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I smell boy with iden y problems.
http://cbs2chicago.com/topstories/lo...144083006.html
I smell lawsuit...May 24, 2006 7:24 am US/Central
Boy In Dress Banned From Northwest Indiana Prom
(Post-Tribune) HOBART, Ind. The prom ticket was in hand: $85. The fuschia, slinky prom dress and strappy heels were ready.
The whole week of giddy anticipation and pampering — more than $200 worth of a manicure, pedicure and hair set — was set to culminate with the grand walk into the glam ball.
But when Kevin Logan, a transgender and gay student at Gary’s West Side High School, arrived last Friday at Avalon Manor in Hobart for his prom, he was banned by Principal Diane Rouse.
That ban, according to Indiana Civil Liberties Union legal director Ken Falk, violates the First Amendment.
The Logan family is mulling both a complaint with the ICLU and possible litigation.
“When I tried to walk in, she asked me where am I going. She said, 'You’re not walking in here today,’ ” Logan, 18, said.
“Ms. Rouse said I wasn’t allowed to have on a dress,” he said Tuesday as he and his mother, Donnetta Logan, were at West Side to seek a ticket refund.
“I already had approval to go to the prom. I do have cons utional rights. I asked her 'Why are you doing this to me? This is my prom. This is like the most important night of my life,’ ” Logan said.
Logan said while he wasn’t allowed in and left after police were called, his friends did come out to the parking lot to pose for pictures with him.
“I was hurt. She took something from me I can’t get back. I have no formal pictures, no memories, nothing. You only have one prom,” the senior said.
In 1999, Falk helped an Indianapolis male teen win a court battle to wear a dress to prom.
“All students have First Amendment rights of freedom of expression. Those rights can be overcome for the legitimate needs of the school. For example, you can’t protest. That runs the risk of disrupting instruction,” Falk said. “But the court found at a prom, those risks are lessened. It’s not a scholastic activity.”
Logan said he had spent years defining and exploring his sexuality. This year, he took a major step toward self-iden y by dressing as a female every day this school year.
“Last year I could not be myself. Now, I wear makeup, weave, nails, girls’ fitted jeans — what the (heck)!” Kevin proclaimed laughing, relishing his liberty from gender codes.
“I had a problem with her (Principal Rouse) the first day of school because I had a purse. A week before prom she told me female clothing would not be allowed,” Logan said.
Rouse directed questions to central administration. She refused to sit down for a talk with Donnetta and Kevin Logan, but told a counselor to make sure a receipt was given for the refund.
“I’m not surprised by this ignorance,” Donnetta Logan said. “I tell Kevin that in society there will be those who accept him and those who won’t.”
She and Kevin both believe Rouse might have been discriminating against his sexual orientation and cross-dressing.
“I’m gay. I’m a drag queen,” Kevin said matter-of-factly.
Sylvester Rowan, assistant to Gary Schools Superintendent Mary Steele, said the decision to exclude Logan was based on “the dress code, not the student’s sexuality. That’s his personal preference.”
Rowan said it is school policy that males can’t wear dresses.
“The administration would have erred in judgment if it had allowed the male student the privilege of dressing as a female,” he said in a statement.
But such restrictions are seen as discrimination in a society tilted toward tolerance of alternative lifestyles, said Tyrone Hanley, the youth program coordinator for the Gender Public Advocacy Coalition in Washington, D.C.
Hanley said he sees cases like this often at high schools and colleges.
“Clearly this is an issue of gender bias,” Hanley said. “The school is saying people born with male bodies are not able to wear dresses, but those born with female bodies can. This goes beyond a dress code. It’s clearly gender-based discrimination. It’s an outrage.”
Like Falk, Hanley believes, “People have the right to express themselves. This is a human-rights issues. Prohibiting really short skirts for everyone is a fair dress code, prohibiting them for males is not. I don’t see how the administration can allow this to pass and support this principal.”
West Side students reported that a girl was allowed to attend the prom in a tuxedo.
Hanley said society is still more accepting of females who are masculine than males who are effeminate.
West Side student Deonte Cotton, 18, was one of several peers angry over the principal banning Logan.
“His wearing a dress wasn’t hurting anybody, so nothing should have been said,” Cotton said. “I feel it was discrimination.”
Kevin said he feels schools should be more respectful of student rights: “People are coming out more. They are not staying in the closet like they used to. They want to be themselves.”
I smell boy with iden y problems.
What's a dress?
That thing that was on the floor when you woke up day after prom.
Who doesn't have iden y problems at 18?
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Just realized Iden Y.
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I don't think he has an iden y problem ... it sounds as if he knows exactly what (s)he is. It sounds more like some adults with some insecurity or phobic issues.
True, true. I think he's more in touch with himself than a lot of other 18 year olds are (not to say that there isn't any room for future development since he's only 18, but the fundamentals don't change) - he might not subscribe to the modern hegemonic gender construction, but that doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't know himself. Props to the kid for bravery.I don't think he has an iden y problem ... it sounds as if he knows exactly what (s)he is. It sounds more like some adults with some insecurity or phobic issues.
I don't think he has an iden y problem ... it sounds as if he knows exactly what (s)he is. It sounds more like some adults with some insecurity or phobic issues.
The SC has already ruled that kids in school don't have all coverage by the Cons ution, so I don't think this will pan out.
I think half of every high school thinks they're bi or gay at one point or another in HS.
That kid looks like he/she is about 6'5" and easily over 2 bills.
I think I just spotted the Spurs next small forward!!
You mean the Silver Stars right?
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