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The way I look at these things is that you only live once and you like her, so why not. I would wait until later on though. If you lay it out there now and she shoots you down, the rest of the semester may be awkward.
Ok for you gumshoes out there, try not to read anything into this.
Ok so I used to have a crush on this girl in undergrad at UTSA. I've started taking online courses for my masters at OLLU. It's required every other week, we go in and meet with the instructor in person. So I go in and my instructor is the same girl. She recognizes me instantly and smiles shyly. I'm embarrassed. This girl turned me down three seperate times. I was basically faced. So the whole thing is awkward and lasts 20 minutes. Still, I find myself with the same attraction I did 5 years ago. Do I risk another smash and ask her out next meeting or keep it strictly platonic and just blush for 20 minutes every two weeks?
Thoughts appreciated. No barbs please. I can't take much punishment. My heart is heavy of fondness and rejection softens me up.
The way I look at these things is that you only live once and you like her, so why not. I would wait until later on though. If you lay it out there now and she shoots you down, the rest of the semester may be awkward.
This will never work unless she sees you with another woman who is really into you.
She's sent you down in flames...three times. Figure it out, and get on with your life. Continuing to chase the un-gettable is a waste of your time.
You probably has very little chance of being successful, and it could end up screwing the $$ you dropped for the course.
Did you really not know she was the instructor when you signed up?
Either that or unless he joins a band. Chicks dig guys that are in bands. Or he could grow a mean mustache and show her just how much testosterone pumps though his testicles.
go for broke yo!!! what do you have to lose??? lifes a risk and you should never pass up an oppurtunity trust me on that one
Do it - Get rejected - report back.
I wish I knew how to help, but the chicks usually ask me out...
If you get rejected - again - you have two weeks to come up with a way to save face before you have to see her next. Go for it.
stuff a sock in your underwear
She's not interested. The "shy" smile gives it away. If she were into you, she'd be all chatty. It was 5 years ago. Get on with life.
ace her in class, study it day and night, memorize it, know it better than she does. act like you're a genius at everything else too and she will want you for your brains.
it's only worth it if she's really hot
Look man. I ing hate the movie Jerry Maguire. I think it's just Tom Cruise acting like Tom Cruise, like he does in every film he is in. However, there is one redeeming thing about that piece of movie and that's Jerry Cantrell. The guy only had one line in the movie, but it's one of the greatest lines I've ever heard in cinema. It occurs when Maguire is making copies of his treatise and the copy guy played by Cantrell says the following -
"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there."
And that's what you should do. Don't listen to these passive ers telling you not to act. Hang your balls out there man.
Next time you walk into the room - I mean don't just walk in. You move across the room. And you don't talk to her. You use your face. You use your body. You use everything. That's what I do. I mean I just send out this vibe and I have personally found that women do respond. I mean, something happens.
Once you secure the date, follow my Five Point Plan.
First of all jackseven, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi."
Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it."
Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?"
Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice."
And five, now this is the most important, jackseven. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
Dude, you are hosed. She felt superior to you 5 years ago. Now that she's your instructor her dominance has only increased. I think you should drop the class.
Ok brahs, give me some feedback on this. I've got another week before I go back and meet with her and I'm thinking about pulling a high risk, high reward move. Ok here goes.
Next time I go in for my meeting, I load up my portable boom box stereo player with $10 worth of D batteries and play an interpretive song that reveals my feelings towards her. Girls love songs. If this one is one she likes, I could be in. So yeah, just press play right before I open the door and just let the music march me right in the room. If she tries to utter a vowel, I put my finger in front of my lips ala Derek Fisher for the shhhh sound.
And I just stand there and let the lyrics work their magic into her heart. 3-4 minutes later, I'm either a guy that has 16 minutes left in his research evaluation or a guy that has 16 minutes left in his research evaluation AND a romantic ambiance by chance at the Tower of Americas.
I might do it. I feel like taking a chance like a few of you suggested. Thanks for that.
Now, hmmm... which song should I go with?
Here's my thoughts right now:
The Way I are
Traveling Man
Amarillo by Morning
That's How I got to Memphis
or my personal fave - She's a Lady by Mr. Tom Jones.
Thoughts? Suggestions on this?
This is good sauce. I like the confidence that says I am Drackforth, here me roar. My endorphins are up, I've got good wine flowing. I feel unstoppable right now.
MY APARTMENT CAN'T HOLD ME!
Oh, I understand now. This is like one of those Fresh Prince threads.Ok brahs, give me some feedback on this. I've got another week before I go back and meet with her and I'm thinking about pulling a high risk, high reward move. Ok here goes.
Next time I go in for my meeting, I load up my portable boom box stereo player with $10 worth of D batteries and play an interpretive song that reveals my feelings towards her. Girls love songs. If this one is one she likes, I could be in. So yeah, just press play right before I open the door and just let the music march me right in the room. If she tries to utter a vowel, I put my finger in front of my lips ala Derek Fisher for the shhhh sound.
And I just stand there and let the lyrics work their magic into her heart. 3-4 minutes later, I'm either a guy that has 16 minutes left in his research evaluation or a guy that has 16 minutes left in his research evaluation AND a romantic ambiance by chance at the Tower of Americas.
I might do it. I feel like taking a chance like a few of you suggested. Thanks for that.
Now, hmmm... which song should I go with?
Here's my thoughts right now:
The Way I are
Traveling Man
Amarillo by Morning
That's How I got to Memphis
or my personal fave - She's a Lady by Mr. Tom Jones.
Thoughts? Suggestions on this?
It might work.
Or you could wait until her dad is indicted for tax fraud and ripping off the elderly, then you could fly away with her to Europe.
Just walk up to her and start licking her face. Chicks dig that.
Hey man don't be jealous because you don't have the intestinal for ude to pull something like this off. If this works, it could be epical.
wear loose pants and no underwear. while you're meeting with her, let your pants "accidentally" fall off. she'll see your and immediately want to . it worked for the Milf Hunter, I'm sure it'll work for you.
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