgerald was demoted from the chief chaplain's post two weeks ago after the EEOC, which cited the "animus," and the Merit Systems Protection Board ordered the rehiring of and back pay for the priest, the Rev. Henry Heffernan.

NIH officials "endorsed intolerance, and they reinforced intolerance with intolerance," said Rabbi Reeve Brenner, who testified last year in support of the priest and was fired as a hospital chaplain in February. He has filed a complaint with the Merit Board, an agency that hears federal personnel disputes, saying that he was removed by NIH as retribution for his testimony.

Another ousted chaplain, Greek Orthodox lay minister Edar Rogler, is suing the Department of Health and Human Services, NIH's parent agency, saying that she also was removed for testifying in support of Heffernan. In her lawsuit, filed last month in U.S. District Court in Maryland, and in her testimony in Heffernan's case, she says NIH officials hatched a plan, "Operation Clean Sweep," to purge staff members who cooperated in the priest's complaint.

Rogler alleges that Fitzgerald made frequent anti-Semitic comments about Brenner. In her lawsuit, she says that Fitzgerald referred to Brenner as "the butthead Jew" and "the crass Jew."

"He would not refer to the rabbi ever by his name," Rogler said in an interview. "It was always 'that Jew, that Jew.' " She was fired from her part-time chaplain's job in 2005 after she said she informed NIH officials that she planned to testify before the EEOC on behalf of Heffernan. The EEOC called her testimony more credible than Fitzgerald's.

NIH spokesman Don Ralbovsky confirmed that the clinical center has replaced Fitzgerald as chief chaplain. Fitzgerald's boss -- Walter Jones, deputy director of diversity management at NIH -- is running the department temporarily, Ralbovsky said. Fitzgerald continues to work as an NIH chaplain.

Ralbovsky would not comment on the allegations. Fitzgerald did not return calls to his office and his home.

But in letters to Rogler and in filings with the EEOC, NIH officials say that they fired Rogler for poor performance and that she didn't come forward with her complaints about Fitzgerald until after she was terminated.

The hospital's chief operating officer, Maureen Gormley, said in a letter to Brenner that he was being terminated for several infractions, including commingling his job as a federal employee with outside activities and being absent without leave for a day.

The former chaplains say that tensions have simmered in the department for years under Fitzgerald. The hospital, a clinical research center, employs about a half-dozen chaplains of various faiths, but in recent years turnover has been unusually high. At least seven have been ousted or have left voluntarily because they were unhappy with Fitzgerald's management style, said several former members of the department.

The Rev. Gary Johnston, who worked there for 18 years before leaving in 2002 to become a Protestant military chaplain, said in an interview that Fitzgerald told him he didn't want rabbis and Catholic priests in the department.

"I considered him to be very anti-Catholic and anti-Semitic," Johnston said.

The chaplains tend to the spiritual needs of patients in the two adjacent buildings on the Bethesda campus which make up the hospital -- the 14-story Warren Grant Magnuson Clinical Center and the Mark O. Hatfield Clinical Research Center.

Patients from all over the world are treated as part of clinical studies related to a variety of issues, including weight loss, allergies, substance abuse, heart disease and cancer. The center has about 7,000 inpatient admissions and 100,000 outpatient visits each year.

In testimony and in an interview, Heffernan, who joined the department in 1994, said he protested that the hospital's Catholic patients were being unfairly short-changed because Fitzgerald demanded that Heffernan minister to non-Catholic patients.

He said this left him with not enough time to minister to all of his Catholic patients. Heffernan also was concerned with what he called Fitzgerald's "generic chaplaincy" approach, because non-Catholic chaplains are unable to perform the Catholic sacraments, such as hearing confessions and performing last rites.

Fitzgerald, the EEOC said, retaliated by suspending Heffernan for five days in early 2004 for coming in on his days off, despite Fitzgerald's order not to. Heffernan held Mass for a priest who fell ill. Fitzgerald also demanded that Heffernan take entry-level training in hospital chaplaincy, despite his 40 years of experience in the field and the fact that other chaplains were not required to do so.

In July 2004, Heffernan was fired. At Heffernan's EEOC hearing last year, Brenner and Rogler testified that they had heard Fitzgerald express anti-Catholic sentiments against the priest. Rogler testified that Fitzgerald told her that Catholic priests are pedophiles.

"They singled out Father Heffernan . . . so they could get him out of there," Brenner said. "That was the most offensive thing -- this 75-year-old man who had more wisdom and integrity in his fingertips than his superiors had in all their lives."

In February, the Merit Board ordered Heffernan reinstated. In a separate ruling, the EEOC ordered NIH to accommodate the priest's desire to see only Catholics, except in emergencies.

The EEOC said that Fitzgerald's testimony was evasive and that statements by Rogler and Brenner at the hearing provided "corroborating testimony" to show that Fitzgerald was biased against Roman Catholics.

Rogler said Jones and Gormley fired her after she informed Jones that she would testify on behalf of Heffernan.

In a letter terminating Brenner, Gormley acknowledged that Brenner had an acceptable job performance record during his five years at NIH. But, among other complaints, she accused him of mixing private and clinical work by forming a temple to which he improperly transported Jewish patients for services.

But Brenner, who has appealed his removal to the Merit Board, said that NIH officials never objected to his activities until he testified at Heffernan's hearing.

Heffernan, Rogler and Brenner have won praise from patients.

Howie Appel, whose wife, Marla, has kidney cancer, said that Brenner has visited them twice during Marla's stays and that Brenner performed Friday night religious services in their room.

"He was our only connection to our religion up here," said Appel, who lives with his wife in Lake Mary, Fla. "I admire the guy, and I'm so glad we met him."

Benjamin Rubin, an NIH doctor and a rabbi who occasionally filled in for Brenner, said he was informed that his physician's contract would not be renewed last month.

Rubin said he had complained about the NIH hospital's treatment of observant Jewish patients. Among other problems, he said, an NIH official brushed off his concerns about the lack of worship facilities for Jews on NIH's campus by saying that they could be transported to services off campus. But Orthodox Jews do not drive on the Sabbath because they believe it violates Torah prohibitions against Sabbath work.

Heffernan returned to work in late March and has since been working 12-hour days to catch up. The chaplains' office is struggling, he said.

"It was a sad situation then," he said, "and it's a sad situation now."

sabar
04-14-2007, 01:31 AM
Another thread hijack I see.

Anyways, way to miss the entire issue. Regardless of what convictions abstinence is tied to, it takes a personal burning desire to overcome peer pressure and a burning desire. Kids aren't dumb, they know very well the implications of what they are doing, but they don't have time to look at things logically when this opporunity to either give in or abstain comes up. 99% of them will act on their impulsive desire.

The only people that will seriously take the road of abstinence are the devout and the non-impulsive reasoners. Awareness is only half of the solution, the other half remains in the person themselves.

boutons, you sure don't act very liberal for a bush basher. You act just like the people that you condemn. Replace your subjects with the liberal alternative and no one would think you are anything other than a crazy conservative. I know you just like to play devil's advocate.

gtownspur
04-14-2007, 02:39 AM
You go out of your way to tie everything in this forum to your god hegamboa. As if someone would never practice abstinence for a non-god reason.


Yes, how dare you critcize CBF's unchosen abstinence!

THE ONE AND ONLY
04-14-2007, 03:39 AM
Abstinence classes only fail because we haven't been praying hard enough.


Yes, how dare you critcize CBF's unchosen abstinence!

eh, CBF's girl is soooo ridicously hot absinence is not an option.

xrayzebra
04-14-2007, 08:45 AM
Only the federal government can spend a couple hundred
million dollars on teaching morals.

Don't you have to wonder sometimes where the parents are in
all of this. And wouldn't it be nice if the schools would just
teach a "little" bit of morals and discipline and have the ability
to fire some of the dead weight in schools.

I see all the critics of christian teachings on this forum, but
have any of these critics read the 10 commandments lately.
None of them are offensive to anyone and all of the are
as important today as the day they were handed down.
And should pertain to all religions. And maybe just plain
old good rules to live by.

jochhejaam
04-14-2007, 09:22 AM
You go out of your way to tie everything in this forum to your god hegamboa.
The thread talks about abstinence, and Christianity stresses sexual purity. With that in mind, what's so notable in Hegamboa's comments that prompted you to remark as if he's said something out of order?

RobinsontoDuncan
04-14-2007, 09:38 AM
Resolved: that public school students are fundamentally lacking in moral fibre, and MOREOVER that not getting any is joyous to the soul.

Advantage 1: the middle east

a) Papal Celibacy leads to happiness
Vatican Times '04

b) Happiness is key to peace
Reuters '03

c) Only peace can solve for WMD in the Middle East
Straits Times' 04

d) Next War in Middle East goes nuclear= global conflict
NYT '06

Phenomanul
04-14-2007, 10:06 AM
Again, for half of you all who missed it... choosing instead to veer off with bouton's_ regular rant.

1) I pointed out the fact that the survey was an incomplete assessment. That drawing the conclusion that abstinence philosophies be avoided or that they don't work from the data collected by this study would be uncorroborated.

There is no "A-ha", or an "I told you so" argument in which to gloat about here. The framework of the study did not encompass this conclusion.


However, you completely missed my larger point:

That one can't take the survey's results and draw the general conclusion that abstinence programs fail, or that abstinence programs aren't effective.

From the data collected, one can only draw the conclusion that federal abstinence programs in our schools fail to curb premarital sex. That conclusion alone.

There is a big difference.

2) Furthermore, I want to know where I mentioned or implied that federal programs should intill Christian tenets??? FWD was only being facetious... and BAAAM boutouns_ went off like a broken record.

In fact, I stated quite the opposite.... I wrote that morals should be taught and instilled at the home and not at schools.



A moral base cannot be instilled in school. That is one of the chief reasons why the home exists. This responsibility falls squarely on the parents - not the schools. Granted, there is an inherent problem when we get to the point where kids are raising kids.... oh wait.

I'm simply stating why such federal programs are doomed to fail.

3) So CBF and everyone else who just had to drop their 2 cents worth, by throwing a jab at me :rolleyes . You all need to learn how to :reading . READING is something I totally endorse as a legitimate scholastic subject.

mikejones99
04-14-2007, 10:11 AM
Abstinence does not work, they should force all kids under 21 to get abortion and all kids under 16 caught having sex, their parents should go to jail for 6 months.

smeagol
04-20-2007, 10:52 AM
Absitenece in today's world is extremely hard. What % of people are virgins when they marry? Probably less thern the % of people who remain faithfull all their life (and that is a fucking low %)

rascal
04-20-2007, 11:58 AM
[QUOTE=boutons_]"Besides abstinence is tied to a spiritual conviction that one is obeying GOD's will."

Fuck off, Bible-thumper.

Sexual abstinence can be taught for reasons without introducing God. Avoiding pregnancy and STD are the most immediately scary reasons, much more immediate than God's Hell. As with criminals, dissuasion doesn't work for horny, curious kids.

The Repugs also mixed sexual abstinence into their African anti-AIDs campaign, preferring that non-abstaining Africans die of AIDS rather than be encouraged to use condoms in their inevitable sex.

Ideology sucks, Repug/neo-cunt ideology murders.[Quote]


I disagree. Religious convictions are more powerful then fear of catching vd or fear of pregnancy.

rascal
04-20-2007, 12:01 PM
Absitenece in today's world is extremely hard. What % of people are virgins when they marry? Probably less thern the % of people who remain faithfull all their life (and that is a fucking low %)

People are marrying much later in life. At least in western cultures.

George Gervin's Afro
04-20-2007, 02:34 PM
Are telling me that telling kids not to do it doesn't work? REALLY? :oops

smeagol
04-20-2007, 04:06 PM
Are telling me that telling kids not to do it doesn't work? REALLY? :oops
Believe it or not, abstinence is not pretty popular among teens. Well it isn't very popular among the human race either.

scott
04-20-2007, 10:24 PM
I pointed out the fact that the survey was an incomplete assessment. That drawing the conclusion that abstinence philosophies be avoided or that they don't work from the data collected by this study would be uncorroborated.


You suggest that the data would somehow point to a different conclusion if it included homeschooled students. In statistical terms, this premise is what we would call RETARDED, since you seem to think a very tiny proportion of the population will change the conclusions based on the observations of the overwhelming majority.

mavs>spurs2
04-20-2007, 10:28 PM
LMFAO @ abstinence classes. Teens are going to have sex if they want to, might as well not even bother.

Поповић
04-20-2007, 11:34 PM
It's simple. You fuck, pick up a STD or a kid, and deal with the consequences. Better yet, you have one idiot do that and maybe the rest of their friends at least think about what they themselves are doing. Sure, the practice of abstinence is the best bet to avoid any problems and it'd be great if most kids didn't engage in something when they are wholly unprepared for the responsibility. I'm not sure why this ends up being someone else's responsibility. But that's a recurring theme today: I fucked up and it's your fault. So either we have the government telling people not to fuck or else enabling teenagers fucking. How about the government stay the fuck out and let kids and their parents handle the responsibility?

Phenomanul
04-21-2007, 12:02 PM
It's simple. You fuck, pick up a STD or a kid, and deal with the consequences. Better yet, you have one idiot do that and maybe the rest of their friends at least think about what they themselves are doing. Sure, the practice of abstinence is the best bet to avoid any problems and it'd be great if most kids didn't engage in something when they are wholly unprepared for the responsibility. I'm not sure why this ends up being someone else's responsibility. But that's a recurring theme today: I fucked up and it's your fault. So either we have the government telling people not to fuck or else enabling teenagers fucking. How about the government stay the fuck out and let kids and their parents handle the responsibility?

It's all good and idealistic in nature, but one of the biggest problems in today's society is that some parents and most teens aren't equipped to handle much responsibility to begin with.

Does that necesarily mean that the government should step in and solve this escalating problem??? No, but I guess some of that depends on the views of society which allows its citizens to shape its laws. Popular vote wins. Popular programs win. And yet that doesn't mean that the programs will be effective - as is the case with this problem.

Besides - and not to generalize - but it seems as though each successive generation has become less responsible, and more dependent -- in a sense more spoiled. The "leaving it up to them" option will produce more problems for this generation than it did for the last.

Phenomanul
04-21-2007, 01:15 PM
You suggest that the data would somehow point to a different conclusion if it included homeschooled students. In statistical terms, this premise is what we would call RETARDED, since you seem to think a very tiny proportion of the population will change the conclusions based on the observations of the overwhelming majority.


Federal Abstinence Programs fail because their focus is entirely based on stressing the avoidance of STDs and unplanned pregnancies... but humans will be humans and it is extremely difficult to curb the human sex drive on these premises alone.

Besides, your observation is not as pronounced as you seem to indicate because the applicability of federal abstinence programs to homeschoolers is... ummmm..... quite irrelevant. Don't let that little fact escape the argument.

If for example the Federal Government surveyed 50 million students and found that the success rate for their abstinence programs was 1%. That dismal figure doesn't allow anyone to conclude that abstinence programs fail. The data doesn't say that. It suggests federal abstinence programs are failing. Again, 'federal' is the key word.

If on the other hand, 50% of all home-schoolers managed to remain abstinent that would suggest that the parents were doing something right, something better, that their 'programs' (i.e. approach) was better. The fact that their population pool were 80 times smaller than the public school pool would not negate that argument. You seem to think it does... whatever.

And don't fool yourself into thinking that 'safe-sex' is an entirely risk free alternative to abstinence. If I designed the reliability of the refinery's safety systems, or any other critical quality control measure to match the reliability of a condom I would be fired. Those values are unacceptable... not to mention the fact that condoms have minimal effectiveness against disease - a parameter not even factored into the mix.

jochhejaam
04-21-2007, 04:12 PM
LMFAO @ abstinence classes. Teens are going to have sex if they want to, might as well not even bother.
So, if good advice is going to be ignored by the majority, don't give it at all?

mavs>spurs2
04-21-2007, 05:16 PM
So, if good advice is going to be ignored by the majority, don't give it at all?

Better yet, give good advice on safe sex since they are going to do it anyways.

jochhejaam
04-21-2007, 05:18 PM
Better yet, give good advice on safe sex since they are going to do it anyways.
All of them? Link?

mavs>spurs2
04-21-2007, 05:29 PM
All of them? Link?

WTF? You seriously think most kids aren't going to have premarital sex?

What decade are you living in?

jochhejaam
04-21-2007, 07:19 PM
WTF? You seriously think most kids aren't going to have premarital sex?

Great, another poster that puts words in my mouth.

Since you're apparently going to carry both side of the conversation I'll drop out and let you knock yerself out. :blah

boutons_
04-21-2007, 07:26 PM
"extremely difficult to curb the human sex drive on these premises alone"

So what premises are easier, more effective?

You want the government to premise its abstinence program on morality? ethics? whose morality and ethics? You want government to get into the morality business?

The sex-abstinence is destined, is turning out to be as effective as the war on drugs and crime. People want to fuck, people want to do drugs, people want to commit crimes. Ethics, morality, disease, medical consequences, death penalty be damned.

Democracy and civilization "work" because people freely make them work, not because they are coerced by a government.

Extra Stout
04-21-2007, 08:02 PM
It's all good and idealistic in nature, but one of the biggest problems in today's society is that some parents and most teens aren't equipped to handle much responsibility to begin with.
Given that, there is so social program that is going to solve the problem. Government absolutely cannot take the role of child-rearing. It is impossible.

It will not change until some calamity befalls the country, such that prospective parents are forced to assume responsibility in order to survive.

And sometimes, it doesn't happen even then and the society just goes into irreversible decline.

Have a nice day.

Phenomanul
04-23-2007, 09:20 AM
"extremely difficult to curb the human sex drive on these premises alone"

So what premises are easier, more effective?

You want the government to premise its abstinence program on morality? ethics? whose morality and ethics? You want government to get into the morality business?

Did I even suggest that they change the basis of their programs? I simply pointed out why federal abstinence programs are failing.

And if I noted that successful abstinence programs are morally driven and spiritually empowered, its because you seem to think that there is no merit to that approach. Such programs are not based on fear... they are based on the rewards of stewardship and on the premise that one's chastity is a sacred gift to their future spouse.




The sex-abstinence is destined, is turning out to be as effective as the war on drugs and crime. People want to fuck, people want to do drugs, people want to commit crimes. Ethics, morality, disease, medical consequences, death penalty be damned.

Democracy and civilization "work" because people freely make them work, not because they are coerced by a government.

That morally relativistic democracy you're describing sounds more and more like anarchy... whatever... if that's what society wants. :drunk

Phenomanul
04-23-2007, 09:31 AM
Given that, there is so social program that is going to solve the problem. Government absolutely cannot take the role of child-rearing. It is impossible.


If you read the thread more closely you will see that I've implied this much already.


It will not change until some calamity befalls the country, such that prospective parents are forced to assume responsibility in order to survive.

Calamities involving our youth? No. :dramaquee

Calamities such as the Columbine shootings? The Arkansas school shootings? The recent Virginia Tech shooting spree?

The lack of responsibility of today's parent's is creating monsters - socially dysfuntional teens - at alarming rates...

But like you've said, unless parents wish to do anything about it. The government is in no position to help.



And sometimes, it doesn't happen even then and the society just goes into irreversible decline.

Have a nice day.

To brighter days ahead.... :toast

Extra Stout
04-23-2007, 10:41 AM
Calamities involving our youth? No.

Calamities such as the Columbine shootings? The Arkansas school shootings? The recent Virginia Tech shooting spree?
No, I mean like a world war or economic collapse.

DarkReign
04-23-2007, 10:48 AM
Wow, way to take Pheno's comments waaaaaay too far and out of context.

God forbid, he mentions God.

Sheesh, calm down.

Phenomanul
04-23-2007, 12:20 PM
No, I mean like a world war or economic collapse.


Ok... Now I understand the context of your comment.

As in... it would take a "Grapes of Wrath" scenario to speed up the maturity process of irresponsible people/parents/kids.

scott
04-23-2007, 09:22 PM
Federal Abstinence Programs fail because their focus is entirely based on stressing the avoidance of STDs and unplanned pregnancies... but humans will be humans and it is extremely difficult to curb the human sex drive on these premises alone.

Besides, your observation is not as pronounced as you seem to indicate because the applicability of federal abstinence programs to homeschoolers is... ummmm..... quite irrelevant. Don't let that little fact escape the argument.

If for example the Federal Government surveyed 50 million students and found that the success rate for their abstinence programs was 1%. That dismal figure doesn't allow anyone to conclude that abstinence programs fail. The data doesn't say that. It suggests federal abstinence programs are failing. Again, 'federal' is the key word.

If on the other hand, 50% of all home-schoolers managed to remain abstinent that would suggest that the parents were doing something right, something better, that their 'programs' (i.e. approach) was better. The fact that their population pool were 80 times smaller than the public school pool would not negate that argument. You seem to think it does... whatever.

And don't fool yourself into thinking that 'safe-sex' is an entirely risk free alternative to abstinence. If I designed the reliability of the refinery's safety systems, or any other critical quality control measure to match the reliability of a condom I would be fired. Those values are unacceptable... not to mention the fact that condoms have minimal effectiveness against disease - a parameter not even factored into the mix.

The study was about Federal Abstinence Programs. You immediately went to:


I'm pretty sure the results would be different if the entire student pool had been adequately represented.... in particular the home-schooled crowd.

Which I interpreted to mean you felt the effectiveness of Federal Abstinence Programs would be measured differently if "the entire student pool" had be adequately represented.

I assumed you were staying on topic. Guess I was wrong. My bad.

As for the rest of your rant about the risk involved in safe-sex, you must be addressing someone else as I have not approached nor expressed any interest in approaching the topic. So, don't fool yourself into thinking Trix are just for kids... CUS THEY AREN'T!

Phenomanul
04-24-2007, 08:42 AM
The study was about Federal Abstinence Programs. You immediately went to:


I'm pretty sure the results would be different if the entire student pool had been adequately represented.... in particular the home-schooled crowd.

Which I interpreted to mean you felt the effectiveness of Federal Abstinence Programs would be measured differently if "the entire student pool" had be adequately represented.

I still fail to see why you would see a pool size 1/80th the size of the one represented as insignificant? Especially when we are talking about millions of students. Furthermore, if you seek out the details of the study itself most of the surveyed schools were from large metropolitan areas.... why weren't the smaller schools from rural towns included in the survey? I would be a little more worried about whose agenda the survey wanted to appease. But I guess people will always find ways for studies to say what they want to hear - it's all in the framework of the study itself.




I assumed you were staying on topic. Guess I was wrong. My bad.

What a cop out. The focus of the topic was never the linked study itself. It was nbadan's implied assertion that we shouldn't be surprised to see abstinence programs fail. I simply went on to explain why they do. Sorry you couldn't keep up.



As for the rest of your rant about the risk involved in safe-sex, you must be addressing someone else as I have not approached nor expressed any interest in approaching the topic. So, don't fool yourself into thinking Trix are just for kids... CUS THEY AREN'T!

My bad... that paragraph wasn't meant for you. It was a general footnote related to the thread that just managed to get included in my response to your post.

But by now I'm pretty sure you are aware that the teaching of safe-sex is the only other alternative to abstinence in the fight against STD's and unwanted pregnancies - when it comes to the teaching of sexuality to minors that is. So you may not have any interest in discussing the topic, but they are certainly intertwined.

Safe-sex is not safe.... simple as that. Hence if federal abstinence programs are failing and the teaching of safe-sex is the only other choice -- watch out.

JoeChalupa
04-24-2007, 09:28 AM
I still preach abstinence to my daughters.
Yeah, that is correct. My liberal ass teaches abstinence and the whole family goes to Church.

scott
04-24-2007, 06:59 PM
I still fail to see why you would see a pool size 1/80th the size of the one represented as insignificant? Especially when we are talking about millions of students. Furthermore, if you seek out the details of the study itself most of the surveyed schools were from large metropolitan areas.... why weren't the smaller schools from rural towns included in the survey? I would be a little more worried about whose agenda the survey wanted to appease. But I guess people will always find ways for studies to say what they want to hear - it's all in the framework of the study itself.

I think home schoolers are not significant to the study, because I only take the study for what it truly was - a condemnation of Federal programs. I don't read what Dan says most of the time, my apologies for missing his attempt to broaden the scope.

No blood, no foul.