when you high five your friend after you tell them about it?
when you high five your friend after you tell them about it?
When she doesn't pay you for mowing the lawn.
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I think I'm just over reacting, I'm sure she's busy due to the holidays and that's why she hasn't gotten back in touch with me...
I think that's when you've used someone else, not been used...?
at this point... i'd be happy if somebody used me for sex.
when the person leaves a bill/tip on ur table
When your junk is itchy following the encounter.
Well it was her table so that's not really possible.
I don't think I was, but I'm not sure...
Almost feels like a one night stand, but not really because I'd met her and talked to her on the phone before, but going over to her house was really our first date and that's when it happened...
It's not itchy...
You'd think a one night stand would be good, but I'd feel insulted, I want them to want more...
So are you upset that it might have been a one-night stand just because she's dictating it? Or do you actually like her and not want it to be a one-night stand?
Either way, Spurschick is coming over here tonight, I'll just ask her if it was a one-stand when she gets here.![]()
Yeah I ing wish... She is about eleven years older but it's not SC of course... She won't even give me the time of day...
I guess I'm a pretty selfish guy and my first thought is that I can't believe she could just walk away after one time.... But at this point she is dictating where things will go because I've already put myself out there, but you know it's really possible she's just been busy, but I'm only about 50/50 sure..
I guess it becomes one of those how many days after should calls be exchanged, but how does sex affect that equation?
EDIT: Well it was two times but you get the point...
Well it's a very busy time of year ...
Just call her tomorrow on Christmas Eve and just say you are calling to wish her a Merry Christmas, etc. Then if the phone call seems good, ask her if she wants to go out (and/or ) sometime next week.
So here's the thing, we met, talked on the phone a few times for about six to eight hours total, and she kept inviting me to have lunch with her, I was too busy and I almost broke whatever we had off, and she tells me she's dating some guy, and he's older and it's all good, then she says she would have liked to have "played" with me, and I told her she was killing me for saying that and she said it could be remedied, and eventually told me I was in the "drivers seat", so I ask her where she lives and she tells me her general location, I tell her I know where about she lives and that I was just checking to see if I was really in the drivers seat, and so she tells me where, I come over and intend to stay for a couple of hourse but stay until about seven the next morning, we really didn't do much for the first six hours though...
So that's probably not one night stand material, but it's been a few days....
EDIT: And if you read all that, here is a cookie...
EDIT: And I love how Kori Ellis can be counted on to give you feminine advice with a mans touch....
Yeah you'd think, but I feel insulted... Well I guess I don't mind being used for sex, but I want to be used multiple times...
So I guess the unanswered question is:
Should a person call another person sooner if they've done that then if they simply went on a date and didn't do that?
Do you think I should give her a gift for Christmas?
Maybe D_ _K IN _ B_X ?
I'm just dissapointed, I think I did pretty well but I probably could have done more...
That means you're not that good. And that's your problem, not hers.
You know I think I did a pretty good job, but if I could do it again I'd probably step my game up another level, like MJ when he was sick during the Finals...
This is like in high school when this emo depressed friend of mine got mad cuz his ex used him for sex. We were like "any other guy would be like, ' yeah i got used!'"
Yeah but if it was good they'd want more, and of course you should as well.
It's certainly better to get used than to not get used, but it's best to get used over and over, yes?
yes but some dudes never get to be used at all so cheer up emo kid
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