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Dude, just tell her. The not knowing is worse than knowing the truth, even if the truth sucks broken beer bottles.
Okay, if some of you remember, I started a thread here a while ago.
http://spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=17233
Well, I have decided not to tell her about my feelings. I have my reasons. I dont feel like getting into them. Even though she is single right now, I know that a relationship between us (other than friends/brother, sister) would not work out at this time. I still spend time with her, just like I do with all my other friends. I really want to tell her, but I know that would be a bad idea. I love speading time with her. Whenever Im with her it just feels like heaven (I know that is really corny, but true). Every second is just amazing. Just sitting and talking with her is better than speading time doing anything else with anyone else. Being with her is an even better feeling than when the Spurs won! But whenever I am not around her, I miss her terribly! That CANT be healthy. What is wrong with me?!!?!?!?
I just CANT get her out of my head. It is killing me. LOL. I think about her all the time!!! Every day, every night. I even dream about her. Am I sick??
Anyways, I dont expect any adivce or anything like that, I just wanna share this with people before I explode!!!!
Thanks.
Dude, just tell her. The not knowing is worse than knowing the truth, even if the truth sucks broken beer bottles.
Dude, seriously, grow a pair and tell her. Who gives a ! This country was founded on people taking big risks, and you never know she could feel the same way about you. Remember, as a wise man once said "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
Well, the thing is, if I don tell her, odds are I am going to lose an amazing friendship. And I dont wanna lose that.
"Confused", I sent you a PM.
you really need to get laid.
how funny, I was just thinking about you the other day and whatever happened with you and your situation. Sorry to hear it hasn't still turned out the way you've wanted.
I know exactly what you're going through. I guess in the end, its better to keep a friend than lose one. But if you're like me, its hard to stay quiet. Speaking up definitely doesn't guarantee anything, but at least you get it out. Even if the response hurts like .
Write a song about it.
Yeah, if I lost her as a friend I would be devestated! I dont know what I would do, but I know that I would be destroyed.
I am just going to be patient and see what happens (feels like alls I have been doing is waiting, but oh well).
Is it possible she could be feeling the same way?
Think of her when you choke your chicken.
It is possible. But I dont know if she does.
But then you're going to be going through this every time she starts dating someone else, breaks up with them, etc. My opinion - you should tell her. You're going to feel a whole lot better once you get it off your chest. Chances are, she already has an idea of how you feel. If your friendship is that strong, it will withstand anything.Yeah, if I lost her as a friend I would be devestated! I dont know what I would do, but I know that I would be destroyed.
I am just going to be patient and see what happens (feels like alls I have been doing is waiting, but oh well).
Hmmmm.........does she ever call/e-mail you or do you always initiate? Does she find any excuse to touch you?
When you mentioned her before she was in a relationship with a good friend of yours, what happened?
Why? If she's single now, what's the issue?Even though she is single right now, I know that a relationship between us (other than friends/brother, sister) would not work out at this time
I know you guys are just jerkin around (no pun intented) but you do bring up a good point. I am not sexually active, I have been, but I am not anyomre. I am gouing to wait until I get married before I have sex again. Anyways, I am still a man and I still have urges and stuff, but this girl is different then other girl. I am not interested in her sexually. I am not saying I am not sexually attracted to her, I am just saying that sex is not the main thing on my mind when I am with her. Yes she does get me arrosed, but I dont need to have sex with her (which is different from anyother relationship I have been in). Just being with her is amazing. Speading time with her is greater than any sex I have ever had! How weird is that? Am I turning into a woman??
Dude, either tell her or stop talking to her for awhile. Make a decision and stick with it though. Sack up!
BTW, am I the only one that thought this was a Kylie Minoge thread before opening it?
well no wonder.
It's sperm poisoning. You let that build up too much and it makes you go nuts.
Good thing I'm in control with my women.
exactly. If she doesn't feel the same after you tell her its obviously gonna be a bit weird and hard at first (okay very hard..very very hard), but with some time and maybe even distance for a while, you'll still be okay as friends. And you'll at least have gotten it off your chest and not have regrets.
Yes, she does email and call me. We both initiate, its pretty even, actually, she has probably initiated more conversations than I have.
She does like touch my shoulder, arm, hands etc. Just brief touches, but I notice every one (and feel like I am being electrocuted (in a good way) every time we touch).
Too complicted to get into. Sorry. Has to do with jobs, other people, family members, friends, etc. Very complicted, and I dont want to get into here. For one, the people I dont want to know will find out. For two, I dont want eveyone to know the situation. Sorry.
that electrocution feeling is the sperm trying to get to her through your arm.
Yeah, thats one of the things that I think about. I just cant lose her as a friend. perhaps I am too close to her, maybe its even unhealthy. If I lost her I would most likely be very depressed for a long time. Maybe I need consuling?
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