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the relationships already ed and yall aint even going out.... what you thinks gonna happen when you hook up? communication is a good thing.....
We were talking (not yet dating, but you know how it is...), and things were going fine, then suddenly she decides that she doesn't wanna get too close to me, and wants to limit her communication with me for a while, because she said she didn't feel it was completely fair to me, because she still wasn't completely over her ex and wasn't ready for a new relationship yet. I was like "okay, fine. Whatever you feel would be the best desicion for you, I'm cool with." I also asked if she would be open-minded about me in the future when she feels ready, and she said "I don't know, we will see..."
So a few months pass by, and we talked once or twice to make sure each other is doing fine. Then she proceeds to talk to a friend of ours, and tells him that she is over her ex, and is ready to move on. Then she asks him some things about me, about how I'm doing, and if I'm seeing anyone or anything like that. This fool tells her that I'm talking with another girl, when it wasn't even remotely true. However, she still decideds to start talking to me more again, and called to chill together a couple times as well. But she doesn't show much emotion or anything at all, and it is very hard to get a read on her, although she does still seem pretty comfortable with me. I'm not sure how to approach her about us, because I don't want to seem like I'm pushing too hard or impatient, or anything like that, and possibly make her feel akward around me, and ruin a friendship... but I don't want to lose her either, or have her think that I'm not interested in her.
Thoughts?
the relationships already ed and yall aint even going out.... what you thinks gonna happen when you hook up? communication is a good thing.....
keep her thinking that you have another girl you're talking to. That will drive her crazy and she will "compete" with this fic ious girl for your affection. Alls you have to do is keep playing it cool as if you have this other girl to fall back on in case things dont work out between you and her. You're golden
oh and,,, i would keep the details about your small penis to yourself until you two get a little more serious
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It's a ...
Classic bull woman excuse. You never had a chance from this point here. If a woman wants you, she wants you. She never needs time to "get over an ex".
just pipe and move on... its best for you....
I thought of that too, lol.keep her thinking that you have another girl you're talking to. That will drive her crazy and she will "compete" with this fic ious girl for your affection. Alls you have to do is keep playing it cool as if you have this other girl to fall back on in case things dont work out between you and her. You're golden
Cool. I'll be sure to do that.oh and,,, i would keep the details about your small penis to yourself until you two get a little more serious
you know someone doesn't know about chicks when they start talking about the behaviors of women in terms of absolutes.
my fiancee definitely agrees with you.
that dude isnt a friend of yours...he's a blocking ass hole.
actually, he is her cousin. he introduced me and her.
but you do agree that all women don't always, predictably act in a certain way given a certain cir stance, right? I think that sometimes women do need "time to get over an ex". It's been used as a legitimate and a bull excuse. That's how they keep us guessing.
why is he blocking you?
all i can say is do what you wanna do, when you wanna do, how you wanna do, no matter what you think how she'll take it. if she goes with it cool, cool. if she's not down i'm sure she'll bring it up and y'all talk about it then. Just don't go buying a ring just yet.
Protective family thing?
He didn't do it intentionally. He thought I was getting with some other chick, but I really wasn't.
Damn... what is Zales return policy?
You didn't go to Jared's?!?!?!
Jareds.
I had something similar happen.
I was dating this girl while still in college (about 2 years ago). We started dating in Febuary, and things we going alright. I didn't want anything serious, but we ended up being exclusive (atleast I thought). Towards the end of the school semester we started getting really close, and I really fell for her. She went back home for the summer (only about 45 minutes away), but I knew I wouldn't see her everyday like we used to. We went out the first couple weeks of the vacation, I met the parents and all that, then one day I couldn't get ahold of her. He wouldn't call me back, or answer my text messages. It turned me into this creepy guy calling every couple hours, but I was so confused. Well she finally picked up and she told me she was on vacation with her ex boyfriend and apperntly they got back together. So that was a major kick in the nuts because she was a cool girl (until then) and she was really hot.
Here is what I did and what came of it.
I found that the reason I thought of her like I did (worshiped her and keeped hoping I would get back with her) was because she screwed me over. It was the longest summer of my life because I thought about her all the time. I ended up hooking up with her (she cheated on that dude with me I guess) the following school year, and it really cooled me down. I talk to her every now and again if I run into her, but it is impossible for me to be friends with her because I still think about her as something more, and it's not that she is, it's because she dumped me.
I don't know maybe you have some of that in you? or maybe this is nothing like what you are going through and it's a waste of typing. But anyhow, you should check out Chuck Klosterman's Killing Yourself to Live, because it's exactly like this- when girls dump you you act like everything was so awesome and they are the best thing to ever happen to you..just like people do with rock bands.
But good luck
See Angel Luv's dating advice thread. All the dating advice you'll ever need can be found there.
Grab her hand and place it on your package. You should get a good read on where your relationship is going after that.
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