It cannot be said enough times...1 layup from Lee, a few made FTs, and the series would be 3-1. Everyone would be talking about Van Gundy's mad scientist strategy actually paying off. But the Magic are 1-3, and everyone just wants to take a crap on Van Gundy.
I agree, it was dumb to stick Nelson in Game 1 and screw up the mindsets of the other players. There were other, probably better, ways to integrate him into the line-up...but the fact is they still had a chance to be up 3-1 right now, and the buckets just didn't bounce their way at the end. It happens.