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Damn, I was just starting to answer this and you added like 10 more things.
So is this some kind of survey?
What qualities do females look for in a guy and rank them by starting with the most important. Here's a good starting list you can choose from but feel free to add some of your own:
-Ambition
-Physical Appearance
-Education
-Personaltiy
-Family Backgroud
-Religion
-Race
-Sense of Humor
-Money
-Relationship with Friends
-Hobbies
-Nationality
-Intelligence
-Sincre
-Confidence
-Easyness to Talk to
-Popularity
Last edited by usckk; 08-10-2006 at 10:20 AM.
Damn, I was just starting to answer this and you added like 10 more things.
So is this some kind of survey?
Intilligance
1.bedroom skills
They love it when you aren't a little that asks random people on a forum how to dance to hip-hop. They love that.
What makes a man attractive to me is when he has the entire package (and I don't mean that in the dirty way you're thinking, although that's icing on the cake). It's not about any one or two or three specific traits. A man is attractive to me if he's smart, funny, kind to everyone, passionate about the things he believes in and loves, talented, confident, mature, and humble. I've never cared about superficial things, although basic hygiene is a must (and I have this weird dislike of long nails, dirty teeth, or unkempt hair). If he can please my head and heart and he's nice to look at too, that's a bonus, but it's not a priority.
It is hard to rank those in a one by one order, as all the qualities you mentioned are so important. I tried though.
Biblical Christian ( some people claim to believe in God but sure don't act like it)
Outstanding values and character- I like guys who are well above average when it comes to being kind and acting like gentleman.
Affectionate- someone not afraid to show he has a heart.
Sincere, confidence- those qualities are best when paired together
Personality- Has to be balanced. I want someone fun and romantic but not over the top
Intelligence-Education- College degrees are secondary to me. I want someone who is creative and street smart as well as book smart.
Great Communicator- someone who can make his point known in an interesting way.
Physical Appearance & Sense of Humor- these two are of equal importance. I think a sense of humor adds to a person's good looks.
( I ranked those two high up because no matter how fantastic a guy is, if I am not attracted to him than I won't date him.
Hobbies- If our relationship is going to go anywhere, we will need to be of the same mind.
Family relationships
I want a guy to be a part of a loving family since his family could become my family too.
Background is a factor but not a deciding one since some situations were not/ are not a guys fault. Some things you should not be judged by, especially if you have worked to overcome them.
Ambitious- in a responsible way
Money- I'm not materialistic but would rather we have it than not.
P.S. Well said Summer!
What she said.
Hmmm. I don't think I can rank all those things.
In no particular order, the things that were important to me were:
Kindness, gentleness, loyalty, willingness to show affection, intelligence, great sense of humor, Spurs fan, Christian, likes/wants children, similar (but not necessaril the same) ambitions/goals/outlooks/priorities.
That was for a potential spouse. For a date or a fun evening the most important thing was sense of humor, personality, and possibly looks and money.
-remembers my last name most of the time. Or , even my first. And it's not SpursWoman.
Someone with whom I have enough in common to make a relationship possible but with whom I have enough difference to make it interesting.
Character-- a "good" man
Humble-- yet accomplished
Strong-- but also kind and gentle; tender of heart
Spiritual-- believing in something greater than himself
Charitable-- generous and grateful for what he has
Dependable/Reliable/Trustworthy-- means what he says
Affectionate-- but in an "appropriate" way in public
Intangibles-- the look in his eyes; the way he treats his mother; the people in his life
It's simple:
1) Humorous: They have to make me laugh above anything. I don't care if you look like Brad Pitt and have the body of a workout God. If you can't make me laugh and if you can't laugh yourself, then you won't be attractive to me.
2) Intelligence: Education is a must, I personally have never been attracted to those Liberal Arts type of guys (i.e Poets, Artists, Philosophy majors, etc.) Usually, I like guys in my own field, something in Business or Engineering. Doctors and Lawyers get a bonus pass
3) Attractive: They have to be attractive to me. This means they dress decent, not sloppy (I HATE Sloppily dressed guys), and generally just have good hygene. Oh, and they have to be tall (but not so tall that I fee like a midget).
4) Interesting: This is the most important thing. If they aren't someone I could see myself as friends with first, then I know it would never work out. We have to have things in common (Basketball!) and we have to be able to carry on conversations. We also can't be too similiar. I've found opposites really do attract.
That's basically it. I really don't care what his relationship with friends is, or whether he's "sincere" or popular. I don't expect him to be perfect, since I already am. As long as he has the four qualities above, he'll be ok.
Guess you've never hooked up with a guy at a bar or club.
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Why do you think that's a quality I now place great importance on? I met my ex-husband at a club.
EDIT: Of course, the insult would be 10 times worse if he said the wrong name during a certain activity or event.
And to make things even easier, I found someone who actually has the masculine version of my name ... so if he can't even get it right, I don't really know what to say about that..
Why do you think that's a quality I now place great importance on? I met my ex-husband at a club.
Over-rated. Trust me.Doctors and Lawyers get a bonus pass
Nobody has mentioned beer bellied alcoholics with tasteless humor and a lust for being an asshole to strangers. Are my types just not desireable to females?
^I doubt your kind is even desirable to males. You may want to try another spieces altogether.
Que gatcho.
Kudos to you that you know exactly what you are looking for....
What makes a man attractive to me is when he has the entire package (and I don't mean that in the dirty way you're thinking, although that's icing on the cake
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Extremely High Mantinence...
When Jesus comes back, the apocalypse is coming with him...so you better grab him fast.
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