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But she says she loves me, and we used to talk about marriage, and she says that she still wants to marry me. Whats up with that? Talk about false hopes.
When you're with someone for two years, and then break up for a dumb reason like not having a job... and she tells you that part of her wants to get back together but the other part doesnt, and that she wants to be single right now...what does that mean? Will she ever make the decision to come back? or is she just trying to lay me down easy by making me wait?
But she says she loves me, and we used to talk about marriage, and she says that she still wants to marry me. Whats up with that? Talk about false hopes.
I ain't sayin' she's a gold digger, but very few girls I know would ever want to be with someone for very long that doesn't have a J-O-B....unless they were very independantly wealthy.
I'm sure she loves you, but if you're unemployed and have been for a while, she's probably getting pressure from friends/family about being with a perceived *loser*.
Not that I would call you a loser, I don't even know you.
It means she's ing somebody. probably GIG
If that's the case, if you guys get back together.....double bag it!
Thanks guys, all of you have valid points, but I didn't have a job for a month, and I finally got one a week ago, but she said its too late. shes 25 by the way.
But what I want to know is, if she doesn't know now if we'll ever be together, will she know in a week, month, or however long it will take.
A month is a lot different than indefinitely. Actively looking for a job is a lot different than being lazy and not really even trying, expecting *her* to foot the tab. I don't know the cir stances....and I know happens, but love don't pay the rent, you know?
This is over.
Just get a better job, then you can get a better woman too.
Well, if you got one...after only a month of not having one.....that shouldn't have been a big deal at all.
I dunno what to say about that, really, but I'm pretty sure she'd make up her mind really damn quick if you started dating other girls.
It sounds like she's trying not to hurt your feelings.
Yeah, its weird, because she was the one that wanted to get with me in the first place, then we get together, break up, and now I'm the one thats chasing her. Its hard to be patient, but she needs time I understand that, but it kills me.
Been there bro. Its rough...
I told her yesterday that I met someone, not saying if I just met her as a friend or met her interested in her. Well she didn't seem to be upset, she said, ahh thats cool. When I told her today about that, she said she was mad. Everytime we talk on the phone, she has nothing new to say, and she doesn't want to talk about us...which to me is impossible. We hung out monday, and we didn't talk about the break up once, and we had fun, when I took her home, she gave me a kiss, and walked inside. I thought that was a good day, but it didn't change anything.
Another Pot related breakup.
Last edited by Solid D; 11-30-2005 at 06:16 PM.
Just ask her out right now. If she says no, leave her for guys like me to pray on. jk
Well, if she ends up marrying you watch out if she wants to drop the "for richer or poorer" from your wedding vows.
She's testing the waters. If she finds someone she feels they are better than you than she is gone, if she doesn't find anyone else she will be back.
you need to give her space. don't contact her and don't return her calls (assuming she calls you first). if she thinks you're "over" her, she'll come crawling back. es are easy, bro. you just gotta be smarter than them
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She's playin you dude. Move on.
We talked everyday, we lived together for gods sake, we never went more than a couple of hours w/o talking. And now I can't call her? Its ing hard to go through my day thinking about her every minute, and not being able to call her because she doesnt call me.
I called her a while ago because I was going to ask her to go out, go see a movie and get some food... but she didn't answer, so I left her a message... so we'll see if she calls back.
first, you have to be strong. Go for a walk, or a drive if you're tempted to call her.
second, she's going to start thinking you're a stalker.
give her up cold turkey dude.
I agree
She's keeping you around "just in case" she doesn't find what she's looking for.
Thats bull then, That makes me want to move on... I guess I have to.
that means she likes you, but until you get your together? she's gonna put herself on the market and she what kind of MAN she can score.
You want her? SHOW her that YOU are that MAN.
YOU already KNOW what you gotta do. Make your choice. It's your life bro.
Your the only one that has to live with the consequences.
And i'm sorry, I'm know i'm NOT a lady of spurstalk, but my s are awesome...so i think i get a pass.
Goodluck.
that means she likes you, but until you get your together? she's gonna put herself on the market and she what kind of MAN she can score.
You want her? SHOW her that YOU are that MAN.
YOU already KNOW what you gotta do. Make your choice. It's your life bro.
Your the only one that has to live with the consequences.
And i'm sorry, I'm know i'm NOT a lady of spurstalk, but my s are awesome...so i think i get a pass.
Goodluck.
thats great! I want to nibble on your meat s!!!
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