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confront her... I think.
On second thoughts get a womans advice.
They understand their own :p
Okay, so I got this "girl problem."
I am really diggin this girl. We are pretty close. We spend alot of time together and are very open with each other. We both share alot of things with eachother. I have really strong feelings for her and she has feelings for me (No Supreme Allah, its not SD!!). We are intimate and stuff, but are waiting til marrige before having sex. Anyways, on to my problem. When we spend time together alone, we are very close. The conversations we have, the moments we share, it is all amazing. I just love spending time with her. But, when we are in a group (ie. a party or sumthin) she is totally different.
She acts like I dont even exist! No "Hi." No "Hows it going?" Nothing! If i come up to her and say hi, she responds, answers my questions, and leaves as soon as she can. She will talk to almost everyone else, except me. This really bugs me. I wonder why she is so different around other people.
I am not saying,she can ONLY talk to me and no one else. She can talk to anyone she wants. That doesnt matter. What does bug me, is that fact that she totally blows me off, like I am not even there. All I would like is a simple acknowlegdement. Just a simple greating. A "Hi, nice to see you!" is all I want. And she can talk to whoever she wants.
I just dont like the fact that she acts so differently around other people. For example. We were at a party the other week. She TOTALLY ignores me as usual. While we are at the party, I dont even exist to her. Even as we pass eachother in the hall, she doesnt say a thing. Then as we are leaving, we see eachother in the parking lot, and she is all nice with me again. Shes all like "Hi, how are you! Good to see ya" Yada yada ya. Dont get me wrong, I really enjoyed that, and it made me feel better that night, but i would just like to know why she is so different around other people.
I really care about her, and I want our relationship to be all it can be, but this just bugs me. What should I do? Do I confront her about it? Do I ignore it and enjoy all the private moments we share? Any advice from anyone who has gone through this before?
Are all women like this? Is she trying to make me jealous? Whats the deal???
confront her... I think.
On second thoughts get a womans advice.
They understand their own :p
Are you guys in an acknowledged relationship or had you decided to keep things under wraps or something? Either way, I can't see any reason for ignoring you in public.
Positive she isn't dating someone?
What he said.
Me either....none whatsoever. You definely need to get on the same page on the status of your relationship.
I agree with SW and SC... it seems weird.
Does everyone know that ya'll are "together"??
(1)Perhaps she is uncomforrtable or doesn't know how to act with a BF in public, (2) maybe she's trying to widen out her association, (3)maybe her friends/others don't know she is "seeing" you....
whatever her reasons... it's wrong. it's practicly rude and disrespectful.
do the 2 of you go out and do things together in public or in a group? or do you only see each other in privete? (if you only see each other in privete it's gonna get pretty hard to stay abstinate.......i know from experiance)
if she's ashamed of you, drop her immediately
Women drive me nucking futs
join the club
sounds like someone a chick would postOkay, so I got this "girl problem."
I am really diggin this girl. We are pretty close. We spend alot of time together and are very open with each other. We both share alot of things with eachother. I have really strong feelings for her and she has feelings for me (No Supreme Allah, its not SD!!
She acts like I dont even exist! No "Hi." No "Hows it going?" Nothing! If i come up to her and say hi, she responds, answers my questions, and leaves as soon as she can. She will talk to almost everyone else, except me. This really bugs me. I wonder why she is so different around other people.
I am not saying,she can ONLY talk to me and no one else. She can talk to anyone she wants. That doesnt matter. What does bug me, is that fact that she totally blows me off, like I am not even there. All I would like is a simple acknowlegdement. Just a simple greating. A "Hi, nice to see you!" is all I want. And she can talk to whoever she wants.
I just dont like the fact that she acts so differently around other people. For example. We were at a party the other week. She TOTALLY ignores me as usual. While we are at the party, I dont even exist to her. Even as we pass eachother in the hall, she doesnt say a thing. Then as we are leaving, we see eachother in the parking lot, and she is all nice with me again. Shes all like "Hi, how are you! Good to see ya" Yada yada ya. Dont get me wrong, I really enjoyed that, and it made me feel better that night, but i would just like to know why she is so different around other people.
I really care about her, and I want our relationship to be all it can be, but this just bugs me. What should I do? Do I confront her about it? Do I ignore it and enjoy all the private moments we share? Any advice from anyone who has gone through this before?
Are all women like this? Is she trying to make me jealous? Whats the deal???
What the is wrong with es these days i swear......they love to make guys freaking go nuts before they acknowledge our undying attraction to them.. I mean do women find this very funny to be like, "lets see how much this guy really likes me....lets put him through give him a little tease, then send him straight through again, and if he stays he's a winner"??????
Are you considered popular? She could be doing it to keep her reputation up, I know a lot of girls like that. They think the people they hang out with have to be "cool".
I'm not saying anything about you, but who knows what she thinks. At those parties that you go to, other than her, how many of your friends go?
If I were you, I would just ask her. That's the best way to do it, just ask her why she acts differently around other people and how she ignores you.
Mistake Numero Uno.
Mistake Numero Uno.
Holy crap i missed that..lol man bang that raw and split........make her come after you
Are you ugly?
how old are you guys, age would be a major factor in this situation
You are just a friend, dude, and not a very good one. She probably acts like that with other guys she is "friends" with.
Get outta there as soon as you can. Sometimes you rejecting her will make her think she likes you more, but she is not balanced, so just get away from her. Go get yourself a nice girl who isn't a nutjob or has to use/manipulate others to enlarge her ego.
Run.
Last edited by SWC Bonfire; 08-11-2005 at 10:09 AM.
Actually...that's really what I wanted to say. Regardless of what happens when you aren't around other people...she is a for treating you like that when you are and you deserve better.
Yeah your already in the friend stage, at that, she might mess around with you but nothing more....its a huge trap, once she finds someone she really wants, your going to get extremely jealous, and then she'll hate you for that...move on find someone who is going to care and want a relationship from you
Most of the women I know don't do that.
Dre 7 - I would assume if that's how she acts in public, then she has another boyfriend. I don't know how old she is, but it's a freak move at any age to act like she doesn't even know you. She's behaving like you are having an affair with her and she doesn't want her boyfriend to find out.
Psst! ...If you act like you actually have been laid by a woman in your lifetime and don't act like a desparate sailor going to sea in 8 hours, maybe she would profess her attraction to you after a few dates.
Or maybe if you just don't refer to her as a that might help.
LOL trust me most of the time, i always get every girl i want.......and some, i just say some girls like to play crazy mind games......mostly immature ones though
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