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lol no
It's almost impossible not to feel something about it, especially depending on how the relationship went. 2 of my exes are married now.
When the first one happened (married 1.5-2 years ago), I was honestly depressed for awhile...like ing emo depressed. I wanted her to die a miserable, lonely c unt (just how I felt). The 2nd one isn't really depressing, but it doesn't exactly feel great either. More reflective this time, I suppose.
lol no
what I don't get is those people who invite their exes to their wedding. My wife and I made a pact on our wedding night: the next time we get married, neither of us are doing a wedding and neither of us are inviting the other to the "ceremony"/reception.
It depends on how the relationship ended. Exes of mine from high school are married to losers and have children...if I was a stupid me i'd kill to be in my current position in terms of not having children and being married. Some chicks just don't cut it bro
Prideful.
"Good luck with that bull , bro".
They're exes for a reason
BUMP needs to weigh in on going to an exes wedding.
Why do white people feel the need to still be friends with your girlfriend/wife after the relationship ends? That's some pussy right der! That fool is probably ing her better than you, so why put yourself through that sort of torture by showing up or still being close to her. A real man admits defeat and lets that go or beats the outta that dude.
What happened with your engagement, DD?
Huh? I'm not friends with either of them anymore, but i saw that she was married (fb). Chill out, lil
Hah, that was broken off a year and a half ago.
What were the cir stances of your parting?
It is possible not to feel anything.
Exes are exes for a reason.
Once I'm done with the I'm done with her... no contact whatsoever if at all possible. I don't have many ex's admittedly but I avoid all of em heh
Yes, if it wasn't an especially serious or passionate relationship to begin with, or if enough time has passed for those feelings to give way to indifference.
My ex-ex, if I found out she'd gotten married, I'd be really happy for her. She lives in Nebraska, but if I got invited to the wedding and it wasn't onerous to travel, I'd go. I have no romantic feelings for her anymore and we parted on really amicable terms.
The last ex, no ing way do I want to know anything about what's going on in her life right now.
AgreedExes are exes for a reason.
Long story short, I got cold feet about getting locked down--especially since I was trying to land an overseas medic gig too--which never happened. Looking back, we got engaged too fast anyways but it was my fault b/c I rushed it as a defense mechanism for the heartbreak of my previous relationship (the nurse in Pittsburgh I told you about). There's more to it obviously, but it's not interesting or fun to talk about.
True that. I know how that is.
I recently cyberpeeked myself. Don't know why I did it. She's not married. Her fb is so locked down privacy-wise I didn't learn anything. Interestingly enough she put some stuff on Pinterest that would lead me to think she's single and dissatisfied with her dating/romantic life but who knows? More importantly, she's the past and not a part of my future.
Yeah, nothing good ever comes from that. Either you're pissed to find out they're happy and in love, or you find out they're single and a small shred of you contemplates some futile hope of getting back together--even if you know it's not possible, or what you really want.
Why would anyone want to check on an ex? I mean especially if it ended on bad terms aka cheating slore ( ). Even if shes not one of those, leave her in the past where she belongs.
It's tough to just sever all ties when there are kids involved as my buddy can attest. Both he and his ex are now engaged to new people and at present both plan to attend the other's wedding. They did not part on particularly good terms but they still have a number of mutual friends and their son is still young enough that they feel it's important to show up. They may not necessarily endorse the marriages but they both understand being a new stepmom or dad is tough enough without one of the biological parents doing something that could even be perceived as trying to undermine them.
Obviously my friend's moved on in life, so it's not evoking a lot of huge mixed emotions. I don't think I'd go so far as to say he's well and truly happy for her, but there is some feeling of relief, like any final vestiges of feeling responsible for her in any way are completely done with.
srsly
There's a lot of people I know that do this I guess in hopes of getting her back when she's dumped. How beta is that? My last gf always had an ex (who was like half my size) show up to our parties through mutual friends and would literally be in the same room as us as we made out and stuff. I don't know how he could sit there and deal with that knowing that I would also take her home and plow her later.
Although I think they ended up going out again after I dumped her
If anything I feel bad for the sucker who's in line to lose half of everything he owns and accrues during the marriage.
There are 1 billion more females than males on this Earth. Marriage is dumb.
Similar situation with my ex, but neither one of us is getting married soon, and I am in a happy relationship myself. You just try and make it as normal as you can for the kid, even though most of the time the last thing you want to do is talk to them. I do not let conversations go past the subject of our daughter, it just leads to trouble.
As someone said above, it all depends on how tha relationship ended. Only had one that hurt. She and I were together for 3 1/2 years, living together for 2, and then things eventually went south. She ended up hooking up with a better looking, beefy guy a year or so later after me -- I think he already had a kid -- and last I knew, the two of them were engaged.
Around that time, though, I pretty much lost all contact with her. Prolly for the best.
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