Off limits??

[Confused]

Ok so I havent posted with this name in a long time. Havent had a serious relationship since then. Well basically there are a couple ladies that I am kind of interested in. What I wanna know is if they are considered "off limits."

First gal, the bosses daughter. I know that could be very tricky, but my boss is pretty cool, so it MIGHT not be a problem.

Second lady, an ex's sister. That could be very very tricky.

I know those probably arent wise decisions, but I really feel like I can have a really good relationship with either of them. I talk to both and we get along well. What do you guys think??

[exstatic]

How attached are you to your job? If the answer is "very" then don't see the boss's daughter. Work related things can go South REAL FUCKING QUICK, and then you're on the street. Don't shit where you eat.

As for the ex's sister, is this an ex-spouse, or just a former GF? If it's the latter, I say go for it. WTF? You and the ex are no longer an item. If the ex has a problem, then it's her problem, not yours. If it's an ex-spouse, then that is tricky and really involves that whole family.

[Nbadan]

what's the issue here again?

[Jekka]

what's the issue here again?
Advice that won't be considered due to the problem being hypothetical.

[Nbadan]

Oh, manny....

[MannyIsGod]

I know you have a hard time reading but that says Jekka.

[E20]

So the poster: Confused is MannyisGod?

I'm confused.

[Nbadan]

now i'm confused too!

:hat

[AFBlue]

Did the ex's sister thing under a shroud of secrecy and it blew up. Of course, the ex was a very serious relationships (including talks about marriage), so I can understand the argument....but her sister was so damn hot.

We messed around, but seriously it wasn't worth it. Not sure how serious you got with your ex, but if it was even semi-serious I'd think hard about going for her sister.

[T Park]

I'd suggest the ex's sister.

But, did I walk into like a twilight zone episode or somethin.....

[maxpower]

fish off the company pier

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

Both of them sound like a nightmare in waiting unless you end up marrying... so unless you're REALLY serious, look elsewhere.