Why wait to call? You should call 10 minutes after you leave. If she doesn't answer just keep trying and leave a lot of voicemails.
All the dudes in here will get on me and call me a , but whatever.
Where do you want to be taken to on the first date? Details?
And also, is calling the person a day after you get the number too early?
Thank you.
Why wait to call? You should call 10 minutes after you leave. If she doesn't answer just keep trying and leave a lot of voicemails.
Take her to the gym and get her to sign a lifetime contract.
I say call her- don't wait.
Why would you put off talking to someone you like.
I'm convinced that the " wait three day rule" originated when some guy forgot to call his girl and made that his cover story.
Ove the years, other guys heard the story and used it with their girl friends and it became a "man law" to wait three days to call.
Call her.![]()
For the first date, I think it would be nice to see a movie and then go to dinner.
Movie first so you can discuss it over dinner.
Dude, you're a !
Do you have any idea of the kinds of things she likes?
Is she a big movie fan? Restaurant fan? Sports fan?
I would think you want to be able to talk to her, so a movie should be mixed with dinner or snacks after.
Is there an amusement park near you? We're near Disneyland, it's a great date place. (Though very expensive.) The wait in lines give you time to talk, the rides let you be close, the atmosphere is fun and exciting.
I assume this is the girl you can't stop thinking about. If she gave you her number, she should be interested. Go with the flow, call her and feel out the kinds of things you both like. Then go from there.
Good luck. For all the crap you take on this board, and all you create, you're brave to have asked.
I hope it goes well for you.
Definitely wait. 6 months to 12 years is a good rule of thumb.
It's never too soon to call! If you are that interested why wait? And if she is interested, you can be sure she is ANXIOUSLY waiting for your call. If she isn't, you may as well know before you waste alot of time. I personally prefer the first date that doesn't involve eating (too self-conscious); alot of talking is good, walking is too. So a zoo or museum or something.
And a restraining order just means she's playing hard to get.
And why doyou think anyone would call you a ? You're asking a GIRL out right? Now if you were asking a GUY out.....
Take her to a Nekkid Hot Tubbing place!
Norcal is the toughest case I've ever been assigned. Now that his man crush on GIG seems to be over he's ready to move on to women.
I would take her shopping at Tiffany's on her first date. Then call her constantly. , call her while you're walking next to her down the sidewalk.....
You wouldn't be like, "geez this freakin guy is calling me already?"
You're a ...or someone who has no idea what women are.
I know one thing. All people (women especially) are different. You may, in fact be attractive enough (and not know enough about this girl) that she's "good to go" the first night... , the first drink. She may however, be the type that's looking for something more significant. YOU however, my friend are asking a bull question. You're 14 or a moron. If you can't tell whether she's looking for a relationship or a fat pounding her in the first hour you don't deserve her number jackass.
BTW...I thought you were dead.
Didn't you see Swingers?
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Seriously tho, take her to a classy eating establishment. And flash that green by telling her that she can Supersize her meal if she wants to.
Take her down to Arnold's Drive In for a vanilla malt, then go cruisin' in your SUV...
Just follow my Five Point Plan.
First of all NorCal, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi."
Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it."
Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?"
Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice."
And five, now this is the most important, NorCal. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
Tell her to make some chocolate pie, go over and eat it and turn on ESPN and fart on her couch.
See what happens then...
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