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if yo cousin who is yo roommate had this that he was dating for 3 years and she lived with you and your cuz in yo house and you didnt really like her but you put up with her cuz she was yo cousins . then all of a sudden you find out she cheated on yo cuz with not just another dude, but she blew that dudes friend and swallowed, also she ed several bouncers at the night club she works at, also she drove 2 hours to another city to a couple she met on craigslist? what would you do if your cuz was all broke up about it and then all of a sudden his dumbass starts hanging out with her again like they are friends and and you know that this and your cuz are gonna fall into the same pattern and it'll be just like it was before that ho cheated and ted out?
aye what would you do?
fo real thread, no trolling dudes.
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what would you do?
wish i knew the answer bro
tbh i have a good friend who's girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times and told him, yet he still can't get rid of her for good. it's beyond sad imho
damn thats a fat baby in yo avatar
so do you tell him whatever bro, whatever makes you happy, or do you shame him into doing the right thing? do you treat that like the she is. ima make that sit on newspaper next time she comes over tbh
ima also try to make her cry
is that wrong?
Your just have to be there for your cousin when he realizes, again, that the girl is a . He's going to do what he wants to do. Just let him know that you are there for him, to talk to, to go out with, to get drinks with, etc, whatever. Be supportive. Just let him know that you'll be there whenever he s up again.
tbh i'm out of suggestions imho.
i have no problem in dumping a right on the spot, no questions asked. this guy can't seem to put the final nail in the coffin for whatever reason. she cheats on him, he breaks up with her, she has a fake apology, then rinse and repeat. it's been like this atleast five times so i dont really care any more.
i've given up at this point and basically just let him do his thing. very tragic
yeah i told him all that, he knows i got my families' back no matter what, but i still cant let this go, number one cause i hate this even more than i already did, and two, i prmised my aunt and uncle that there was no way they would get back together. I cant let this make me a liar also.
It's not your life to lead. I understand your desire to protect a family member, but at what point do you just say, "I give up." Have his parents expressed their distaste for her? Do they know what happened? That would affect me if my parents knew that and I still got back with someone. How about friends? Have friends done the same as you? I just don't see the point in being that vengeful towards a person. Karma's a . She'll just have to shut up and take it when it comes around.
yes his mom at least hates her and has wanted them to break up for a long time. no, they dont know what all happened because he wouldnt tell them and it wasnt my place to do so either. Yes his friends here hate her now too and always wanted them to break up because she is a bad influence on him and makes him lazy and holds him back. I'm new to all this, i only been around for a year but his mom and friends have had to put up with her from the beginning.
Like I said before, I get your desire to have a family member's back because they are a. family and b. a roommate. If they have been together for a long time and you've only been involved in it for a year...have you spoken to the rest of his friends who have been around them since the start of the relationship to see what initially attracted them? There must be some bs reason that he keeps going back to her. Find that. It will help you at least somewhat understand what is going on.
I don't know what else to tell you, but being mean and spiteful towards her is not going to help. Perhaps just trying to get away from them when they are together would give them a hint that you don't approve of the relationship.
That's all the advice I've got for you tonight. And screw you for the avatar comment in the BM thread.
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ashbeigh dont be dumb, i already have all that figured out. his friends are my friends, we openly discuss it.
i've told him everything ive told you today, even that im gonna try to make her cry next time i see her. im sure he's told her everything i've said so she's been hiding from me. I walked in from work today and i saw that in his room and she ducked and hid from me til i got in the shower and then she left
he wont even make her do the dishes
just be 100% real with your cousin and don't hold back about how you feel, but if he stays persistent then it. At the same time, never stop treating the girl like the dirty that she is. She's the one that deserves to hear a piece of your mind all the time, but your cousin is just naive and just has to be left alone if he doesn't take what you're feeding him
thats what ive been doing, only she is avoiding me at the moment, so she aint completely dumb
dog they ain't you can do, s gotta learn on his own
tru det
tell your cuz to plan better.
dun worry man, this is cyclical...
when ur cuz appearing on jerry?
pic of ho or it didnt happen
You can warn your cousin, but that's about it. Treating her like is only gonna make your cousin resent you. And your aunt should be extracting promises from her son, not you.
Basically, myob, keep your distance from her and be there to support him when he falls.
And why'd you tell her about SpursTalk?
Going by what you posted this is willing to be anyone's dumpster. Just get some guy to go undercover spilling the goods on how she really feels about your cuz. Some guys are just ignorant and think some girls can do no wrong. Dude needs proof.
beggars cant be choosers....explains why ur cuz is stayin put, when every man wouldve seen the light at the end of the tunnel
I went to bed after I sent that message. And you know what thread I was talking about. http://spurstalk.com/forums/showpost...03&postcount=4 [/quote]
Just basically what I'm saying about trying to make her cry is that you aren't being the mature one. Even if you aren't directly involved in the relationship you need to be the grown-up, even if you aren't. Be a bigger person.
ashbeigh dont be dumb, i already have all that figured out. his friends are my friends, we openly discuss it.
i've told him everything ive told you today, even that im gonna try to make her cry next time i see her. im sure he's told her everything i've said so she's been hiding from me. I walked in from work today and i saw that in his room and she ducked and hid from me til i got in the shower and then she left
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