16 year old marries her 40 year old coach

[Phil Hellmuth]

alright so how does the father allow this to happen. Get in a fight with the coach or something. Who cares if you go to jail for a few weeks, at least you saved your daughters future!

http://www.wwaytv3.com/a_16_year_old_marries_her_coach_and_her_family_spe aks_out/06/2007


BRUNSWICK COUNTY -- The mother of a Brunswick County 16-year-old who married her High School Coach is speaking out.

Betty Hager says she tried to stop the relationship between her daughter and a 40-year-old teacher at South Brunswick High School, including contacting local law enforcement and the school. (View the full interview here)

Hager has a paper trail documenting all the conversations she's had with different agencies in Brunswick County. She says it somehow wasn't enough, to stop her daughter, Windy, from marrying a teacher more than twice her age.

"Police, Sheriff's office, the principal, the Sheriff's department, friends, family," Hager said. "Nobody could reach her and he would not stay away from my child."

It's been a long and frustrating road for the Hagers. It all started the summer after Windy's freshman year, when she was just 14 years old. That's when Windy joined the track team, and her coach took a special interest in her.

"She's always been fiercely protective of family and friends," Hager said. "Once she met him her large circle of people she protected went smaller and smaller. Anyone that tried to keep her from the one person that was her focus was the enemy."

Fast forward two years. Windy's parents say the time, and their protest had done little to stop the love affair between their daughter and Brenton Scott Wuchae.

"The more we tried to save her," Betty Hager said. "The more we became the enemy and there becomes a time when you have to say, I can't save you from yourself."

On Monday, they finally gave in, signing a document allowing Windy to marry Wuchae. He resigned from his position with the school system on the same day as the wedding.

"We love our baby. We never wanted this for her. She could have had anything she wanted. the world was her oyster. She was capable of anything. she gave it all up," Hager said.

School officials say they were aware of the relationship, but could not prove that anything inappropriate was going on.

In a statement released to the press after a closed door meeting with the school board today, Superintendent Katie McGee said, "I am shocked and disheartened by what transpired."

Windy's parents say their daughter moved out yesterday after the wedding. They say they're still hopeful she'll return.

[Spurminator]

Well at least he's making an honest minor out of her.

[Spurminator]

So he resigned from his coaching position the same day he married the girl? How the hell was he not fired before then??

[AlamoSpursFan]

On Monday, they finally gave in, signing a document allowing Windy to marry Wuchae.

Her dad's a PUSSY.

Any teacher that takes an inappropriate interest in Little ASF will be dead long before the school board hears about anything.

[E20]

So he resigned from his coaching position the same day he married the girl? How the hell was he not fired before then??
On Monday, they finally gave in, signing a document allowing Windy to marry Wuchae. He resigned from his position with the school system on the same day as the wedding.

"We love our baby. We never wanted this for her. She could have had anything she wanted. the world was her oyster. She was capable of anything. she gave it all up," Hager said.

School officials say they were aware of the relationship, but could not prove that anything inappropriate was going on.

[Johnny_Blaze_47]

alright so how does the father allow this to happen. Get in a fight with the coach or something. Who cares if you go to jail for a few weeks, at least you saved your daughters future!

So the daughter would have seen the error of her ways because Dad beat the shit out of the groom?

[AlamoSpursFan]

So the daughter would have seen the error of her ways because Dad beat the shit out of the groom?

My daughter wouldn't have had the option.

She'd be wondering what the hell happened to the guy along with his family and friends.

There would be no habeas corpus in the case...

:lol

[Phil Hellmuth]

So the daughter would have seen the error of her ways because Dad beat the shit out of the groom?

bottomline: in no circumstances would i let my daughter marry a scumbag of 40 years old.

[Phil Hellmuth]

Breaking news:

http://msnbcmedia4.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/051107/051107_chris_hanson_vsml_9a.vsmall.jpg

Chris hansen says he lost big on this one. To quote, "I can't catch them all, I feel ashamed".*

[NorCal510]

thats disgusting

[Spurminator]

School officials say they were aware of the relationship, but could not prove that anything inappropriate was going on.

Obviously there had to be something that showed an intent to marry... Is that not inappropriate enough?

[NorCal510]

thats like me and kori getting married

:vomit: :vomit: :vomit:

[AlamoSpursFan]

thats like me and kori getting married

:vomit: :vomit: :vomit:

Ummm...no.

[BigZak]

my buddy was his chicks highschool softball coach.

they happily married now.

she's a hottie. i'da married the bitch too.

but she was legal. so you know it's all good.

[THE ONE AND ONLY]

my buddy was his chicks highschool softball coach.

they happily married now.

she's a hottie. i'da married the bitch too.

but she was legal. so you know it's all good.

Two of my high school teachers were married after one had taught the other. But she was fat, ugly, and had a flipper for a hand.

[Death In June]

I don't see what the big deal is. Minors have parents to protect them. Thats the way it is, that's the way it needs to be. You parent how you see fit, and don't tell me that someone doesnt have the right to experiment with sexuality if they have the brains to do so.

[The Cougar]

Since he was her track coach she probably excelled at passing the baton.

[Phil Hellmuth]

I don't see what the big deal is. Minors have parents to protect them. Thats the way it is, that's the way it needs to be. You parent how you see fit, and don't tell me that someone doesnt have the right to experiment with sexuality if they have the brains to do so. If she has the bush and the brains, it's nobodies business but her own. The stigma only exist to soothe your own disbeliefe that a person younger than 18 years is incapable of sexual desires, and that sexuality/love is somehow impure.

i couldn't DISagree any more.

You shot your self in the foot with this statement, "Minors have parents to protect them". uh. yea exactly, protect them from scumbags.

And there is a difference between sex and marriage. A HUUUUUUUUUGE DIFFERENCE!

[ZStomp]

So where's the pic of the 16 year old? :) :D

:lol

[Death In June]

They're two consenting individuals, how does that make him a scumbag?

[Trainwreck2100]

So where's the pic of the 16 year old? :) :D

:lol

on the website

[ZStomp]

http://www.wwaytv3.com/files/coach-girl-picture061907x250.jpg

OH nevermind...


how is a 16year old an adult?

[MaNuMaNiAc]

They're two consenting individuals, how does that make him a scumbag?well, since she's not old enough to legally consent, I'd say that's not entirely accurate

[thispego]

wait... why doesn't she have to be 18?

[DisgruntledLionFan#54,927]

Screw the marriage. Who the fuck names their daughter Windy?

[The Cougar]

Screw the marriage. Who the fuck names their daughter Windy?
The same morons that let their 16 year old daughter marry a 40 year old

[MoSpur]

Here is video of her mom talking.

http://www.wwaytv3.com/video/16_year_old_marries_coach_family_speaks_out/06

[Trainwreck2100]

Screw the marriage. Who the fuck names their daughter Windy?

Same idiots that let their 16 year old marry her teacher.

[DisgruntledLionFan#54,927]

4real...

[Phil Hellmuth]

They're two consenting individuals, how does that make him a scumbag?

are we still on planet earth or did we warp to a new universe where 40 years olds marrying kids who haven't graduated high school is permissible.

[DisgruntledLionFan#54,927]

It's legal, I have no gripe with it.

[Shelly]

Screw the marriage. Who the fuck names their daughter Windy?

Who's peekin' out from under a stairway
Calling a name that's lighter than air
Who's bending down to give me a rainbow
Everyone knows it's Windy

Who's tripping down the streets of the city
Smilin' at everybody she sees
Who's reachin' out to capture a moment
Everyone knows it's Windy

And Windy has stor-my eyes
That flash at the sound of lies
And Windy has wings to fly
Above the clouds (above the clouds)
Above the clouds (above the clouds)

[Flute]

And Windy has stor-my eyes
That flash at the sound of lies
And Windy has wings to fly
Above the clouds (above the clouds)
Above the clouds (above the clouds)

Who's tripping down the streets of the city
Smilin' at everybody she sees
Who's reachin' out to capture a moment
Everyone knows it's Windy
[Repeat And fade]

[resistanze]

Just let her go. The fact that she entertained the idea of having a relationship with a 40-year old man for more than a week shows you've already failed as parents. :lol

[PM5K]

thats like me and kori getting married

:vomit: :vomit: :vomit:

That's like Kori and LJ getting married!

LOL...

[dallaskd]

wow

[Douche]

24 year old N.A.M.B.L.A members are very encouraged by this development.

[NorCal510]

That's like Kori and LJ getting married!

LOL...
why?

is LJ like 23 and kori 55?

[hello13]

i think kori is 34 and lj is 25

[atxrocker]

i thought she was in her 40's?

[hello13]

maybe im wrong....


perhaps someone can fill us in on the details

[NorCal510]

i thought she was in her 40's?
you are banned

[NorCal510]

LJ is 21 and Kori is 27

Now give me my spur

[Borosai]

Some states allow 16-year-olds (maybe 15 too, I'm not sure) to marry with their parents' written consent, which she had. So the legality of the marriage isn't an issue. What was going on before the marriage is the problem. That's two years (14-16) of potentially hot fornication between a minor and an old turd. If she's stupid enough to do this, then she deserves what's coming up. Imagine a healthy 26-year-old woman married to a useless 50-year-old prune with ED. Bingo!

Her parents are morons for signing off on it. If she wants to ruin their lives, make her earn it and wait two more years to get married. Maybe she would've woken up at some point.

[Shelly]

Kori just turned 40 and she's fabulous!

[Flea]

They're two consenting individuals, how does that make him a scumbag?


Because he is an adult and she is a child.

[Flea]

are we still on planet earth or did we warp to a new universe where 40 years olds marrying kids who haven't graduated high school is permissible.


Why wasn't he arrested????

[TheSanityAnnex]

If there's grass on the field, play ball.

[Flea]

That's like Kori and LJ getting married!

LOL...


Except LJ is an adult!

[2Blonde]

The issue here isn't Kori & LJ. They were both of legal age when they met so their age difference doesn't matter. It could be be 5 years or 20 years and have no bearing on this issue. This story is relevant because one of the parties was 14 when they started an affair and the other was 38 and in a position of authority over her. Now she is 16 and he is 40 and they have married. She was and still is a minor. That's the relevant point.

[ShoogarBear]

Who's peekin' out from under a stairway
Calling a name that's lighter than air
Who's bending down to give me a rainbow
Everyone knows it's Windy
Shit.

Dammit.

Damn you.

:flipoff

[Shelly]

Shit.

Dammit.

Damn you.

:flipoff

:lol

I've been singing, "And Windy has stormy eyes..." all frigging day.

[Flea]

Now I'm singing it!

[Douche]

[QUOTE=2Blonde]I am a blonde M.I.L.F[QUOTE]


I would bang you up pretty good, 2blonde. Even if I wasn't of age.

[ShoogarBear]

Who's bending down to give me a rainbow

You know, I never really thought about that line before. Hmmmm.

[Shelly]

You know, I never really thought about that line before. Hmmmm.

hmmmm...indeed.

I'm trying to figure out if Windy is on drugs.

[Death In June]

If there's grass on the field, play ball.Yeah, pretty much. Nature doesnt fuck up or make mistakes. If you're mentally competent, there's really no issue. Purtitanical hatred for people with questionable sexual desires is just another form of facism. It's all a cultural construct anyway, this is a regular occurence across the pond.

[LuvBones]

Sounds like the family just wants attention. Why sign off on the marriage if you're so against it?

And as for the girl, this is her problem now. I know I changed a lot from 16-18... she's going to be doing this http://spurstalk.com/forums/images/smilies/smibang.gif a lot later in life.

[BeerIsGood!]

Her dad's a PUSSY.

Any teacher that takes an inappropriate interest in Little ASF will be dead long before the school board hears about anything.
http://www.moviemaze.de/celebs/0019/main02.jpg

They deserve to DIE and I hope they BURN IN HELL!!!

[TDMVPDPOY]

thats just foul play....

[Borosai]

If there's grass on the field, play ball.

Tell that to my parole officer! :dramaquee

[x_roux_x]

It truly boggles ones mind to even begin to understand how this happened, yet there are idiots who see nothing wrong with it...IDK...but I hear teachers being fired and investigated for far less...Where I am from if the fucking teacher farts in the direction of a minor they are forced to resign....These two had a relationship that the school system was aware of....The parents displeasure was vocalized to authorites and to the school...Why he was not fired I do not know....And for the ppl who have said well there was nothing illegal going on or that the school did not have proof yada yada yada.....thats bullshit....The school knew about the relationship...That is conflict of interest at the very least...Morals anyone? The man should never be allowed to teach again...Utterly rediculous how this has transpired....Half tards all the way around on this one....Well and one perv.

[TxJudsonRocketTx]

If there's grass on the field, play ball.

If not...play in the mud.

[emo serb]

So where's the pic of the 16 year old? :) :D

:lol
http://www.stateportpilot.com/sports/photos/11-8CrossCountry.jpg
eww...

[NorCal510]

http://www.stateportpilot.com/sports/photos/11-8CrossCountry.jpg
eww...
:vomit: :vomit: :vomit:

[emo serb]

:vomit: :vomit: :vomit:
oh and heres the Link (http://www.stateportpilot.com/sports/11-8crosscountry.htm)

[Borosai]

If not...play in the mud.

Nice :lol

[NorCal510]

oh and heres the Link (http://www.stateportpilot.com/sports/11-8crosscountry.htm)
<3 emo serb. i remember back in the days... in the chat rooms... we used to talk smack to each other.

[Lady Marmalade]

My parents wouldn't have signed that.... NO WAY... and I wouldn't have been able to keep the relationship going in HS. Come on take away her car, make her get off that team.... Don't sign the freaking paper. By the time she's 18 she will have found a male player and not a coach.....

[emo serb]

<3 emo serb. i remember back in the days... in the chat rooms... we used to talk smack to each other.
we did? lol

[Flea]

My parents wouldn't have signed that.... NO WAY... and I wouldn't have been able to keep the relationship going in HS. Come on take away her car, make her get off that team.... Don't sign the freaking paper. By the time she's 18 she will have found a male player and not a coach.....


The more I think about it the more pissed off I get at the parents. My oldest is 13 1/2, and there is no way in hell I would have allowed that.

[Flea]

we did? lol


LOL at Norcal, trying to find someone to back him up so he can get a spur. :lol

[NorCal510]

we did? lol
yep, we both spammed that chatroom. then we both went at it... i think.

u dont remember?

[NorCal510]

LOL at Norcal, trying to find someone to back him up so he can get a spur. :lol
i got you to back me up :spin

[Flea]

i got you to back me up :spin


Like I said, I remember the names but that doesn't mean you were an "original" spurstalk member.

[emo serb]

yep, we both spammed that chatroom. then we both went at it... i think.

u dont remember?
yeah maybe we did, but i dont think i really spammed it. but i dont remember your name until recently.