When first taking on this assignment from B2B, I was trying to decide which way I wanted to take this topic. Do I want to play it safe and discuss sexual tendencies as a whole and address questions like “What exactly are sexual tendencies?” “Why do people have these tendencies?” “If I have these tendencies, does it mean I’m gay?” OR do I expose myself and just share my own sexual tendencies and hope that others share theirs as well? Because you know, we all have a little in us. Don’t kid yourself. And so because I don’t have the time to dedicate in researching this topic and because Google only provides me with articles that are based on Jesus Christ, the Bible and religion when searching “ sexual tendencies”, I decided to go with the latter. Here goes nothing. (This may get long, sorry.)
People say that most kids when growing up explore their sexuality in some way with others of the same sex. I did, maybe at a later age than most. I remember the first time I saw my best friend naked; I had to be around 12 or 13 years old. I remember trying not to look but not being able to help myself. We had all the same parts but ours looked different from one another, I was intrigued. I took a mental picture and saved it for later. We were inseparable and the more time we spent together, the more time we got naked together. It was innocent at first, taking baths together, swimming naked, etc. Then, one day we found ourselves making out with each other. I can’t remember what led up to that but I definitely remember the making out. That turned into getting in bed naked together and touching one another. Innocent stuff, really. I remember being turned on. And somewhat confused. Time passed and we grew out of our sexual exploration days but we remained best friends and inseparable. I went on to date boys and I liked it. The confusion, what little it was, went away. I knew I wasn’t gay, I just didn’t know at the time why my best friend turned me on. Bisexual? I don’t think so. If we’re going to label it, facts lean towards yes. But the only committed and mature relationships I’ve ever been in were with men. There have been isolated incidents with women and a recent ongoing incident with one woman. But I’ve never once thought I could be in an intimate and committed relationship with another woman. It has always been sexual, never emotional.
Aside from asking you to divulge your riffic stories with me, I also I have a question for you all. I’ve met significantly more females that are attracted to both sexes than more males that are. Do you think this is because it’s more glamorous and more publically accepted by people? Do you think there actually are more men out there that are attracted to the same sex as well as the opposite but just won’t admit it? Or maybe, just maybe, could it be that the female body overall is just more attractive than a male’s body? On subject but slightly a different note, I honestly believe that every man and every woman has had at least one sexual tendency in their life, whether they’d like to admit it or not. This doesn’t have to be something physical either; it could be something as simple as finding someone of the same sex attractive. And I don’t think that makes anyone a sexual. It’s simply a sexual tendency.
Let’s discuss this.
You can say that again!
I think females are just inherently different in their acceptance of what's attractive in comparison to a man's point of view.
So you're saying that "gay" is preference not a pre-wired genetic state of being?
....and thanks for the jerking material
I guess that is what I'm saying. Thanks for making one of my points.I think females are just inherently different in their acceptance of what's attractive in comparison to a man's point of view.
So you're saying that "gay" is preference not a pre-wired genetic state of being?
....and thanks for the jerking material
Yeah I'd say being a sexual is a prewired thing. You hear stories all the time of sexuals saying at age 10 they knew they were "different' or were attracted to their sex that early.
I'm not smart enough to understand why it is, or what makes or fuels it.
I don't believe being a sexual is something you decide you are, you just are.
The genetic vs. environment/choice is an interesting issue.
Only she just told you that her sexual exploits, although gay in nature, weren't pre-wired. They were simply emotions she acted upon.
I think that being bi apparently has become "trendy". Especially in your Hollywood/celebrity circles. Kind of just one of those things you have to do to be cool.
But is a person who is sexual just saying "ya know what I like being gay" or are they saying this is who I am, I just am that way.
I don't know this may be a discussion I have to bow out of due to me being just not intelligent enough to hang.
So I'm not the only one who got major wood reading this?
also...
I think this requires further explanation.There have been isolated incidents with women and a recent ongoing incident with one woman. But I’ve never once thought I could be in an intimate and committed relationship with another woman. It has always been sexual, never emotional.
No question and I agree 100%. Women like Lindsey Lohan and Ann Heche are great examples of that trying to get their names BACK into the circles by dating other women.
It wasn't what, a couple months after her and Elen broke up that Heche was dating an almost married to a man?
The truly sexual like Ellen Degeneres, Rosie O'Donnel, Doogie Howser (Sorry I say that only cause I don't know his name) I think the are true sexuals who are in an enviroment accepting enough to where they can come right out and be that person. I feel bad for individuals who really ar sexuals but feel pressure to be otherwise due to work, family or whatever other pressures.
Sorry I know I got off track there possibly.
I really don't think its a matter of intelligence.
Personally I think Katy should just expose herself.
Don't you ever disrespect NPH again.
I have to admit that this is one area that I am a terrible hypocrite. I think two women together is hot but the thought of two guys together creeps me out.
I think there are a lot of us like that.
Neil Patrick Harris thanks. He is damn funny on that show though. No disrespect intended.
I would say its widely accepted that two women together is something thats considered beautifull because of how sensual women are.
I personally don't get weirded out by seeing two guys together holding hands or being affectionate (hugging kissing stuff like that)
I felt bad for classmates in high school that I knew wanted to date people of the same sex but couldn't out of fear of being ostracized if they did come out.
I've only been in a three way once (that ended badly) where the women were bi-curious and that stuff is incredibly hot in person.
I was hoping others would share stories with me. Booooooooo.
Actually I can even deal with the public displays of affection with guys, I just don't wanna think about the rest.
I think part of what I said fear of telling said stories is why there haven't been any yet.
Women seem more open with it than guys, macho guy stuff I'm sure is the reason.
Although it is funny to broach the subject with some women and they act like you've insulted their deceased family by doing so.
Haha, point taken.
You know you like the idea of me licking a sausage at the grocers. Don't fool yourself.
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