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If you read carefully, she wrote the man should know how to manipulate his joystick; I think you and Peewee have probably already mastered that skill.
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If you read carefully, she wrote the man should know how to manipulate his joystick; I think you and Peewee have probably already mastered that skill.
Porn is just fine in my book.
I wish my wife had been able to see things this way. We never had any problems in our sex life, but she felt looking at porn was a sign I was not interested in her, when nothing could be further from the truth. It also didn't help we worked opposite schedules and rarely saw each other save a day or two a week.
I agree with all of these.
I would add that honesty is important, however. Watching porn is not big deal, but if my partner felt the need to keep it a secret from me, I would be concerned as to why. Also, respect is a big thing. Despite my feminist leanings, I don't have a problem with porn in general, but I DO sometimes have a problem with how horribly women are treated in a lot of porn. Watch whatever you want to watch (goodness knows I watch my fair share as well, both for arousal and for laughs), but the degradation, pseudo-machismo, chauvinism, and misogyny won't be going on in my bedroom.
Lastly, if I were ever in a relationship with someone who had a problem with porn... well, I'd first have to wonder how the they ended up with me... I would definitely try to respect their feelings, but I don't necessarily agree with the poster who said that porn should automatically be off limits. I think, instead, that it would be important to really get to the bottom of why each person felt it either was or was not acceptable and try to compromise from there.
It isn't cheating and the fact that anyone would think it is is pretty pathetic, IMO.
ing Puritans.
Oh, and I don't care ... as long as he's learning something from it.
Hey some guys I know are threatened by girls and toys. I couldn't care less, everyone needs some alone time.
I say pop in some porn, grab some plastic sheets, oil, a few bottles of astroglide and dump a pile of sex toys in the middle of the bed and don't come out until you both are a little ashamed but pretty damn happy.
but but my arms need a workout....
I don't have time to watch porn alone (or play video games, for that matter) but being in a marriage where such inconsequential things are outlawed or frowned upon would be pretty laughable.
I think it would be entertaining to be married to a porn star.
I would marry Brianna Banks.
Or Nikki Nova, or Tia Tanaka, or Asia Carrera, or Justine Jolie, or Allie Sin, or Raven Riley, or the red haired goth girl whose name I can't remember right now . . .
Come on now....would you REALLY want to be married to a porn star? They would probably never want to have sex at home. I mean, it's like a busman's holiday.
Really. Like everyone else, they probably hate to bring their work home with them.
I think every guy has, and if they deny it they are dammed liars.
1. Watching porn is NOT cheating on your Wife. So if she caught you jerking off, would she say you are cheating on her with your hand?
2. Just do all the your Hubby sees on TV to him and he won't watch porn!!!
3. The smart women here nailed it on the head. If it neglects the Wife then yes it's a problem.
Best thing to do is to watch the porn with your partner. My wife actually doesnt mind as long as she knows about it and she is included. We dont watch it all the time, but it es things up from time to time.
I think the key is having the other person know about it. ANYTHING that is kept secret is going to upset your partner and make them wonder why you don't trust them enough to tell them about it. Particularly something as sensitive as the porn issue. And watching porn together is a great way to e things up, or maybe even get a laugh! You can pick up a few tips perhaps and watching together can open the door for a discussion about particular sex acts maybe that you would be too embarassed to bring up at the dinner table.
"Honey, pass the salt please. Oh and by the way, how about a little reverse cowgirl for dessert?"
Spot on!! lol...mrsmaalox and most of the other Spurstalk women are spot on...I always rag on the guys around here about strip clubs, and pin up girls just to stir things up, but I really think most guys are smarter than they get credit for. They can fantasize over the porn girls all they want, but in the end it's a picture in a magazine or on a screen. "We" ladies on the other hand will you, raise your kids and fix you a decent chicken fried steak......the choice is obvious!!!
My wife completely freaked out the first time she went to use my PC (shortly after i moved in with her) and she saw porn history in the browser. We had to have a long discussion about this, and now it really isnt an issue, she knows where my loyalties lie...
Her first thought though, mostly because at the time she counseled sexual molesters and deviants, is that porno is "the gateway" for acting out like the folks she counseled.
I had to explain to her that to most men, fantasy is fantasy and thats that. I dont expect every woman to love two s in her ass, or love nut dripping off of her face...honestly im not sure if faced with that scenario in real life, id like it much either. It is when those men, or women for that matter, cant differentiate between the two, that they 1, shouldnt watch porn, and 2 become her clients.
Since then it has never been an issue. I get some porn in here or there (hey i work at home, alone!) and we still 3 or 4 times a week.
Now we are talking........fatsack I hope your taking notes!!
haha...oh my, thats definately quotable.
thanks Evan!
Hmmmmmmm . . . my favorite position!!
The benifits of checking out her porn star friends would be kick ass.
Liz Vicious is the other porn star that I would marry.
THAT would be you lazy er (pun intended)
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