Cuddle parties

[mrsmaalox]

http://cbs3.com/local/Cuddle.Party.Pajama.2.709239.html

A Look Inside Local Cuddle Parties

PHILADELPHIA (CBS 3) ― In today's non-stop rush to get here and there, maneuvering through a crowd of hundreds and in and out of lines of traffic, some people worry that they are losing touch with each other. Now as CBS 3's Mary Stoker-Smith reports there's a way to really reach out and touch somebody else. You can do it a cuddle party.

A Cuddle Party may look like a pajama party for grown-ups. It's fun but there are rules. The number one rule, pajamas stay on the whole time. This is a non-sexual event.

Okay, now that we have that out of the way you may ask yourself, what's a cuddle party?

"This is a way of framing touch in a positive way," says cuddle party facilitator Edie Weinstein-Moser.

Edie says the parties which are held around the country and in our area are meant to help people achieve better intimacy, and communication. And it allows people to express themselves in a comfortable and safe environment.

There's snuggling, nuzzling and even spooning. But not everyone's ready for a group hug right away since you may not know everyone. So to get comfortable there are a few steps to start with.

The first step, whether you're with a partner or by yourself, is to sit and chat in a welcome circle. You hear the rules which include asking permission and getting a verbal yes before you touch anybody. And if everyone agrees to all of the rules, the cuddling begins.

"I love experiencing the feelings that come up when you connect with each individual person," said cuddle party-goer Linda Hunter at a recent Phoenixville party.

"Day to day life can get isolating so it's nice to have something to break out of that pattern," says Eric Merlino, another cuddle guest.

For Eric Hunter, "I have finally completely overcome my social anxiety that I had for decades."

Cuddle parties last for about 3 hours and pajamas and stuffed animals are optional.

"These folks enjoyed themselves, they tell me they leave feeling lighter emotionally and physically," said Edie. "You can't help but smile being around this."

And who doesn't love a good hug once in a while?

RELATED LINKS: www.cuddleparty.com


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[MannyIsGod]

Losers.

[dickface]

This is a non-sexual event.

Bull shit.

Every guy there is trying to get some ass.

[BacktoBasics]

This did not deliver as expected.

[pkbpkb81]

why the fuck would anyone go to that

[mrsmaalox]

Bunch of pervs here! Who wouldn't go for a good cuddle about now?:p:

[Mister Sinister]

Shit, my friends and I end up doing this whenever we get together anyway. Someone always ends up curled up against someone else...:lol Usually me, because I'm squishy.

[E20]

Filled with ugly, fat people.

I better sign up.

[dickface]

Shit, my friends and I end up doing this whenever we get together anyway. Someone always ends up curled up against someone else...:lol Usually me, because I'm squishy.

sorry but with posts like this, you're just asking for people to make gay jokes.

[Mister Sinister]

sorry but with posts like this, you're just asking for people to make gay jokes.
Yeah, see, the thing is, some people on this forum are going to make gay jokes about me regardless of what I post, so it's a waste of time on that level, plus, frankly, I don't give a shit beyond it being tired, annoying, and old.

[CosmicCowboy]

Cowboys have been calling cuddle partys "dancing" and the "two step" for years. And you guys think we aren't socially progressive!

[SpursWoman]

uh...okay?

[Don Quixote]

If I wanted to CUDDLE, I'd stay home with my wife.

[BacktoBasics]

Yeah, see, the thing is, some people on this forum are going to make gay jokes about me regardless of what I post, so it's a waste of time on that level, plus, frankly, I don't give a shit beyond it being tired, annoying, and old.So are you gay or fat or both?

[CosmicCowboy]

From the website FAQ:


Since Cuddle Parties are safe spaces for adults to explore and practice affectionate touch without sexualizing it, and since the state of arousal is natural for us human beings, it's no surprise that erections sometimes do occur. Our goal is not to teach men how not to get erections. Instead, we want to make normal functions and needs of human beings seem, well, "normal."

We strive not only to free people of the awkwardness surrounding arousal, but to allow them to develop some real coordination around it. At a Cuddle Party, erections become Mother Nature's way of giving us the thumbs-up sign. Nothing's wrong. Nothing's dirty. Nothing's suspect. And as long as you're not dry humping anyone (Rule #7), it's completely okay. Really.

[Warren Jeffs]

This is great if you toss in some 13 year olds.

[remingtonbo2001]

For those whose minds are not permenantly infixed in a sexual state of arousal, it sounds like a pretty decent idea.

In a society which is progressively becoming ego-centric, it's nice to see people attempting to achieve a sense of community. Physical touch from other peers can be very beneficial to the health and well being of the individual.

[CosmicCowboy]

In a society which is progressively becoming ego-centric, it's nice to see people attempting to achieve a sense of community. Physical touch from other peers can be very beneficial to the health and well being of the individual.

Sounds like you are tired of jerking off.

[ORION]

Sounds like you are tired of jerking off.

:lol:lol:lol

[ORION]

what straight guy can spoon a girl and not sprout wood ? I know it says pants must stay on but it didn't say anything about something tearing out of your pants

[Trainwreck2100]

non sexual should be in the title.

And i wonder what happens when there's "spooning", and the guy pops a boner.

[CosmicCowboy]

non sexual should be in the title.

And i wonder what happens when there's "spooning", and the guy pops a boner.

As I posted above, this was in their FAQ


Since Cuddle Parties are safe spaces for adults to explore and practice affectionate touch without sexualizing it, and since the state of arousal is natural for us human beings, it's no surprise that erections sometimes do occur. Our goal is not to teach men how not to get erections. Instead, we want to make normal functions and needs of human beings seem, well, "normal."

We strive not only to free people of the awkwardness surrounding arousal, but to allow them to develop some real coordination around it. At a Cuddle Party, erections become Mother Nature's way of giving us the thumbs-up sign. Nothing's wrong. Nothing's dirty. Nothing's suspect. And as long as you're not dry humping anyone (Rule #7), it's completely okay. Really.

[remingtonbo2001]

You guys are funny. You're putting way too much personal context into the situation.

Would I go to a cuddle party? No.

But what about someone who doesn't have constant interaction with others. It might not be such a bad idea.

[CosmicCowboy]

You guys are funny. You're putting way too much personal context into the situation.

Would I go to a cuddle party? No.

But what about someone who doesn't have constant interaction with others. It might not be such a bad idea.

Then again...

http://www.myspaceantics.com/images/funny/fat-lady-on-top.jpg

[ORION]

Idon't know about other dudes but when I have a boner for too long I get a little dizzy

[ORION]

Then again...

http://www.myspaceantics.com/images/funny/fat-lady-on-top.jpg

:td

[Heath Ledger]

Cuddling leads to fucking.

[Steve_Javie]

The first rule of Cuddle Club is you do not talk about Cuddle Club.

[hater]

who would want to go to a blue ball party?

[Don Quixote]

No, I don't like the idea of a cuddle party. I'm aware that it's (allegedly) non-sexual, but adultery ought not to be defined simply as not putting it in another woman. Adultery is the breaking of a "pledge of allegiance" to your spouse, the violation of the 1-flesh union, and a cuddle party comes too close to that.

And what would my wife think if she caught me at one? She'd only slice off my ding-dong with a dull steak knife! Unless, of course, she were the one I was cuddling with.

[remingtonbo2001]

No, I don't like the idea of a cuddle party. I'm aware that it's (allegedly) non-sexual, but adultery ought not to be defined simply as not putting it in another woman. Adultery is the breaking of a "pledge of allegiance" to your spouse, the violation of the 1-flesh union, and a cuddle party comes too close to that.

And what would my wife think if she caught me at one? She'd only slice off my ding-dong with a dull steak knife! Unless, of course, she were the one I was cuddling with.

Good point.

So are you implying that this is essentially a soft-core swinger's party?

[Don Quixote]

It's essentially the same thing, without the nudity and 70's music.

[SpursWoman]

who would want to go to a blue ball party?


Yeah ... I'm failing to see the point. Why in the world would you want to *cuddle* with someone you don't love (like you'd love your child), you're in love with (a SO), or someone you just want to fuck?

Although it sounds like it'd be cheaper than a strip club and you get to touch. Kinda. :spin

[Don Quixote]

Strip clubs are stupid. You know that girl is only pretending to like you because she wants you to give her a large tip. And, after you get all turned on, you can't even go home with her.

Of course, going home with a stripper presents its own problems ...

[mrsmaalox]

It's a strange concept for sure. I would spend the whole party frustrated as hell or totally grossed out! Nothing in between! :lol

[CuckingFunt]

I'm a very snuggly and cuddly person in general, but I don't get this. I love to greet a friend with a big hug, but I have no desire to curl up with a complete stranger.

But, hey, if it works for other people, good for them.

[Ed Helicopter Jones]

I'm already surrounded by sexual tension everywhere I go.






A "cuddle party" would only make things 10 times worse for everyone who was there with me.






I choose to spare the world from this sort of pain.

[Don Quixote]

Remind me not to go to any cuddle parties with you.

[Don Quixote]

Look, I'm all for snuggling up with some young thing.

But with my luck, my wife, or my mother-in-law, will barge in right when things are getting good. So, in ethics, you have to look at the consequences.

[AlamoSpursFan]

Strip clubs are stupid. You know that girl is only pretending to like you because she wants you to give her a large tip.

The HELL you say.

She liked me...she REALLY liked me!!!

And for the record, there is no champagne in the sex room...

[wife #7]

Right now I just have this pole to cuddle with.................

[wife #2 & #3]

At least you have a pole we haven't seen our husband all week!

[Don Quixote]

The HELL you say.

She liked me...she REALLY liked me!!!

And for the record, there is no champagne in the sex room...

It's a fantasy. She didn't like you. All she saw in you was that wallet full of bills.

In reality, she's addicted to drugs and dates a bouncer.

[AlamoSpursFan]

Dream killer...DREAM KILLER!!!!

She said she'd call. Why hasn't she called?

Lies! EVIL LIES!!!!

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

For those whose minds are not permenantly infixed in a sexual state of arousal, it sounds like a pretty decent idea.

In a society which is progressively becoming ego-centric, it's nice to see people attempting to achieve a sense of community. Physical touch from other peers can be very beneficial to the health and well being of the individual.

Glad to see that someone understands the idea behind the activity. That being said, I'd rather be alone than cuddle a stranger, although I'm all for hugging friends (and trees - that's for you, mouse).

[Don Quixote]

Glad to see that someone understands the idea behind the activity. That being said, I'd rather be alone than cuddle a stranger, although I'm all for hugging friends (and trees - that's for you, mouse).

No, I get the idea. I'm down with the whole idea of non-sensual cuddling, especially with young nubile ladies. I'm saying it's impossible to either (a) not get aroused, (b) creeped out by the whole thing, or (c) in serious trouble with your wife if/when she finds out, and probably divorced.

I'll leave my cuddling to my wife, thankyou. If I want non-sensual touching, I'll cuddle with my kids, when I have some.

[Don Quixote]

Dream killer...DREAM KILLER!!!!

She said she'd call. Why hasn't she called?

Lies! EVIL LIES!!!!

Hate to break it to you. But you swallowed the red pill when you signed up here at ST. Sorry.

All that arousal you get from your magazines and internet porn and strip clubs and Dancing with the Stars, is all a lie. None of those girls like you. In fact, they probably hate you. And they probably never grew up dreaming they'd be on a pole dancing somewhere.

And besides, that girl didn't call you because she went home with me. :rollin

[AlamoSpursFan]

If I want non-sensual touching, I'll cuddle with my kids, when I have some.

Just make sure you get it all in before their feet can reach your nuts, because there is nothing funnier to a kid than daddy doubled over in pain from the racking he has just received.

I'm just sayin'...

[Don Quixote]

Just make sure you get it all in before their feet can reach your nuts, because there is nothing funnier to a kid than daddy doubled over in pain from the racking he is about to receive.

I'm just sayin'...

Duly noted. Thankyou for the heads-up. I'll wear a cup.

[AlamoSpursFan]

Dang it...thought I edited in time! You got the picture though...

:lol

[Pick of Destiny]

Glad to be alone than cuddle a stranger, although I'm all for hugging friends (and trees - that's for you, mouse).


What are the latest Vbookie odds on the next Ruff meltdown?

[sabar]

Sounds weird. Rather be alone than at the bottom of a pile of flesh, body odor and sweat.

[Mister Sinister]

That's why I like the cuddle-fests that go on with my friends and I. There's no tension at all, because it'd be weird and almost incestuous, and there's not too many people.

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

What are the latest Vbookie odds on the next Ruff meltdown?

Fuck off, numbnuts.

[King Jaffe Joe]

Ruffnready is you female B?

[ATRAIN]

what the hell is cuddling?