I'm being broke up

[Rapper]

I am so hurt, cause i had given my all best to treat her in past 3 years

She is working at a casino as a dealer, she often complained me that I didn't have enough money and some material things as well as a nice car for her,PLUS, she frequently blamed at me that most of her freinds whose boyfriends have much money , BMW, whatever but the fact is that I'm still an university student so that how could I afford that? she doesn't have a college degree .'cause she thinks that a university degree doesn't wealth 4 years,she has been working at a casino since she gruduated from high school 2 year ago. to be honest, i stiill love her

I alraedy gave her as much as i could.

Guys, if you were me, how would you deal with the situation like this?

[Ignignokt]

let go.

her reasons are shallow. Let her find happiness.

Meanwhile, focus on something to improve yourself on and don't look for the same type of girl.

Love is for rich or poor.

That girl will not love you simply.

Just think of a fictional perfect girl.

You know what?

You and i can't have her both.

So lets find what we need and not what we want. Sometimes our wants betray what is ultimately good for us in the longrun.

and btw, now is the time to replace her with stuff you used to do before you met her, that way you can fill that void easier step by step.

[TDMVPDPOY]

I got friends that also work at the casino who either works as a dealer or hospitality......

thats only short term, unless you find something else to do....

a few choose to work there cause it helps pay off the house mortgage....etc


BACK TO UR SITUATION

seems like this girl is materialistic, she should love you for who you are, not for what you got either car, job security, wealth....dont you hate it when they try to compare you with others, flaunting there .....

i say you A2M one more time, and move on....

[Rapper]

Thanks for your suggestion, really

thanks

But talk is a talk, work is a work

I know both of you are right, but for now,at this moment, i still love her

hopefully i will find a girl who suits me in the future

[Das Texan]

well now that you have all this free time, maybe learning how to write would be a path you can take.

[I Love Me Some Me]

Sometimes I look back at the girls I thought I was in love with and laugh at how stupid I was.

If she's such a materialistic, stuck-up woman...tell me what it is you 'love' about her?

[tonylongoriafan]

Sometimes I look back at the girls I thought I was in love with and laugh at how stupid I was.

If she's such a materialistic, stuck-up woman...tell me what it is you 'love' about her?

i do the same when i'm in the middle of the relationship...it's all about perspective...but then sometimes you can't help yourself

[tlongII]

well now that you have all this free time, maybe learning how to write would be a path you can take.

I'm guessing this guy is in China...but I could be wrong. He's not doing too bad for a 2nd language.

[tlongII]

I think Bonnie Raitt said it best with "I can't make you love me if you don't." Sounds to me like this girl doesn't love you. Nothing wrong with that. Move on.

[Jekka]

well now that you have all this free time, maybe learning how to write would be a path you can take.

I love these threads. They make me feel a little vindicated for all the times men call women overly emotional and crazy.

"Buy me a car!"
"I want to, baby, but I'm a po' college student, and I can't. I've given you as much as I can!"
"It's not enough!"
" "

I don't think you have too many losses to mourn here, unless the sex was good. If that's the case, you're in college, use it to your advantage.

[Rapper]

i do the same when i'm in the middle of the relationship...it's all about perspective...but then sometimes you can't help yourself

exactly~

[Blake]

She is working at a casino as a dealer, she often complained me that I didn't have enough money and some material things as well as a nice car for her,PLUS, she frequently blamed at me that most of her freinds whose boyfriends have much money , BMW, whatever but the fact is that I'm still an university student so that how could I afford that? she doesn't have a college degree .'cause she thinks that a university degree doesn't wealth 4 years,she has been working at a casino since she gruduated from high school 2 year ago. to be honest, i stiill love her

I alraedy gave her as much as i could.

Guys, if you were me, how would you deal with the situation like this?

Go see her at work.

If you get 8s, you split 'em. If you get 11, then double down.

[I Love Me Some Me]

exactly~

Then wallow is self-pity, and never get over it.


I mean, you start a thread looking for help, the consensus (to this point) is 'move-on', but you don't want to.


I ask, again....what is it that you love about her? Her materialistic ways? The fact that she thinks you're not good enough for her? Her arrogance? The fact that she's a spoiled brat?

I ask you this question so you can put it into perspective for yourself. What is it that you love about her?

[I. Hustle]

If some chick frequently blamed at me I'd slap the skank. You need to give her your egg noodle one more time and move on. I know this is probably a troll but it pisses me off that women think they don't have to do and the man should be making tons of money to throw at them. The only revenge on women like that is that some men are smart and don't marry the skeezers then when they hit a certain old age like 25 they drop the and get another 18 year old gobbler.

[Rapper]

Then wallow is self-pity, and never get over it.


I mean, you start a thread looking for help, the consensus (to this point) is 'move-on', but you don't want to.


I ask, again....what is it that you love about her? Her materialistic ways? The fact that she thinks you're not good enough for her? Her arrogance? The fact that she's a spoiled brat?

I ask you this question so you can put it into perspective for yourself. What is it that you love about her?

Well, honestly i don't know

Sometime you know what is wrong and what is right, but when this situation comes across you, you would realize that you could't help yourself in some respects

[DarkReign]

let go.

her reasons are shallow. Let her find happiness.

Meanwhile, focus on something to improve yourself on and don't look for the same type of girl.

Love is for rich or poor.

That girl will not love you simply.

Just think of a fictional perfect girl.

You know what?

You and i can't have her both.

So lets find what we need and not what we want. Sometimes our wants betray what is ultimately good for us in the longrun.

and btw, now is the time to replace her with stuff you used to do before you met her, that way you can fill that void easier step by step.

Damn, gtown.

[Rapper]

I hate myself for loving her

[I. Hustle]

I hate myself for loving her

/ thread

[I. Hustle]

[I Love Me Some Me]

I hate myself for loving her

It's actually the other way around...you love her because you hate yourself.



You don't really love her...you just think you do. The fact that you can't provide even ONE thing about her that you love should confirm that for you.

[ORION]

run into the casino and jump on the table she is working. Pull your pants down and say "you could of had this but forget it now !" then run out quickly because someone will be on their way to kick your ass

[I. Hustle]

run into the casino and jump on the table she is working. Pull your pants down and say "you could of had this but forget it now !" then run out quickly because someone will be on their way to kick your ass

You might want to wiggle it in her face too if given the opportunity

[Blake]

You might want to wiggle it in her face too if given the opportunity

just don't get it caught in the roulette wheel. That would be embarassing.

[I. Hustle]

just don't get it caught in the roulette wheel. That would be embarassing.

2 on red

[mexicanjunior]

Guys, if you were me, how would you deal with the situation like this?

Buy her a bike...