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Every guy is going to tell you to keep them. But honestly, she's in the video too. So respect her and destroy them. After four years, you have to have some respect for her.
I won't bore you with the details of my relationship or breakup, but I would like to here some of your opinions. As of today, I'm single and have a problem.
Here is the deal. Throughout our four years together, we made our fair share of sex videos. My camera, my tapes. Today, as I'm packing up my , she asks me what I'm going to do with the tapes. I say I'm keeping them, they are mine. She wants them destroyed because she thinks I'll post them on the internet or create some website and post the videos. I have no intentions what so ever of doing that.
I personally just want them because I enjoy watching myself get a blowjob. Even after I tell her that I won't be doing any public showings of the tape, she says she still wants them destroyed.
Should I destroy them and lose some excellentmaterial, or should I keep them and say
I'm 98% sold on keeping them, but I did want to hear some thoughts before I make my final decision.
Every guy is going to tell you to keep them. But honestly, she's in the video too. So respect her and destroy them. After four years, you have to have some respect for her.
Dude, destroy them...if it's over, than it's over. What's your next g-friend going to think you if she finds you pulling the goalie to a blowjob video you made back in the day.
Make a copy of them and then call her over and destroy the originals in front of her.
You might get one for the road.
Destroy them.
But make copies first!
While making these videos, did she not stop to think what would happen if we were to split up?
You could just keep them as memories of once was.
Hopefully she'll want to make one too.
The courts may not look at it that way since her image is also on the tapes. You could make copies and not tell her, but if something happened to you they would be rather embarrassing when your family popped them into the VCR to see if they are worth keeping. To tell you the truth it would be too tempting to keep something like that, especially when your an old-foggy banging the same chick for 15+ years, but you need a plan to get rid of them 'just-in-case'.My camera, my tapes.
She ain't that crazy. There will be no courts involved.
ship it to me mofo!!
I wouldn't see any point in keeping sex videos unless you wanted to "distribute" them. I myself couldn't see myself getting off to old "memories".
Then watch out for the big brother with the baseball bat.She ain't that crazy. There will be no courts involved.
There's a reason why this relationship didn't work. I'm not casting aspersions...but....
Sale them.
Destroy them.
While she was making the videos, she wasn't thinking about breaking up. Unless maybe you were boring her and her mind was drifting
Give her a sign on paper (some kind of do ent) that you won't show them in public
Get rid of them. There's really no upside to keeping them, and plenty of pitfalls that come with keeping them.
What comes around goes around. With that kind of luck...your next serious GF may "accidently" uncover them...or maybe even your mom.
You have to understand where she's coming from...those are private videos of the two of you and not only is she fearing that you or someone else may put them on the Internet, it may make her feel uncomfortable by the fact that you, now an Ex, could still be watching them...
Oh alright, I'll take them.
1P1 - but all those memories...those good times...:
I don't see it as any different than keeping a video of a trip to Cancun or something like that.
No . I'm transferring schools.
The upside is getting to watch them whenever I please, plus, it really is some good stuff. We took our video making seriously
What are the plenty of pitfalls you speak of? I can only think of one. An unhappy exgirlfriend.
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